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Delete/No thank you button

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By *ourneforfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Wouldnt it be good if they added a button to mail that deletes/replys/and blocks all at the same time.

Trouble is, its not reasonable to expect people to reply to every mail, but sometimes people take a lomg time to reply, and ive just assumed theyre not interested and moved on to another meet. Then they get in touch, too late.

Also if they do respond with a no, then Fabs dont warn me ive messaged before if I forget in a year.

I think this would help women/couples as well as guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My foolproof plan is for each no thanks I receive. I just block that person so I can’t contact them again if I’ve forgotten.

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By *ourneforfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Thats a good idea.

Still would be nice to get something back if not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats a good idea.

Still would be nice to get something back if not interested."

Nah, I’m not fussed. I assume there’s no interest if I don’t receive a response.

I also delete my sent message folder. I have no idea if they’ve been read, or deleted.

A reply is then a delightful surprise.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I can confirm, the “something back just to know” always turns into “why” and eventually abuse

Not all guys do it, but enough where just blocking ir not replying at all is the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if say a no thank you they still don’t listen some with a nasty comeback, it’s us being rude been told block straight away then.

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By *ourneforfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Yeah, thats why I tbink an all in one block and delete and reply would be good.

The instant block protects from abuse, and saves everyones time if people you are not interested in are blocked.

I never take offence when someone blocks me, we are not everyones cup of tea, so no point in barking up the wrong tree.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think it's a good idea and I'd use it. Very simple, no effort and users would have a clear answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No reply is a reply.

I used to reply to all messages I'd get but only so much abuse a person can take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve asked for this before. A no thanks button that then blocks them from messaging you for a period of time after

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By *untime5Man
over a year ago

Cornwall


"Trouble is, its not reasonable to expect people to reply to every mail, but sometimes people take a lomg time to reply, and ive just assumed theyre not interested and moved on to another meet. Then they get in touch, too late."

Lucky you to have so many to choose from

I don’t think I’d ever see a message as too late unless it related to being in a specific place on a certain date. You could always block the accounts of anyone who gave you a no to avoid future confusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something we would use.

We rarely block, only on occasion and necessary.

It isn't so difficult to reply and block, I'm not sure a single button would make much difference.

Other than the complaints on the forum may change a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also if they do respond with a no, then Fabs dont warn me ive messaged before if I forget in a year."

Maybe use the private notes to help yourself.

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By *ourneforfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln


"No reply is a reply.

I used to reply to all messages I'd get but only so much abuse a person can take."

Thats what I usually go with. But occasionally people read it. Wait untill theyve dicussed with partner then respond a week later.

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By *ourneforfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Trouble is, its not reasonable to expect people to reply to every mail, but sometimes people take a lomg time to reply, and ive just assumed theyre not interested and moved on to another meet. Then they get in touch, too late.

Lucky you to have so many to choose from

I don’t think I’d ever see a message as too late unless it related to being in a specific place on a certain date. You could always block the accounts of anyone who gave you a no to avoid future confusion. "

Lol,thats definitley not the case. I can go months without making a new friend on here, then they come at once, and my time to meet is limited

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