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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have just received another email from a guy on here saying im racist because i have on my profile that i meet black guys only and should change it to coloured or i may get removed from fab.

I thought saying Black was more correct,am i wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have just received another email from a guy on here saying im racist because i have on my profile that i meet black guys only and should change it to coloured or i may get removed from fab.

I thought saying Black was more correct,am i wrong?

babes its up to u if you dont want to see blacks its not wrong at all some men can be so bloody rude

keep ya chin up babes

rose xxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have just received another email from a guy on here saying im racist because i have on my profile that i meet black guys only and should change it to coloured or i may get removed from fab.

I thought saying Black was more correct,am i wrong?

Coloured?!! has this guy just arrived from 60's America?! Coloured in itself suggests a far more racist term to me!

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I thought the term coloured was not PC anymore and to use black. Perhaps I'm wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never had a black guy mail me asking if i like BCC (big coloured cock)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pay them no mind girl ...... Well I don't mind anyway

Only thing that gets my goat is you are I'm Scotland

Fit as fuck if you dnt mind me saying

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

Was it "coloured"people that said that or the jealous "white" guys lol either way ignore them and carry on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are woman who want bbc racist

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Have just received another email from a guy on here saying im racist because i have on my profile that i meet black guys only and should change it to coloured or i may get removed from fab.

I thought saying Black was more correct,am i wrong?

Total rubbish. We have had a similar thing on our profile for over a year and never had a problem. Personal preference is just that so ignore, block and continue to enjoy your black guys. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I thought the term coloured was not PC anymore and to use black. Perhaps I'm wrong

Me too,thats why i have it on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

black is the correct term coloured is offensive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Was it "coloured"people that said that or the jealous "white" guys lol either way ignore them and carry on x"

lol was from a white guy,the message wasnt nasty to be fair,just toldme his friend was a copper and your not allowed to say black !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"black is the correct term coloured is offensive"

thankyou xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think black is the right word.

As many that i have spoken to and have been out with have said that they are black.

It's down to you who you will and who you wont meet. it's better to be honest.

Mind you i love every colour of the rainbow myself xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was it "coloured"people that said that or the jealous "white" guys lol either way ignore them and carry on x

lol was from a white guy,the message wasnt nasty to be fair,just toldme his friend was a copper and your not allowed to say black !!"

lol he sounds to me like hes talking out his arse and just saying anything to make contact with you and get you to mail him back

seriously...copper. what copper now days giuves a toss about is you call someone black or coloured lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"black is the correct term coloured is offensive

thankyou xx"

what a load of old tosh! Unless the copper is from The Sweeney or Dixon of Dock Green!

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

The term is black ..... saying coloured is wrong ..... I mean what colour are they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, meant the copper said you cant say black!

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By *umsuckMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

Guy sounds a complete pillock. I bet he's the kind of person who says 'I'm not racist...but!'. Ignore him

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

"Was it "coloured"people that said that or the jealous "white" guys lol either way ignore them and carry on x

lol was from a white guy,the message wasnt nasty to be fair,just toldme his friend was a copper and your not allowed to say black !!"

The police would use IC codes or SDE (self defined ethnicity ) codes.... try putting IC3 only on your profile and see what he comes back with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"black is the correct term coloured is offensive"

Sweeping generalisations can be just as damaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have just received another email from a guy on here saying im racist because i have on my profile that i meet black guys only and should change it to coloured or i may get removed from fab.

I thought saying Black was more correct,am i wrong?

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Black is the right term ! If you said coloured to me i'd have to say purple

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"ive never had a black guy mail me asking if i like BCC (big coloured cock)

But I bet you had a few offering SWC (small white cock), and no it was not me

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I got the same shit the other day.

All I said was I hate sprints and prefer middle distance running.

It's hardly racist I was just stating a preference FFS

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

Someone once told me to use the term of African decent, just prefer to say that person over there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive never had a black guy mail me asking if i like BCC (big coloured cock)

But I bet you had a few offering SWC (small white cock), and no it was not me

LMAO god I love this site!

You know what they'll be someone upset somewhere no matter what you put !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have just received another email from a guy on here saying im racist because i have on my profile that i meet black guys only and should change it to coloured or i may get removed from fab.

I thought saying Black was more correct,am i wrong?

stick to your line - after all how many profiles/meeting requests and topics get posted here saying "wanted BBC" which doesnt mean

Bacon Butty n Chips

Belt n Braces Club

Big Bunches of Crisps

Does it lol hehehe

Big Black Cock is said so many times so whay on earth some would think you saying in your profile could be offended is beyond me

No where did i put those water colours to paint my cock black...........

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"ive never had a black guy mail me asking if i like BCC (big coloured cock)

But I bet you had a few offering SWC (small white cock), and no it was not me

LMAO god I love this site!

You know what they'll be someone upset somewhere no matter what you put !

Nowt as queer as folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have just received another email from a guy on here saying im racist because i have on my profile that i meet black guys only and should change it to coloured or i may get removed from fab.

I thought saying Black was more correct,am i wrong?

There is nothing wrong with saying you meet black guys only and its not offensive in the slightest ignore him talking tripe.

Shame your in Glasgow to im a black guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanx to all for your replys,feel better now,wud hate to upset any peeps as im not racist in any way x

As i said,he wasnt nasty,your hair would stand on end if i showed you the nasty ones i get sent lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

ignore em..... there was a black lady thread and someone said you shouldn't say black lady if your preference was for skin tone, I asked what should be asked for... still waiting.

ignore em and meet who you enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"ignore em..... there was a black lady thread and someone said you shouldn't say black lady if your preference was for skin tone, I asked what should be asked for... still waiting.

ignore em and meet who you enjoy"

Thankyou lovely xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have just received another email from a guy on here saying im racist because i have on my profile that i meet black guys only and should change it to coloured or i may get removed from fab.

I thought saying Black was more correct,am i wrong?

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No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only the old folk can get away with using the term colored these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so glad you put this up today cos i ve been walking eggshells on this subject i only want to meet black guys for fun its my thing but so scared of upsetting people that i ve never printed my preference on profile cos stu is so anti racism thanx hun xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All this worrying about what to say and what to call who is so boring.

Mind you this whole thing about black guys having bigger cocks is a load of bull and is probably rooted in racism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Black is acceptable although my kids were taught to use "brown" so i guess we are all in the dark on this 1!! No pun intended!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

maybe boring,but was just checking incase i was wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im black that is my colour im not offended at all by this term , on holiday i actually go a funny shade of purple lol dont take any notice of him hunny,your right in what you say.take care and dont worry, if you only meet black guys why is he sending you a text anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am still amazed at how judgmental some people are on here. The big bad world is judgmental enough of our lifestyle without us having to do it to each other. Saying that most of the judgmental people I have come across on here haven't been true swingers at all but single guys who are desperate to get laid. Ellie x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have loads of mates who are black. Not racist in the slightest. But..... We prefer not to play with black guys or Asian guys because that's not for us.

It's about choice. Don't think there is anything wrong with putting this on a profile as it stops both parties wasting time.

In my opinion the person was the person with the problem.

PC madness again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone heard the banter between myself and some of my friends (different nationalities) people would die of shock or call the police

Its the do gooders that think they are above everyone else, they make a rod for someone elses back on the pretence of being 'understanding'.

I say fuck the do gooders and treat everyone the same and let them tell you what is right and wrong for themselves.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"If someone heard the banter between myself and some of my friends (different nationalities) people would die of shock or call the police

Its the do gooders that think they are above everyone else, they make a rod for someone elses back on the pretence of being 'understanding'.

I say fuck the do gooders and treat everyone the same and let them tell you what is right and wrong for themselves."

That sounds like common sense to me, has the doctor put you on tablets for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think the intent behind a word matters more than the actual word itself.

I can't speak for black people, obviously, but I'd think being called coloured by someone with no intent to cause offence would be better than being called black by someone meaning to be malicious.

OP, it sounds like the person who messaged you is an ill-informed busybody. Block and ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone heard the banter between myself and some of my friends (different nationalities) people would die of shock or call the police

Its the do gooders that think they are above everyone else, they make a rod for someone elses back on the pretence of being 'understanding'.

I say fuck the do gooders and treat everyone the same and let them tell you what is right and wrong for themselves.

That sounds like common sense to me, has the doctor put you on tablets for it

I don't know what came over me there, I just can't help these pearls of wisdom from bursting forth, it makes me sound almost educated

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"If someone heard the banter between myself and some of my friends (different nationalities) people would die of shock or call the police

Its the do gooders that think they are above everyone else, they make a rod for someone elses back on the pretence of being 'understanding'.

I say fuck the do gooders and treat everyone the same and let them tell you what is right and wrong for themselves.

That sounds like common sense to me, has the doctor put you on tablets for it

I don't know what came over me there, I just can't help these pearls of wisdom from bursting forth, it makes me sound almost educated

Yes almost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone heard the banter between myself and some of my friends (different nationalities) people would die of shock or call the police

Its the do gooders that think they are above everyone else, they make a rod for someone elses back on the pretence of being 'understanding'.

I say fuck the do gooders and treat everyone the same and let them tell you what is right and wrong for themselves.

That sounds like common sense to me, has the doctor put you on tablets for it

I don't know what came over me there, I just can't help these pearls of wisdom from bursting forth, it makes me sound almost educated

Yes almost

I am neither an Oxford scholar or an idiot...I'm somewhere in between...I.think...hang on, let have a look in my pictionary dictionary and see...

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"If someone heard the banter between myself and some of my friends (different nationalities) people would die of shock or call the police

Its the do gooders that think they are above everyone else, they make a rod for someone elses back on the pretence of being 'understanding'.

I say fuck the do gooders and treat everyone the same and let them tell you what is right and wrong for themselves.

That sounds like common sense to me, has the doctor put you on tablets for it

I don't know what came over me there, I just can't help these pearls of wisdom from bursting forth, it makes me sound almost educated

Yes almost

I am neither an Oxford scholar or an idiot...I'm somewhere in between...I.think...hang on, let have a look in my pictionary dictionary and see..."

That's it discriminate against me I can not do pictionary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone heard the banter between myself and some of my friends (different nationalities) people would die of shock or call the police

Its the do gooders that think they are above everyone else, they make a rod for someone elses back on the pretence of being 'understanding'.

I say fuck the do gooders and treat everyone the same and let them tell you what is right and wrong for themselves.

That sounds like common sense to me, has the doctor put you on tablets for it

I don't know what came over me there, I just can't help these pearls of wisdom from bursting forth, it makes me sound almost educated

Yes almost

I am neither an Oxford scholar or an idiot...I'm somewhere in between...I.think...hang on, let have a look in my pictionary dictionary and see...

That's it discriminate against me I can not do pictionary

And that my friend is how we overcome our limitations to educate ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i could not care less if someone called me white,i could not care less if someone called me a brit,i do care though if someone said white brits can't hump

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"Have just received another email from a guy on here saying im racist because i have on my profile that i meet black guys only and should change it to coloured or i may get removed from fab.

I thought saying Black was more correct,am i wrong?

Why do you even bother? Black os black. Simple

I prefer being called black than coloured as I am from one clour: black

Nobody will remove you from her for wanting black , white, blue or yellow only

Tell who ever send you that message to have a wank...

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"i could not care less if someone called me white,i could not care less if someone called me a brit,i do care though if someone said white brits can't hump

Can't jump?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have just received another email from a guy on here saying im racist because i have on my profile that i meet black guys only and should change it to coloured or i may get removed from fab.

I thought saying Black was more correct,am i wrong?

There are so many tossers out there!!!!

We are a ethnic chinese and european couple that only fuck black guys on here. Guess that makes us rascist by that definition then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP obviously the person who sent this message to you was disgruntled b ecause he did not meet your criteria.

I enjoy going to BMFC parties, I couldn't give a damn whether someone called me racist because of this. I know I'm not and therefore I don't really get bothered what others' call me.

Simply ignore any messages like that

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

it would likely only be considered racist by the ignorant,the paranoid,and the jealous.

so as your unlikely to have any desire in meeting such people,

fuck them,or to be more accurate,don't fuck them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends who and where is your audiance.

Black is usually accepted world wide.

Coloured is not anywhere.

Afro American is the USA and that side of the world.

Carribian usually ok is parts of the UK such as London.

Choc Ice is not accepted by the FA lol

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Have just received another email from a guy on here saying im racist because i have on my profile that i meet black guys only and should change it to coloured or i may get removed from fab.

I thought saying Black was more correct,am i wrong?

Black is correct. As a youth one of my best mates was black. One day in his house athletics was on. I mentioned something about a coloured man. His mum went nuts and said he is black. She said it is the whites that are the coloured people as we go blue in the face red in the face, get tanned etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends who and where is your audiance.

Black is usually accepted world wide.

Coloured is not anywhere.

Afro American is the USA and that side of the world.

Carribian usually ok is parts of the UK such as London.

Choc Ice is not accepted by the FA lol

The term coloured is still used in Sourh Africa to describe someone who is dual heritage. I'm also sure it's fairly ok to describe someone as being Caribbean anywhere if that's their heritage.

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By *teborahCouple
over a year ago

warrington

50% of Liverpool are orange so are they coloured also?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner is Jamaican. Lived in the UK since 10. He uses the term black ass this, black coc* that etc etc ... Depending how rude n kinky he is being. If in this day n age a white guy sees it as racism, at least they are giving a shit I guess. I have had white guys go crazy at me in the past once I "turned".

Just carry on about ur business hun, I am sure all will be accepted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends who and where is your audiance.

Black is usually accepted world wide.

Coloured is not anywhere.

Afro American is the USA and that side of the world.

Carribian usually ok is parts of the UK such as London.

Choc Ice is not accepted by the FA lol

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lol Caribbean, if your Caribbean would be surely accepted as a term... I have many many friends Jamaican, African, Pakistani, I could go on n on. Everyone of them would say they are black. However, my best friend while I lived bk home - called herself coloured. Her dad is very dark skinned an from Barbados. Her mother white English. But she never took offenses from anyone saying black, just never associated the term with herself.

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

"Have just received another email from a guy on here saying im racist because i have on my profile that i meet black guys only and should change it to coloured or i may get removed from fab.

I thought saying Black was more correct,am i wrong?

He has to be winding you up...

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

He's just bitter that he doesn't fit your criteria so he's trying to set you up for a fall

Dog in the manger comes to mind - he can't enjoy it so he's determined that noone else will either.

Block and move on.

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