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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies, do you ever get that feeling the moment after you orgasm where you're like "OK stop everything, I'm done now"?

Like, mentally you suddenly feel drained and your vag is too sensitive for it to feel good anymore (for about a minute or so)?

Or is it just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was having fun with a regular FWB a good few years ago now, you had to cum before her as as soon as she cum that was the end of anything.. I got bored with her quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, totally this

luckily for me I don't get any action so I needn't be worried about it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not just you. When I see men saying they always make sure the lady cums first my heart sinks.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Ladies, do you ever get that feeling the moment after you orgasm where you're like "OK stop everything, I'm done now"?

Like, mentally you suddenly feel drained and your vag is too sensitive for it to feel good anymore (for about a minute or so)?

Or is it just me

Yes. I need a minute or two to just lie there in blissfulness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that often to be honest! X unless I had an injure (like a tear inside me from rough sex) x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No, not just you. I often feel like “let my clit throb in peace!”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was having fun with a regular FWB a good few years ago now, you had to cum before her as as soon as she cum that was the end of anything.. I got bored with her quickly

It's been that way for years with loads of men stopping play as soon as they've cum.

I can sometimes carry on straight away, other times I'm way too sensitive.

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Was having fun with a regular FWB a good few years ago now, you had to cum before her as as soon as she cum that was the end of anything.. I got bored with her quickly

Oh that’s not nice to hear that you got bored quickly

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I’m a mix.

Sometimes I want it again and again even after really intense orgasms.

Then there’s time where I want to just be happily content with what I’ve had and cuddle and take in the feelings left after.

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By *ina207Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm exactly the same

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yes, every time and not just a minute. I always have to explain this beforehand so they don't end up disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this done to me lol she came and then told me I could finish my self off as she watched lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, just suck him off until I've recovered usually does the trick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies, do you ever get that feeling the moment after you orgasm where you're like "OK stop everything, I'm done now"?

Like, mentally you suddenly feel drained and your vag is too sensitive for it to feel good anymore (for about a minute or so)?

Or is it just me "

Yes Danish did this last night and it ended up with my in a fit of giggles because she "tapped out like a wrestler" I was laughing for like 5 minutes

Kind of killed the mood after that

Resparked it a bit later though

Doughnut

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes I orgasm like that, big tip overs, lots of body tremors and all I can handle is a kissing cuddle, after 10 mins I am ready to go again, but only 4 times max before I am done and are too sensitive and it hurts

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By *eandher4and9Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Very sensitive for a good few mins then slowly start again x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good to see I'm not the only one... Although my next question was going to be "how do I stop this happening"

I guess it's just the way we're built!

It is annoying though in porn when you see these little sex bunnies cumming over and over as if they don't have nerve endings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good to see I'm not the only one... Although my next question was going to be "how do I stop this happening"

I guess it's just the way we're built!

It is annoying though in porn when you see these little sex bunnies cumming over and over as if they don't have nerve endings

Bts is your friend or behind the scenes but be warranted it will kill pro porn for ever pro porns hard work and not fun maybe the first 20 minutes are but after that it’s not

Ice packs bween shots numbing lube takes can take like 6-7 hours so that 20-30 minute 7 man gangbang took lime 7-8 hours to shoot

There a lot off re takes and stoping and starting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

""Ladies, do you ever get that feeling the moment after you orgasm where you're like "OK stop everything, I'm done now"?

Like, mentally you suddenly feel drained and your vag is too sensitive for it to feel good anymore (for about a minute or so)?

Or is it just me "

Yes Danish did this last night and it ended up with my in a fit of giggles because she "tapped out like a wrestler" I was laughing for like 5 minutes

Kind of killed the mood after that

Resparked it a bit later though

Doughnut "

Hmm I've never physically stopped sex because of it. If I'm by myself I immediately switch off whatever porn I'm watching out of shame and disgust though

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good to see I'm not the only one... Although my next question was going to be "how do I stop this happening"

I guess it's just the way we're built!

It is annoying though in porn when you see these little sex bunnies cumming over and over as if they don't have nerve endings

You don't know if they're really cumming or if it's a very cleverly edited video and there's a nice break between them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Was having fun with a regular FWB a good few years ago now, you had to cum before her as as soon as she cum that was the end of anything.. I got bored with her quickly

Oh that’s not nice to hear that you got bored quickly

Yeah something like "we weren't compatible sexually so I stopped seeing her" might have been nicer here...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good to see I'm not the only one... Although my next question was going to be "how do I stop this happening"

I guess it's just the way we're built!

It is annoying though in porn when you see these little sex bunnies cumming over and over as if they don't have nerve endings

Bts is your friend or behind the scenes but be warranted it will kill pro porn for ever pro porns hard work and not fun maybe the first 20 minutes are but after that it’s not

Ice packs bween shots numbing lube takes can take like 6-7 hours so that 20-30 minute 7 man gangbang took lime 7-8 hours to shoot

There a lot off re takes and stoping and starting "

Yeah I remember when I first tried bdsm and was like "wow this is not like in porn". Used my safe word pretty sharpish! The guy I was with was very understanding and said "there's a reason the people who do this on camera are paid professionals"... Put me off for a good while!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i can go for hours

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good to see I'm not the only one... Although my next question was going to be "how do I stop this happening"

I guess it's just the way we're built!

It is annoying though in porn when you see these little sex bunnies cumming over and over as if they don't have nerve endings

You don't know if they're really cumming or if it's a very cleverly edited video and there's a nice break between them. "

Oh yeah I'm very aware that like 99% of porn is fake/edited. But it's just annoying that it's portrayed that way, you know? Like an above poster mentioned that his fwb couldn't carry on after cumming and he got bored of her; I wonder if showing that kind of stuff in porn would make people more tolerant to others' needs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've know a few women who said this....

I mean it was before either of us even got naked so.........

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Yes! My love button gets way too sensitive after an orgasm. Once I’ve cum there’s a very fine line between gentle teasing, hypersensitivity, then the inevitable numbness from being overstimulated. I can carry on having sex but I can’t have my clitoris touched right after an orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good to see I'm not the only one... Although my next question was going to be "how do I stop this happening"

I guess it's just the way we're built!

It is annoying though in porn when you see these little sex bunnies cumming over and over as if they don't have nerve endings

Bts is your friend or behind the scenes but be warranted it will kill pro porn for ever pro porns hard work and not fun maybe the first 20 minutes are but after that it’s not

Ice packs bween shots numbing lube takes can take like 6-7 hours so that 20-30 minute 7 man gangbang took lime 7-8 hours to shoot

There a lot off re takes and stoping and starting

Yes it’s definitely not and glad you picked a good one that was understanding

and yes it’s one off the reason I only do AM stuff as once the fun stops then that’s my video I am not needing to continue on not injoying my self that way I get injoyment out off it

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I’m a mix.

Sometimes I want it again and again even after really intense orgasms.

Then there’s time where I want to just be happily content with what I’ve had and cuddle and take in the feelings left after. "
I agree with this. Sometimes I can go again straight after other time I like to relax first then go again

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Yes! My love button gets way too sensitive after an orgasm. Once I’ve cum there’s a very fine line between gentle teasing, hypersensitivity, then the inevitable numbness from being overstimulated. I can carry on having sex but I can’t have my clitoris touched right after an orgasm."

Noted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've know a few women who said this....

I mean it was before either of us even got naked so........."

You must just be that good!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Love button

Yeah can't bear anything on mine either if it's a clitoral orgasms. I can carry on having sex but it definitely doesn't feel as good for a little while.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Only for about 10 minutes

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Think I must be the odd one, it’s never stopped me and if anything I want it touched more for the next one

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I’m like this, but if I carry on after that point I don’t get any pleasure, all the sensation goes. Luckily I don’t cum often on meets and if I’m having sex with my husband we tend to cum at the same time so it’s not an issue!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m like this, but if I carry on after that point I don’t get any pleasure, all the sensation goes. Luckily I don’t cum often on meets and if I’m having sex with my husband we tend to cum at the same time so it’s not an issue!"

Really? You cum at the exact same time??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think I must be the odd one, it’s never stopped me and if anything I want it touched more for the next one

Not odd at all, we're all built differently

also slightly jealous I must admit

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yup, me too. I'll just flop down and be like "you can stop now, I'm done"

apparently that's not good etiquette

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nope. I usually get to that point gradually.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My latest FWB reads my body very well, he teases my body to the right point without over stimulating me, making me cum over and over again and we always cum together which is extremely intense x

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Most of the time I just want more and more...but occasionally it can be so intense that I need a moment. A minute or two and I'm back to wanting more though. P

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"My latest FWB reads my body very well, he teases my body to the right point without over stimulating me, making me cum over and over again and we always cum together which is extremely intense x"

Oh now that sounds like a dream…

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"My latest FWB reads my body very well, he teases my body to the right point without over stimulating me, making me cum over and over again and we always cum together which is extremely intense x

Oh now that sounds like a dream…

Never said this before but it's perfect x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Think I must be the odd one, it’s never stopped me and if anything I want it touched more for the next one

Not odd at all, we're all built differently

also slightly jealous I must admit"

That is true. I think sometimes a guy wishes I had an off button mind

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I can't say it's ever happened to me I always want to carry on after I've orgasmed. .Seems I'm lucky reading this .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time! Lol it’s like nope get the fuck of me haha I need a break. Especially if it’s from oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone for forced orgasm? Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes occasionally! It's usually because having an orgasm drains me and I need to recover for a few minutes. I always find riding dick the most difficult after I've just cum as all I want to do is lie back and let my energy levels rise back up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!!! This. Me too!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Anyone for forced orgasm? Asking for a friend

Oh that moment where you're like I can't take no more but somehow your body responds. And you're cursing it but loving it all at the same time grr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone for forced orgasm? Asking for a friend

Oh that moment where you're like I can't take no more but somehow your body responds. And you're cursing it but loving it all at the same time grr "

Sounds like you tried before.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Your not alone, Mrs will always make me stop for half a minute to a minute after an orgasm. She says she becomes too sensitive and needs to recover we normally just hug for that brief period.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Anyone for forced orgasm? Asking for a friend

Oh that moment where you're like I can't take no more but somehow your body responds. And you're cursing it but loving it all at the same time grr

Sounds like you tried before."

Maybe a few times, normally if I've been a bit of a brat

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

No, I always seem to want more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I do. Although depends on how I'm being touched after. If it's gentle, warm, wet tongue still teasing - it turns the tables rather quickly and I'm ready for round 2.

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Really? You cum at the exact same time?? "

Most times, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that I have to be gentle or I get shouldered in the face whilst trying to kiss her neck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I’m the opposite. Not really interested until I get it and then I just want it over and over again and become totally insatiable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes if it's been a particularly strong orgasm I might need a few seconds, but generally I can just go again immediately. I might find that I start getting a bit sore when we hit double figures though.

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By *litreMan
over a year ago

everywhere

Enjoying the thread. Thanks op.

Have any ladies here spilt any tears after a night of passion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Enjoying the thread. Thanks op.

Have any ladies here spilt any tears after a night of passion?"

Yep, more than once

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

When we have sex we pause after Hannah has had an orgasm and just have a cuddle. She likes to bask in the afterglow.

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By *weetdreams18Woman
over a year ago

Cornwall

I'm the opposite. I keep going and want more and more and more.

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By *ueenbee77Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

"I had this done to me lol she came and then told me I could finish my self off as she watched lol "

I'd have to suck u dry lol

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By *ueenbee77Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Enjoying the thread. Thanks op.

Have any ladies here spilt any tears after a night of passion?"

At first thought you meant tears as in rips lol. I've been very sore a few times.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It doesn't happen often at all but the first time I met up with a current FWB it became so intense I got the shakes and had to take a time out, drink some water, try to recover.

A little time later I was ready to go again but I really needed that break - completely shagged out for a time.

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