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"Is wrong of me to only want to meet fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women, l know it narrows down the chance of meeting anyone but single guys find it hard meet anyone anyway. "Mate you hold yourself in very high regard don’t ye | |||
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"Is wrong of me to only want to meet fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women, l know it narrows down the chance of meeting anyone but single guys find it hard meet anyone anyway. "your choice at the end of the, everyone to their own | |||
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"Is wrong of me to only want to meet fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women, l know it narrows down the chance of meeting anyone but single guys find it hard meet anyone anyway.
Mate you hold yourself in very high regard don’t ye "Not sure why you say that, but why shouldn't he? | |||
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"Is wrong of me to only want to meet fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women, l know it narrows down the chance of meeting anyone but single guys find it hard meet anyone anyway.
Mate you hold yourself in very high regard don’t ye "“I like” is not the same as “i am”. | |||
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"Is wrong of me to only want to meet fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women, l know it narrows down the chance of meeting anyone but single guys find it hard meet anyone anyway. "We all have preferences so I’d say no, nothing wrong with it. There’s a theory that in some quarters that these notional ‘bars’ get set a little lower over time though.  | |||
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"Is wrong of me to only want to meet fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women, l know it narrows down the chance of meeting anyone but single guys find it hard meet anyone anyway. "Not wrong at all….why would you put effort in here for something (or someone) you weren’t interested in? If anything you’re ‘doing it better’ for everyone concerned by being that specific. | |||
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"Is wrong of me to only want to meet fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women, l know it narrows down the chance of meeting anyone but single guys find it hard meet anyone anyway.
Mate you hold yourself in very high regard don’t ye "Why do you say that | |||
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"Yes it’s absolutely wrong because you’re listed as straight and unless you’re looking for fit muscular guys to help you carry some breeze blocks you should change your sexual orientation to bi. " Does it I thought it says I'm bi curious | |||
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"I know I'm not fit or muscular do I have to be to like fit/muscular people. " Nah you do you bro I’m not a big chested big arsed bird either but I like them You don’t have to be anything but yourself | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack. "I'm trying to get one but not got there yet | |||
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"I know I'm not fit or muscular do I have to be to like fit/muscular people. Nah you do you bro I’m not a big chested big arsed bird either but I like them You don’t have to be anything but yourself " | |||
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"I know I'm not fit or muscular do I have to be to like fit/muscular people. " You can like anything and anyone you want just be open about your sexuality or explain the context that you want these fit muscular guys. I only want guys with big hearts even though mine is teeny tiny like the grinch. Legit watched my sister cry at a donkey abuse advert and I told her to grow up. | |||
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"Yes it’s absolutely wrong because you’re listed as straight and unless you’re looking for fit muscular guys to help you carry some breeze blocks you should change your sexual orientation to bi. " Sorry you was right I've altered it now | |||
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"No, not wrong at all. If that's the only body type you are attracted to then that is your preference and no one else has any right to question it " | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack. "Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder. | |||
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"You do you. " That's what I do. | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder. "By the way I think you look fit | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
By the way I think you look fit"Get in there lad | |||
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"Ahh I'm only interested in unfit people myself. Cardio is a thing of the past" I always start meets with the beep test, anything over a 5 is a no thanks from me | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder. "The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
"A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
By the way I think you look fit
Get in there lad "I would but she is to far away from me | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
By the way I think you look fit"Thanks. I like your blue pants. Blue is my second favourite colour. | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
By the way I think you look fit
Thanks. I like your blue pants. Blue is my second favourite colour. "Now I think you are taking the mick | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person "You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you. | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder. "It happens regularly. | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you. "Hahaha I’m stealing that last line to use in real life | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you. "So if I put on my profile I'm only interested in fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women it would be ok | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person "Of course you can have a preference. | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
So if I put on my profile I'm only interested in fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women it would be ok"Oh course it's OK. Why would you think it wasn't? | |||
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"Is wrong of me to only want to meet fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women, l know it narrows down the chance of meeting anyone but single guys find it hard meet anyone anyway. "Your choice if it works for you then that is fine. Nothing wrong with having a preference. | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
Hahaha I’m stealing that last line to use in real life "Why would you want to be want to use that anywhere to describe anybody? | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
So if I put on my profile I'm only interested in fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women it would be ok"You can put whatever you want buddy. You can put you only meet women that are 5’3 135lbs with blue eyes and HH tits. It’s all you | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
Hahaha I’m stealing that last line to use in real life
Why would you want to be want to use that anywhere to describe anybody?"When joking around with mates. It’s a man thing to call each other worse than shit | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
Hahaha I’m stealing that last line to use in real life "I've just looked at your profile wow you are so fit | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
Hahaha I’m stealing that last line to use in real life
Why would you want to be want to use that anywhere to describe anybody?
When joking around with mates. It’s a man thing to call each other worse than shit "
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
Hahaha I’m stealing that last line to use in real life
I've just looked at your profile wow you are so fit "Haha thanks mate | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
Hahaha I’m stealing that last line to use in real life
I've just looked at your profile wow you are so fit
Haha thanks mate"It's a shame you are not bi | |||
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"Is wrong of me to only want to meet fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women, l know it narrows down the chance of meeting anyone but single guys find it hard meet anyone anyway. "Your world your choices | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
Hahaha I’m stealing that last line to use in real life
I've just looked at your profile wow you are so fit
Haha thanks mate
It's a shame you are not bi "Haha sorry mate 100% straight | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
So if I put on my profile I'm only interested in fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women it would be ok
You can put whatever you want buddy.
You can put you only meet women that are 5’3 135lbs with blue eyes and HH tits. It’s all you "Aww I’m 5’3 132lbs with blue eyes but DD boobs. He can put whatever he wants but needs to know his audience. I’d state the preference for the gym fit men part but not the women. That’s just my opinion. | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
So if I put on my profile I'm only interested in fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women it would be ok
You can put whatever you want buddy.
You can put you only meet women that are 5’3 135lbs with blue eyes and HH tits. It’s all you
Aww I’m 5’3 132lbs with blue eyes but DD boobs.
He can put whatever he wants but needs to know his audience. I’d state the preference for the gym fit men part but not the women. That’s just my opinion. "Why not the women? What’s the difference between stating he likes gym fit men and gym fit women? Surely if that’s what his preference is then he should state it. | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
So if I put on my profile I'm only interested in fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women it would be ok
You can put whatever you want buddy.
You can put you only meet women that are 5’3 135lbs with blue eyes and HH tits. It’s all you
Aww I’m 5’3 132lbs with blue eyes but DD boobs.
He can put whatever he wants but needs to know his audience. I’d state the preference for the gym fit men part but not the women. That’s just my opinion. "Why not the women | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
So if I put on my profile I'm only interested in fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women it would be ok
You can put whatever you want buddy.
You can put you only meet women that are 5’3 135lbs with blue eyes and HH tits. It’s all you
Aww I’m 5’3 132lbs with blue eyes but DD boobs.
He can put whatever he wants but needs to know his audience. I’d state the preference for the gym fit men part but not the women. That’s just my opinion.
Why not the women"You can, obviously you can it’s your profile but there’s less women on here than men and even less women that are gym fit or women who would describe themselves as gym fit. I wouldn’t describe myself as gym fit I say I’m curvy. You could find that you have a woman that’s the same shape as me and she’s interested and then see you only want gym fit women so she doesn’t bother. I wouldn’t contact a guy if he specifically stated he wanted gym fit because I don’t feel I fit that description. | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
So if I put on my profile I'm only interested in fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women it would be ok
You can put whatever you want buddy.
You can put you only meet women that are 5’3 135lbs with blue eyes and HH tits. It’s all you
Aww I’m 5’3 132lbs with blue eyes but DD boobs.
He can put whatever he wants but needs to know his audience. I’d state the preference for the gym fit men part but not the women. That’s just my opinion.
Why not the women
You can, obviously you can it’s your profile but there’s less women on here than men and even less women that are gym fit or women who would describe themselves as gym fit. I wouldn’t describe myself as gym fit I say I’m curvy. You could find that you have a woman that’s the same shape as me and she’s interested and then see you only want gym fit women so she doesn’t bother. I wouldn’t contact a guy if he specifically stated he wanted gym fit because I don’t feel I fit that description. "Thats true actually it's not that the women are not fit or tonned but wouldn’t necessarily describe themselves in that way. | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
So if I put on my profile I'm only interested in fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women it would be ok
You can put whatever you want buddy.
You can put you only meet women that are 5’3 135lbs with blue eyes and HH tits. It’s all you
Aww I’m 5’3 132lbs with blue eyes but DD boobs.
He can put whatever he wants but needs to know his audience. I’d state the preference for the gym fit men part but not the women. That’s just my opinion.
Why not the women
You can, obviously you can it’s your profile but there’s less women on here than men and even less women that are gym fit or women who would describe themselves as gym fit. I wouldn’t describe myself as gym fit I say I’m curvy. You could find that you have a woman that’s the same shape as me and she’s interested and then see you only want gym fit women so she doesn’t bother. I wouldn’t contact a guy if he specifically stated he wanted gym fit because I don’t feel I fit that description. "I’m sure that when OP sees that by stating he only wants gym fit women he’s putting beautiful women like you off contacting him then he’ll change his profile straight away. Just out of interest, you say you don’t think you’re gym fit so if someone contacted you who’s profile says they are only looking for gym fit women would you reply if you really liked everything else about his profile and seemed to be suited in every other way? It’s interesting that you don’t think you’re gym fit but earlier OP said he thinks you look fit, is it just that you and OP have a different opinion of what gym fit looks like? | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
So if I put on my profile I'm only interested in fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women it would be ok
You can put whatever you want buddy.
You can put you only meet women that are 5’3 135lbs with blue eyes and HH tits. It’s all you
Aww I’m 5’3 132lbs with blue eyes but DD boobs.
He can put whatever he wants but needs to know his audience. I’d state the preference for the gym fit men part but not the women. That’s just my opinion.
Why not the women
You can, obviously you can it’s your profile but there’s less women on here than men and even less women that are gym fit or women who would describe themselves as gym fit. I wouldn’t describe myself as gym fit I say I’m curvy. You could find that you have a woman that’s the same shape as me and she’s interested and then see you only want gym fit women so she doesn’t bother. I wouldn’t contact a guy if he specifically stated he wanted gym fit because I don’t feel I fit that description.
I’m sure that when OP sees that by stating he only wants gym fit women he’s putting beautiful women like you off contacting him then he’ll change his profile straight away.
Just out of interest, you say you don’t think you’re gym fit so if someone contacted you who’s profile says they are only looking for gym fit women would you reply if you really liked everything else about his profile and seemed to be suited in every other way?
It’s interesting that you don’t think you’re gym fit but earlier OP said he thinks you look fit, is it just that you and OP have a different opinion of what gym fit looks like?"That can be the problem though because lots of people have different ideas about what a specific body type looks like if that makes sense. So what's curvy to you might be BBW to me. | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
So if I put on my profile I'm only interested in fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women it would be ok
You can put whatever you want buddy.
You can put you only meet women that are 5’3 135lbs with blue eyes and HH tits. It’s all you
Aww I’m 5’3 132lbs with blue eyes but DD boobs.
He can put whatever he wants but needs to know his audience. I’d state the preference for the gym fit men part but not the women. That’s just my opinion.
Why not the women
You can, obviously you can it’s your profile but there’s less women on here than men and even less women that are gym fit or women who would describe themselves as gym fit. I wouldn’t describe myself as gym fit I say I’m curvy. You could find that you have a woman that’s the same shape as me and she’s interested and then see you only want gym fit women so she doesn’t bother. I wouldn’t contact a guy if he specifically stated he wanted gym fit because I don’t feel I fit that description.
I’m sure that when OP sees that by stating he only wants gym fit women he’s putting beautiful women like you off contacting him then he’ll change his profile straight away.
Just out of interest, you say you don’t think you’re gym fit so if someone contacted you who’s profile says they are only looking for gym fit women would you reply if you really liked everything else about his profile and seemed to be suited in every other way?
It’s interesting that you don’t think you’re gym fit but earlier OP said he thinks you look fit, is it just that you and OP have a different opinion of what gym fit looks like?"I do think she is fit | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
So if I put on my profile I'm only interested in fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women it would be ok
You can put whatever you want buddy.
You can put you only meet women that are 5’3 135lbs with blue eyes and HH tits. It’s all you
Aww I’m 5’3 132lbs with blue eyes but DD boobs.
He can put whatever he wants but needs to know his audience. I’d state the preference for the gym fit men part but not the women. That’s just my opinion.
Why not the women
You can, obviously you can it’s your profile but there’s less women on here than men and even less women that are gym fit or women who would describe themselves as gym fit. I wouldn’t describe myself as gym fit I say I’m curvy. You could find that you have a woman that’s the same shape as me and she’s interested and then see you only want gym fit women so she doesn’t bother. I wouldn’t contact a guy if he specifically stated he wanted gym fit because I don’t feel I fit that description.
I’m sure that when OP sees that by stating he only wants gym fit women he’s putting beautiful women like you off contacting him then he’ll change his profile straight away.
Just out of interest, you say you don’t think you’re gym fit so if someone contacted you who’s profile says they are only looking for gym fit women would you reply if you really liked everything else about his profile and seemed to be suited in every other way?
It’s interesting that you don’t think you’re gym fit but earlier OP said he thinks you look fit, is it just that you and OP have a different opinion of what gym fit looks like?"To me gym fit means muscle definition, I don’t have any definition anymore because I don’t train. I eat badly 80% of the time and have vascular fat around my mid section. Only reason I’m not massive is because I walk around 36 thousand steps each shift in work. | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
So if I put on my profile I'm only interested in fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women it would be ok
You can put whatever you want buddy.
You can put you only meet women that are 5’3 135lbs with blue eyes and HH tits. It’s all you
Aww I’m 5’3 132lbs with blue eyes but DD boobs.
He can put whatever he wants but needs to know his audience. I’d state the preference for the gym fit men part but not the women. That’s just my opinion.
Why not the women
You can, obviously you can it’s your profile but there’s less women on here than men and even less women that are gym fit or women who would describe themselves as gym fit. I wouldn’t describe myself as gym fit I say I’m curvy. You could find that you have a woman that’s the same shape as me and she’s interested and then see you only want gym fit women so she doesn’t bother. I wouldn’t contact a guy if he specifically stated he wanted gym fit because I don’t feel I fit that description.
I’m sure that when OP sees that by stating he only wants gym fit women he’s putting beautiful women like you off contacting him then he’ll change his profile straight away.
Just out of interest, you say you don’t think you’re gym fit so if someone contacted you who’s profile says they are only looking for gym fit women would you reply if you really liked everything else about his profile and seemed to be suited in every other way?
It’s interesting that you don’t think you’re gym fit but earlier OP said he thinks you look fit, is it just that you and OP have a different opinion of what gym fit looks like?
That can be the problem though because lots of people have different ideas about what a specific body type looks like if that makes sense. So what's curvy to you might be BBW to me. "Yeah, exactly, we don’t all see things in exactly the same way. Like if you got 10 different people to describe a person or an event they wouldn’t all describe them in exactly the same way, you’d probably end up with 10 quite different descriptions. It’s funny as well that OP has stated he only wants to meet gym toned women and I’ve stated that I’m not attracted to gym toned women but OP said he thinks Annie Wilkes looks fit (which I’m assuming means he’s attracted to her) and I also think she looks amazing and I’m attracted to her. However, and I hope she doesn’t mind me saying this, I wouldn’t describe her as gym toned so I wouldn’t have thought OP would be attracted to her. | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
So if I put on my profile I'm only interested in fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women it would be ok
You can put whatever you want buddy.
You can put you only meet women that are 5’3 135lbs with blue eyes and HH tits. It’s all you
Aww I’m 5’3 132lbs with blue eyes but DD boobs.
He can put whatever he wants but needs to know his audience. I’d state the preference for the gym fit men part but not the women. That’s just my opinion.
Why not the women
You can, obviously you can it’s your profile but there’s less women on here than men and even less women that are gym fit or women who would describe themselves as gym fit. I wouldn’t describe myself as gym fit I say I’m curvy. You could find that you have a woman that’s the same shape as me and she’s interested and then see you only want gym fit women so she doesn’t bother. I wouldn’t contact a guy if he specifically stated he wanted gym fit because I don’t feel I fit that description.
I’m sure that when OP sees that by stating he only wants gym fit women he’s putting beautiful women like you off contacting him then he’ll change his profile straight away.
Just out of interest, you say you don’t think you’re gym fit so if someone contacted you who’s profile says they are only looking for gym fit women would you reply if you really liked everything else about his profile and seemed to be suited in every other way?
It’s interesting that you don’t think you’re gym fit but earlier OP said he thinks you look fit, is it just that you and OP have a different opinion of what gym fit looks like?
That can be the problem though because lots of people have different ideas about what a specific body type looks like if that makes sense. So what's curvy to you might be BBW to me.
Yeah, exactly, we don’t all see things in exactly the same way. Like if you got 10 different people to describe a person or an event they wouldn’t all describe them in exactly the same way, you’d probably end up with 10 quite different descriptions.
It’s funny as well that OP has stated he only wants to meet gym toned women and I’ve stated that I’m not attracted to gym toned women but OP said he thinks Annie Wilkes looks fit (which I’m assuming means he’s attracted to her) and I also think she looks amazing and I’m attracted to her. However, and I hope she doesn’t mind me saying this, I wouldn’t describe her as gym toned so I wouldn’t have thought OP would be attracted to her. "That’s what I mean about him stating on his profile that he only wants gym fit women. If he thought I was fit (and assuming he would meet me) he’s gonna miss out on a lot of women he could possibly be attracted to. | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
So if I put on my profile I'm only interested in fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women it would be ok
You can put whatever you want buddy.
You can put you only meet women that are 5’3 135lbs with blue eyes and HH tits. It’s all you
Aww I’m 5’3 132lbs with blue eyes but DD boobs.
He can put whatever he wants but needs to know his audience. I’d state the preference for the gym fit men part but not the women. That’s just my opinion.
Why not the women
You can, obviously you can it’s your profile but there’s less women on here than men and even less women that are gym fit or women who would describe themselves as gym fit. I wouldn’t describe myself as gym fit I say I’m curvy. You could find that you have a woman that’s the same shape as me and she’s interested and then see you only want gym fit women so she doesn’t bother. I wouldn’t contact a guy if he specifically stated he wanted gym fit because I don’t feel I fit that description.
I’m sure that when OP sees that by stating he only wants gym fit women he’s putting beautiful women like you off contacting him then he’ll change his profile straight away.
Just out of interest, you say you don’t think you’re gym fit so if someone contacted you who’s profile says they are only looking for gym fit women would you reply if you really liked everything else about his profile and seemed to be suited in every other way?
It’s interesting that you don’t think you’re gym fit but earlier OP said he thinks you look fit, is it just that you and OP have a different opinion of what gym fit looks like?
That can be the problem though because lots of people have different ideas about what a specific body type looks like if that makes sense. So what's curvy to you might be BBW to me.
Yeah, exactly, we don’t all see things in exactly the same way. Like if you got 10 different people to describe a person or an event they wouldn’t all describe them in exactly the same way, you’d probably end up with 10 quite different descriptions.
It’s funny as well that OP has stated he only wants to meet gym toned women and I’ve stated that I’m not attracted to gym toned women but OP said he thinks Annie Wilkes looks fit (which I’m assuming means he’s attracted to her) and I also think she looks amazing and I’m attracted to her. However, and I hope she doesn’t mind me saying this, I wouldn’t describe her as gym toned so I wouldn’t have thought OP would be attracted to her.
That’s what I mean about him stating on his profile that he only wants gym fit women. If he thought I was fit (and assuming he would meet me) he’s gonna miss out on a lot of women he could possibly be attracted to. "But he’s stated that he only wants to meet gym toned women but he’s said he’s attracted to you even though, as you admit yourself, you aren’t gym toned. So, either OP thinks you look gym toned and therefore you match his requirements for the women he will only meet which means his interpretation of a gym toned woman is different to ours or he isn’t being completely accurate when he states he only wants to meet gym toned women if he recognises that you aren’t gym toned but is still attracted to you. | |||
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"Is wrong of me to only want to meet fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women, l know it narrows down the chance of meeting anyone but single guys find it hard meet anyone anyway.
Mate you hold yourself in very high regard don’t ye
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"Is wrong of me to only want to meet fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women, l know it narrows down the chance of meeting anyone but single guys find it hard meet anyone anyway. "Absolutely not , it’s your preference fella so why dip your standards for the sake of it | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you. "That made me spit my tea out so true
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you. " | |||
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"Is wrong of me to only want to meet fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women, l know it narrows down the chance of meeting anyone but single guys find it hard meet anyone anyway. "No of course it’s not wrong of you because preference is key to any chemistry but it’s just lucky that you are also fit toned and muscular so everyone is a winner. T | |||
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"You want gym fit women yet you aren't offering that of yourself? So, they bust a gut every day in the gym while relax with your feet up? They put in all the effort and you put in none kinda deal? Lol. " Some BBW women look for fit toned men. Is that ok? | |||
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"Is wrong of me to only want to meet fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women, l know it narrows down the chance of meeting anyone but single guys find it hard meet anyone anyway. "As others have said, you do you. Why would anyone meet someone for sex they're not attacted to? | |||
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"Is wrong of me to only want to meet fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women, l know it narrows down the chance of meeting anyone but single guys find it hard meet anyone anyway.
As others have said, you do you.
Why would anyone meet someone for sex they're not attacted to?
"Because some people just want sex and don't care who it's with. I've had someone tell me "I'm a guy. I'm not going to say no if it's on offer". Thankfully, others have told me the opposite "I might be a guy, but I'm not going with just anyone". | |||
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"You want gym fit women yet you aren't offering that of yourself? So, they bust a gut every day in the gym while relax with your feet up? They put in all the effort and you put in none kinda deal? Lol. " I like toned guys and I'm doughnut shaped, does that logic apply to me too? | |||
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"You want gym fit women yet you aren't offering that of yourself? So, they bust a gut every day in the gym while relax with your feet up? They put in all the effort and you put in none kinda deal? Lol. Some BBW women look for fit toned men. Is that ok?" People can look for whatever they want! | |||
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"You want gym fit women yet you aren't offering that of yourself? So, they bust a gut every day in the gym while relax with your feet up? They put in all the effort and you put in none kinda deal? Lol. I like toned guys and I'm doughnut shaped, does that logic apply to me too?" This guy said he only wants fit people..it's not the same as just liking them.. | |||
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"Is wrong of me to only want to meet fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women, l know it narrows down the chance of meeting anyone but single guys find it hard meet anyone anyway. "No not at all. End of the day.. if that what floats your boat then I say go for it | |||
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"You want gym fit women yet you aren't offering that of yourself? So, they bust a gut every day in the gym while relax with your feet up? They put in all the effort and you put in none kinda deal? Lol. " I don't just sit with my feet up I keep fit and I would not say I was fat | |||
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"You want gym fit women yet you aren't offering that of yourself? So, they bust a gut every day in the gym while relax with your feet up? They put in all the effort and you put in none kinda deal? Lol. I don't just sit with my feet up I keep fit and I would not say I was fat " You aren't at all, and it's wrong for people to assume that you don't exercise I do Yoga, jog and swim. Prior to lockdown I went to the gym 3 times a week. Carrying a bit of extra llbs, but I know I can shift it....I am 'fit' despite being potato shaped | |||
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"You want gym fit women yet you aren't offering that of yourself? So, they bust a gut every day in the gym while relax with your feet up? They put in all the effort and you put in none kinda deal? Lol. I like toned guys and I'm doughnut shaped, does that logic apply to me too? This guy said he only wants fit people..it's not the same as just liking them.." Well either way it is a preference, and tbh I have no problem in getting the guys I like | |||
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"You want gym fit women yet you aren't offering that of yourself? So, they bust a gut every day in the gym while relax with your feet up? They put in all the effort and you put in none kinda deal? Lol. I don't just sit with my feet up I keep fit and I would not say I was fat You aren't at all, and it's wrong for people to assume that you don't exercise I do Yoga, jog and swim. Prior to lockdown I went to the gym 3 times a week. Carrying a bit of extra llbs, but I know I can shift it....I am 'fit' despite being potato shaped" | |||
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"Is wrong of me to only want to meet fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women, l know it narrows down the chance of meeting anyone but single guys find it hard meet anyone anyway.
As others have said, you do you.
Why would anyone meet someone for sex they're not attacted to?
Because some people just want sex and don't care who it's with. I've had someone tell me "I'm a guy. I'm not going to say no if it's on offer". Thankfully, others have told me the opposite "I might be a guy, but I'm not going with just anyone"."Good pount. Having some sort of preference is a positive. It shows that if you're interested, there's genuinely some attraction, not jyst "getting your end away". | |||
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"You want gym fit women yet you aren't offering that of yourself? So, they bust a gut every day in the gym while relax with your feet up? They put in all the effort and you put in none kinda deal? Lol. I like toned guys and I'm doughnut shaped, does that logic apply to me too? This guy said he only wants fit people..it's not the same as just liking them.. Well either way it is a preference, and tbh I have no problem in getting the guys I like " Great. Happy for you! X | |||
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Mate you hold yourself in very high regard don’t ye
Why do you say that "Well it does sound a bit strange because u say u only wanna meet fit muscular guys and fit women but in yr own profile u describe yrself as average. So u could ask yrself why would someone that's fit/ muscular/toned wanna meet someone that says they're average? It's not wrong either way as everyone has preferences so why do u think it's wrong? No one is judging u for expressing a preference are they? No-one woulda guessed really had u not brought it to everyone's attention. Why do u feel it's necessary for yr choices to be validated? | |||
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Well it does sound a bit strange because u say u only wanna meet fit muscular guys and fit women but in yr own profile u describe yrself as average. So u could ask yrself why would someone that's fit/ muscular/toned wanna meet someone that says they're average? It's not wrong either way as everyone has preferences so why do u think it's wrong? No one is judging u for expressing a preference are they?
No-one woulda guessed really had u not brought it to everyone's attention. Why do u feel it's necessary for yr choices to be validated?"It's been said before, but warrants repeating: why do you assume that "fit/muscular/toned" folk only want to meet similar body types? From my FAB experience, this is definitely not true (thank god!) Us chunkier folk can still do the sex thing without ending up in an ambulance | |||
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Well it does sound a bit strange because u say u only wanna meet fit muscular guys and fit women but in yr own profile u describe yrself as average. So u could ask yrself why would someone that's fit/ muscular/toned wanna meet someone that says they're average? It's not wrong either way as everyone has preferences so why do u think it's wrong? No one is judging u for expressing a preference are they?
No-one woulda guessed really had u not brought it to everyone's attention. Why do u feel it's necessary for yr choices to be validated?
It's been said before, but warrants repeating: why do you assume that "fit/muscular/toned" folk only want to meet similar body types? From my FAB experience, this is definitely not true (thank god!) Us chunkier folk can still do the sex thing without ending up in an ambulance
"True and totally agree with what yr saying everyone has a type and choice. We all like and want diff things. What I don't understand is why he is asking is if its wrong. Just sounded like he needed validation over his own choices/preferences and wanted to know why someone said he had a high regard of himself. Basically I don't think anyone's bothered what kinda "types" he goes for. Are u concerned about his preferences? | |||
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"I dunno what this myth is that slim only wants/attracts skin or fat can only attract fat. Everyone’s tastes and preferences are not the same. I see all manner of people shapes and sizes enjoying physical interaction. Be yourself that’s important and do what you like to do snd let the rest get the fuck on with it "Bi gold bird  Awesome xx | |||
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Nope there’s nothing wrong with it op. I have so many preferences although I do prefer to keep them to myself, I just find it easier. Apart from the beard phobia as it’s become a bit of a standing joke  | |||
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Mate you hold yourself in very high regard don’t ye " | |||
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I only want to meet women, does that make men not good enough or just not my preference?"Or are you shaming men because they don't have boobs. | |||
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I only want to meet women, does that make men not good enough or just not my preference?
Or are you shaming men because they don't have boobs. "Not shaming anyone. Like all kinds of shapes n bodies but ave a few preferences like everyone else. Not attracted to women but can see the beauty in the female form just don't wanna fuck em | |||
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I only want to meet women, does that make men not good enough or just not my preference?
Or are you shaming men because they don't have boobs. "Look I'm not gonna sit here and argue with you that the world wouldn't be a better place with more boons | |||
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I only want to meet women, does that make men not good enough or just not my preference?
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Look I'm not gonna sit here and argue with you that the world wouldn't be a better place with more boons "The fuck is a boon. Boobs* | |||
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I only want to meet women, does that make men not good enough or just not my preference?
Or are you shaming men because they don't have boobs.
Look I'm not gonna sit here and argue with you that the world wouldn't be a better place with more boons
The fuck is a boon. Boobs*"Oh I don't know I think we definitely need more boons. | |||
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"Once again the hypocrisy of this site rears its ugly head once again. After the OPs opening statement it didn't take long for people to start body shaming him or picking up on HIS physical appearance. Once again if this had been reversed and a female had posted this and people had made similar comments all hell would have broken loose. Actually indirectly the OP has done a bit of his own shaming by highlighting is interest only lies with muscular/fit/toned. Thereby, suggesting other body shapes aren't good enough. Nope, he's stating a preference. You're the one that body shamed him by implying he shouldn't be staying a preference fit/toned when he described himself as average. You forgot to mention I also asked why he thinks what he likes is wrong and why does he need validation from people regarding his own preferences. Which I added there's no right or wrong- u like what u like. I didn't forget to mention it as it wasn't relevant to the point I was replying to, where you accused someone of body shaming. Of course there is no right or wrong to what we find aesthetically pleasing. But if you make assumptions that aren't already in play, folk have the right to correct/challenge you." And thats exactly the reason why I challenged him. | |||
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Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
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"Once again the hypocrisy of this site rears its ugly head once again. After the OPs opening statement it didn't take long for people to start body shaming him or picking up on HIS physical appearance. Once again if this had been reversed and a female had posted this and people had made similar comments all hell would have broken loose. Actually indirectly the OP has done a bit of his own shaming by highlighting is interest only lies with muscular/fit/toned. Thereby, suggesting other body shapes aren't good enough. Nope, he's stating a preference. You're the one that body shamed him by implying he shouldn't be staying a preference fit/toned when he described himself as average. You forgot to mention I also asked why he thinks what he likes is wrong and why does he need validation from people regarding his own preferences. Which I added there's no right or wrong- u like what u like. I didn't forget to mention it as it wasn't relevant to the point I was replying to, where you accused someone of body shaming. Of course there is no right or wrong to what we find aesthetically pleasing. But if you make assumptions that aren't already in play, folk have the right to correct/challenge you. And thats exactly the reason why I challenged him. Seems to me like you’re being a bit catty and making an issue out of something that’s totally a non issue. You’re pulling allegations out of thin air so if this is how you roll I’m gonna say you’re being argumentative because gay men have issues with bi men. Haha and yr being very judgemental and stereotypical about a gay man but that's yr choice and I've no interest in trying to make u feel any diff. But I find it funny u know or think u know, as a woman what gay men think bout bi men. U ave no idea what I think because by saying u do means u know the person I am and the truth is u don't and u'd rather just judge me on that subject. Feel free but being so judgemental surely is equally as bad as body shaming someone so I'll leave it at that. Look mate I don’t give a fuck about this thread, the contents or your opinions. You were writing bull shit and making up issues that weren’t even there so I’m making up bull shit. Someone's a bit touchy
I don't need to make up issues, yr managing quite easily enough yrself. I'm just a typical gay man who has issues with bi men. Right luv? "You said it. | |||
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"Once again the hypocrisy of this site rears its ugly head once again. After the OPs opening statement it didn't take long for people to start body shaming him or picking up on HIS physical appearance. Once again if this had been reversed and a female had posted this and people had made similar comments all hell would have broken loose. Actually indirectly the OP has done a bit of his own shaming by highlighting is interest only lies with muscular/fit/toned. Thereby, suggesting other body shapes aren't good enough. Nope, he's stating a preference. You're the one that body shamed him by implying he shouldn't be staying a preference fit/toned when he described himself as average. You forgot to mention I also asked why he thinks what he likes is wrong and why does he need validation from people regarding his own preferences. Which I added there's no right or wrong- u like what u like. I didn't forget to mention it as it wasn't relevant to the point I was replying to, where you accused someone of body shaming. Of course there is no right or wrong to what we find aesthetically pleasing. But if you make assumptions that aren't already in play, folk have the right to correct/challenge you. And thats exactly the reason why I challenged him. Seems to me like you’re being a bit catty and making an issue out of something that’s totally a non issue. You’re pulling allegations out of thin air so if this is how you roll I’m gonna say you’re being argumentative because gay men have issues with bi men. Haha and yr being very judgemental and stereotypical about a gay man but that's yr choice and I've no interest in trying to make u feel any diff. But I find it funny u know or think u know, as a woman what gay men think bout bi men. U ave no idea what I think because by saying u do means u know the person I am and the truth is u don't and u'd rather just judge me on that subject. Feel free but being so judgemental surely is equally as bad as body shaming someone so I'll leave it at that. Look mate I don’t give a fuck about this thread, the contents or your opinions. You were writing bull shit and making up issues that weren’t even there so I’m making up bull shit. Someone's a bit touchy
I don't need to make up issues, yr managing quite easily enough yrself. I'm just a typical gay man who has issues with bi men. Right luv?
You said it. "Keep up luv. I actually didn't but someone who thinks they know me made that judgement on the basis every gay man has those issues with bi men. Join the club if u feel the same tho I've broad shoulders | |||
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"I was expecting to see a six pack.
Can you imagine some overweight woman saying she wants to meet gym guys and a guy saying I was expecting you to be slim? There would be bloody murder.
The attitude of some guys they should be lucky anyone wants to meet them. I’ll not lose any sleep over the guys that only want the attractive gym bunnies
A come on there is no need for that why do some people on here have to try and start an argument all I have done is to put a question on here about my type of person
You haven’t done anything wrong. If it was a woman saying she only wanted fit muscular guys everyone would be like yas queen, you go girl. Nobody would say hmm well actually love you look like a fucking fat buzzard and would have to hang a steak round your neck to get a dog to sniff you.
So if I put on my profile I'm only interested in fit/muscular guy's and fit toned women it would be ok"Put what you want on your profile, no one reads it anyway and will message you regardless...ours says not looking for single guys yet our inbox is flooded with messages off them | |||
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"ours says not looking for single guys yet our inbox is flooded with messages off them " Easier to filter them our surely? | |||
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"ours says not looking for single guys yet our inbox is flooded with messages off them Easier to filter them our surely?" I don't incase there's any black guys with massive cocks that take my fancy else we would | |||
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