FabSwingers.com forum: Do men hate on younger/more attractive men the same as women do?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You see it on here a lot, women being bitchy or bitter towards women who are younger or better looking than them but do men do it as well?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Of course! Fuck those young, muscled, well hung, studs!

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it doesn't matter if you're male, female, ugly, attractive, old, young. I'll be an arsehole to everyone equally

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yeah. But they do it in a more macho way. Like over their reverse parking skills and whatnot.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Yeah. But they do it in a more macho way. Like over their reverse parking skills and whatnot.

“Back in my day we didn’t have parking alarms, we had to rely on our eyes”

“Ha! Hush your mouth grandad, you’re just jealous innit”

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

For me no.I’m not the sexiest hottest man on here by a distance and after years of beating myself up and hating how I look I’m cool with how I am now.there’s some dapper blokes on here and they come across as top guys on the forums .

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

I think man hate the alpha man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got to a point in my life where I honestly couldn’t care less about any one else. Not sure if that’s a good thing or a bad thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With age comes wisdom and liberation, surely?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

No because men gain value as they get older, so it’s the opposite. Younger guys look at older, more successful guys and hate on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I just try and let them bang me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s for tea OP ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Not me in fact quite the reverse, I look at young fit guys in humble admiration, secure in the knowledge that I could write a book. If those same guys are in the same position as me when they get to my age, they can give themselves a pat on the back, it's been a good life. I've said many times that having walked the walk, I can blissfully grow old disgracefully. So best of luck to all young bulls, you have it all play for.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I don’t see that on here a lot.. either way. You seem to think everything is about looks. It’s not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I hate everyone equally. I don't discriminate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What’s for tea OP ?"

I had a Christmas baguette with turkey, two large pigs in blankets with cranberry and gravy with 20 dinky donuts with Nutella dipping sauce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see it.

I don’t do it either.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I don't personally see that from women or men on here to be honest. The last few messages I've sent to say someone has an amazing photo have been to much younger more attractive women. And I know I'm not the only female on here to do such things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s for tea OP ?

I had a Christmas baguette with turkey, two large pigs in blankets with cranberry and gravy with 20 dinky donuts with Nutella dipping sauce. "

Nice, I’ve just got some salmon under the grill, thought about pan frying it.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"You see it on here a lot, women being bitchy or bitter towards women who are younger or better looking than them but do men do it as well? "

Why would I hate younger, better-looking women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t see that on here a lot.. either way. You seem to think everything is about looks. It’s not. "

You seem to always have a go at me. Why is that? FYI this thread was inspired by the billie eilish thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course! Fuck those young, muscled, well hung, studs!

LvM"

Noooo, you mean *Dont* fuck this young, muscled, well hung studs.

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Na im not threatened as it stands. When im mid to late 40s and 30 somethings write me off and 20 somethings think im creepy I'll be jealous

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

God I hope that’s not true. No one has given me a hard time and it’s going to start hurting my feelings

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

O don't hate on younger women...the amount of times when out and about I have been complemented by younger woman is quite heart warming.

Last weekend a younger woman cam up to me in the pub qnd said I was the 1st person she noticed and never to lose my energy...my fire

I was quite flattered.

Not all women are bitches!

I'd hope it was the same for men.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"God I hope that’s not true. No one has given me a hard time and it’s going to start hurting my feelings "

I don't believe it's true.

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By *ydialovelaceTV/TS
over a year ago

Devon

Oh I can be jealous but not of the way they look. Just for the pure exhilarating brilliance that is youth. Not that I out such jealousy, just look back with longing

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"With age comes wisdom and liberation, surely?"

and more trips to the loo.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I don’t see that on here a lot.. either way. You seem to think everything is about looks. It’s not.

You seem to always have a go at me. Why is that? FYI this thread was inspired by the billie eilish thread. "

I disagree with your posts. There’s a difference. Didn’t see any hating based on age or looks there either.

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By *uitedSuitorMan
over a year ago

Halifax / Leeds

I've had some comments under breath before when I'm in a club. I think most of it is an expectation that I'm there for the wrong reason. Young guys carry the stigma that they are there for a 'quick fuck' when some of us are there for the long game.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"With age comes wisdom and liberation, surely?

and more trips to the loo.

That's where the wisdom bit comes into it....we learn to sit nearer the loo when out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"O don't hate on younger women...the amount of times when out and about I have been complemented by younger woman is quite heart warming.

Last weekend a younger woman cam up to me in the pub qnd said I was the 1st person she noticed and never to lose my energy...my fire

I was quite flattered.

Not all women are bitches!

I'd hope it was the same for men."

They were spot on Anabelle your awesome and also very beautiful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You see it on here a lot, women being bitchy or bitter towards women who are younger or better looking than them but do men do it as well? "

Pardon? Women that are younger and better looking? .. that’s a matter of opinion of that person.

So you are asking - do men hate on men ‘they’ feel it think are better than ‘them’.

My answer. I don’t know, you better wait for someone that thinks that way., because I don’t think that way

We are all just different.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I've not noticed any correlation between age or perceived beauty and bitchiness, from women or men.

Bitchiness comes from all ages, sexes and people of all types of looks and size.

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By *cottish..1234Man
over a year ago

annan

Is it not, with age comes experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all

I wholeheartedly encourage younger guys to be attractive, especially the ones with a penchant for short, chunky, speccy slaphead older guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s for tea OP ?

I had a Christmas baguette with turkey, two large pigs in blankets with cranberry and gravy with 20 dinky donuts with Nutella dipping sauce. "

How did you stir the sauce, with a wooden spoon ?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"You see it on here a lot, women being bitchy or bitter towards women who are younger or better looking than them but do men do it as well?

Pardon? Women that are younger and better looking? .. that’s a matter of opinion of that person.

So you are asking - do men hate on men ‘they’ feel it think are better than ‘them’.

My answer. I don’t know, you better wait for someone that thinks that way., because I don’t think that way

We are all just different.

And someone who thinks that way..for me would be the most unattractive of all.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"You see it on here a lot, women being bitchy or bitter towards women who are younger or better looking than them but do men do it as well? "

What will you do when your in your 50's will you be chill towards younger better looking women or will you do the same?

Personally I don't give two hoots about younger guy's as I know that whilst there's plenty of guy's fitter and better looking than I , I know that I've been there and lived and mature enough to understand nothing lasts forever especially look's.

Far to many under 40's are obsessed with their look's and for the under 30's it's almost a pandemic.

I'd rather be chill and worry about myself rather than how good looking someone else is.

Besides someone better looking than me?? Do behave it's not possible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course! Fuck those young, muscled, well hung, studs!

LvM

Noooo, you mean *Dont* fuck this young, muscled, well hung studs.

Mr"

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Oh look.. she's got the wooden spoon out again

lol

I think we can all envy people at different stages in life.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"O don't hate on younger women...the amount of times when out and about I have been complemented by younger woman is quite heart warming.

Last weekend a younger woman cam up to me in the pub qnd said I was the 1st person she noticed and never to lose my energy...my fire

I was quite flattered.

Not all women are bitches!

I'd hope it was the same for men.

They were spot on Anabelle your awesome and also very beautiful x"

Aww thanks.. As are you my lovely Nat x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I'd say yes but that's inevitable when people are in competition for something, especially where sex is concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that people of all ages and genders have the capacity to be unkind to others. When we dislike someone we seek to belittle them, point out their flaws, attack bits of them we don't like and these always include the bits we are jealous off. This may be an older woman jealous of a youngsters perky breasts and flawless skin or a youngsters jealousy of an older person's confidence, financial stability etc.

Jealousy is common but not universal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where do you see it here a lot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"O don't hate on younger women...the amount of times when out and about I have been complemented by younger woman is quite heart warming.

Last weekend a younger woman cam up to me in the pub qnd said I was the 1st person she noticed and never to lose my energy...my fire

I was quite flattered.

Not all women are bitches!

I'd hope it was the same for men.

They were spot on Anabelle your awesome and also very beautiful x

Aww thanks.. As are you my lovely Nat x"

Your welcome anytime and aww thank you as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a peace that comes with age and invisibility. I can wear some truly awful things and no-one bats an eyelid. When you get older, you have already been young( profound) and know the miseries and insecurities around looks. I begrudge no-one looking lovely and beautiful and sexy. Its hard work and good on them.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Of course! Fuck those young, muscled, well hung, studs!

LvM"

Yeah! Fuck you!

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You see it on here a lot, women being bitchy or bitter towards women who are younger or better looking than them but do men do it as well?

Pardon? Women that are younger and better looking? .. that’s a matter of opinion of that person.

So you are asking - do men hate on men ‘they’ feel it think are better than ‘them’.

My answer. I don’t know, you better wait for someone that thinks that way., because I don’t think that way

We are all just different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No because men gain value as they get older, so it’s the opposite. Younger guys look at older, more successful guys and hate on them.

I can see that! I mean guys in 30 early 40s are definitely the prime cut of meat x

In every way x

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"There is a peace that comes with age and invisibility. I can wear some truly awful things and no-one bats an eyelid. When you get older, you have already been young( profound) and know the miseries and insecurities around looks. I begrudge no-one looking lovely and beautiful and sexy. Its hard work and good on them. "

I know it's hard being really really ridiculously good looking

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

To be honest no.

What's the point, I'd be angry all the time as there is always going to be someone better.

People just need to chill and enjoy what they have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Good looking doesn't mean you aren't a dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know it's hard being really really ridiculously good looking

I can turn left at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No because men gain value as they get older, so it’s the opposite. Younger guys look at older, more successful guys and hate on them.

I can see that! I mean guys in 30 early 40s are definitely the prime cut of meat x

In every way x

Thought you'd never say it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life's too short and too precious for that much negativity....

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Of course! Fuck those young, muscled, well hung, studs!

LvM

Noooo, you mean *Dont* fuck this young, muscled, well hung studs.

Mr"

Oh! Shit, yeah. Give the old-timers a chance instead

LvM

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By *hunderace...Man
over a year ago

Dudley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No because men gain value as they get older, so it’s the opposite. Younger guys look at older, more successful guys and hate on them.

I can see that! I mean guys in 30 early 40s are definitely the prime cut of meat x

In every way x

Thought you'd never say it

Mr"

Haha it’s the truth x

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

I only spunk over them when I can

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By *hunderace...Man
over a year ago

Dudley

I don't see fab as a competition and I'm sure younger guys are more attractive... I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t care enough about anyone, male or female, to even give a fuck what they look like or to be jealous. Literally couldn’t give a fuck.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"God I hope that’s not true. No one has given me a hard time and it’s going to start hurting my feelings "

Would it help if I said you were sickeningly lovely and I really enjoy seeing your photos?

Hang on... that didn't go right.

You're sickeningly lovely and I DON'T really enjoy seeing your photos at all and in no way perv on them.

There, that was totally convincing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With age comes wisdom and liberation, surely?"

Lol with age become more horny and reckless x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never think about other men..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never seen women being bitchy towards other women on here. Certainly not in an appearance based context.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I'm an older woman, I don't envy younger women. I'm grateful to be alive and kicking, I also love life.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

"God I hope that’s not true. No one has given me a hard time and it’s going to start hurting my feelings

Would it help if I said you were sickeningly lovely and I really enjoy seeing your photos?

Hang on... that didn't go right.

You're sickeningly lovely and I DON'T really enjoy seeing your photos at all and in no way perv on them.

There, that was totally convincing.

What a perfect result! Thank you!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"God I hope that’s not true. No one has given me a hard time and it’s going to start hurting my feelings

Would it help if I said you were sickeningly lovely and I really enjoy seeing your photos?

Hang on... that didn't go right.

You're sickeningly lovely and I DON'T really enjoy seeing your photos at all and in no way perv on them.

There, that was totally convincing.

I'm bloody loving your avatar, made me proper smile

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

And, I'm not bothered if women are better looking, that's never going to make anyone happy

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"God I hope that’s not true. No one has given me a hard time and it’s going to start hurting my feelings

Would it help if I said you were sickeningly lovely and I really enjoy seeing your photos?

Hang on... that didn't go right.

You're sickeningly lovely and I DON'T really enjoy seeing your photos at all and in no way perv on them.

There, that was totally convincing.

I'm bloody loving your avatar, made me proper smile

I’m loving yours!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I’ve never seen women being bitchy towards other women on here. Certainly not in an appearance based context."

From an older woman to a younger woman ...you look absolutely gorgeous.

And..I've not seen it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally speaking I have nothing against anyone unless they have something against me personally.

I know my time is ticking so let the youngsters have their moment

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"God I hope that’s not true. No one has given me a hard time and it’s going to start hurting my feelings

Would it help if I said you were sickeningly lovely and I really enjoy seeing your photos?

Hang on... that didn't go right.

You're sickeningly lovely and I DON'T really enjoy seeing your photos at all and in no way perv on them.

There, that was totally convincing.

I'm bloody loving your avatar, made me proper smile

Thank you!

I was laughing so much as I took it! I wanted a video but no amount of jumping up and down would make the eyes wobble properly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t see that on here a lot.. either way. You seem to think everything is about looks. It’s not.

You seem to always have a go at me. Why is that? FYI this thread was inspired by the billie eilish thread.

I disagree with your posts. There’s a difference. Didn’t see any hating based on age or looks there either. "

Every single one? That’s odd but easily done if you’re always looking for the negative, even easier if you take a dislike to someone for some reason.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"God I hope that’s not true. No one has given me a hard time and it’s going to start hurting my feelings

Would it help if I said you were sickeningly lovely and I really enjoy seeing your photos?

Hang on... that didn't go right.

You're sickeningly lovely and I DON'T really enjoy seeing your photos at all and in no way perv on them.

There, that was totally convincing.

I'm bloody loving your avatar, made me proper smile

Thank you!

I was laughing so much as I took it! I wanted a video but no amount of jumping up and down would make the eyes wobble properly."

Where did you get them from x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never seen women being bitchy towards other women on here. Certainly not in an appearance based context.

From an older woman to a younger woman ...you look absolutely gorgeous.

And..I've not seen it either."

Thank you ... and back at you x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I don’t see that on here a lot.. either way. You seem to think everything is about looks. It’s not.

You seem to always have a go at me. Why is that? FYI this thread was inspired by the billie eilish thread.

I disagree with your posts. There’s a difference. Didn’t see any hating based on age or looks there either.

Every single one? That’s odd but easily done if you’re always looking for the negative, even easier if you take a dislike to someone for some reason.

I didn’t say all. Do you not see the irony here? I’m disagreeing with a negative post and I’m the negative one

women are far less bitchy than you give them credit for.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"God I hope that’s not true. No one has given me a hard time and it’s going to start hurting my feelings

Would it help if I said you were sickeningly lovely and I really enjoy seeing your photos?

Hang on... that didn't go right.

You're sickeningly lovely and I DON'T really enjoy seeing your photos at all and in no way perv on them.

There, that was totally convincing.

I'm bloody loving your avatar, made me proper smile

Thank you!

I was laughing so much as I took it! I wanted a video but no amount of jumping up and down would make the eyes wobble properly.

Where did you get them from x"

They were from Amazon. I've a feeling they'll end up on my Christmas tree, making me smile right over the festive period!

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

...nope, I have all the knowledge, tools and determination to stay young and fit all through my 30s , 40s and 50s

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

No matter how beautiful you are, how young you are, how popular you are, there will always be someone younger, more beautiful, more popular.

Bitchiness on that basis feels a massively wasted effort.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"I don’t see that on here a lot.. either way. You seem to think everything is about looks. It’s not. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t see that on here a lot.. either way. You seem to think everything is about looks. It’s not.

You seem to always have a go at me. Why is that? FYI this thread was inspired by the billie eilish thread.

I disagree with your posts. There’s a difference. Didn’t see any hating based on age or looks there either.

Every single one? That’s odd but easily done if you’re always looking for the negative, even easier if you take a dislike to someone for some reason.

I didn’t say all. Do you not see the irony here? I’m disagreeing with a negative post and I’m the negative one

women are far less bitchy than you give them credit for. "

You didn’t say all but you didn’t say some either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...nope, I have all the knowledge, tools and determination to stay young and fit all through my 30s , 40s and 50s

OMG! You’re pretty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...nope, I have all the knowledge, tools and determination to stay young and fit all through my 30s , 40s and 50s

What happens in the 60’s, give it up

And let it all go ?

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

No sometimes I lament my lost youth but then realise that all the things I know now were learned through those years of living my life as best as I could.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think Fab holds the benefit of being full of people sitting remotely, so it's just conjecture about who may be doing better than each person. If we all inhabited 1 swinging club and saw who we believed to be getting better results than us, some may feel aggrieved.

As it stands, there are plenty of us who are clueless, join and then shove 'fill in later' etc and struggle to fathom why there's not the endless queue of clunge, despite ripped physiques, fire extinguisher sized cocks etc.

Thankfully, those using their wisdom to communicate well, spread their investments across fab and clubs, will be able to cultivate meaningful ventures and pleasure.

I've not seen much of what OP covers in my many years here

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I never hate on women for being younger or prettier. I might dislike a self entitled attitude though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You see it on here a lot, women being bitchy or bitter towards women who are younger or better looking than them but do men do it as well? "

I can't say I've seen on here. And I'd say on here men can quite often put down the competion whether that's just a message in an inbox, a forum flirt or an actual playmate by picking on something about them, the way they write or act etc.

Have to say the men Ive chatted to on the forums gossip far more than the women do too. If anything I'd say the women are far less bitchy. But age has got nothing to do with it.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

"...nope, I have all the knowledge, tools and determination to stay young and fit all through my 30s , 40s and 50s

What happens in the 60’s, give it up

And let it all go ?"

damn ...you are right! I shall drag it out until I reach 70

Thanks for the motivation! My man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You do see men trying to piss on other mens parades and trying to simp to the women by slagging off the actions of other men or my favourite, trying to apologise for other mens behaviour in an attempt to make themselves look better.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

"...nope, I have all the knowledge, tools and determination to stay young and fit all through my 30s , 40s and 50s

OMG! You’re pretty

I am?

How can you tell? My face is hidden

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...nope, I have all the knowledge, tools and determination to stay young and fit all through my 30s , 40s and 50s

OMG! You’re pretty

I am?

How can you tell? My face is hidden

It’s in the jawline. Can always tell from a jawline and chin. Plus nice quads, you look like you keep a clean bum hole. You’re flexible. Could actually rim you in box splits position.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

"...nope, I have all the knowledge, tools and determination to stay young and fit all through my 30s , 40s and 50s

OMG! You’re pretty

I am?

How can you tell? My face is hidden

It’s in the jawline. Can always tell from a jawline and chin. Plus nice quads, you look like you keep a clean bum hole. You’re flexible. Could actually rim you in box splits position.

LOL that sounds dangerous...by the way you debate people on the forums you seem to have a very "sharp" tounge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't seen any women being bitchy towards other women on here. Not in the slightest...confused

My perspective is that, I'm happy with my body, the way it looks, but it's not all about looks is it? Someone could be physically attractive but still be a twat and that would make them unattractive, eventually, in my eyes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t see that on here a lot.. either way. You seem to think everything is about looks. It’s not. "

I was just about to say I don't see that on here very often if ever. If someone disagreed with me I would assume it's because they disagreed with me or if they said something unpleasant I would assume it's because they are unpleasant not because I'm younger than them or prettier.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t see that on here a lot.. either way. You seem to think everything is about looks. It’s not.

Read the Billie Eilish thread.

Also you’re blind if you haven’t seen any bitchiness on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...nope, I have all the knowledge, tools and determination to stay young and fit all through my 30s , 40s and 50s

OMG! You’re pretty

I am?

How can you tell? My face is hidden

It’s in the jawline. Can always tell from a jawline and chin. Plus nice quads, you look like you keep a clean bum hole. You’re flexible. Could actually rim you in box splits position.

LOL that sounds dangerous...by the way you debate people on the forums you seem to have a very "sharp" tounge

I’d be smooth! You’re beautiful I’ll give you that. Keep it up. Do you have any videos of your bum hole by any chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe perspectives on what is bitchy and what isn't differ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t see that on here a lot.. either way. You seem to think everything is about looks. It’s not.

Read the Billie Eilish thread.

Also you’re blind if you haven’t seen any bitchiness on here. "

I did not say I hadn't seen bitchiness I said I haven't seen it aimed at younger/prettier women.

I don't have to read any other threads I am commenting on this one and don't be personal by calling me blind thank you very much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe perspectives on what is bitchy and what isn't differ

Definitely!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I don’t consider it a good day unless I have judged the fuck out of someone I don’t know about things I don’t really care about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe perspectives on what is bitchy and what isn't differ

Bitchy is comments like not being a real woman because I have breast implants, comments saying no wonder I’m single, stuck up my own arse, arrogant, self absorbed, fake, a fantasist, a woman hater. These are just some comments I’ve had said to me by other women.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"I don’t consider it a good day unless I have judged the fuck out of someone I don’t know about things I don’t really care about."

I love this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't hate anyone younger/slimmer/more beautiful woman, just weep for my loss of those qualities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My comment on the Billie Eilish thread started an absolute shitfest. I was blissfully unaware until coming home from Christmas shopping

I meant it in a protective way against a teenage girl though. Not because I’m jealous. Just wanted to clarify that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My comment on the Billie Eilish thread started an absolute shitfest. I was blissfully unaware until coming home from Christmas shopping

I meant it in a protective way against a teenage girl though. Not because I’m jealous. Just wanted to clarify that!"

I’m gonna nickname you Keith flint, prodigy frontman (rip his soul) The original fire starter. It was you haha you caused a shit storm. Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The young uns don’t stand a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My comment on the Billie Eilish thread started an absolute shitfest. I was blissfully unaware until coming home from Christmas shopping

I meant it in a protective way against a teenage girl though. Not because I’m jealous. Just wanted to clarify that!

I’m gonna nickname you Keith flint, prodigy frontman (rip his soul) The original fire starter. It was you haha you caused a shit storm. Love it

So now you love the bitchyness? I'm confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My comment on the Billie Eilish thread started an absolute shitfest. I was blissfully unaware until coming home from Christmas shopping

I meant it in a protective way against a teenage girl though. Not because I’m jealous. Just wanted to clarify that!

I’m gonna nickname you Keith flint, prodigy frontman (rip his soul) The original fire starter. It was you haha you caused a shit storm. Love it

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Why do we have this idea that women dislike other women because we're jealous of them? Men aren't attributed the same sort of daft gender stereotyping.

There's no doubt that sometimes women are jealous and make bitchy comments because of it. Sometimes they don't like another woman because they're not compatible, they think that woman is a bit of a twunt, or she acts like one.

That's not directed at you by the way OP! I'm just tired of reading this idea women are and need to be in competition with each other constantly. Men aren't under the same pressure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My comment on the Billie Eilish thread started an absolute shitfest. I was blissfully unaware until coming home from Christmas shopping

I meant it in a protective way against a teenage girl though. Not because I’m jealous. Just wanted to clarify that!

I’m gonna nickname you Keith flint, prodigy frontman (rip his soul) The original fire starter. It was you haha you caused a shit storm. Love it

So now you love the bitchyness? I'm confused. "

I put the disco in discord

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe perspectives on what is bitchy and what isn't differ

OK those comments are just nasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do we have this idea that women dislike other women because we're jealous of them? Men aren't attributed the same sort of daft gender stereotyping.

That's not directed at you by the way OP! I'm just tired of reading this idea women are and need to be in competition with each other constantly. Men aren't under the same pressure."

So true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe perspectives on what is bitchy and what isn't differ

OK those comments are just nasty. "

Ah yeah, nasty = bitchy. I'm sorry you've had comments like that, I really don't like this sort of stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's a non bitchy comment..

-How do you get your hair so shiny?

(from someone that's into hair)

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

I'm from Glasgow we hate everyone equally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm from Glasgow we hate everyone equally

Weegies are wonderful but so judgey

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Here's a non bitchy comment..

-How do you get your hair so shiny?

(from someone that's into hair)"

Ooo ooo ooo! I’ll tell you only if you sing the next line!

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By *aretobareCouple
over a year ago

Central Portugal

As judge Judy says "Beauty fades - stupid is forever" - judging anyone just by looks is ultimately unsatisfying for all parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i love youuu -uu.."

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Why do we have this idea that women dislike other women because we're jealous of them? Men aren't attributed the same sort of daft gender stereotyping.

That's not directed at you by the way OP! I'm just tired of reading this idea women are and need to be in competition with each other constantly. Men aren't under the same pressure."

I dunno what world you live in but men are absolutely under the exact same things

Just because you don’t experience it doesn’t mean we don’t

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Sometimes they don't like another woman because they're not compatible, they think that woman is a bit of a twunt, or she acts like one.

That's not directed at you by the way OP! I'm just tired of reading this idea women are and need to be in competition with each other constantly. Men aren't under the same pressure.

I dunno what world you live in but men are absolutely under the exact same things

Just because you don’t experience it doesn’t mean we don’t "

This world. The same one in which you're typing your opinion on a Saturday night much like I am.

Men aren't under the exact same things. Men don't have threads started frequently about how jealous and bitchy women are. Comments made frequently linking dislike to envy because women aren't as desirable as the object of their dislike.

Men are under pressure but not the exact same thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

""i love youuu -uu.."

Okay so confession time. It’s not my real hair sorry. It’s a filter that’s changed my hair colour. My hair is brown and blonde like the other other pics.

but I do use redken diamond shine glow oil. That’s amazing stuff. Pink glass bottle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Constantly

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Sometimes they don't like another woman because they're not compatible, they think that woman is a bit of a twunt, or she acts like one.

That's not directed at you by the way OP! I'm just tired of reading this idea women are and need to be in competition with each other constantly. Men aren't under the same pressure.

I dunno what world you live in but men are absolutely under the exact same things

Just because you don’t experience it doesn’t mean we don’t

This world. The same one in which you're typing your opinion on a Saturday night much like I am.

Men are under pressure but not the exact same thing. "

The entire bases of human mating is that women have their luck of the litter and men compete to be chosen.

Look at all the threads how 90% of men can’t even get a message back. The competition is unbelievable

It’s not the same, but for you to just outright say “men are under the same pressure” when it comes to competition is just wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shall look that up, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes they don't like another woman because they're not compatible, they think that woman is a bit of a twunt, or she acts like one.

That's not directed at you by the way OP! I'm just tired of reading this idea women are and need to be in competition with each other constantly. Men aren't under the same pressure.

I dunno what world you live in but men are absolutely under the exact same things

Just because you don’t experience it doesn’t mean we don’t

This world. The same one in which you're typing your opinion on a Saturday night much like I am.

Men are under pressure but not the exact same thing.

The entire bases of human mating is that women have their luck of the litter and men compete to be chosen.

Look at all the threads how 90% of men can’t even get a message back. The competition is unbelievable

It’s not the same, but for you to just outright say “men are under the same pressure” when it comes to competition is just wrong "

It's not completely wrong though because she didn't say men aren't under any pressure, she said men aren't under the same pressure.

The very simple reason men can't often get replies is because there is just more men than women on this site, it's very basic maths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was Meli even talking about gender based competition on here though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry Lorna, that wasn’t to you.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Sometimes they don't like another woman because they're not compatible, they think that woman is a bit of a twunt, or she acts like one.

That's not directed at you by the way OP! I'm just tired of reading this idea women are and need to be in competition with each other constantly. Men aren't under the same pressure.

I dunno what world you live in but men are absolutely under the exact same things

Just because you don’t experience it doesn’t mean we don’t

This world. The same one in which you're typing your opinion on a Saturday night much like I am.

Men are under pressure but not the exact same thing.

The entire bases of human mating is that women have their luck of the litter and men compete to be chosen.

Look at all the threads how 90% of men can’t even get a message back. The competition is unbelievable

It’s not the same, but for you to just outright say “men are under the same pressure” when it comes to competition is just wrong

It's not completely wrong though because she didn't say men aren't under any pressure, she said men aren't under the same pressure.

The very simple reason men can't often get replies is because there is just more men than women on this site, it's very basic maths. "

Very basic maths that results in an unbelievable competitive situation.

To just write that off? That men aren’t under the same pressure of trying to be a desirable partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry Lorna, that wasn’t to you."

It's OK I Knew that. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes they don't like another woman because they're not compatible, they think that woman is a bit of a twunt, or she acts like one.

That's not directed at you by the way OP! I'm just tired of reading this idea women are and need to be in competition with each other constantly. Men aren't under the same pressure.

I dunno what world you live in but men are absolutely under the exact same things

Just because you don’t experience it doesn’t mean we don’t

This world. The same one in which you're typing your opinion on a Saturday night much like I am.

Men are under pressure but not the exact same thing.

The entire bases of human mating is that women have their luck of the litter and men compete to be chosen.

Look at all the threads how 90% of men can’t even get a message back. The competition is unbelievable

It’s not the same, but for you to just outright say “men are under the same pressure” when it comes to competition is just wrong

It's not completely wrong though because she didn't say men aren't under any pressure, she said men aren't under the same pressure.

The very simple reason men can't often get replies is because there is just more men than women on this site, it's very basic maths.

Very basic maths that results in an unbelievable competitive situation.

To just write that off? That men aren’t under the same pressure of trying to be a desirable partner "

That isn't what was being said though so I think you need to read what Meli wrote again.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Sometimes they don't like another woman because they're not compatible, they think that woman is a bit of a twunt, or she acts like one.

That's not directed at you by the way OP! I'm just tired of reading this idea women are and need to be in competition with each other constantly. Men aren't under the same pressure.

I dunno what world you live in but men are absolutely under the exact same things

Just because you don’t experience it doesn’t mean we don’t

This world. The same one in which you're typing your opinion on a Saturday night much like I am.

Men are under pressure but not the exact same thing.

The entire bases of human mating is that women have their luck of the litter and men compete to be chosen.

Look at all the threads how 90% of men can’t even get a message back. The competition is unbelievable

It’s not the same, but for you to just outright say “men are under the same pressure” when it comes to competition is just wrong

It's not completely wrong though because she didn't say men aren't under any pressure, she said men aren't under the same pressure.

The very simple reason men can't often get replies is because there is just more men than women on this site, it's very basic maths.

Very basic maths that results in an unbelievable competitive situation.

To just write that off? That men aren’t under the same pressure of trying to be a desirable partner

That isn't what was being said though so I think you need to read what Meli wrote again."

I’ve read it and that’s how I’ve taken it. That men aren’t under pressure at all

“ I'm just tired of reading this idea women are and need to be in competition with each other constantly. Men aren't under the same pressure”

We literally are though? We are in constant pressure with each other over everything.

Just because you don’t see it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes they don't like another woman because they're not compatible, they think that woman is a bit of a twunt, or she acts like one.

That's not directed at you by the way OP! I'm just tired of reading this idea women are and need to be in competition with each other constantly. Men aren't under the same pressure.

I dunno what world you live in but men are absolutely under the exact same things

Just because you don’t experience it doesn’t mean we don’t

This world. The same one in which you're typing your opinion on a Saturday night much like I am.

Men are under pressure but not the exact same thing.

The entire bases of human mating is that women have their luck of the litter and men compete to be chosen.

Look at all the threads how 90% of men can’t even get a message back. The competition is unbelievable

It’s not the same, but for you to just outright say “men are under the same pressure” when it comes to competition is just wrong "

Mate I don’t feel I have to compete with anybody and why are we under pressure exactly ? Pal I bounce on here to relive my stress maybe your thinking far to deep in to this place !

Less trying to understand the magic formula for getting attention cause there isn’t one and just enjoy urself

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Sometimes they don't like another woman because they're not compatible, they think that woman is a bit of a twunt, or she acts like one.

That's not directed at you by the way OP! I'm just tired of reading this idea women are and need to be in competition with each other constantly. Men aren't under the same pressure.

I dunno what world you live in but men are absolutely under the exact same things

Just because you don’t experience it doesn’t mean we don’t

This world. The same one in which you're typing your opinion on a Saturday night much like I am.

Men are under pressure but not the exact same thing.

The entire bases of human mating is that women have their luck of the litter and men compete to be chosen.

Look at all the threads how 90% of men can’t even get a message back. The competition is unbelievable

It’s not the same, but for you to just outright say “men are under the same pressure” when it comes to competition is just wrong

Mate I don’t feel I have to compete with anybody and why are we under pressure exactly ? Pal I bounce on here to relive my stress maybe your thinking far to deep in to this place !

Less trying to understand the magic formula for getting attention cause there isn’t one and just enjoy urself "

I’m not here to meet so no pressure on here, but to pretend that no men face competition/pressure with other guys is a little ridiculous