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By *oeofsussex OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne

I’ve never been able to figure out why Ron ever had a career as a porn star. He always looked the sort of overweight dodgy bloke that all the women I’ve ever known would be all too happy to avoid.

Some people must think he’s amazing I imagine! In his chosen industry he seems to have crossed several red lines and so he’s in the dock. Just curious to see what people think. Are reactions going to divide into all the guys saying “Well it’s porn so the rules don’t count” and all the women saying “Shut him up and throw away the key”? Are there any subtle nuances in any of the arguments and should the moral code of normal life still apply in the naturally sordid and murky underworld of porn? Is there a moral maze to untangle here?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I only read the statement from one accuser and if I’m honest it seemed like a lot of grey area.

I think it’s best to wait for more statements before making a decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No mean no

No matter what

Normal

Porn

Escort

No means no

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We have a bottle of his signature rum that we got as a gift. Keepsake or trash?

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By *oeofsussex OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"We have a bottle of his signature rum that we got as a gift. Keepsake or trash?"

Are you sure it reads Rum and not Cum????

Check the label carefully! Maybe the font is confusing!

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By *inkyeroticaCouple
over a year ago

Ampthill


"I’ve never been able to figure out why Ron ever had a career as a porn star. He always looked the sort of overweight dodgy bloke that all the women I’ve ever known would be all too happy to avoid. "

By way of background I (C) have worked in porn in a variety of roles, off camera.

Ron Jeremy had two key attributes. Firstly, his physical appearance isn’t threatening to guys. By that I mean guys can watch films with him in it without feeling inferior. The attitude of “if he can then I’m in with a shout” kinda thing. Secondly, when a cum shot is required, he’s 109% reliable.

I’ve yet to bite the documentary on iPlayer, but in answering your questions… on set, the golden rule was don’t touch the talent. It applies across the industry. Anytime I’ve had to tuck away or remove labels, straighten stockings, align garments it is only done so with the expressed invitation / consent of the model.

Being a porn star doesn’t excuse you from proper behaviour, regardless of where you are or who you are with. Societal norms apply.

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"No mean no

No matter what

Normal

Porn

Escort

No means no "

Actually this partly untrue…somebody doesn’t necessarily needs to state “No” depending on the situation itself, non consensual sexual acts have been highlighted quite a lot in recent media, where the accuser hasn’t said no but convictions have been made, in the basis it wasn’t consensual.

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By *oeofsussex OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"I’ve never been able to figure out why Ron ever had a career as a porn star. He always looked the sort of overweight dodgy bloke that all the women I’ve ever known would be all too happy to avoid.

By way of background I (C) have worked in porn in a variety of roles, off camera.

Ron Jeremy had two key attributes. Firstly, his physical appearance isn’t threatening to guys. By that I mean guys can watch films with him in it without feeling inferior. The attitude of “if he can then I’m in with a shout” kinda thing. Secondly, when a cum shot is required, he’s 109% reliable.

I’ve yet to bite the documentary on iPlayer, but in answering your questions… on set, the golden rule was don’t touch the talent. It applies across the industry. Anytime I’ve had to tuck away or remove labels, straighten stockings, align garments it is only done so with the expressed invitation / consent of the model.

Being a porn star doesn’t excuse you from proper behaviour, regardless of where you are or who you are with. Societal norms apply. "

Interesting viewpoint - though I do wonder if you’re working in porn how you control yourself to not touch the talent - especially as you know they’re there presumably cos they love sex themselves. I suppose it’s why I don’t work in a cake shop - I know I’d just keep eating all the cake myself... with dire consequences for my health. But if, in another life I was a porn star - well, who’s ever heard of sex being bad for your health!!

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"We have a bottle of his signature rum that we got as a gift. Keepsake or trash?"

Feels like it might have a place next to artwork by Rolf Harris

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"I’ve never been able to figure out why Ron ever had a career as a porn star. He always looked the sort of overweight dodgy bloke that all the women I’ve ever known would be all too happy to avoid.

By way of background I (C) have worked in porn in a variety of roles, off camera.

Ron Jeremy had two key attributes. Firstly, his physical appearance isn’t threatening to guys. By that I mean guys can watch films with him in it without feeling inferior. The attitude of “if he can then I’m in with a shout” kinda thing. Secondly, when a cum shot is required, he’s 109% reliable.

I’ve yet to bite the documentary on iPlayer, but in answering your questions… on set, the golden rule was don’t touch the talent. It applies across the industry. Anytime I’ve had to tuck away or remove labels, straighten stockings, align garments it is only done so with the expressed invitation / consent of the model.

Being a porn star doesn’t excuse you from proper behaviour, regardless of where you are or who you are with. Societal norms apply.

Interesting viewpoint - though I do wonder if you’re working in porn how you control yourself to not touch the talent - especially as you know they’re there presumably cos they love sex themselves. I suppose it’s why I don’t work in a cake shop - I know I’d just keep eating all the cake myself... with dire consequences for my health. But if, in another life I was a porn star - well, who’s ever heard of sex being bad for your health!! "

I’ll be honest

I don’t think “I couldn’t resist it” is it ever was an excuse to touch someone without consent

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"I’ve never been able to figure out why Ron ever had a career as a porn star. He always looked the sort of overweight dodgy bloke that all the women I’ve ever known would be all too happy to avoid.

By way of background I (C) have worked in porn in a variety of roles, off camera.

Ron Jeremy had two key attributes. Firstly, his physical appearance isn’t threatening to guys. By that I mean guys can watch films with him in it without feeling inferior. The attitude of “if he can then I’m in with a shout” kinda thing. Secondly, when a cum shot is required, he’s 109% reliable.

I’ve yet to bite the documentary on iPlayer, but in answering your questions… on set, the golden rule was don’t touch the talent. It applies across the industry. Anytime I’ve had to tuck away or remove labels, straighten stockings, align garments it is only done so with the expressed invitation / consent of the model.

Being a porn star doesn’t excuse you from proper behaviour, regardless of where you are or who you are with. Societal norms apply.

Interesting viewpoint - though I do wonder if you’re working in porn how you control yourself to not touch the talent - especially as you know they’re there presumably cos they love sex themselves. I suppose it’s why I don’t work in a cake shop - I know I’d just keep eating all the cake myself... with dire consequences for my health. But if, in another life I was a porn star - well, who’s ever heard of sex being bad for your health!! "

Watch a making of (mainstream) porn documentary …it’s not what you think. We see the end (heavily edited) product ..that’s not to say they’re aren’t moments of enjoyment for the parties involved - but it’s not the orgasm fest it might appear to be….

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I’ve never been able to figure out why Ron ever had a career as a porn star. He always looked the sort of overweight dodgy bloke that all the women I’ve ever known would be all too happy to avoid.

By way of background I (C) have worked in porn in a variety of roles, off camera.

Ron Jeremy had two key attributes. Firstly, his physical appearance isn’t threatening to guys. By that I mean guys can watch films with him in it without feeling inferior. The attitude of “if he can then I’m in with a shout” kinda thing. Secondly, when a cum shot is required, he’s 109% reliable.

I’ve yet to bite the documentary on iPlayer, but in answering your questions… on set, the golden rule was don’t touch the talent. It applies across the industry. Anytime I’ve had to tuck away or remove labels, straighten stockings, align garments it is only done so with the expressed invitation / consent of the model.

Being a porn star doesn’t excuse you from proper behaviour, regardless of where you are or who you are with. Societal norms apply. "

I now read that even during sex scenes in mainstream films they have new rules. Only people on set that have to be in attendance and a person who’s job is to ensure both parties are comfortable with the act they’re portraying. They have a specific job title that I can’t remember off the top of my head.

But it’s interesting reading your comments that this is standard practice in porn as well. As you’d reasonably expect anyway.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

No idea what you are asking

Op

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Not sure about Ron. Grew up watching his films, used to be passed around the school mates on vhs.

I think Ron may have been too big for his boots and used abused his position with other ladies.

They maybe porn stars but they have a right to say no and does not give people a right to have a touch, stick their cock in etc.

Maybe Ron didnt know where to draw the line or take no for an answer.

Him

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

He appeared in both the first hardcore magazine and video I ever saw. A man of his times with a decent cock and ability to shoot a good load on cue.

No idea what’s become of him. If he’s been a naughty boy then it’s shameful . He joins a pantheon of fallen heroes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No mean no

No matter what

Normal

Porn

Escort

No means no

Actually this partly untrue…somebody doesn’t necessarily needs to state “No” depending on the situation itself, non consensual sexual acts have been highlighted quite a lot in recent media, where the accuser hasn’t said no but convictions have been made, in the basis it wasn’t consensual."

Still the same concept if it’s unwanted no matter what you do for a liveing then it’s a no

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Watched a few of his and Peter North’s films back in the day (they were my then boyfriends films). To be honest their cock was the main feature not their faces. The women were the super HOT HOT HOT ones, usually.

The allegations are unpleasant. And if he’s found guilty then I hope he’s dealt with accordingly.

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"I’ve never been able to figure out why Ron ever had a career as a porn star. He always looked the sort of overweight dodgy bloke that all the women I’ve ever known would be all too happy to avoid.

By way of background I (C) have worked in porn in a variety of roles, off camera.

Ron Jeremy had two key attributes. Firstly, his physical appearance isn’t threatening to guys. By that I mean guys can watch films with him in it without feeling inferior. The attitude of “if he can then I’m in with a shout” kinda thing. Secondly, when a cum shot is required, he’s 109% reliable.

I’ve yet to bite the documentary on iPlayer, but in answering your questions… on set, the golden rule was don’t touch the talent. It applies across the industry. Anytime I’ve had to tuck away or remove labels, straighten stockings, align garments it is only done so with the expressed invitation / consent of the model.

Being a porn star doesn’t excuse you from proper behaviour, regardless of where you are or who you are with. Societal norms apply.

Interesting viewpoint - though I do wonder if you’re working in porn how you control yourself to not touch the talent - especially as you know they’re there presumably cos they love sex themselves. I suppose it’s why I don’t work in a cake shop - I know I’d just keep eating all the cake myself... with dire consequences for my health. But if, in another life I was a porn star - well, who’s ever heard of sex being bad for your health!! "

I’m pretty sure that most sign up to it for the money and not a love of sex!

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"No mean no

No matter what

Normal

Porn

Escort

No means no

Actually this partly untrue…somebody doesn’t necessarily needs to state “No” depending on the situation itself, non consensual sexual acts have been highlighted quite a lot in recent media, where the accuser hasn’t said no but convictions have been made, in the basis it wasn’t consensual.

Still the same concept if it’s unwanted no matter what you do for a liveing then it’s a no "

It actually is not as straight cut as saying NO so it’s not the same thing, you stated NO means no….plenty of victims have not said “No”. This was the point we was making…you just brushed straight over it.

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By *oeofsussex OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"I’ve never been able to figure out why Ron ever had a career as a porn star. He always looked the sort of overweight dodgy bloke that all the women I’ve ever known would be all too happy to avoid.

By way of background I (C) have worked in porn in a variety of roles, off camera.

Ron Jeremy had two key attributes. Firstly, his physical appearance isn’t threatening to guys. By that I mean guys can watch films with him in it without feeling inferior. The attitude of “if he can then I’m in with a shout” kinda thing. Secondly, when a cum shot is required, he’s 109% reliable.

I’ve yet to bite the documentary on iPlayer, but in answering your questions… on set, the golden rule was don’t touch the talent. It applies across the industry. Anytime I’ve had to tuck away or remove labels, straighten stockings, align garments it is only done so with the expressed invitation / consent of the model.

Being a porn star doesn’t excuse you from proper behaviour, regardless of where you are or who you are with. Societal norms apply.

Interesting viewpoint - though I do wonder if you’re working in porn how you control yourself to not touch the talent - especially as you know they’re there presumably cos they love sex themselves. I suppose it’s why I don’t work in a cake shop - I know I’d just keep eating all the cake myself... with dire consequences for my health. But if, in another life I was a porn star - well, who’s ever heard of sex being bad for your health!!

I’m pretty sure that most sign up to it for the money and not a love of sex!"

Well you don’t apply to work at Tescos cos you love stacking shelves I assume - but if you take the decision to go into porn it’s not like you say to yourself “Yep I know I hate having sex but I really like the money”! There isn’t a lot of money in it these days so it’s now mainly for people who just like showing off and screwing other hot people.

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"No mean no

No matter what

Normal

Porn

Escort

No means no

Actually this partly untrue…somebody doesn’t necessarily needs to state “No” depending on the situation itself, non consensual sexual acts have been highlighted quite a lot in recent media, where the accuser hasn’t said no but convictions have been made, in the basis it wasn’t consensual.

Still the same concept if it’s unwanted no matter what you do for a liveing then it’s a no

It actually is not as straight cut as saying NO so it’s not the same thing, you stated NO means no….plenty of victims have not said “No”. This was the point we was making…you just brushed straight over it. "

It's a good point.

There's also a movement for changing the law to a position where it covers acts that simply can't be consented to. I think it's called 'we can't consent to this', or something like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No mean no

No matter what

Normal

Porn

Escort

No means no

Actually this partly untrue…somebody doesn’t necessarily needs to state “No” depending on the situation itself, non consensual sexual acts have been highlighted quite a lot in recent media, where the accuser hasn’t said no but convictions have been made, in the basis it wasn’t consensual.

Still the same concept if it’s unwanted no matter what you do for a liveing then it’s a no

It actually is not as straight cut as saying NO so it’s not the same thing, you stated NO means no….plenty of victims have not said “No”. This was the point we was making…you just brushed straight over it. "

I didn’t brush over it

The point I am makeing is no is all that should be need no one should be victims as no means no simple as

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"No mean no

No matter what

Normal

Porn

Escort

No means no

Actually this partly untrue…somebody doesn’t necessarily needs to state “No” depending on the situation itself, non consensual sexual acts have been highlighted quite a lot in recent media, where the accuser hasn’t said no but convictions have been made, in the basis it wasn’t consensual.

Still the same concept if it’s unwanted no matter what you do for a liveing then it’s a no

It actually is not as straight cut as saying NO so it’s not the same thing, you stated NO means no….plenty of victims have not said “No”. This was the point we was making…you just brushed straight over it.

I didn’t brush over it

The point I am makeing is no is all that should be need no one should be victims as no means no simple as "

penny still hasn’t dropped but we’re bored now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No mean no

No matter what

Normal

Porn

Escort

No means no

Actually this partly untrue…somebody doesn’t necessarily needs to state “No” depending on the situation itself, non consensual sexual acts have been highlighted quite a lot in recent media, where the accuser hasn’t said no but convictions have been made, in the basis it wasn’t consensual.

Still the same concept if it’s unwanted no matter what you do for a liveing then it’s a no

It actually is not as straight cut as saying NO so it’s not the same thing, you stated NO means no….plenty of victims have not said “No”. This was the point we was making…you just brushed straight over it.

I didn’t brush over it

The point I am makeing is no is all that should be need no one should be victims as no means no simple as

penny still hasn’t dropped but we’re bored now "

What penny penny from the Big Bang theory is that the penny your talking about

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By *oeofsussex OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Keep it nice guys - I like to keep my threads like a fun sex party rather than a brawl!

I think the points being made are that no means no. Also, if no can’t be said, that’s an implicit no. And if no could be said, but isn’t explicitly stated, that it still doesn’t amount to consent or a ‘yes’ and therefore can be interpreted as a no.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I always got a creeepy vibe from him when I saw him in a behind the scenes thing, and he's been the subject of more than one documentary before all this came out. The guy obviously thought he was above basic decency rules due to his profession and the fame he got. Hope he goes away for a long time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never been able to figure out why Ron ever had a career as a porn star. He always looked the sort of overweight dodgy bloke that all the women I’ve ever known would be all too happy to avoid.

By way of background I (C) have worked in porn in a variety of roles, off camera.

Ron Jeremy had two key attributes. Firstly, his physical appearance isn’t threatening to guys. By that I mean guys can watch films with him in it without feeling inferior. The attitude of “if he can then I’m in with a shout” kinda thing. Secondly, when a cum shot is required, he’s 109% reliable.

I’ve yet to bite the documentary on iPlayer, but in answering your questions… on set, the golden rule was don’t touch the talent. It applies across the industry. Anytime I’ve had to tuck away or remove labels, straighten stockings, align garments it is only done so with the expressed invitation / consent of the model.

Being a porn star doesn’t excuse you from proper behaviour, regardless of where you are or who you are with. Societal norms apply.

Interesting viewpoint - though I do wonder if you’re working in porn how you control yourself to not touch the talent - especially as you know they’re there presumably cos they love sex themselves. I suppose it’s why I don’t work in a cake shop - I know I’d just keep eating all the cake myself... with dire consequences for my health. But if, in another life I was a porn star - well, who’s ever heard of sex being bad for your health!! "

What the heck??!! Don't ever go to a Swingers club if you don't know how to control yourself!!

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"No mean no

No matter what

Normal

Porn

Escort

No means no

Actually this partly untrue…somebody doesn’t necessarily needs to state “No” depending on the situation itself, non consensual sexual acts have been highlighted quite a lot in recent media, where the accuser hasn’t said no but convictions have been made, in the basis it wasn’t consensual.

Still the same concept if it’s unwanted no matter what you do for a liveing then it’s a no

It actually is not as straight cut as saying NO so it’s not the same thing, you stated NO means no….plenty of victims have not said “No”. This was the point we was making…you just brushed straight over it.

I didn’t brush over it

The point I am makeing is no is all that should be need no one should be victims as no means no simple as

penny still hasn’t dropped but we’re bored now

What penny penny from the Big Bang theory is that the penny your talking about "

Easy dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No mean no

No matter what

Normal

Porn

Escort

No means no

Actually this partly untrue…somebody doesn’t necessarily needs to state “No” depending on the situation itself, non consensual sexual acts have been highlighted quite a lot in recent media, where the accuser hasn’t said no but convictions have been made, in the basis it wasn’t consensual.

Still the same concept if it’s unwanted no matter what you do for a liveing then it’s a no

It actually is not as straight cut as saying NO so it’s not the same thing, you stated NO means no….plenty of victims have not said “No”. This was the point we was making…you just brushed straight over it.

I didn’t brush over it

The point I am makeing is no is all that should be need no one should be victims as no means no simple as

penny still hasn’t dropped but we’re bored now

What penny penny from the Big Bang theory is that the penny your talking about

Easy dude "

Your attempt at trolling isn’t very good at all to be honest

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"No mean no

No matter what

Normal

Porn

Escort

No means no

Actually this partly untrue…somebody doesn’t necessarily needs to state “No” depending on the situation itself, non consensual sexual acts have been highlighted quite a lot in recent media, where the accuser hasn’t said no but convictions have been made, in the basis it wasn’t consensual.

Still the same concept if it’s unwanted no matter what you do for a liveing then it’s a no

It actually is not as straight cut as saying NO so it’s not the same thing, you stated NO means no….plenty of victims have not said “No”. This was the point we was making…you just brushed straight over it.

I didn’t brush over it

The point I am makeing is no is all that should be need no one should be victims as no means no simple as

penny still hasn’t dropped but we’re bored now

What penny penny from the Big Bang theory is that the penny your talking about

Easy dude

Your attempt at trolling isn’t very good at all to be honest "

No trolling what so ever just stating facts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No mean no

No matter what

Normal

Porn

Escort

No means no

Actually this partly untrue…somebody doesn’t necessarily needs to state “No” depending on the situation itself, non consensual sexual acts have been highlighted quite a lot in recent media, where the accuser hasn’t said no but convictions have been made, in the basis it wasn’t consensual.

Still the same concept if it’s unwanted no matter what you do for a liveing then it’s a no

It actually is not as straight cut as saying NO so it’s not the same thing, you stated NO means no….plenty of victims have not said “No”. This was the point we was making…you just brushed straight over it.

I didn’t brush over it

The point I am makeing is no is all that should be need no one should be victims as no means no simple as

penny still hasn’t dropped but we’re bored now

What penny penny from the Big Bang theory is that the penny your talking about

Easy dude

Your attempt at trolling isn’t very good at all to be honest

No trolling what so ever just stating facts "

And so am I no means no simple as

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"No mean no

No matter what

Normal

Porn

Escort

No means no

Actually this partly untrue…somebody doesn’t necessarily needs to state “No” depending on the situation itself, non consensual sexual acts have been highlighted quite a lot in recent media, where the accuser hasn’t said no but convictions have been made, in the basis it wasn’t consensual.

Still the same concept if it’s unwanted no matter what you do for a liveing then it’s a no

It actually is not as straight cut as saying NO so it’s not the same thing, you stated NO means no….plenty of victims have not said “No”. This was the point we was making…you just brushed straight over it.

I didn’t brush over it

The point I am makeing is no is all that should be need no one should be victims as no means no simple as

penny still hasn’t dropped but we’re bored now

What penny penny from the Big Bang theory is that the penny your talking about

Easy dude

Your attempt at trolling isn’t very good at all to be honest

No trolling what so ever just stating facts

And so am I no means no simple as "

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By *oeofsussex OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"I’ve never been able to figure out why Ron ever had a career as a porn star. He always looked the sort of overweight dodgy bloke that all the women I’ve ever known would be all too happy to avoid.

By way of background I (C) have worked in porn in a variety of roles, off camera.

Ron Jeremy had two key attributes. Firstly, his physical appearance isn’t threatening to guys. By that I mean guys can watch films with him in it without feeling inferior. The attitude of “if he can then I’m in with a shout” kinda thing. Secondly, when a cum shot is required, he’s 109% reliable.

I’ve yet to bite the documentary on iPlayer, but in answering your questions… on set, the golden rule was don’t touch the talent. It applies across the industry. Anytime I’ve had to tuck away or remove labels, straighten stockings, align garments it is only done so with the expressed invitation / consent of the model.

Being a porn star doesn’t excuse you from proper behaviour, regardless of where you are or who you are with. Societal norms apply.

Interesting viewpoint - though I do wonder if you’re working in porn how you control yourself to not touch the talent - especially as you know they’re there presumably cos they love sex themselves. I suppose it’s why I don’t work in a cake shop - I know I’d just keep eating all the cake myself... with dire consequences for my health. But if, in another life I was a porn star - well, who’s ever heard of sex being bad for your health!!

What the heck??!! Don't ever go to a Swingers club if you don't know how to control yourself!! "

I’ve been to Swingers clubs and controlled myself perfectly well thank you! My hypothetical point was that, in a professional porn situation where, as a man, you are presumably hired as a sex-God to shag a hot-as-fuck sex-Goddess and you’re both presumably in your early 20’s and dying to get going, it must be a Herculean task to resist temptation.

I’m only guessing. I am no sex-God and have never had a sex-Goddess and never had any sex until well into my 30’s so my question is merely theoretical!!

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Why, what has he done?

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By *oeofsussex OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne

I must admit if you’re in the sex-fuelled world of the porn industry it must be very difficult to keep to the normal rules when everyone is horny or at least looking horny! I often think it’s an industry I’d have loved to have worked in. Part of the fun is, of course, like any actors, they have to do months of rehearsals beforehand. Imagine months of rehearsals leading up to the shooting if a film where you just have sex all the time and get paid for it! What’s not to like eh?!

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By *oeofsussex OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"Why, what has he done?"

He’s not the Messiah, he’s a very naughty boy!

No, he was on Radio 4 news yesterday - he’s in court charged with multiple offences from unwanted groping to r&pe. .

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Why, what has he done?

He’s not the Messiah, he’s a very naughty boy!

No, he was on Radio 4 news yesterday - he’s in court charged with multiple offences from unwanted groping to r&pe. . "

He must stand trial then. Just like anyone else.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Whether a girl works in the porn industry or nay, there are times and places and you be professional. He was a self confessed groper and lech and it shouldn't be tolerated. There's a great documentary on BBC iPlayer, that's still on there, I've watched recently about this very subject I recommend.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Innocent until proven guilty

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I’ve never been able to figure out why Ron ever had a career as a porn star. He always looked the sort of overweight dodgy bloke that all the women I’ve ever known would be all too happy to avoid.

By way of background I (C) have worked in porn in a variety of roles, off camera.

Ron Jeremy had two key attributes. Firstly, his physical appearance isn’t threatening to guys. By that I mean guys can watch films with him in it without feeling inferior. The attitude of “if he can then I’m in with a shout” kinda thing. Secondly, when a cum shot is required, he’s 109% reliable.

I’ve yet to bite the documentary on iPlayer, but in answering your questions… on set, the golden rule was don’t touch the talent. It applies across the industry. Anytime I’ve had to tuck away or remove labels, straighten stockings, align garments it is only done so with the expressed invitation / consent of the model.

Being a porn star doesn’t excuse you from proper behaviour, regardless of where you are or who you are with. Societal norms apply.

Interesting viewpoint - though I do wonder if you’re working in porn how you control yourself to not touch the talent - especially as you know they’re there presumably cos they love sex themselves. I suppose it’s why I don’t work in a cake shop - I know I’d just keep eating all the cake myself... with dire consequences for my health. But if, in another life I was a porn star - well, who’s ever heard of sex being bad for your health!! "

Pretty sure they're there for the money, not for the performative sex, especially when you look at hetero actors who are gay for pay.

It's a job, not a free-for-all fuckfest.

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By *oeofsussex OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"I’ve never been able to figure out why Ron ever had a career as a porn star. He always looked the sort of overweight dodgy bloke that all the women I’ve ever known would be all too happy to avoid.

By way of background I (C) have worked in porn in a variety of roles, off camera.

Ron Jeremy had two key attributes. Firstly, his physical appearance isn’t threatening to guys. By that I mean guys can watch films with him in it without feeling inferior. The attitude of “if he can then I’m in with a shout” kinda thing. Secondly, when a cum shot is required, he’s 109% reliable.

I’ve yet to bite the documentary on iPlayer, but in answering your questions… on set, the golden rule was don’t touch the talent. It applies across the industry. Anytime I’ve had to tuck away or remove labels, straighten stockings, align garments it is only done so with the expressed invitation / consent of the model.

Being a porn star doesn’t excuse you from proper behaviour, regardless of where you are or who you are with. Societal norms apply.

Interesting viewpoint - though I do wonder if you’re working in porn how you control yourself to not touch the talent - especially as you know they’re there presumably cos they love sex themselves. I suppose it’s why I don’t work in a cake shop - I know I’d just keep eating all the cake myself... with dire consequences for my health. But if, in another life I was a porn star - well, who’s ever heard of sex being bad for your health!!

Pretty sure they're there for the money, not for the performative sex, especially when you look at hetero actors who are gay for pay.

It's a job, not a free-for-all fuckfest."

Well, like any job, you have to be good enough to do it, experienced enough to handle it, and, I believe, in parts of the US, qualified in it too, so it is being raised to the level of a proper profession with degree-level qualifications. So you can actually do a BA or MA in Sexual Performative Practices or SPP for short. Modular courses are available so you can qualify with specialisms in different areas such as oral etc. It’s still quite rare but such things do exist I’m told!

So, yes, it is of course for money. No-one studies Law or politics to be a volunteer! Money is the ultimate goal! But if you didn’t enjoy sex, and apparently some people don’t, you wouldn’t do it, surely!

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"I’ve never been able to figure out why Ron ever had a career as a porn star. He always looked the sort of overweight dodgy bloke that all the women I’ve ever known would be all too happy to avoid.

By way of background I (C) have worked in porn in a variety of roles, off camera.

Ron Jeremy had two key attributes. Firstly, his physical appearance isn’t threatening to guys. By that I mean guys can watch films with him in it without feeling inferior. The attitude of “if he can then I’m in with a shout” kinda thing. Secondly, when a cum shot is required, he’s 109% reliable.

I’ve yet to bite the documentary on iPlayer, but in answering your questions… on set, the golden rule was don’t touch the talent. It applies across the industry. Anytime I’ve had to tuck away or remove labels, straighten stockings, align garments it is only done so with the expressed invitation / consent of the model.

Being a porn star doesn’t excuse you from proper behaviour, regardless of where you are or who you are with. Societal norms apply.

Interesting viewpoint - though I do wonder if you’re working in porn how you control yourself to not touch the talent - especially as you know they’re there presumably cos they love sex themselves. I suppose it’s why I don’t work in a cake shop - I know I’d just keep eating all the cake myself... with dire consequences for my health. But if, in another life I was a porn star - well, who’s ever heard of sex being bad for your health!!

Pretty sure they're there for the money, not for the performative sex, especially when you look at hetero actors who are gay for pay.

It's a job, not a free-for-all fuckfest.

Well, like any job, you have to be good enough to do it, experienced enough to handle it, and, I believe, in parts of the US, qualified in it too, so it is being raised to the level of a proper profession with degree-level qualifications. So you can actually do a BA or MA in Sexual Performative Practices or SPP for short. Modular courses are available so you can qualify with specialisms in different areas such as oral etc. It’s still quite rare but such things do exist I’m told!

So, yes, it is of course for money. No-one studies Law or politics to be a volunteer! Money is the ultimate goal! But if you didn’t enjoy sex, and apparently some people don’t, you wouldn’t do it, surely! "

I don’t enjoy busting my ass on a building site to scrap a living

I’m sure plenty of women don’t enjoy getting their ass bust on a film set to scrap a living

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same thing with James Deen, they are out and out abusers.

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By *oeofsussex OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"Same thing with James Deen, they are out and out abusers.

"

Yep he always looks like he has a real sense of entitlement to pussy! Arrogant dick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must admit if you’re in the sex-fuelled world of the porn industry it must be very difficult to keep to the normal rules when everyone is horny or at least looking horny! I often think it’s an industry I’d have loved to have worked in. Part of the fun is, of course, like any actors, they have to do months of rehearsals beforehand. Imagine months of rehearsals leading up to the shooting if a film where you just have sex all the time and get paid for it! What’s not to like eh?! "

So you think it's ok for women in porn to abused? "It's very difficult to keep to the normal rules when everyone is looking horny...."

Worrying and creepy.

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By *oeofsussex OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"I must admit if you’re in the sex-fuelled world of the porn industry it must be very difficult to keep to the normal rules when everyone is horny or at least looking horny! I often think it’s an industry I’d have loved to have worked in. Part of the fun is, of course, like any actors, they have to do months of rehearsals beforehand. Imagine months of rehearsals leading up to the shooting if a film where you just have sex all the time and get paid for it! What’s not to like eh?!

So you think it's ok for women in porn to abused? "It's very difficult to keep to the normal rules when everyone is looking horny...."

Worrying and creepy."

Not what I said... “It MUST be difficult...” and I never wrote a thing about it being okay for women in porn to be abused - your words not mine!!!! If you’re going to strike a criticism at least build your arguments based on what I have written and not what you think I’ve written!

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By *inkyeroticaCouple
over a year ago

Ampthill


"I must admit if you’re in the sex-fuelled world of the porn industry it must be very difficult to keep to the normal rules when everyone is horny or at least looking horny!"

It’s not… at least not if you know how to conduct yourself. Like, if you’re a decent individual!

The finished product may look sexy, but a porn set is lots of hard work, to tight deadlines, and very pressured. It’s creating and selling a fantasy. I mean, nobody can get a plumber that quickly in real life!

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By *oeofsussex OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"It’s not… at least not if you know how to conduct yourself. Like, if you’re a decent individual!!"

And there is the question... does the porn industry attract decent individuals or sleazebags like Rod Jeremy!

I’ll leave that question hanging...

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

I think its quite simple - consent can be given and also removed at any point. No

Means no.

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By *inkyeroticaCouple
over a year ago

Ampthill


"And there is the question... does the porn industry attract decent individuals or sleazebags like Rod Jeremy!"

Like every industry and sector, all mankind is found in the ranks. I’ve met decent and indecent in every walk of life, including religious people.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Back in the 70s he wasn't fat and he was reasonably good looking.

Yeah he didn't watch his weight as he got older and didn't have to as it became his gimmick.

He probably was used to getting whatever he wanted and that dried up as he got older.

Sad state of affairs if he's guilty.

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By *inkyeroticaCouple
over a year ago

Ampthill


"Part of the fun is, of course, like any actors, they have to do months of rehearsals beforehand. Imagine months of rehearsals leading up to the shooting if a film where you just have sex all the time and get paid for it! What’s not to like eh?! "

Your idea on how the porn industry operates is… incorrect. It isn’t Hollywood. There aren’t months of rehearsals, least of all for the sex scenes. Budgets are low! Timescales are tight. And the actors see it as a job. They don’t always get on.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Watched a few of his and Peter North’s films back in the day (they were my then boyfriends films). To be honest their cock was the main feature not their faces. The women were the super HOT HOT HOT ones, usually.

The allegations are unpleasant. And if he’s found guilty then I hope he’s dealt with accordingly. "

Peter North! That guy's cock was a cum trebuchet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No mean no

No matter what

Normal

Porn

Escort

No means no

Actually this partly untrue…somebody doesn’t necessarily needs to state “No” depending on the situation itself, non consensual sexual acts have been highlighted quite a lot in recent media, where the accuser hasn’t said no but convictions have been made, in the basis it wasn’t consensual."

But if they say it.....it means "No"

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Part of the fun is, of course, like any actors, they have to do months of rehearsals beforehand. Imagine months of rehearsals leading up to the shooting if a film where you just have sex all the time and get paid for it! What’s not to like eh?!

Your idea on how the porn industry operates is… incorrect. It isn’t Hollywood. There aren’t months of rehearsals, least of all for the sex scenes. Budgets are low! Timescales are tight. And the actors see it as a job. They don’t always get on."

Which production companies did you work for ?

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

OP. Your view of the porn industry does seem to come straight out of ‘a Confessions of a pornstar’ like 1970s movie. Idealised fantasy rather than reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never been able to figure out why Ron ever had a career as a porn star. He always looked the sort of overweight dodgy bloke that all the women I’ve ever known would be all too happy to avoid.

By way of background I (C) have worked in porn in a variety of roles, off camera.

Ron Jeremy had two key attributes. Firstly, his physical appearance isn’t threatening to guys. By that I mean guys can watch films with him in it without feeling inferior. The attitude of “if he can then I’m in with a shout” kinda thing. Secondly, when a cum shot is required, he’s 109% reliable.

I’ve yet to bite the documentary on iPlayer, but in answering your questions… on set, the golden rule was don’t touch the talent. It applies across the industry. Anytime I’ve had to tuck away or remove labels, straighten stockings, align garments it is only done so with the expressed invitation / consent of the model.

Being a porn star doesn’t excuse you from proper behaviour, regardless of where you are or who you are with. Societal norms apply.

Interesting viewpoint - though I do wonder if you’re working in porn how you control yourself to not touch the talent - especially as you know they’re there presumably cos they love sex themselves. I suppose it’s why I don’t work in a cake shop - I know I’d just keep eating all the cake myself... with dire consequences for my health. But if, in another life I was a porn star - well, who’s ever heard of sex being bad for your health!! "

Because people aren't cake...

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By *inkyeroticaCouple
over a year ago

Ampthill


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Which production companies did you work for ?"

Freelance… like most in the industry.

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By *oeofsussex OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"I’ve never been able to figure out why Ron ever had a career as a porn star. He always looked the sort of overweight dodgy bloke that all the women I’ve ever known would be all too happy to avoid.

By way of background I (C) have worked in porn in a variety of roles, off camera.

Ron Jeremy had two key attributes. Firstly, his physical appearance isn’t threatening to guys. By that I mean guys can watch films with him in it without feeling inferior. The attitude of “if he can then I’m in with a shout” kinda thing. Secondly, when a cum shot is required, he’s 109% reliable.

I’ve yet to bite the documentary on iPlayer, but in answering your questions… on set, the golden rule was don’t touch the talent. It applies across the industry. Anytime I’ve had to tuck away or remove labels, straighten stockings, align garments it is only done so with the expressed invitation / consent of the model.

Being a porn star doesn’t excuse you from proper behaviour, regardless of where you are or who you are with. Societal norms apply.

Interesting viewpoint - though I do wonder if you’re working in porn how you control yourself to not touch the talent - especially as you know they’re there presumably cos they love sex themselves. I suppose it’s why I don’t work in a cake shop - I know I’d just keep eating all the cake myself... with dire consequences for my health. But if, in another life I was a porn star - well, who’s ever heard of sex being bad for your health!!

Because people aren't cake... "

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