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"Dont lose sleep over it. If anyone thinks that verifications equal how many sexual partners someone has had they are very silly. And if someone judges you on it... dont worry about it. Its them not you" oh just realized who you are! Will need to sort a veri | |||
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"I've was talking to a couple on here for a while and things were going well, but then Mr claimed I'd misled them and that "the wife would go spare" if she saw how many verifications I had. I've got 15 verifications. Some of those are from social meets and some are duplicates from repeat meets. But I don't think 11 sexual partners is particularly excessive by Fab standards. And this was a couple who insisted on experienced partners. This feeds into another thread a few days ago by a woman who was put off by otherwise 'super hot' men who have sex videos/pictures on their profiles. It seems like a bit of a Fab paradox; people want their partners to be experienced and desirable yet simultaneously very exclusive and virginal. Thoughts?" Or they want to meet discreet, private, respectful people. It's not necessarily about being virginal. | |||
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"Maximum 4 published/ visible veris. " why? | |||
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"I think they've changed their mind about meeting you and used the amount of veris as an excuse." Good point! Lots of people do that ! Not judging them tho, don’t get me wrong. They might find it easier to refuse someone in a nice way . Even me as a single male i find it hard to tell someone “sorry! Not my type” sometimes just because they might seem very nice and I don’t want them to take my refusal as an offence | |||
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"I’d like to know what people that say you have too many will do when they get to that number. Do they just quit swinging? " Brilliant | |||
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"I’d like to know what people that say you have too many will do when they get to that number. Do they just quit swinging? " Ha ha, yeah! I bet he's a HR manager - must have 5 years experience to do an entry level job! | |||
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"I've was talking to a couple on here for a while and things were going well, but then Mr claimed I'd misled them and that "the wife would go spare" if she saw how many verifications I had. I've got 15 verifications. Some of those are from social meets and some are duplicates from repeat meets. But I don't think 11 sexual partners is particularly excessive by Fab standards. And this was a couple who insisted on experienced partners. This feeds into another thread a few days ago by a woman who was put off by otherwise 'super hot' men who have sex videos/pictures on their profiles. It seems like a bit of a Fab paradox; people want their partners to be experienced and desirable yet simultaneously very exclusive and virginal. Thoughts?" Too many is 355 - which apparently is the number I’ve got according to my summary. | |||
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"Maximum 4 published/ visible veris. why? " I prefer private people. 3,000 hidden veris - fine. There's life outside Fab. Verification number means nothing. | |||
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"Maximum 4 published/ visible veris. why? I prefer private people. 3,000 hidden veris - fine. There's life outside Fab. Verification number means nothing. " no verification numbers don't but we all use the site differently. I have not got all mine on show. Some are too graphic for instance. But it doesnt bother me if someone has 1 or a thousand verifications | |||
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"Maximum 4 published/ visible veris. why? I prefer private people. 3,000 hidden veris - fine. There's life outside Fab. Verification number means nothing. no verification numbers don't but we all use the site differently. I have not got all mine on show. Some are too graphic for instance. But it doesnt bother me if someone has 1 or a thousand verifications " It bothers me. | |||
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"Maximum 4 published/ visible veris. why? I prefer private people. 3,000 hidden veris - fine. There's life outside Fab. Verification number means nothing. " What is the max amount of veris you can have on here? | |||
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"Maximum 4 published/ visible veris. why? I prefer private people. 3,000 hidden veris - fine. There's life outside Fab. Verification number means nothing. What is the max amount of veris you can have on here?" not sure. My old profile had a lot , and I've seen profiles with over 3000 verifications | |||
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"Maximum 4 published/ visible veris. why? I prefer private people. 3,000 hidden veris - fine. There's life outside Fab. Verification number means nothing. no verification numbers don't but we all use the site differently. I have not got all mine on show. Some are too graphic for instance. But it doesnt bother me if someone has 1 or a thousand verifications It bothers me. " Can you explain why? We've got a fair few but as Danish said previously most are social so what is it that puts you off about a lot of veris? Doughnut | |||
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"I must admit it puts me off when a guy has too many, esp if they're all displayed but I can't explain why. 20 is plenty x" I think you’re being a bit hypocritical there. You have 4 all from the same month!! | |||
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"I must admit it puts me off when a guy has too many, esp if they're all displayed but I can't explain why. 20 is plenty x I think you’re being a bit hypocritical there. You have 4 all from the same month!! " That's nothing hun, I can have 4 in a day sometimes they just don't veri I feel the same about people with too many pics, feels narcissistic, showing off and leaves nothing to the imagination. Let's face it the verifications are a bit like reading product reviews which although helpful is a bit much in itself! | |||
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"I must admit it puts me off when a guy has too many, esp if they're all displayed but I can't explain why. 20 is plenty x I think you’re being a bit hypocritical there. You have 4 all from the same month!! " I winked you and messaged you ... no reply | |||
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"Maximum 4 published/ visible veris. why? I prefer private people. 3,000 hidden veris - fine. There's life outside Fab. Verification number means nothing. What is the max amount of veris you can have on here?" I don't know. I remember Gloswingers used to delete their profile and start a new one when they got to 1,000. | |||
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"Maximum 4 published/ visible veris. why? I prefer private people. 3,000 hidden veris - fine. There's life outside Fab. Verification number means nothing. no verification numbers don't but we all use the site differently. I have not got all mine on show. Some are too graphic for instance. But it doesnt bother me if someone has 1 or a thousand verifications It bothers me. Can you explain why? We've got a fair few but as Danish said previously most are social so what is it that puts you off about a lot of veris? Doughnut " Privacy. I don't know why people defend themselves by saying some are social. It's a swinging site where people have sex and/ or friendships. I find it incredibly odd- much like Facebook where people have visible Friends lists. No privacy. | |||
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"How does one get a veri? " One gets a vagina. Then they come flooding in. | |||
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"How does one get a veri? One gets a vagina. Then they come flooding in. " Now I see the problem… | |||
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"Well I think social ones are important because they show you can converse and make an evening of it, which is important to a lot of people. It also shows that you can meet without expectation and take rejection gracefully!" How on earth do people cope with meeting people in real life?! | |||
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"I've was talking to a couple on here for a while and things were going well, but then Mr claimed I'd misled them and that "the wife would go spare" if she saw how many verifications I had. I've got 15 verifications. Some of those are from social meets and some are duplicates from repeat meets. But I don't think 11 sexual partners is particularly excessive by Fab standards. And this was a couple who insisted on experienced partners. This feeds into another thread a few days ago by a woman who was put off by otherwise 'super hot' men who have sex videos/pictures on their profiles. It seems like a bit of a Fab paradox; people want their partners to be experienced and desirable yet simultaneously very exclusive and virginal. Thoughts?" I’ve had people say “Sorry, you’re too active for me”, based on my verifications. Curiously, this year, when I’m not getting any new meets, there seems less interest in my profile because I’m not posting new veris…….? Who knows? Do what suits you | |||
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"Dont lose sleep over it. If anyone thinks that verifications equal how many sexual partners someone has had they are very silly. And if someone judges you on it... dont worry about it. Its them not you" | |||
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"We often see tons of verification from same social, so you can get 20 veris in one night if you said hello to 20 folks. " Exactly. About 95% of mine are social meets. Speaking of socials, apologies to all those who went to the STP who are waiting for veris. It's a bit hectic for me at the moment. Y'all will get them at the end of next week. Xxx | |||
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"I've was talking to a couple on here for a while and things were going well, but then Mr claimed I'd misled them and that "the wife would go spare" if she saw how many verifications I had. I've got 15 verifications. Some of those are from social meets and some are duplicates from repeat meets. But I don't think 11 sexual partners is particularly excessive by Fab standards. And this was a couple who insisted on experienced partners. This feeds into another thread a few days ago by a woman who was put off by otherwise 'super hot' men who have sex videos/pictures on their profiles. It seems like a bit of a Fab paradox; people want their partners to be experienced and desirable yet simultaneously very exclusive and virginal. Thoughts?" What did he mean by you misled them? | |||
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"I've was talking to a couple on here for a while and things were going well, but then Mr claimed I'd misled them and that "the wife would go spare" if she saw how many verifications I had. What did he mean by you misled them?" Well apparently I wasn't 'honest' about the number of people I've met...although I didn't change my verification settings since I started talking to them. And it didn't say on their profile that it might be a problem. And it never occurred to me it might be a problem tbh! | |||
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"We often see tons of verification from same social, so you can get 20 veris in one night if you said hello to 20 folks. Exactly. About 95% of mine are social meets. Speaking of socials, apologies to all those who went to the STP who are waiting for veris. It's a bit hectic for me at the moment. Y'all will get them at the end of next week. Xxx" Tbh we are more interested in verifications which indicates there has been some play, that tells us a lot more, you can usually build a better picture than social meet verification. | |||
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"I don’t think it matters. A profile can say they have met 1 person from fab but that doesn’t mean they haven’t shagged hundreds off site." Too right, we would rather go with too many than too few verifications | |||
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"I've been here 3 months, got 7 Veris from 6 Accounts and 6 are "Social" Veris.. Not had anyone say "you've got too many" yet! " You've got too many for me. | |||
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