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"Is it luck? Or is it simply supply and demand?" has to be supply and demand. Moreover people are so mechanised, they even look for references lol. Matrix movie in the real world. Everything must be perfect | |||
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"Is it luck? Or is it simply supply and demand? has to be supply and demand. Moreover people are so mechanised, they even look for references lol. Matrix movie in the real world. Everything must be perfect " Every couple or woman who has expressed interest in me has been a fantasist/time waster. | |||
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"Is it luck? Or is it simply supply and demand? has to be supply and demand. Moreover people are so mechanised, they even look for references lol. Matrix movie in the real world. Everything must be perfect " It's not that everything must be perfect it's more about knowing what you want and being able to express that. Why should anyone (incl single men) settle for a less than good fuck? | |||
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"Is it luck? Or is it simply supply and demand?" I'll supply it when ladies demand it | |||
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"Say what How has it been with you?" It was great when I was first here many moons ago few meets and veris, but now I'm an old fucker no so great | |||
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"There COULD be only 2 single guys on here and you could still be disregarded …" | |||
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"Straight men are probably at the bottom on the luck list around here. I can say that safely cos in over a month it's been just 1 lady trying to get under the sheets with me. Anyway, beautiful profiles keep us going, and we shall beat the odds with our persistency. Happy fabbing folks " To get that in a month, you’re doing well. Many have been here years without even that. | |||
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"Get out to socials and clubs. Get talking to people. " That's the best advice. Real life beats the internet. Online is, at best, only a preliminary. | |||
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"Get out to socials and clubs. Get talking to people. " This is exactly it x | |||
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"It's not that everything must be perfect it's more about knowing what you want and being able to express that. Why should anyone (incl single men) settle for a less than good fuck? " Yep. I'm not everybody's type. It's just a matter of patience, though, because I am some people's type. Everybody is. I think a lot of men join this site thinking that they should get a free introductory shag as a joining offer. I don't really use Fab to make contact. I use it to keep in touch with people I meet at socials and clubs. | |||
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"Is it luck? Or is it simply supply and demand?" I like how sexual interaction is described as ‘supply and demand’ nice. | |||
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"Is it luck? Or is it simply supply and demand? I like how sexual interaction is described as ‘supply and demand’ nice. " It may not be eloquent but its not completely inaccurate. | |||
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"Get out to socials and clubs. Get talking to people. " This | |||
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"Is it luck? Or is it simply supply and demand? has to be supply and demand. Moreover people are so mechanised, they even look for references lol. Matrix movie in the real world. Everything must be perfect It's not that everything must be perfect it's more about knowing what you want and being able to express that. Why should anyone (incl single men) settle for a less than good fuck? " | |||
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"Is it luck? Or is it simply supply and demand?" Or attraction and it's variables? | |||
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"Straight men are probably at the bottom on the luck list around here. I can say that safely cos in over a month it's been just 1 lady trying to get under the sheets with me. Anyway, beautiful profiles keep us going, and we shall beat the odds with our persistency. Happy fabbing folks " If you always blame something such as luck you will never figure out why you aren’t getting meets and it will always be the excuse | |||
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"Is it luck? Or is it simply supply and demand? has to be supply and demand. Moreover people are so mechanised, they even look for references lol. Matrix movie in the real world. Everything must be perfect Every couple or woman who has expressed interest in me has been a fantasist/time waster." . They all are. This is mainly a site full of attention seekers and keyboard wankers with,thankfully, just a few people genuinely looking to actually meet. | |||
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"Is it luck? Or is it simply supply and demand? Or attraction and it's variables? " Surely it can't be anything sensible like that. Mr Hayes. | |||
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"They all are. This is mainly a site full of attention seekers and keyboard wankers with,thankfully, just a few people genuinely looking to actually meet. " Just a few people genuinely wanting to actually meet you, you mean. If someone's not attracted to you, that doesn't make them an attention seeker, keyboard wanker or time waster. I'm getting a sense of entitlement from your reply. You're basically saying if they don't want to knob you, they must be a fake or a fantasist. | |||
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"Is it luck? Or is it simply supply and demand? has to be supply and demand. Moreover people are so mechanised, they even look for references lol. Matrix movie in the real world. Everything must be perfect Every couple or woman who has expressed interest in me has been a fantasist/time waster.. They all are. This is mainly a site full of attention seekers and keyboard wankers with,thankfully, just a few people genuinely looking to actually meet. " | |||
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"One thing I will note is that these single guy posts all seem to be about the sex. Swinging is so much more than sex. I went for a curry last night with my partner and a swinging friend of ours. We didn't play, although some of the conversation was hilarious and hair raising. Next week, a few of us are going bowling. The friends I've made while swinging are some of the best, closest friends I have, because we can talk to each other about ANYTHING. If you want to have a nice time on Fab, it's social. Be sociable. " Well said that man Mr Hayes. | |||
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"Another woe me thread" Must be the most common theme of newly posted threads on here. | |||
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"All meetings be they as a couple of a single require an element of luck but also a bit of persistence and an element of making your own luck." Agreed | |||
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"Straight men are probably at the bottom on the luck list around here. I can say that safely cos in over a month it's been just 1 lady trying to get under the sheets with me. Anyway, beautiful profiles keep us going, and we shall beat the odds with our persistency. Happy fabbing folks To get that in a month, you’re doing well. Many have been here years without even that." Are you serious? | |||
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"Just a wee observation here, but you’ve just shot yourself in the foot. As you are saying straight guys are at the bottom of the pile, then you go get yourself verified with a guy " If you notice its a couple. And I kinda later didn't crave the idea of being with another couple. | |||
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"It's not that everything must be perfect it's more about knowing what you want and being able to express that. Why should anyone (incl single men) settle for a less than good fuck? Yep. I'm not everybody's type. It's just a matter of patience, though, because I am some people's type. Everybody is. I think a lot of men join this site thinking that they should get a free introductory shag as a joining offer. I don't really use Fab to make contact. I use it to keep in touch with people I meet at socials and clubs. " This I guess is the most sensible way forward | |||
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"Is it luck? Or is it simply supply and demand? has to be supply and demand. Moreover people are so mechanised, they even look for references lol. Matrix movie in the real world. Everything must be perfect It's not that everything must be perfect it's more about knowing what you want and being able to express that. Why should anyone (incl single men) settle for a less than good fuck? " You are right. But men would never know what a woman wants right? We just got to keep trying. | |||
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"Just a wee observation here, but you’ve just shot yourself in the foot. As you are saying straight guys are at the bottom of the pile, then you go get yourself verified with a guy If you notice its a couple. And I kinda later didn't crave the idea of being with another couple." It’s a man? | |||
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"Patience the key i think Yeah, and persistence " That sounds desperate. Go to clubs meet some people. | |||
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"Just a wee observation here, but you’ve just shot yourself in the foot. As you are saying straight guys are at the bottom of the pile, then you go get yourself verified with a guy If you notice its a couple. And I kinda later didn't crave the idea of being with another couple." I hate to burst the bubble but that’s just a guys profile | |||
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"They all are. This is mainly a site full of attention seekers and keyboard wankers with,thankfully, just a few people genuinely looking to actually meet. Just a few people genuinely wanting to actually meet you, you mean. If someone's not attracted to you, that doesn't make them an attention seeker, keyboard wanker or time waster. I'm getting a sense of entitlement from your reply. You're basically saying if they don't want to knob you, they must be a fake or a fantasist. " . I base my comments on being on the site for several years and experiencing the endless stream of people asking to meet and immediately disappearing, asking for cam or phone play , and simply seeing how few people have verifications from actually meeting. So your somewhat smug rude comments are actually quite wrong. Perhaps have a look at my verifications on fabguys to see if people are meeting me. | |||
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"I base my comments on being on the site for several years and experiencing the endless stream of people asking to meet and immediately disappearing, asking for cam or phone play , and simply seeing how few people have verifications from actually meeting. So your somewhat smug rude comments are actually quite wrong. Perhaps have a look at my verifications on fabguys to see if people are meeting me. " I'm not on fabguys, but isn't that a site exclusively for men? This thread is about meeting women and couples. Different situation entirely. I'm sure you're doing fine over there because there's never a shortage of blokes who want their puds pulled. | |||
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"They all are. This is mainly a site full of attention seekers and keyboard wankers with,thankfully, just a few people genuinely looking to actually meet. Just a few people genuinely wanting to actually meet you, you mean. If someone's not attracted to you, that doesn't make them an attention seeker, keyboard wanker or time waster. I'm getting a sense of entitlement from your reply. You're basically saying if they don't want to knob you, they must be a fake or a fantasist. " Too many on here using that excuse that everyone is a time waster etc if they won’t meet | |||
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"In the interest of democracy and British fair play i think one day a month should be dedicated to single men too be picked at random by all females on this site for sex that would stop them complaining about not getting any who agrees with me " Women should just pick a single bloke at random and give him a pity shag? I'm assuming you're joking, but it's hard to tell on here sometimes. | |||
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"Just a wee observation here, but you’ve just shot yourself in the foot. As you are saying straight guys are at the bottom of the pile, then you go get yourself verified with a guy If you notice its a couple. And I kinda later didn't crave the idea of being with another couple. It’s a man?" Nah, he had his lady. | |||
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"Straight men are probably at the bottom on the luck list around here. I can say that safely cos in over a month it's been just 1 lady trying to get under the sheets with me. Anyway, beautiful profiles keep us going, and we shall beat the odds with our persistency. Happy fabbing folks " You've only been here a month and had 2 meets already. Albeit not with women. I'd say that's pretty good going. | |||
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"Well that one lady must just feel super right now Some single men do just fine thanks OP. And some lady's and couples have a terrible time here. But having such a negative outlook on your time here will undoubtedly have a self-fulfilling end " I am in no way negative about the experience. Life is meant to be filled with experiences | |||
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"They all are. This is mainly a site full of attention seekers and keyboard wankers with,thankfully, just a few people genuinely looking to actually meet. Just a few people genuinely wanting to actually meet you, you mean. If someone's not attracted to you, that doesn't make them an attention seeker, keyboard wanker or time waster. I'm getting a sense of entitlement from your reply. You're basically saying if they don't want to knob you, they must be a fake or a fantasist. Too many on here using that excuse that everyone is a time waster etc if they won’t meet" Absolutely | |||
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"While I agree men do have it tough on here, their expectations are way too high. This is not a guranteed sex website, it's about being lucky enough to make connections with the right people and believe me it's not that easy just because you have a vagina either. We would all get on a lot better here if we read the profiles, only messaged people who are likely to be a match, don't take rejection as a personal attack and just have fun. You win some, you lose some. It's not that deep." Naaah, never took a rejection as an attack. Come on, I am 38 and a professional. | |||
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"We would all get on a lot better here if we read the profiles, only messaged people who are likely to be a match, don't take rejection as a personal attack and just have fun. You win some, you lose some. It's not that deep." Absolutely. If someone says they're not interested, I wish them well with what they're looking for. Why be any other way? | |||
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"Naaah, never took a rejection as an attack. Come on, I am 38 and a professional. " A professional what? | |||
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"OP, I've just looked at your veri of the person who verified you. People who look at your profile and follow a veri trail might find "Got a hot Mrs that looks like a virgin. Mmmm" somewhat icky and off-putting. Hope this helps. " Eeeew I just looked at that. Gave me Rochdale vibes. | |||
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"I base my comments on being on the site for several years and experiencing the endless stream of people asking to meet and immediately disappearing, asking for cam or phone play , and simply seeing how few people have verifications from actually meeting. So your somewhat smug rude comments are actually quite wrong. Perhaps have a look at my verifications on fabguys to see if people are meeting me. I'm not on fabguys, but isn't that a site exclusively for men? This thread is about meeting women and couples. Different situation entirely. I'm sure you're doing fine over there because there's never a shortage of blokes who want their puds pulled." Don't start that Fabguys is for men (which I am one). But quite a few guys on there are moaning about girls like me being there. | |||
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"OP, I've just looked at your veri of the person who verified you. People who look at your profile and follow a veri trail might find "Got a hot Mrs that looks like a virgin. Mmmm" somewhat icky and off-putting. Hope this helps. " Just seen it | |||
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"the bi women I seek are thin on the ground for me at present I guess some of that is still on-going from the pandemic fall out, people seem to want to chat and perv on line rather that get up close and personal, Hope things improve for us all soon x" You are right. Hope it improves some asap. Looks like lockdown restrictions forced people into an introvert lifestyle | |||
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"Gave me Rochdale vibes. " And you don't mean the folk songs and comedy of Mike Harding. | |||
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"You are right. Hope it improves some asap. Looks like lockdown restrictions forced people into an introvert lifestyle " Oddly, since the easing of lockdown, there's been a blossoming of fun, but it's mainly been in clubs. People are glad to get out and about again. | |||
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"You are right. Hope it improves some asap. Looks like lockdown restrictions forced people into an introvert lifestyle Oddly, since the easing of lockdown, there's been a blossoming of fun, but it's mainly been in clubs. People are glad to get out and about again. " Agree clubs are very busy. | |||
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"Theirs someone out there for everyone so why the need to rush my experience here has been an eventful one because I am looking for someone who we both end up enjoying the company with that may lead elsewhere respectfully and even if it doesn't still has been lovely chatting with whomever it's my normal way how I act so nope not bottom not middle but in a comfortable zone And have no expectations everything is a bonus " | |||
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"Is it luck? Or is it simply supply and demand? has to be supply and demand. Moreover people are so mechanised, they even look for references lol. Matrix movie in the real world. Everything must be perfect " Trust me gonna get far worse. As days go by in to the future. De humanisation in full flow. Matrix will be like Nursery time! | |||
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"Agree clubs are very busy. " We're off out tonight. Looking forward to seeing everyone. If any play happens, lovely, but if not, it's just a nice night out. | |||
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"I’m a straight bloke and I do ok! " Same. You've obviously got a good attitude to it all. | |||
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"Is it luck? Or is it simply supply and demand? has to be supply and demand. Moreover people are so mechanised, they even look for references lol. Matrix movie in the real world. Everything must be perfect " Of course it has to be perfect, I'd rather never have sex again than shag someone who doesn't quite do it for me. Stop blaming others for your lack of success. | |||
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"Agree clubs are very busy. We're off out tonight. Looking forward to seeing everyone. If any play happens, lovely, but if not, it's just a nice night out. " Me too. Enjoy | |||
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"One thing I will note is that these single guy posts all seem to be about the sex. Swinging is so much more than sex. I went for a curry last night with my partner and a swinging friend of ours. We didn't play, although some of the conversation was hilarious and hair raising. Next week, a few of us are going bowling. The friends I've made while swinging are some of the best, closest friends I have, because we can talk to each other about ANYTHING. If you want to have a nice time on Fab, it's social. Be sociable. " I think this is the point a lot of single guys miss, it's not dial a ride a lot of people are here for the social side. I've had one meet this year and that's by choice, I've chatted to a good few but I'm honestly past the stage of a random shag, someone else get to.socials etc. I love the social side to fab and I've made some great friends. As the saying goes you get what you put into and heres the same. | |||
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"Is it luck? Or is it simply supply and demand? has to be supply and demand. Moreover people are so mechanised, they even look for references lol. Matrix movie in the real world. Everything must be perfect It's not that everything must be perfect it's more about knowing what you want and being able to express that. Why should anyone (incl single men) settle for a less than good fuck? " Here here! Couldn't agree more | |||
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"Straight men are probably at the bottom on the luck list around here. I can say that safely cos in over a month it's been just 1 lady trying to get under the sheets with me. Anyway, beautiful profiles keep us going, and we shall beat the odds with our persistency. Happy fabbing folks " You right OP. Pyramid cannot be build without foundation covering large area, and we (singles) are foundation stone so othera can climb to top Cheers | |||
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"Straight men are probably at the bottom on the luck list around here. I can say that safely cos in over a month it's been just 1 lady trying to get under the sheets with me. Anyway, beautiful profiles keep us going, and we shall beat the odds with our persistency. Happy fabbing folks To get that in a month, you’re doing well. Many have been here years without even that. Are you serious?" Yes, entirely. A quick search on the forums and you’ll find plenty of reports of such a situation. | |||
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