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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well mine anyway.

I joined this site with the express intention of exploring my bi curiousness. I posted on the forum when I started and received some welcome and friendly encouragement so I thought I’d post an update.

I’ve done some exploring and I don’t think I’m bi, that is, I don’t find men sexually attractive. I’ve had experience’s and enjoyed them, been turned on, got hard and horny, even cum. But it seems to be all down to the mechanical stimulation of what’s happening rather than who’s doing it.

I know some will say I’m in denial etc and I’m sure that’s true of some people in my position but not me, so far. I’ve read about people being situationally bi too but I don’t fit that either.

So where does that leave me? I’m not sure to be honest because I still enjoy watching all sorts of porn scenarios. I’ve thought long and hard about it (pun intended) and for now just gonna continue with the bi curious label for on here.

Anyway apologies for the long post, hoe your tea didn’t go cold while you were reading it. I’ll continue to keep an open mind.

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Do you need to put a label on it? Just do what makes you happy.

There seems to be an obsession, not with you but in general, to have a label for everything. Would it honestly make any difference to your experiences by having a word for them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you need to put a label on it? Just do what makes you happy.

There seems to be an obsession, not with you but in general, to have a label for everything. Would it honestly make any difference to your experiences by having a word for them?"

No of course not, the label is required on here that’s all. That wasn’t really the crux of my post, more the results of my journey so far

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By *hunderace...Man
over a year ago

Dudley

"Do you need to put a label on it? Just do what makes you happy.

There seems to be an obsession, not with you but in general, to have a label for everything. Would it honestly make any difference to your experiences by having a word for them?"

Totally agree buddy

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Do you need to put a label on it? Just do what makes you happy.

There seems to be an obsession, not with you but in general, to have a label for everything. Would it honestly make any difference to your experiences by having a word for them?"

Exactly this.

Just be you.

You enjoyed it, that's all that matters.

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Do you need to put a label on it? Just do what makes you happy.

There seems to be an obsession, not with you but in general, to have a label for everything. Would it honestly make any difference to your experiences by having a word for them?

No of course not, the label is required on here that’s all. That wasn’t really the crux of my post, more the results of my journey so far "

Yeah, there’s not a lot of options here but then if Fab tried to cover every one the list would be huge and grow every week!

Maybe just go with ‘bi-curious’ and an explanation in your profile….?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm completely the same. Bisexual on my profile, but not particularly attracted to men. But I love fuckin. The build up to it, the actual event and then when it's done, I switch off and go looking for a woman. It's purely an itch that needs scratching at that particular time.

It's quite an odd position to be in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok just to clarify, I’m not looking for advice on what to call myself or asking what to do next. I fully agree labels aren’t ideal.

I’m just giving an update of where I’m at as far as my sexual adventure goes. Maybe if anyone else is in a similar boat it may be useful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm completely the same. Bisexual on my profile, but not particularly attracted to men. But I love fuckin. The build up to it, the actual event and then when it's done, I switch off and go looking for a woman. It's purely an itch that needs scratching at that particular time.

It's quite an odd position to be in."

Yeah, if there’s the merest hint of a woman then guys don’t even enter my head.

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