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"My man and I have a couple profile and both have single profiles too for forums chat ect.... My question is has anyone actually been asked "Can I have permission to play with your fella" ?" Can’t say I have lol  , but I’d love permission to play with you   | |||
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"Unless it's stated as a kink it's a bit weird to ask someone's partner for permission no?" It's common for women to ask men who say they're playing with a partner's permission to ask for confirmation from said partner, so sure it's fine t'other way too. | |||
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"Unless it's stated as a kink it's a bit weird to ask someone's partner for permission no? It's common for women to ask men who say they're playing with a partner's permission to ask for confirmation from said partner, so sure it's fine t'other way too. " I get that, I may have misread but I understood the OP to mean the person is approaching the partner before the person they want to play with | |||
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"Unless it's stated as a kink it's a bit weird to ask someone's partner for permission no? It's common for women to ask men who say they're playing with a partner's permission to ask for confirmation from said partner, so sure it's fine t'other way too. I get that, I may have misread but I understood the OP to mean the person is approaching the partner before the person they want to play with " The OP mentions both singles and couples profile, so I suppose I'm thinking about the singles profile bit... | |||
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"Unless it's stated as a kink it's a bit weird to ask someone's partner for permission no? It's common for women to ask men who say they're playing with a partner's permission to ask for confirmation from said partner, so sure it's fine t'other way too. I get that, I may have misread but I understood the OP to mean the person is approaching the partner before the person they want to play with The OP mentions both singles and couples profile, so I suppose I'm thinking about the singles profile bit..." Not new to fab but new to forums so bear with me.... once a conversation has been entered and its gone to ooof i think id like to play with you stage .... my man has said to someone i need to check thats ok with my partner then she was pissed off | |||
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"If guys mention giving another guy permission to play with his wife they tend to be jumped all over saying it’s her body her choice. " Yes, that is true Rachael, but if a single guy waits until I've gone toilet or wherever to approach Jane then there's zero chance of him getting what he's after. Frank | |||
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"Unless it's stated as a kink it's a bit weird to ask someone's partner for permission no? It's common for women to ask men who say they're playing with a partner's permission to ask for confirmation from said partner, so sure it's fine t'other way too. I get that, I may have misread but I understood the OP to mean the person is approaching the partner before the person they want to play with The OP mentions both singles and couples profile, so I suppose I'm thinking about the singles profile bit... Not new to fab but new to forums so bear with me.... once a conversation has been entered and its gone to ooof i think id like to play with you stage .... my man has said to someone i need to check thats ok with my partner then she was pissed off " That actually seems like a different scenario to the first one described. But she has no right to be pissed if your partner had been upfront about his situation | |||
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"Unless it's stated as a kink it's a bit weird to ask someone's partner for permission no? It's common for women to ask men who say they're playing with a partner's permission to ask for confirmation from said partner, so sure it's fine t'other way too. I get that, I may have misread but I understood the OP to mean the person is approaching the partner before the person they want to play with The OP mentions both singles and couples profile, so I suppose I'm thinking about the singles profile bit... Not new to fab but new to forums so bear with me.... once a conversation has been entered and its gone to ooof i think id like to play with you stage .... my man has said to someone i need to check thats ok with my partner then she was pissed off " I personally find that odd. We're here on a couple's profile with mutual permission but neither of us would just head out of the door to meet someone without talking about it first. | |||
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"My man and I have a couple profile and both have single profiles too for forums chat ect.... My question is has anyone actually been asked "Can I have permission to play with your fella" ?" No I haven't. Though if I did, I would why they asked me. He is capable of making his own decisions  | |||
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"No its not a question I would have to ask a prospective hot husband's wife. Maybe that would happen if all 3 are relatively new to the dynamic, I prefer seasoned couples for their emotional stability in playing apart " We would certainly discuss the fact we're going out at XYZ time to meet ABC for a few reasons, practicalities being the main one. I can't just bugger off out if there's no-one home for kids etc? And for safety, I would always make my husband aware of who I'm meeting and where. If that's emotional instability, then we're guilty, m'Lord. | |||
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"My man and I have a couple profile and both have single profiles too for forums chat ect.... My question is has anyone actually been asked "Can I have permission to play with your fella" ?" Yes a few years ago a female profile asked. The account was unverified and fairly new, we recognised the photos as belonging to another profile we had chatted to before and was well verified. When we asked if the profile was linked to that account the single account promptly blocked us lol | |||
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"Unless it's stated as a kink it's a bit weird to ask someone's partner for permission no? It's common for women to ask men who say they're playing with a partner's permission to ask for confirmation from said partner, so sure it's fine t'other way too. I get that, I may have misread but I understood the OP to mean the person is approaching the partner before the person they want to play with The OP mentions both singles and couples profile, so I suppose I'm thinking about the singles profile bit... Not new to fab but new to forums so bear with me.... once a conversation has been entered and its gone to ooof i think id like to play with you stage .... my man has said to someone i need to check thats ok with my partner then she was pissed off " Did she know he isn't single? I'd be pissed off he hadn't mentioned a partner before arranging the meet. I don't meet swinging couples on their own. | |||
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"Unless it's stated as a kink it's a bit weird to ask someone's partner for permission no? It's common for women to ask men who say they're playing with a partner's permission to ask for confirmation from said partner, so sure it's fine t'other way too. I get that, I may have misread but I understood the OP to mean the person is approaching the partner before the person they want to play with The OP mentions both singles and couples profile, so I suppose I'm thinking about the singles profile bit... Not new to fab but new to forums so bear with me.... once a conversation has been entered and its gone to ooof i think id like to play with you stage .... my man has said to someone i need to check thats ok with my partner then she was pissed off Did she know he isn't single? I'd be pissed off he hadn't mentioned a partner before arranging the meet. I don't meet swinging couples on their own. " Very clear on profiles and even says feel free to message Partner for clarification Its the being annoyed i don't get | |||
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"Unless it's stated as a kink it's a bit weird to ask someone's partner for permission no? It's common for women to ask men who say they're playing with a partner's permission to ask for confirmation from said partner, so sure it's fine t'other way too. I get that, I may have misread but I understood the OP to mean the person is approaching the partner before the person they want to play with The OP mentions both singles and couples profile, so I suppose I'm thinking about the singles profile bit... Not new to fab but new to forums so bear with me.... once a conversation has been entered and its gone to ooof i think id like to play with you stage .... my man has said to someone i need to check thats ok with my partner then she was pissed off Did she know he isn't single? I'd be pissed off he hadn't mentioned a partner before arranging the meet. I don't meet swinging couples on their own. Very clear on profiles and even says feel free to message Partner for clarification Its the being annoyed i don't get " Perhaps she thought he was so entranced by her that he would break your rules and just shag her without asking you. And so she was mad/ jealous because he clearly cares much more about you his partner than her the just a shag. | |||
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"My man and I have a couple profile and both have single profiles too for forums chat ect.... My question is has anyone actually been asked "Can I have permission to play with your fella" ?" yes. I have in the past | |||
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"If guys mention giving another guy permission to play with his wife they tend to be jumped all over saying it’s her body her choice. Yes, that is true Rachael, but if a single guy waits until I've gone toilet or wherever to approach Jane then there's zero chance of him getting what he's after. Frank" I didn’t say it was right
I’ve gone up to women in clubs before and asked if I can ‘borrow their husband’. It usually goes down pretty well. I make it clear I’m straight at the outset…. Shame women in clubs struggle to understand that though. | |||
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