FabSwingers.com forum: How many times?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How often have you gone to type a reply in the forums and thought ‘you know what, I can’t be arsed with the agro’

Also do you do it in real life? Or do you speak your mind all the time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not nearly as often as I should

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

All the time.. can’t be arsed in general so just leave most threads be. Same in life though.. some things arent worth the energy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All the time.. can’t be arsed in general so just leave most threads be. Same in life though.. some things arent worth the energy."

Just want an easy life like me, I’d rather spend my time & energy on something worth it haha

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Many many many times!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Yep sometimes I just can't be ar ..

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Yeah. Lots.

I try to avoid negative threads if I can help it.

Life is hard enough without getting into arguments with fabbers - it means absolutely nothing and should be a fun escape.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I post around a tenth of the posts I start to type!

I'm not like that in real life but I think it's easier to have a conversation in real life, especially on contentious issues, without it escalating as quickly as it does on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep sometimes I just can't be ar .."

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"All the time.. can’t be arsed in general so just leave most threads be. Same in life though.. some things arent worth the energy.

Just want an easy life like me, I’d rather spend my time & energy on something worth it haha "

Exactly.. I come on here to chuckle. Some stuff I just roll my eyes at and move on.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

So many times…full response all ready…

‘Voice of reason’ - why are you getting involved?

Delete and walk away…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah. Lots.

I try to avoid negative threads if I can help it.

Life is hard enough without getting into arguments with fabbers - it means absolutely nothing and should be a fun escape.

piss off you never hold back on me!

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Yeah. Lots.

I try to avoid negative threads if I can help it.

Life is hard enough without getting into arguments with fabbers - it means absolutely nothing and should be a fun escape.

piss off you never hold back on me!

Yeah but you annoy me

but I’ll forgive you, maybe!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All the time.. can’t be arsed in general so just leave most threads be. Same in life though.. some things arent worth the energy.

Just want an easy life like me, I’d rather spend my time & energy on something worth it haha

Exactly.. I come on here to chuckle. Some stuff I just roll my eyes at and move on. "

Only one that gets my goat is my boss at work, but I love an argument with him because he’s a nob & it’s funny.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So many times…full response all ready…

‘Voice of reason’ - why are you getting involved?

Delete and walk away…

Haha exactly that, I’ve typed out replies then just ‘do I really have time for this’

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Most of the time, or I'd probably be permanently banned

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Fairly regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How often have you gone to type a reply in the forums and thought ‘you know what, I can’t be arsed with the agro’

Also do you do it in real life? Or do you speak your mind all the time? "

All the time. I think it's because I just don't see the point in engaging in online arguments. I'd much rather have a debate in person.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It depends who is involved in the thread. On the rare occasions that it's someone who is actually capable of discussion rather than being "offended" by every differing opinion then I like to join in...most of the time I'll just keep scrolling.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

An awful lot

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I tend to say what I think tbh ! I know my thinking is often different to others but i make no apologies for that and have to say it how i see it no matter what the come back is x

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Here sometimes, in real life i'm the most quite person because i can't really be arsed

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By *he LsCouple
over a year ago

East Midlands

Too often

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Loads of times if I went through with every post I started I'd be on here 24/7...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often because it wouldn't be noticed anyway.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

So very many times.

I often get as far as preview.... and then think "nah".....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So very many times.

I often get as far as preview.... and then think "nah"....."

Hahaha I can imagine!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most of the time, or I'd probably be permanently banned

Hahaha is that if you truly spoke your mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time! I begin to write a reply and then just delete it.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How often have you gone to type a reply in the forums and thought ‘you know what, I can’t be arsed with the agro’

Also do you do it in real life? Or do you speak your mind all the time? "

Hourly but I put on my best behaviour and resist the temptation

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

All the time now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just post it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often because it wouldn't be noticed anyway."

I notice you.

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

Haha so many times, then I remember what it’s like being put on the naughty step & not being able to participate.

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By *hunderace...Man
over a year ago

Dudley

Probably 80% of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never as I only type nice things ran a test the other day to see and proved quite fruit in exactly what I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Frequently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A LOT more than I actually post

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Many times and it’s usually the same OP’s, but I can’t be arsed as they can’t take criticism or they take it personally no matter what the thread is.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Fairly often but then I stop and think, what's the point? Maybe I'm in a bad mood and want to lash out? Maybe they're having a crap time and I'll add to that. Who would it actually benefit? Absolutely no-one.

And then I feel virtuous for being being so saintly and wonderful.

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

The cock sucking(not that kind..) /lampost pissing is amusing /irritating in equal measure.

Being practically universally ignored is almost okay, but when you get someone being stuck up their own arse you for no reason (like today)then the danger is you'll feel the compulsion to bite back.

And that compulsion to bite pathological attention seekers is dangerously strong..

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"How often have you gone to type a reply in the forums and thought ‘you know what, I can’t be arsed with the agro’

Also do you do it in real life? Or do you speak your mind all the time? "

Yeah, online just can't be arsed. The amount of people who only skim read and just put into a post what they want it to be

and literally misread the entire context of a few sentences because they're not reading what's right in front of them.

No wonder teachers spend all their life saying "READ the question"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much always! I can't be bothered.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

It’s not so much the aggro it’s more what’s the point it never gets replied to.I know it’s not personal but just think what’s the point sometimes. (I’d also see the irony and humour if I post this and it doesn’t get a reply)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often... But occasionally I feel the need

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Always up for aggro....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose if you know they are an idiot and you can't talk sense into them then it isn't worth the hassle. But I pretty much always speak my mind if I need to and whatever reaction might come back from that doesn't really bother me.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I have done this so many times, at least three times today.

I can get very angry over some posts, then I realise it doesn’t matter. So I try to only post on fun topics these days ….But if I’ve had a drink I can get a bit …

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I do it often in the forums and more and more these days with people. I can't decide if I'm losing my spark or maturing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often both here and in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the short time I’ve been here, I’ve already learnt it’s better to keep ones opinions in ones head sometimes. Much the same as out in the muggle world too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit loads someone's got to have the last word , and it isn't going to be me.

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

It does tend to be a core of regular posters that reply, respond and flirt with each other so most times not worth the bother.

The core changes over time as people come and go but unless you've got the time or sex appeal that appeals to the masses, breaking into it is too much like hard work.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I say what I say

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"How often have you gone to type a reply in the forums and thought ‘you know what, I can’t be arsed with the agro’

Also do you do it in real life? Or do you speak your mind all the time? "

Lots of times, although nothing to do with aggro….I just decided I couldn’t be arsed.

Happens a fair bit in the real world too.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

All the time hence not posting so much theses days

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I often go to write something and change my mind but others I say what I feel I need to let out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very often! I want to challenge opinions so start a reply, and then I think "do I really want to spend time going back and forth with a stranger on the internet about a topic I don't really care about?" And surprisingly the answer is almost always No

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

It's not so much the agro it's the realisation that when typed words don't necessarily carry the same tone, or endearment with which they were meant xT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what it is. Sometimes I say it sometimes I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very often! I want to challenge opinions so start a reply, and then I think "do I really want to spend time going back and forth with a stranger on the internet about a topic I don't really care about?" And surprisingly the answer is almost always No

This is exactly it for me. I write it out to get it out of my head but before I click “send” I figure I can’t be bothered as you know it won’t change anything and you’ll just get sucked into an argument with a random internet person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time, but I think it must be me that see things differently from others. As for real life there is a very good reason I live alone.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"How often have you gone to type a reply in the forums and thought ‘you know what, I can’t be arsed with the agro’

Also do you do it in real life? Or do you speak your mind all the time? "

Too many to count

It depends if it’s something I am passionate about.

Life's too short to deal with stupid.

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