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By *andy_ogre OP   Man
over a year ago

Bath

Anyone have experience of work finding out about our favourite pastimes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Philately?

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Hope no

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By *andy_ogre OP   Man
over a year ago

Bath

licking is involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"licking is involved"

Have you seen philately?

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"licking is involved

Have you seen philately? "

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Told my boss straight out, no one’s business but mine what I do as a consenting adult.

One of the benefits of being self employed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Told my boss straight out, no one’s business but mine what I do as a consenting adult.

One of the benefits of being self employed "

Awesome reply ... my boyfriend did the same.

NBVN x

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I’m pretty sure I’d get fired for over sharing if I brought it up. I’m still waiting for the dust to settle from when I mentioned I had a rogue nipple hair. The prudes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favourite pastime is eating so I'm probably OK.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I'd probably be dismissed.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I work on a team full of women, I told them all one day I’m bisexual and swinging, and I was met with nothing but admiration and filthy stories of their own. Now we always talk about sex! Makes work so much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I work on a team full of women, I told them all one day I’m bisexual and swinging, and I was met with nothing but admiration and filthy stories of their own. Now we always talk about sex! Makes work so much better "

Are you accepting CVs?

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

I'm the boss and honestly it didn't bother me at all finding out I was a swinger. The boss actually likes it, a lot.

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By *andy_ogre OP   Man
over a year ago

Bath


"I work on a team full of women, I told them all one day I’m bisexual and swinging, and I was met with nothing but admiration and filthy stories of their own. Now we always talk about sex! Makes work so much better

Are you accepting CVs? "

I'd say you're qualified

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I couldn't care less , being a swinger is not a crime

Same i couldn't care less who at my work place is a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I work on a team full of women, I told them all one day I’m bisexual and swinging, and I was met with nothing but admiration and filthy stories of their own. Now we always talk about sex! Makes work so much better "

Could you send me a application form for a job in your work xx

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I work on a team full of women, I told them all one day I’m bisexual and swinging, and I was met with nothing but admiration and filthy stories of their own. Now we always talk about sex! Makes work so much better "

Jobs going?

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I’m pretty sure they’d all be delighted with this interest!

There could be a few “openings”

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’m pretty sure they’d all be delighted with this interest!

There could be a few “openings” "

But would you be able to slot us all in?

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By *leanor1717Woman
over a year ago

Gillingham

All my team colleagues know, some want to live vicariously through me lol x

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"I’m pretty sure they’d all be delighted with this interest!

There could be a few “openings”

But would you be able to slot us all in?"

We have a team challenge every Tuesday. I’ll put it in the suggestion box

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I’m pretty sure they’d all be delighted with this interest!

There could be a few “openings”

But would you be able to slot us all in?

We have a team challenge every Tuesday. I’ll put it in the suggestion box "

I can do Tuesdays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my first wife our boss used to fuck the both of us so no worries there.

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

Before I retired . Few years back . Someone at my company saw me in chat room on here ( non directing) . I was fully clothed at time . Found out in end who had told people . Had meeting with management and showed them that person who had informed on me was member also. Only way could have seen me. He left company very quick. But still caused me lot of comments at work for a while. Did not use cam rooms or post on forums for quite a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id fucking love it. Hopefully get a payout

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Can you actually get sacked from some professions if your employer found out you were on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you actually get sacked from some professions if your employer found out you were on here?"

Probs not, they would find another way to get you out though. Fake dogshit world we live in innit

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Can you actually get sacked from some professions if your employer found out you were on here?"

Yes you really can be

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Can you actually get sacked from some professions if your employer found out you were on here?"

Yes. Some careers have a code of conduct. I know of a one person who was sacked for it round here.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’m not a swinger. I’m a kinkster and my workmates know already. They’re fascinated and slightly scared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you actually get sacked from some professions if your employer found out you were on here?"

I don't think I'd get sacked (although not sure) but life would be hell if people connected through work knew so I'd probably have to leave anyway.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

It was a boss that introduced me to this world

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Can you actually get sacked from some professions if your employer found out you were on here?

Yes. Some careers have a code of conduct. I know of a one person who was sacked for it round here. "

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I'm self employed and run a small business with amazing friends/colleagues of many years.. They LOVE to hear of my adventures

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By *andy_ogre OP   Man
over a year ago

Bath


"Can you actually get sacked from some professions if your employer found out you were on here?

Yes. Some careers have a code of conduct. I know of a one person who was sacked for it round here. "

my work fired a guy a few weeks ago (he was crap at his job) but they saw he used his laptop here, and used this against him. Was doubly ridiculous cause the bosses wife is a right goer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you actually get sacked from some professions if your employer found out you were on here?

Yes. Some careers have a code of conduct. I know of a one person who was sacked for it round here.

my work fired a guy a few weeks ago (he was crap at his job) but they saw he used his laptop here, and used this against him. Was doubly ridiculous cause the bosses wife is a right goer lol"

That's double standards m8.i hope that the guy who got fired fucked the bosses wife 1st lol

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Can you actually get sacked from some professions if your employer found out you were on here?

Yes. Some careers have a code of conduct. I know of a one person who was sacked for it round here.

my work fired a guy a few weeks ago (he was crap at his job) but they saw he used his laptop here, and used this against him. Was doubly ridiculous cause the bosses wife is a right goer lol"

Using a work device to access "adult" content is against most employment policies, to be fair. Being married to a "right goer", as you so eloquently put it, is not. No double standard.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Can you actually get sacked from some professions if your employer found out you were on here?

Yes. Some careers have a code of conduct. I know of a one person who was sacked for it round here. "

Being a swinger is a bad conduct?

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

No but they can use it,

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"Can you actually get sacked from some professions if your employer found out you were on here?

Yes. Some careers have a code of conduct. I know of a one person who was sacked for it round here. "

To me the sexual activities you enjoy are all part and parcel of your core sexuality. So it surprises me that we only see sexual orientation as a lawful protected characteristic rather than sexual desire and (legal) practise as whole. Because like sexual orientation desire is not a choice, it's part of being human. So it seems strange we would protect people from discrimination based on orientation but not from how they chose to express themselves sexually. Obviously I talk about providing they are acting legally and not directly bringing their employer into directly disrepute.

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By *est Mims LookingCouple
over a year ago

Crofton

Lol yeap bc i told them. No one cared

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By *uckinghardandfastMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Kik -casualfunxx36

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kik -casualfunxx36"

Nice

I think it’s quite awful that anyone should fear their workplace/colleagues opinions about their personal sexual activities. Imagine being disciplined because you had sex or someone pointed a finger and gossiping starts because you get more cock/pussy than them.

I love society and it’s rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't care less if my lot found out.

Some of my colleagues and my direct line manager already know.

His advice was, "don't talk about work with anyone on there and no images/vids on the site with you in identifiable uniform.. And ffs don't use the works computers or intranet to access the site and we won't have any issues"

Plus, the only way someone from work can identify me is to be a member here themselves!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to keep separate in past they have interfered in my life and it’s not there business, have confided in my colleague who admires it so careful who trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I work on a team full of women, I told them all one day I’m bisexual and swinging, and I was met with nothing but admiration and filthy stories of their own. Now we always talk about sex! Makes work so much better "

I broke my ankle a while ago so was in the office for a bit rather than out and about on site, the stories the women in the office openly spoke about with each other was nothing short of filth

I never realised until then they’re worse than us men haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I work on a team full of women, I told them all one day I’m bisexual and swinging, and I was met with nothing but admiration and filthy stories of their own. Now we always talk about sex! Makes work so much better "

The ULTIMATE work scenario !! Go YOU !!... AWESOME !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While it is a swinging site ,there are a lot of members who ,while here , are not actual swingers ,they are here to meet other single people who are on the same sexual journey of wanting to meet people to fuck , now l say this knowing that even IF that was the only reason they were on here , if found out they would still be painted as a Swinger as they are a member of this site.

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford


"I work on a team full of women, I told them all one day I’m bisexual and swinging, and I was met with nothing but admiration and filthy stories of their own. Now we always talk about sex! Makes work so much better "

Love this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While it is a swinging site ,there are a lot of members who ,while here , are not actual swingers ,they are here to meet other single people who are on the same sexual journey of wanting to meet people to fuck , now l say this knowing that even IF that was the only reason they were on here , if found out they would still be painted as a Swinger as they are a member of this site."

Cheating is more acceptable than Swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My favourite pastime is eating so I'm probably OK. "

Eating what though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While it is a swinging site ,there are a lot of members who ,while here , are not actual swingers ,they are here to meet other single people who are on the same sexual journey of wanting to meet people to fuck , now l say this knowing that even IF that was the only reason they were on here , if found out they would still be painted as a Swinger as they are a member of this site.

Cheating is more acceptable than Swinging. "

This took a twist…..

At what point did anyone here say the words cheating?

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"I work on a team full of women, I told them all one day I’m bisexual and swinging, and I was met with nothing but admiration and filthy stories of their own. Now we always talk about sex! Makes work so much better

I broke my ankle a while ago so was in the office for a bit rather than out and about on site, the stories the women in the office openly spoke about with each other was nothing short of filth

I never realised until then they’re worse than us men haha"

it’s so true! I only came clean because I’d been on a cabin holiday with a couple, and they kept probing me, “who is he” etc. So I thought fuck it.

After I did, the older married one said she was a lesbian in the 70s and used to attend orgies, the really young quiet one said she was into rope play. It was like a Kinsters anonymous meeting!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

If my employer found out it wouldn't cost me my job, but it's not something I'd want to discuss.

I prefer to keep my work life separate to my sex life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t fire myself but I pretty should I wouldn’t be receiving any free stuff for endorsement and such

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"I work on a team full of women, I told them all one day I’m bisexual and swinging, and I was met with nothing but admiration and filthy stories of their own. Now we always talk about sex! Makes work so much better

I broke my ankle a while ago so was in the office for a bit rather than out and about on site, the stories the women in the office openly spoke about with each other was nothing short of filth

I never realised until then they’re worse than us men haha

it’s so true! I only came clean because I’d been on a cabin holiday with a couple, and they kept probing me, “who is he” etc. So I thought fuck it.

After I did, the older married one said she was a lesbian in the 70s and used to attend orgies, the really young quiet one said she was into rope play. It was like a Kinsters anonymous meeting! "

This is exactly how it looks like my work place

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare


"I’m pretty sure they’d all be delighted with this interest!

There could be a few “openings” "

I'd hope I could perform well in the interview.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

A colleague quit, when he and his girlfriend uploaded a video of themselves having sex to a porn site. He was suspended when he came in that day and quit later on. Due to our roles within the business it can be seen as bringing the company in to disrepute.

I doubt being on this site would do the same but it’s a risk I take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you actually get sacked from some professions if your employer found out you were on here?"

Yes absolutely..I work in education and we have it in our contracts not to bring the School in to disrepute. Also advised not to be seen out d*unk in case parents video it and circulate it around the community..which has happened to a bloke who used to work with us.

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"I’m pretty sure I’d get fired for over sharing if I brought it up. I’m still waiting for the dust to settle from when I mentioned I had a rogue nipple hair. The prudes. "

That wasn’t a rogue, it was a lucky bastard x

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