FabSwingers.com forum: Local or Distant Fuck

By *otwife N Kinky Hubby OP Couple
over a year ago

Kinky Bedroom

Are you better off playing with people local or people from some distance away to ensure you don't bump into them when your out??

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Ideally within at least a few feet from me….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you better off playing with people local or people from some distance away to ensure you don't bump into them when your out?? "

Closest (hang on, only) person we've met for sex was only 20 miles away. Close enough for regular if we want that but far enough I won't run into him whilst doing the food shop. Doubt I'd meet anyone in the same town.

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Distant is the best, too close can be risky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t care. If I have a connection with someone distance is overcome-able.

I would happily travel or meet half way for the right person with the right chemistry.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Local. Not travelling and don’t want casual as and when, so nearer the better.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Local fun x

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By *otwife N Kinky Hubby OP Couple
over a year ago

Kinky Bedroom

This is kinda where we are at, plus we think it would lower risk of bumping in to them when out with family

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By *otwife N Kinky Hubby OP Couple
over a year ago

Kinky Bedroom

"Distant is the best, too close can be risky "

How close do you normally go?

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By *otwife N Kinky Hubby OP Couple
over a year ago

Kinky Bedroom

"Are you better off playing with people local or people from some distance away to ensure you don't bump into them when your out??

Tbh this is what we are thinking xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOCAL!...coz, quite simply, it'll not stretch that far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer further away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long distance as it’s easier on them when they inevitably fall in love with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on how discreet (if at all) it has to be. Then it's down to the individuals to decide how well they can actually handle it. If neither can or have any doubts then the simple answer is don't proceed.

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By *otwife N Kinky Hubby OP Couple
over a year ago

Kinky Bedroom

"I prefer further away."
can I ask is there a reason why? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My local area feels too nosey, there’s no secrets round and everyone knows everyone’s business. I’d rather keep it a bit further away personally.

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By *otwife N Kinky Hubby OP Couple
over a year ago

Kinky Bedroom

"Long distance as it’s easier on them when they inevitably fall in love with me."

Haha

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By *otwife N Kinky Hubby OP Couple
over a year ago

Kinky Bedroom

"My local area feels too nosey, there’s no secrets round and everyone knows everyone’s business. I’d rather keep it a bit further away personally. "

So how far do you normally travel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My local area feels too nosey, there’s no secrets round and everyone knows everyone’s business. I’d rather keep it a bit further away personally.

So how far do you normally travel?"

I’ve travel far & wide for work. Usually 20 miles plus?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

20 minutes does the trick. I am reclusive though.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Quite honestly I would travel but not just to play Monopoly

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By *otwife N Kinky Hubby OP Couple
over a year ago

Kinky Bedroom

"My local area feels too nosey, there’s no secrets round and everyone knows everyone’s business. I’d rather keep it a bit further away personally.

So how far do you normally travel?

I’ve travel far & wide for work. Usually 20 miles plus? "

Guess we need to look at but further then x

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By *otwife N Kinky Hubby OP Couple
over a year ago

Kinky Bedroom

"20 minutes does the trick. I am reclusive though.

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so 25 miles ish then xx

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By *otwife N Kinky Hubby OP Couple
over a year ago

Kinky Bedroom

"Quite honestly I would travel but not just to play Monopoly

That's a shame cos I'd have to have found a way to pay my rent hehe x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I dont mind either x

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Close is better as it's less planning and cost but don't mind travelling now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like local. I normally travel up to an hour to meet halfway. That's how much I don't like local

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"I don't like local. I normally travel up to an hour to meet halfway. That's how much I don't like local

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So you don't really weally like local?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

If running into them is such a big problem I probably shouldn’t be seeing them anyways

I don’t wanna he invoked with anyone I need to hide from

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By *hunderace...Man
over a year ago

Dudley

Its the attraction and the connection thats all important, distance is no drama at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If running into them is such a big problem I probably shouldn’t be seeing them anyways

I don’t wanna he invoked with anyone I need to hide from "

You really don't understand this from a swingers perspective. A couple living in a small village do you? Sometimes it is just easier to be discreet... and if that means meeting away from home so be it. It's not about having a problem with whoever you're meeting. That has fuck all to do with it.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"If running into them is such a big problem I probably shouldn’t be seeing them anyways

I don’t wanna he invoked with anyone I need to hide from

Why are you taking something I says about myself so personal? Do as you please, that’s my answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like too far as I don't drive but don't like too local either so it's finding the right fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If running into them is such a big problem I probably shouldn’t be seeing them anyways

I don’t wanna he invoked with anyone I need to hide from

Why are you taking something I says about myself so personal? Do as you please, that’s my answer "

I'm not taking it personally at all. I just think you are seeing it from a very blinkered perspective from your comment. That's all.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"If running into them is such a big problem I probably shouldn’t be seeing them anyways

I don’t wanna he invoked with anyone I need to hide from

Why are you taking something I says about myself so personal? Do as you please, that’s my answer

I'm not taking it personally at all. I just think you are seeing it from a very blinkered perspective from your comment. That's all. "

I’m seeing it from my perspective. No one else’s. Because it’s an open question to post your own views, feelings or perspective

So chill out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local-ish, same city but I usually avoid those from areas in the immediate vicinity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not the distance...

Its the connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer further away. can I ask is there a reason why? X"

I get bored easy so wouldn't want to be seeing anyone that often! Plus if I met someone I really liked and they lived close, it would be too easy to see them regular and it get a bit relationship like. Which I don't want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If running into them is such a big problem I probably shouldn’t be seeing them anyways

I don’t wanna he invoked with anyone I need to hide from

Why are you taking something I says about myself so personal? Do as you please, that’s my answer

I'm not taking it personally at all. I just think you are seeing it from a very blinkered perspective from your comment. That's all.

I’m seeing it from my perspective. No one else’s. Because it’s an open question to post your own views, feelings or perspective

So chill out "

I'm perfectly chilled. Thanks for caring.

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Local or far.....depends on the connection

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Anything over an hour maximum just isn’t for me

Can’t be bothered driving that far, there’s gotta be a couple million people within 45 mins of me. No reason to go any further

Closer the betterv

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By *ustcurious1000Couple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

One of each lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a bit of adventure to travelling to someone unless you want to donit regulary then it becomes a pain. Best plan is dont make it regular then you dont get bored of the road. Or pick someone local

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of each lol "

Best of both, sounds like the most sensible and fun option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not the distance...

Its the connection "

But if you never see each other because of the distance?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"There's a bit of adventure to travelling to someone unless you want to donit regulary then it becomes a pain. Best plan is dont make it regular then you dont get bored of the road. Or pick someone local

Yes I think they need to be fairly local if going to be regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I think they need to be fairly local if going to be regular"

I’d like weekly ideally. I can’t do that unless they’re local.

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Yes I think they need to be fairly local if going to be regular

I’d like weekly ideally. I can’t do that unless they’re local. "

Exactly, I use to travel quite far to see someone every week but now I try to keep regular closer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not the distance...

Its the connection

But if you never see each other because of the distance? "

That's why you wouldn't limit yourself to just one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not the distance...

Its the connection

But if you never see each other because of the distance?

That's why you wouldn't limit yourself to just one

Absolutely I wouldn’t

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Its not the distance...

Its the connection

But if you never see each other because of the distance?

That's why you wouldn't limit yourself to just one

Absolutely I wouldn’t

Perks of being single ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not the distance...

Its the connection

But if you never see each other because of the distance?

That's why you wouldn't limit yourself to just one

Absolutely I wouldn’t

Perks of being single ladies

*or married hotwives

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

not too local

not too distant

somewhere inbetween works best for us

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By *inell1Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Local would be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not the distance...

Its the connection

But if you never see each other because of the distance?

That's why you wouldn't limit yourself to just one

Absolutely I wouldn’t

Perks of being single ladies

*or married hotwives

Or those who are ENM/Poly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not the distance...

Its the connection

But if you never see each other because of the distance?

That's why you wouldn't limit yourself to just one

Absolutely I wouldn’t

Perks of being single ladies

*or married hotwives

Or those who are ENM/Poly

We seem to have covered most bases there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer distance meets x most of the people who im good friends on here with are from England x

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Its not the distance...

Its the connection

But if you never see each other because of the distance?

That's why you wouldn't limit yourself to just one

Absolutely I wouldn’t

Perks of being single ladies

*or married hotwives

That also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Within 7.5 inches or they would just get the tip and no more

Don't care about distance really though aslong as we can have a bit of a laugh and enjoy ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not the distance...

Its the connection

But if you never see each other because of the distance?

That's why you wouldn't limit yourself to just one

Absolutely I wouldn’t

Perks of being single ladies

*or married hotwives

Or those who are ENM/Poly

We seem to have covered most bases there!

Why isn’t there a celebration emoji?!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

If there is a connection, distance is just something to get over.

This year I've regularly travelled over a 700 mile round trip every couple weeks, and have been lucky enough to have someone do 500 miles each way for me.

When you live in the arse end of nowhere, and rate friendship with the person you're meeting as just as important (if not more so) than the sex, quite like driving and have the time, you're ok with 200 miles being the closest person....

Although if Piscean Dream would just get that damn boat I'd be happier

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"If there is a connection, distance is just something to get over.

This year I've regularly travelled over a 700 mile round trip every couple weeks, and have been lucky enough to have someone do 500 miles each way for me.

Although if Piscean Dream would just get that damn boat I'd be happier

I'll definitely pay you a visit when I can

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I prefer a good distance that's not too readily walkable

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By *arko BMan
over a year ago

Dartford

Distant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only play with someone local as they are more likely to turn up. As I have found the further away they are the less likely they are to turn up. Xx

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We're really not bothered. We do on occasion bump into people we know from the scene out and about. It's not a problem.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Localish is my preference, I quite like to keep the friends I make and I find that if it’s over a hour drive it quickly dwindle …,

This said , the person/connection overrides my geographical preferences

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By *iverpoolad2000Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Someone local ish is better I find as it’s easier to meet when I get free time

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