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Should people I haven't contacted message me back?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cause they don't and I have to say I think its just absolute ignorance.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Cause they don't and I have to say I think its just absolute ignorance."

I think you need a really good reason for not contacting them. Okay they are ignorant but you are worse for not contacting somebody you never even knew didn't exist!

Think on O.P.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

No reply means they aren't interested, just as it states in the site rules.

Some people get too many messages to reply to, and when they try they open themselves up to more abuse.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It's really made me angry with you .... Grrrrrrrrr or (grrr)

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

or(grr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the ignorant people, all the ignorant people, now put your filters up.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

shit on a shiney lampost

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No reply means they aren't interested, just as it states in the site rules.

Some people get too many messages to reply to, and when they try they open themselves up to more abuse."

Your right I should message them

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Say what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course they should.

All messages not sent should be replied to. After all, you went to so much effort not to send a message. The least you should expect is a reply.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"or(grr)"

(6 r's)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cause they don't and I have to say I think its just absolute ignorance.

I think you need a really good reason for not contacting them. Okay they are ignorant but you are worse for not contacting somebody you never even knew didn't exist!

Think on O.P."
.

I knew they didn't exist.

Didn't I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"or(grr)"

Thats nearly an orgy

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"No reply means they aren't interested, just as it states in the site rules.

Some people get too many messages to reply to, and when they try they open themselves up to more abuse."

Anybody home ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Of course they should.

All messages not sent should be replied to. After all, you went to so much effort not to send a message. The least you should expect is a reply.

"

See you get it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Say what "

I'm not sure I can be clearer

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"No reply means they aren't interested, just as it states in the site rules.

Some people get too many messages to reply to, and when they try they open themselves up to more abuse.

Anybody home ?"

Not today, obviously

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Cause they don't and I have to say I think its just absolute ignorance.

I think you need a really good reason for not contacting them. Okay they are ignorant but you are worse for not contacting somebody you never even knew didn't exist!

Think on O.P..

I knew they didn't exist.

Didn't I?"

I don't know .... Doodle I !

You're the one who won't message the people you don't know ......

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"No reply means they aren't interested, just as it states in the site rules.

Some people get too many messages to reply to, and when they try they open themselves up to more abuse.

Anybody home ?

Not today, obviously "

xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"or(grr)

(6 r's) "

sex arse yourself !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"or(grr)

(6 r's)

sex arse yourself ! "

Arrrrrrse*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Déjà vu...

In an ideal World yes, it would be deemed appropriate for peeps to act courteously by responding. However, we know it’s not always possible due to time, volume of messages received, etc. Simply assume it’s time to move on and not waste your precious time in trying to chase anyone who doesn’t reciprocate. Makes no sense to expect, knowing that should someone have an interest they will for sure respond to your message to learn more in the hope of arranging a meetup...

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

#shouldagonetospecsavers

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

The key is to know what you don’t know.

Hard because you don’t know you don’t know it.

The road to enlightenment is paved with these conundrums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause they don't and I have to say I think its just absolute ignorance."

The sheer audacity of some people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"#shouldagonetospecsavers"

Dammit your right I should have used an old as fuck catchphrase to not message them.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Cause they don't and I have to say I think its just absolute ignorance."

Absolutely, although the amount of messages you’d receive would crash the site. You wouldn’t want that on your conscience surely ?

Off to find those whom I have also never messaged to give them a piece of my mind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cause they don't and I have to say I think its just absolute ignorance.

Absolutely, although the amount of messages you’d receive would crash the site. You wouldn’t want that on your conscience surely ?

Off to find those whom I have also never messaged to give them a piece of my mind. "

So your saying my in action has basically saved the site?

I'm a hero?

Well if you insist

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"#shouldagonetospecsavers

Dammit your right I should have used an old as fuck catchphrase to not message them.

"

When you don't message me, include a dick pic & be sure to say "say what you see" x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Cause they don't and I have to say I think its just absolute ignorance.

Absolutely, although the amount of messages you’d receive would crash the site. You wouldn’t want that on your conscience surely ?

Off to find those whom I have also never messaged to give them a piece of my mind.

So your saying my in action has basically saved the site?

I'm a hero?

Well if you insist"

Some are called but few are chosen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"#shouldagonetospecsavers

Dammit your right I should have used an old as fuck catchphrase to not message them.

When you don't message me, include a dick pic & be sure to say "say what you see" x"

If you say its like a bald Roy Walker again ima cry

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By *athers123Man
over a year ago

Harpenden

Maybe they're not replying to a message you sent in the future.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe they're not replying to a message you sent in the future. "

Those cu**s

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By *athers123Man
over a year ago

Harpenden


"Maybe they're not replying to a message you sent in the future.

Those cu**s"

Shhh. They might know the lottery numbers

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma


"Cause they don't and I have to say I think its just absolute ignorance."

I agree, it is just rude! It boils my pee when I have gone to a lot of trouble not messaging and to not get a reply the day before.

Im going to block them.

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By *ydialovelaceTV/TS
over a year ago

Devon

Do you phone up the pizza takeaway to say “thank you for the flyer you posted through my door, I have taken a look at your offerings and I am not interested”?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you phone up the pizza takeaway to say “thank you for the flyer you posted through my door, I have taken a look at your offerings and I am not interested”?"

You don't?

But also have another read

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By *ydialovelaceTV/TS
over a year ago

Devon


"Do you phone up the pizza takeaway to say “thank you for the flyer you posted through my door, I have taken a look at your offerings and I am not interested”?

You don't?

But also have another read "

I did I was being cuntriversial

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you phone up the pizza takeaway to say “thank you for the flyer you posted through my door, I have taken a look at your offerings and I am not interested”?

You don't?

But also have another read

I did I was being cuntriversial "

I have never refused a takeaway menu that was a really unfortunate example

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m with you on this OP I have worked so hard to be ignorant of people I didn’t know existed.

Just one question, how do you start that reply to a message they didn’t send?

Thank you for the message you didn’t send, I’m only replying to let you know that I didn’t get it as planned?

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By *ydialovelaceTV/TS
over a year ago

Devon


"Do you phone up the pizza takeaway to say “thank you for the flyer you posted through my door, I have taken a look at your offerings and I am not interested”?

You don't?

But also have another read

I did I was being cuntriversial

I have never refused a takeaway menu that was a really unfortunate example "

I actually make my own flyers, beans on toast, double soss and chips etc. and then print them out and post them through their door. I also wink at them as I do it…..

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

Only if they promise to leave good feedback when you don’t meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m with you on this OP I have worked so hard to be ignorant of people I didn’t know existed.

Just one question, how do you start that reply to a message they didn’t send?

Thank you for the message you didn’t send, I’m only replying to let you know that I didn’t get it as planned? "

My brain regrets this thread....

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