FabSwingers.com forum: Fab Couples

By *partharmony OP Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Further to the Fab Singles thread, I felt us couples needed a crack at this. We have no trouble at all meeting single women but the right couple has so far alluded us. Part of it is a lack of photos of the man are lacking in most cases which makes searching way harder, so couples, please have some guy photos!

If you're a couple and looking to meet other couples then post on here. Other combinations of couples and singles may of course follow.

We're looking for a couple we connect with for both social get-togethers and maybe pleasures of the flesh. The latter will not follow without the former.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m yet too meet a couple! 3rd time round on the site, so fingers crossed 3rd time lucky

so many time wasting lads on here, do all us genuine fellas no favours. But great idea for a thread

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By *partharmony OP Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"I’m yet too meet a couple! 3rd time round on the site, so fingers crossed 3rd time lucky

so many time wasting lads on here, do all us genuine fellas no favours. But great idea for a thread

It is a great idea but you're not a couple!

Thank you for your contribution though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple but looking for a single female (that's a variation, right?). Bookmarking anyway.

Male photos noted, I've actually put a few on friends only recently - my poor "mostly male" friends are probably disappointed!

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By * -and- LCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Further to the Fab Singles thread, I felt us couples needed a crack at this. We have no trouble at all meeting single women but the right couple has so far alluded us. Part of it is a lack of photos of the man are lacking in most cases which makes searching way harder, so couples, please have some guy photos!

If you're a couple and looking to meet other couples then post on here. Other combinations of couples and singles may of course follow.

We're looking for a couple we connect with for both social get-togethers and maybe pleasures of the flesh. The latter will not follow without the former. "

Completely agree! There is either all male or all female pictures..a good mix is healthy!

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By *anPsurreycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Mainly looking for couples fun rarely for single guys or ladies

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough

We definitely find it hard to find other couples. Honestly just finding a couple who can (or can be arsed to) string a sentence together is tough enough, but finding that + someone with similar interests is hard going, and when we do there's no guarantee they'd be into us either.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

A couple where we all click, who are not a million miles away, has so far eluded us. It would be an amazing find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m part of a couple.

it’s odd, I literally thought ‘swinging’ or the concept of it was this, but singles profiles rule the forums and fab. (Yes, I might be generalising here).

I like the idea of couples getting along and meeting up.

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By *iJandJCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

We are new to the scene and seems we are looking for the impossible

Looking to meet in clubs for M/M and F/F fun, not looking for M/F fun we have each other for that

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Totally agree where the photos comment is concerned.

I like to see photos of both man and woman on a couple's profile. After all, in order to get it on, we all have to be attracted to each other. Even though attraction isn't only physical, it's as good a place to start when you're looking at a website.

Hope you find your elusive couple, OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always not as easy as it sounds as both needs to have an attraction and the orientation etc .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're a couple and looking to meet other couples then post on here. Other combinations of couples and singles may of course follow.

We're looking for a couple we connect with for both social get-togethers and maybe pleasures of the flesh. The latter will not follow without the former. "

Definitely agree with last paragraph.

It's so difficult to find anothwr couple where everyone connects

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By *partharmony OP Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Any more couples looking for couples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here to say if any couples are looking for a unicorn I’m right here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking for couples. And have been lucky enough to meet too.

We agree on the photos comment. Highly annoying when you can't see the guy.

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By *addynLouCouple
over a year ago

Mad House

We are a couple, lucky to have met some other fabulous couples over the years on here...must add more pics of Paddy though! x

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By *offee and KinksCouple
over a year ago

Notts/Derby

We always wanted to meet couples but it turned out to be quite a few single men when we first started. We’d managed to meet two couples but lockdown scuppered any follow up.

We were guilty of having just female photos to start with, mainly because I was always behind the camera. We’re since addressed that and try to go for a balance now (Vixen looks better in photos than I do

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The biggest issue we have is finding a couple that we both like. Too many times one of us have liked one half of the couple but not the other. Getting four people to be mutually attracted feels nigh on impossible at times. However, we keep looking.

Our ideal would be one or two local couples we could meet up with socially as well as playing. Still working on that

Stag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't find it difficult meeting couples..the difficulty is that we all have to find each other attractive.

Lots of ladies very attractive but quite often not so the male which could be one reason why loads of pics of the lady and barely any of the male.

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

We would love to meet some other couples, have had some luck but always interested in meeting more.

As with other comments we have found it difficult to find couples where we are both attracted to both of the couple, tho Silverback is not too fussed about being attracted to the male partner, he is happy to play it straight most of the time.

MJ xx

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Finding couples, single ladies isn't the problem it's finding ones that we both find attractive and they find us attractive too is the hard part.

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By *uns123Couple
over a year ago

nuneaton

We are a couple who have met a few decent genuine blokes but also get the usual rubbish of so called couples who are obviously a single bloke. We would love to meet more genuine couples not just for sex but a soacial first as you don’t get to meet many couples who you can have a drink with and chat about the lifestyle. X

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We prefer clubs simply because of ease, as we have busy lives.

Not that we aren't open to meeting couples via Fab but it's an awful lot more difficult.

We've had a few socials from Fab but only one resulted in more.

We might be an acquired taste

Nita

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Part of it is a lack of photos of the man are lacking in most cases which makes searching way harder, so couples, please have some guy photos! "

This is something our profile definitely lacks, we definitely need to sort this when we get back to meeting.

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

"We prefer clubs simply because of ease, as we have busy lives.

Not that we aren't open to meeting couples via Fab but it's an awful lot more difficult.

We've had a few socials from Fab but only one resulted in more.

We might be an acquired taste

Nita "

This is the same for us.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"We prefer clubs simply because of ease, as we have busy lives.

Not that we aren't open to meeting couples via Fab but it's an awful lot more difficult.

We've had a few socials from Fab but only one resulted in more.

We might be an acquired taste

Nita

This is the same for us.

Mutual attraction isn't easy to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are a couple who have met a few decent genuine blokes but also get the usual rubbish of so called couples who are obviously a single bloke. We would love to meet more genuine couples not just for sex but a soacial first as you don’t get to meet many couples who you can have a drink with and chat about the lifestyle. X"

Very similar to us - we would like more than just - wanna come to our house ? We are social creatures and it’s all part of the attraction for us!

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Interesting that so many couples on here seem to have no trouble meeting single ladies but do with couples. Oddly we have the opposite issue that lots of couples approach us even though we're not looking to meet other couples. But we have noticed how many are just pictures of the man or juat of the woman.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Never had a problem, if we are looking to meet we will send a private pic of both of us, easy

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Interesting that so many couples on here seem to have no trouble meeting single ladies but do with couples. Oddly we have the opposite issue that lots of couples approach us even though we're not looking to meet other couples. But we have noticed how many are just pictures of the man or juat of the woman."

To add some contrast we've never had problems meeting couples but no longer bother with single women as we find them hard work.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It’s not the amount of couples that’s the problem, it’s the quality that’s the problem. Some couples don’t have guys on their pics (yet both are looking to meet). Then trying to talk to some couples is impossible…one word answers, not keeping a conversation going.

We’ve found singles enjoy talking…couples not so much. If we can’t connect out of the bedroom there’s no chance of us getting any further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve found singles enjoy talking…couples not so much. If we can’t connect out of the bedroom there’s no chance of us getting any further. "

We have found that often with couples as we aren’t looking for full swap (at the moment ) couples message us even thought their interests - wants or needs are not the same as ours…. Think they can convince us ?

Single females we have found have always had an attitude (apart from my FAB crush

) came across as their needs being the most important?

Of course I know not everyone is like that

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

We’ve found singles enjoy talking…couples not so much. If we can’t connect out of the bedroom there’s no chance of us getting any further.

Single females we have found have always had an attitude (apart from my FAB crush

) came across as their needs being the most important?

Of course I know not everyone is like that "

We've had a fair few couples asking us to meet up anyway and we can have a chat about things and see where they go. As if we'll just say OK, we've washed and shaved so we might as well get down to it

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We’re open to the idea

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

We have about 5 picks of Mr R, there is only so much a man can do,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a fair few couples asking us to meet up anyway and we can have a chat about things and see where they go. As if we'll just say OK, we've washed and shaved so we might as well get down to it"

Oh yes ! We have had similar - and also messages just literally saying

“Do you want to come round ?” - ummmm no thanks lol

I know for some the less talk more action approach is what they are looking for but for me - as the bi fem part of the couple I have to be attracted to the people male and female . That includes building a connection chatting, having a laugh etc. I have no desire to just fuck anyone !

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

Evening all

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

We’ve found singles enjoy talking…couples not so much. If we can’t connect out of the bedroom there’s no chance of us getting any further.

Single females we have found have always had an attitude (apart from my FAB crush

) came across as their needs being the most important?

Of course I know not everyone is like that "

Have they actually pushed the full swap agenda or just that it's on their profile? Plenty of couples who are full swap are happy to soft swap too, we've soft swapped before and enjoy it no less than full.

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

We're open to the idea of meeting another couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if both really - we are in a weird old position I guess in that I have no issues with the other being with another woman , I’m just not interested in another man at all (it’s the girls for me

)

Of course finding a couple that would be happy with that situation is difficult because it’s not an even playing field - so soft swap for us would be FF play and playing with other partners same room etc!

We have had many messages with - you will change your mind when you see XYZ’s cock . Like ive never seen a good cock before ?? or many where the female is ‘bi-curious ‘ but when we get into it talking boundaries etc it’s apparent it’s more for putting on a show for their fella !

It’s a minefield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noted re the pics… there’s a few of Reg, but we need some more ( it’s just he thinks he’s flipping David Bailey with a camera… I never do quite as well!!!). We’ll add some more.

I suppose for us, it’s finding the right couple… we’re really only after same room fun/ soft swap initially… so it’s being confident in the other couple as well as finding a mutual attraction.

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Couples or single ladies. Happy to meet either

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

We would rather meet couple to singles more relaxed n no trying to tempt the other one to play as singles

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We play with other couples, and single ladies of course but we haven't been that lucky yet.

We think that we do have a decent amount of pictures of both of us on our profile, but it still doesn't make finding other couples any easier.

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

Finding other couples with a genuine equal attraction is a challenge, more so as so many really seem to want a single female but 'settle' for a couple...

Worse again if your lady is happily straight and doesn't want to be turned

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

But if both really - we are in a weird old position I guess in that I have no issues with the other being with another woman , I’m just not interested in another man at all (it’s the girls for me

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It’s a minefield "

I doubt you're the only ones in that situation it's not an unusual arrangement, E is definitely more about the girls than the guys although she likes seeing me with other women no one part of it is essential everytime if that makes sense and I'd imagine a lot of people are the same. Like we've spoken to couples who just want same room no swap before and it's not something we'd rule out just because we like to full swap too it's all meeting new people and sharing sexy experiences.

We've had the putting on a show couples too, we had one woman from a couple who was fine with E doing things to her but wouldn't do anything to another woman which just seemed like gently ticking the bi box lol

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’d be happy with a soft swap meet. The females play then have sex with your own partners. It’s all about the connection for us…that’s what is important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you are very right - not every part needs to be essential And we have had experiences that have had one part or another of what we are looking for ! As you say it is all about sharing new experiences!

I think I’ve pretty much been able to spot the gentle box tickers . I make sure that I’m not being used as an experiment or for someone’s husbands wank bank. It’s so frustrating! I tend actually really not to bother with those who say “bi curious “ ….

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By *partharmony OP Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip

The thing with photos of the Mr isn't about there being an equal number of photos compared with the Mrs. It's only about there being enough to get a reasonable idea of what he looks like. A couple of pics is fine. Just don't make them close-up dick pics because that doesn't tell us anything about attraction on our side, and don't make us hunt through stacks of photos wondering if we're going to find any. Keep something him fairly near the top.

I totally get that a lot of couples like photos of the lady more than the man. I think that's absolutely fine. I'd just encourage people not to let the guy be squeezed out of the gallery completely. Seeing if somebody is attracted to him is not a trivial point when looking for couples. I'd say it's pretty damn important.

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By *thLincsCpleCouple
over a year ago

Barton upon Humber

We have, over the years had a couple of very long term couples we have played with, but times move on, people change, for varying reasons and life dictates the path they follow but finding a new couple were all the planets align is really hard to the point that we are now just looking to meet in clubs. Even when you do meet someone and you all click or think you have, you have a great social and all the right boxes are ticked, there is still no guarantees, life gets in the way, nerves can be a massive factor for some, we tend to avoid newbies for this reason, but even as recent meets have proven, you can be let down by anyone, anytime, anywhere.

Pictures of both of the couple is a big thing with us, we recently sent a message of introduction including real names and face pics of us both, we got very positive response back minus the face pics and they then asked us what we thought of them, so explained that us very hard to judge without seeing them both; their response to that, was to just send pictures of the lady, as he didn’t want to show his face! Really, what are you going to do on a meet, wear a bag ffs.

So any nice couples who think they might tick our boxes that aren’t too far away, feel free to drop us a line

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By *oungAtHeartCurvyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We are finding it difficult meeting other couples aswell had couple of meets arranged but first meet turned out only the male could meet us at last minute so decided to cancel that one 2nd one we arranged a social meet hotel was booked and they never turned up! Yeah in our profile it is mostly pics of the mrs due to the lingerie she can wear and can you imagine the male posing for pics the way us woman do lol

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