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why add friends if they wont talk to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how come i add people as a friend, send them messages, get no response and all messages delete'd? weird.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowt as funny as folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get this too, and its down to two simple words

Pic Perves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well you seen me!!! dont think they want my pics somehow....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

delete em then, its not rocket science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete em hun and keep the ones who do chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great minds miss silk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i do, its just why they do it in the first place...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i get this too, and its down to two simple words

Pic Perves "

totally agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who knows but dont worry about it i certainly dont

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it does'nt really bother me... that much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oh i forgot... afternoon sexy miss pussy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some ppl think by having a friends list as long as there arm that it makes em look popular, to me it makes em look sad,.i saw a profile the other day and it had 1000 friends, wtf is that about ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had a few who wanted friends invites when we first joined...a couple were added twice...ignored our messages and had then deleted us as friends...they wanted to add us as friends again this morning and i told them to fuck off !!

he then messaged back saying i was out of order and threatning to punch my head in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh i forgot... afternoon sexy miss pussy... "

Afternoon darling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some ppl think by having a friends list as long as there arm that it makes em look popular, to me it makes em look sad,.i saw a profile the other day and it had 1000 friends, wtf is that about , "

Think ive just read the same profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

like some one said "nowt as queer as folk"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he then messaged back saying i was out of order and threatning to punch my head in "

LOL Internet tough guy to rescue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he then messaged back saying i was out of order and threatning to punch my head in

LOL Internet tough guy to rescue"

don't worry though...i see his pic...he won't be punching anyones head in least of all me !!

6 ko's on the rugby pitch me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we had a few who wanted friends invites when we first joined...a couple were added twice...ignored our messages and had then deleted us as friends...they wanted to add us as friends again this morning and i told them to fuck off !!

he then messaged back saying i was out of order and threatning to punch my head in "

not guilty...lol we have had the same thing a couple added us deleted us send us another friends invite looked at our pics ..sent message back saying thanks but no thanks "fair enough we thought" no problems now we see them looking in our profile every day and sending us winks? whats that all about ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we had a few who wanted friends invites when we first joined...a couple were added twice...ignored our messages and had then deleted us as friends...they wanted to add us as friends again this morning and i told them to fuck off !!

he then messaged back saying i was out of order and threatning to punch my head in

not guilty...lol we have had the same thing a couple added us deleted us send us another friends invite looked at our pics ..sent message back saying thanks but no thanks "fair enough we thought" no problems now we see them looking in our profile every day and sending us winks? whats that all about ??"

wasn't you

i know we exchanged messages about music etc...this couple dont message...dont reply to message unless you tell them to fuck off...they just want to look at pics ! thats why we show most of them on our profile (and hopefully posting more soon as tracey is recovering now and wants to play).

should name and shame but i know i can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we had a few who wanted friends invites when we first joined...a couple were added twice...ignored our messages and had then deleted us as friends...they wanted to add us as friends again this morning and i told them to fuck off !!

he then messaged back saying i was out of order and threatning to punch my head in

not guilty...lol we have had the same thing a couple added us deleted us send us another friends invite looked at our pics ..sent message back saying thanks but no thanks "fair enough we thought" no problems now we see them looking in our profile every day and sending us winks? whats that all about ??"

Confused dot com

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i dont think i should have start'd this forum... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had our fair share of pic collectors, dreamers, wannabe's and just plain rude people .... forget them is best, the decent sexies more than make up for the numpties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've had our fair share of pic collectors, dreamers, wannabe's and just plain rude people .... forget them is best, the decent sexies more than make up for the numpties "

Yup....... Well Said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've had our fair share of pic collectors, dreamers, wannabe's and just plain rude people .... forget them is best, the decent sexies more than make up for the numpties

Yup....... Well Said! "

I thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've had our fair share of pic collectors, dreamers, wannabe's and just plain rude people .... forget them is best, the decent sexies more than make up for the numpties

Yup....... Well Said!

I thank you "

No No... I thank you lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you add people to your friends list and they don't bother chatting or engaging in any communication whatsoever then just delete them. If they send another invite then just refuse...it really is that simple. I have no idea why people have long friends lists to be honest; all it seems to be is some sort of status symbol in the same way you get friend collectors on facebook/myspace.

I have had 2 women who invited me to be friends but then showed no inclination to actually communicate and get to know me. So it's good riddance to them and all my energies are geared towards those genuine people on here.

Just use your right to say no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i asked forum folk for help on what to do with my friends list and it seems that the best thing to do is only add the ones you have met or are planning to meet.

sadly some do just want to be on your friends list to waste your time and look at the pics.

delete them.if they got a problem with it they will soon ask you why.

none i deleted have asked why so there you go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

if i got my list down to those i am planning to meet, it would be empty!!!

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I add them and then if I hear nothing from them after a few weeks, I throw then off my friends list.

If they have to ask to come back on well...all I can say is there is nothing as evil as this Evil Eve xxx

So many men, so little time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah know the feeling check out my friend list once a week and if the people havent talked in a while I delate them. But some are the ones I want to meet and share the our pics as in the pics taken at the meet with them so it all fair in love and war. So my friend list changes from week to week unless am really into the person in big way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how come i add people as a friend, send them messages, get no response and all messages delete'd? weird....."

Why did YOU add them ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"how come i add people as a friend, send them messages, get no response and all messages delete'd? weird.....

Why did YOU add them ? "

we talk'd and they ask'd me too, since then they just delete my messages...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i got my list down to those i am planning to meet, it would be empty!!!"

Awwwwwwwwwww

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if i got my list down to those i am planning to meet, it would be empty!!!

Awwwwwwwwwww"

your on my list though mama... xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i got my list down to those i am planning to meet, it would be empty!!!

Awwwwwwwwwww

your on my list though mama... xx"

Oh am i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we had a few who wanted friends invites when we first joined...a couple were added twice...ignored our messages and had then deleted us as friends...they wanted to add us as friends again this morning and i told them to fuck off !!

he then messaged back saying i was out of order and threatning to punch my head in

not guilty...lol we have had the same thing a couple added us deleted us send us another friends invite looked at our pics ..sent message back saying thanks but no thanks "fair enough we thought" no problems now we see them looking in our profile every day and sending us winks? whats that all about ??"

I have had similar baffling mixed messages, I can only assume one half of the couple wants to meet the other doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tend to keep my friends list to people i know personally and am in regular contact with, and proper mates.

my hotlist however, well thats interesting people i want to meet, or enjoy a bit of banter with now and again

i have an endless list of friend requests, i don't even look at them any more.

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