FabSwingers.com forum: Advice on getting that elusive first meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey fabber been looking for few weeks now and seems everybody is loookingnfor a guy who already has verifications obviously that’s a problem for me because haven’t met no one yet … had a bit of luck at club f but not much on here any advice would be much appreciated

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Revamp your profile . Your 29 and you have the same pics as a 70 year old on here. Your in the age bracket I would meet but your lack of imagination and lack of ability to sell yourself means I would sail past quickly.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1217969

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Face pics can help to find a compatible person

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Are you asking for profile advice OP?

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone I’m going to start on the revamping now see how it goes will let keep use lol updated

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Could you ask people at clubf to verify you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey fabber been looking for few weeks now and seems everybody is loookingnfor a guy who already has verifications obviously that’s a problem for me because haven’t met no one yet … had a bit of luck at club f but not much on here any advice would be much appreciated "

Looked at your profile, poor pics, badly written and shows very little effort, blunt but honest, hope it helps x

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By *arty84Man
over a year ago

Orpington

Welcome to fab teesideterror! As a single guy, it can take months, even a year to get that first meet, so a couple of weeks is barely a drop in the bucket compared to how long some of the other single guys on here have been waiting for!

Not trying to disparage you or anything, but there's thousands of single guys on here so it can take time to get a meet. Like others have mentioned the best way past this is to update your profile and try and see if there are any socials or clubs you can go to.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Patience...its not instashag!

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Looked at your profile, poor pics, badly written and shows very little effort, blunt but honest, hope it helps x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you very much for the advice blunt is the best way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah deffos know what u mean I didn’t mean to hook up literally not even getting reply’s lol

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By *ake and ScribbleCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Imagine you've just seen the MOST gorgeous person ever, your perfect person to get naked with. They then go and look at your profile, what impression do you think they'd get?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m not looking for the perfect person or else I would be on a dating site I’m looking for like minded open daring couples and woman

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By *ake and ScribbleCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"I’m not looking for the perfect person or else I would be on a dating site I’m looking for like minded open daring couples and woman "

You've missed my point.

Look at your profile and imagine you are the person you want to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for feedback

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

You have two pics - both with your cock in…not intriguing at all.

Plus your bio description is basically one long sentence. No full stops. Nothing different from all the other guys.

No effort made at all results in less chance of ever getting a meet.

You’ve joined expecting to be knee deep in women…it’s not going to happen with your profile as it is.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

The picture with your pants round your legs is very unflattering. Maybe look at others pictures get some ideas

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you trying to change it a bit as we speak could u let me know if it’s a bit better lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right guys could use have another look I will keep trying to make it more interesting but would u say it is an improvement

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By *imnher17Couple
over a year ago

Mirfield

Lose the cock shot. Some tastefully blurred out pictures from your social media profiles would get you a lot further.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm sorry, but that cock pic is terrible

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone I think that looks a little bit better and will keep adding more

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