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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well not on here but on tinder

Which might be the first time in the 6 years I've been on it

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

In your pic you look like the kinda guy that would do great on tinder? What’s going on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re picture is hot! Would have thought you’d get loads of luck on tinder! Great news though

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

I’ve done brilliant on Tinder with young ladies. Yes me. Fat over 50! Just shows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well not on here but on tinder

Which might be the first time in the 6 years I've been on it "

Was it an automated "Your account has been inactive for [timeframe] do you wish to continue searching?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In your pic you look like the kinda guy that would do great on tinder? What’s going on? "

I don't have those kind of pictures on tinder

Feels like on tinder that would come out as self loving douchebag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well not on here but on tinder

Which might be the first time in the 6 years I've been on it

Was it an automated "Your account has been inactive for [timeframe] do you wish to continue searching?"

"

Bit like the site supporter is running out message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My most prolific messager is site admin/site supporter reminders!..

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"In your pic you look like the kinda guy that would do great on tinder? What’s going on?

I don't have those kind of pictures on tinder

Feels like on tinder that would come out as self loving douchebag "

Ignore what women say, they eat that shit up on tinder, trust me. They say they hate it in public and in private they super like it and invite you over

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Congratulations! Tinder sucks doesnt it? .

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In your pic you look like the kinda guy that would do great on tinder? What’s going on?

I don't have those kind of pictures on tinder

Feels like on tinder that would come out as self loving douchebag "

I thought this was now a given on Tinder !

As long as yr profile says otherwise you will be fine.

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

I’d say for men (personal experience) tinder is significantly easier to meet women than it is on here!

Also being in a city OP? Very surprised at there being few messages sent your way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on tinder with just a body shot and a headless suit shot about 6/7 months ago and got a good few messages over 3 weeks before I binned it.

Based on that and your picture I find it hard to believe you don't get messages unless you have axe murderer on your profile. And that is very much a compliment btw

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Congratulations! Tinder sucks doesnt it? .

LvM"

Apparently it only sucks for the two of us

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Congratulations! I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d say for men (personal experience) tinder is significantly easier to meet women than it is on here!

Also being in a city OP? Very surprised at there being few messages sent your way"

I would say it's the exact opposite!

It's A LOT easier for me to get a chat going here than on dating apps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was on tinder with just a body shot and a headless suit shot about 6/7 months ago and got a good few messages over 3 weeks before I binned it.

Based on that and your picture I find it hard to believe you don't get messages unless you have axe murderer on your profile. And that is very much a compliment btw "

Humble brag

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I'm feeling quite offended now

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I never trust tinder until I actually meet them, I currently have 8 matches I'm talking to and 5 likes I'm yet to either match with or miss and out of those I'd be surprised if even half are genuine even though they have blue ticks

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Show off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never trust tinder until I actually meet them, I currently have 8 matches I'm talking to and 5 likes I'm yet to either match with or miss and out of those I'd be surprised if even half are genuine even though they have blue ticks "

I'd agree on the extra likes thing, def think they throw in a few fake likes to keep you swiping (and to get people to sign up to the extra subscriptions were they can see who's liked them without matching as that's were the money is)

but you are a good looking pup so I'm sure you do well enough regardless

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I never trust tinder until I actually meet them, I currently have 8 matches I'm talking to and 5 likes I'm yet to either match with or miss and out of those I'd be surprised if even half are genuine even though they have blue ticks

I'd agree on the extra likes thing, def think they throw in a few fake likes to keep you swiping (and to get people to sign up to the extra subscriptions were they can see who's liked them without matching as that's were the money is)

but you are a good looking pup so I'm sure you do well enough regardless "

You can work out who has liked you even with the blurred photo

I'd never pay for tinder and cheers buddy

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Congratulations! Tinder sucks doesnt it? .

LvM

Apparently it only sucks for the two of us "

Maybe we should try Grindr instead

LvM

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By *arkcrystalMan
over a year ago

Bristol

What is tinder?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My most prolific messager is site admin/site supporter reminders!.. "
ditto!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very rare for me to get a message, not even a reply from one I’ve sent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Congratulations! Tinder sucks doesnt it? .

LvM

Apparently it only sucks for the two of us

Maybe we should try Grindr instead

LvM"

Bend over then lover boy

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Congratulations!

Tinder sucks.

I got more messages when I advertised on mine that I was only interested in meeting people so I could kill them and steal their cat.

Knowing more people reacted to that than a normal profile put me off it & now I live at home with my 69 cats and never leave the house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well not on here but on tinder

Which might be the first time in the 6 years I've been on it "

And we needed to know this why ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well not on here but on tinder

Which might be the first time in the 6 years I've been on it

And we needed to know this why ??

"

And you needed to comment on a thread that you're not remotely interested in why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Congratulations!

Tinder sucks.

I got more messages when I advertised on mine that I was only interested in meeting people so I could kill them and steal their cat.

Knowing more people reacted to that than a normal profile put me off it & now I live at home with my 69 cats and never leave the house. "

That's a lot of cats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not allowed to join tinder.

I don't meet the minimum beauty standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well not on here but on tinder

Which might be the first time in the 6 years I've been on it

And we needed to know this why ??

And you needed to comment on a thread that you're not remotely interested in why?

"

Who said I wasn’t interested? I asked a genuine question !??

Your not on tinder now so honestly I just found it odd !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well not on here but on tinder

Which might be the first time in the 6 years I've been on it "

Are you sure you just haven't logged in for 6 years?

Never been on Tinder but I'd have messaged if I was..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never been on tinder my younger sister is in there though. Sometimes she asks me to swipe for her cos she trusts my taste. Anyway saw this one dude who was gorgeous, swiped and it was an instant match so I sent him a message saying ‘fancy a rim?’ He replied to my sister at which point she clocked what is sent him and has to say oh his I’m so sorry my older sister sent that message, and he replied saying can I have her number then true story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never been on tinder my younger sister is in there though. Sometimes she asks me to swipe for her cos she trusts my taste. Anyway saw this one dude who was gorgeous, swiped and it was an instant match so I sent him a message saying ‘fancy a rim?’ He replied to my sister at which point she clocked what is sent him and has to say oh his I’m so sorry my older sister sent that message, and he replied saying can I have her number then true story. "

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Well not on here but on tinder

Which might be the first time in the 6 years I've been on it

And we needed to know this why ??

"

Rude!

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By *ustauseerTV/TS
over a year ago

Sedgemoor

I just get abuse from men who’ll match with me and just hurl abuse.

I don’t understand why you’d bother to do that, just unmatch innit. Bare effort when you could be working on your shitty personality and maybe get laid. Smh, just want some lad to be in me and call me a good girl.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"I’d say for men (personal experience) tinder is significantly easier to meet women than it is on here!

Also being in a city OP? Very surprised at there being few messages sent your way

I would say it's the exact opposite!

It's A LOT easier for me to get a chat going here than on dating apps "

Same here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never been on tinder my younger sister is in there though. Sometimes she asks me to swipe for her cos she trusts my taste. Anyway saw this one dude who was gorgeous, swiped and it was an instant match so I sent him a message saying ‘fancy a rim?’ He replied to my sister at which point she clocked what is sent him and has to say oh his I’m so sorry my older sister sent that message, and he replied saying can I have her number then true story. "

Arse fixation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well not on here but on tinder

Which might be the first time in the 6 years I've been on it

And we needed to know this why ??

And you needed to comment on a thread that you're not remotely interested in why?

Who said I wasn’t interested? I asked a genuine question !??

Your not on tinder now so honestly I just found it odd !

"

Cool, just keep scratching your head then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well not on here but on tinder

Which might be the first time in the 6 years I've been on it

Are you sure you just haven't logged in for 6 years?

Never been on Tinder but I'd have messaged if I was.. "

It's a minefield

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve never been on tinder my younger sister is in there though. Sometimes she asks me to swipe for her cos she trusts my taste. Anyway saw this one dude who was gorgeous, swiped and it was an instant match so I sent him a message saying ‘fancy a rim?’ He replied to my sister at which point she clocked what is sent him and has to say oh his I’m so sorry my older sister sent that message, and he replied saying can I have her number then true story. "

I let my sister swipe for me but it yearned 0 results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well not on here but on tinder

Which might be the first time in the 6 years I've been on it

And we needed to know this why ??

And you needed to comment on a thread that you're not remotely interested in why?

Who said I wasn’t interested? I asked a genuine question !??

Your not on tinder now so honestly I just found it odd !

Cool, just keep scratching your head then "

To busy getting hit up on tinder mate !

Maybe stop letting your little sister use it and you might get more luck !!!

I’m sure you’ll keep us well informed regardless

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well not on here but on tinder

Which might be the first time in the 6 years I've been on it

And we needed to know this why ??

And you needed to comment on a thread that you're not remotely interested in why?

Who said I wasn’t interested? I asked a genuine question !??

Your not on tinder now so honestly I just found it odd !

Cool, just keep scratching your head then

To busy getting hit up on tinder mate !

Maybe stop letting your little sister use it and you might get more luck !!!

I’m sure you’ll keep us well informed regardless "

Don't let the door hit you on your way out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He means he’s been on tinder 6 years and it’s the first time he’s got a message ..not that he’s not been on it for six years. I think

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By *ustauseerTV/TS
over a year ago

Sedgemoor


"Well not on here but on tinder

Which might be the first time in the 6 years I've been on it

And we needed to know this why ??

And you needed to comment on a thread that you're not remotely interested in why?

Who said I wasn’t interested? I asked a genuine question !??

Your not on tinder now so honestly I just found it odd !

Cool, just keep scratching your head then

To busy getting hit up on tinder mate !

Maybe stop letting your little sister use it and you might get more luck !!!

I’m sure you’ll keep us well informed regardless

Don't let the door hit you on your way out "

I’d message you first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well not on here but on tinder

Which might be the first time in the 6 years I've been on it

And we needed to know this why ??

And you needed to comment on a thread that you're not remotely interested in why?

Who said I wasn’t interested? I asked a genuine question !??

Your not on tinder now so honestly I just found it odd !

Cool, just keep scratching your head then

To busy getting hit up on tinder mate !

Maybe stop letting your little sister use it and you might get more luck !!!

I’m sure you’ll keep us well informed regardless

Don't let the door hit you on your way out

I’d message you first "

who’s side you on ??

I’m kidding

and OP I was just having a laugh mate and you played it well

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By *ustauseerTV/TS
over a year ago

Sedgemoor


"Well not on here but on tinder

Which might be the first time in the 6 years I've been on it

And we needed to know this why ??

And you needed to comment on a thread that you're not remotely interested in why?

Who said I wasn’t interested? I asked a genuine question !??

Your not on tinder now so honestly I just found it odd !

Cool, just keep scratching your head then

To busy getting hit up on tinder mate !

Maybe stop letting your little sister use it and you might get more luck !!!

I’m sure you’ll keep us well informed regardless

Don't let the door hit you on your way out

I’d message you first who’s side you on ??

I’m kidding

and OP I was just having a laugh mate and you played it well "

Now now, no need to fight over me, you can both have a slice, maybe at the same time if you’d like to really party

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By *ceKweenWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

I tried Facebook dating for a few days… yes, a few days. Made me giggle on occasion as some of the chaps I recognised from fab!

But better the devil you know… I enjoy this place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i've gotten no where on here so maybe i need to try Tinder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i've gotten no where on here so maybe i need to try Tinder."

Just do what I do use someone else’s photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tried Facebook dating for a few days… yes, a few days. Made me giggle on occasion as some of the chaps I recognised from fab!

But better the devil you know… I enjoy this place "

I've yet to work out how FB dating works !

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito


"Congratulations!

Tinder sucks.

I got more messages when I advertised on mine that I was only interested in meeting people so I could kill them and steal their cat.

Knowing more people reacted to that than a normal profile put me off it & now I live at home with my 69 cats and never leave the house.

That's a lot of cats "

But people tell me on here they like lots of pussy

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By *ceKweenWoman
over a year ago

Bolton


"I tried Facebook dating for a few days… yes, a few days. Made me giggle on occasion as some of the chaps I recognised from fab!

But better the devil you know… I enjoy this place I've yet to work out how FB dating works !"

Give up while you can… unless your shopping that is…. loads of adverts!

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