FabSwingers.com forum: Wink, Fab or Message

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do people prefer? To be winked at? For your pics to be fabbed? Or to be messaged?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer them to nosh me off whilst flicking their bean

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Rather depends on the content of the message!

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

"Rather depends on the content of the message!"

And who is winking/fabbing/messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message, I need it to be obvious

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It depends on the message and the sender. We'd rather receive a wink than a crap message any day, but if it's somebody we like, it's all welcome.

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By *bsolutley FabMan
over a year ago

Fareham

A nice normal message

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Can only receive one out of those three options thanks to my filters ... but if it's a Fab match both ways then it's a win win

(even if you hate that phrase!?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean wink to show interest then a message

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Whichever way they make contact, I wish they'd send or have face pics on their profile.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Any it’s all good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message is great, but I'm happy with a wink or a fab too.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I try all three and my little toe

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I don't check winks.

My pics can't be fabbed.

I don't really check my messages all that regularly.

I'll go with messages

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I don't mind any of them it's part of the fun of fab

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By *enuinecpl101Couple
over a year ago

Co armagh

Messages when they come steady x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do people prefer? To be winked at? For your pics to be fabbed? Or to be messaged?"

Messaged right ?

Love a good witty message only got the one but still was hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't check winks.

My pics can't be fabbed.

I don't really check my messages all that regularly.

I'll go with messages

Whaaaaaat? You don't check winks?? Dammit. I'll have to send you a message now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know there’s tonnes of people who don’t check winks or anything but saves barking up the wrong tree, then if they wink back I’d message

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I don't check winks.

My pics can't be fabbed.

I don't really check my messages all that regularly.

I'll go with messages

Whaaaaaat? You don't check winks?? Dammit. I'll have to send you a message now...

Thats funny as i've just winked at you

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Messaged x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im the biggest winker out there

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By *apafettMan
over a year ago

nottingham

If you like it, leave a fab. No harm and a message to follow through. Feel like a wink is pretty pointless.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

I’d Prefer a message as most days i think

My inbox is broken!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be greedy and just select all 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messaged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above, i'm rather needy

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By *aguar888Man
over a year ago

Dublin,

Love a bit of winking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am happy with any tbh. I take a fab as they like the pic, a wink if they are interested and testing the water and a message they want to get to get to know you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to be messaged, a lot of people might fab your photos but be too far etc to meet, at least messaging is straight forward and you can tell a lot by that first message. X

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By *icola2202Couple
over a year ago

Chatham

Message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good message (rare as they are!), as I pay no attention to winks, fabs and friend requests.

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Message with face pic if no profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message you can't bate an auld natter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like the wink system but we also like a good message.

(Miss)

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By *notherGentMan
over a year ago

doncaster

A wink and and then a message to follow grabs my attention the most without a doubt

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

I don't mind either-or but a message straight to the point is always the best way to get it started haha

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"What do people prefer? To be winked at? For your pics to be fabbed? Or to be messaged?"

Its a damn good excuse for a perv either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take all as a compliment

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I really appreciate a fab

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I like winks anytime

Messages only when I'm hunting, I make that very clear with leading questions on my profile

Fabs I don't check

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"I like winks anytime

Messages only when I'm hunting, I make that very clear with leading questions on my profile

Fabs I don't check"

How spooky ... the complete reverse!

I like Fabs anytime, I send out a message if I'm 'hunting' and winks I don't check ...

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By * kiss like morphineMan
over a year ago

The gravelly bit next to the shed

"What do people prefer? To be winked at? For your pics to be fabbed? Or to be messaged?

Amything I'm lonely, also if you're passing the bar....

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

A polite message

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By *95888Man
over a year ago

carlisle

A decent message.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

Winks are pointless, messaging isn't much better even with a polite message!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be completely frank my ego gets boosted by all of the above.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"To be completely frank my ego gets boosted by all of the above. "

...don't be Frank ...just be you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabs and winks are a compliment but messages all day long. Be direct and say what you want

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By *alleyGirlEnglishManCouple
over a year ago

Aberdare

We really like fabs and winks and of course we love flirty messages from interesting people who match our likes and what we’re looking for.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Anything is good. We are not silly enough to think a wink is lazy. It is a door opener. Fabs are welcome, but we never put naked pictures on here, so it doesn't happen. And messages? Anyone got a duster so I can clear out the cobwebs from our inbox?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would just prefer people to message us …. Or if you wink - send a message after ?

I never get why people say “if we wink you we are interested so send us a message “ ????

If your interested just send a message? Why go round the houses !

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

"What do people prefer? To be winked at? For your pics to be fabbed? Or to be messaged?"

Messaged .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the above hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the above hehe"

Greedy boy!

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