FabSwingers.com forum: What would you do?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have 2 friends of mine who are in a relationship but I've just found out that the guy has been shagging someone else only 2 weeks ago.

Question is would you just stay quiet and say nothing or say something to him or to her??

I've not known either of them that long, maybe 6-12 months but feel sorry for get add I know she's loves him alot.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Either do nothing or speak to him. Why would you tell her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 2 friends of mine who are in a relationship but I've just found out that the guy has been shagging someone else only 2 weeks ago.

Question is would you just stay quiet and say nothing or say something to him or to her??

I've not known either of them that long, maybe 6-12 months but feel sorry for get add I know she's loves him alot."

Do you fancy her?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm as much of a friend to her as him, in fact I've known her longer

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I would stay out of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have 2 friends of mine who are in a relationship but I've just found out that the guy has been shagging someone else only 2 weeks ago.

Question is would you just stay quiet and say nothing or say something to him or to her??

I've not known either of them that long, maybe 6-12 months but feel sorry for get add I know she's loves him alot.

Do you fancy her?"

Haha no not at all

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Keep my nose out, it has nothing to do with anyone what others do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would stay out of it "

That is what I was thinking as it's not my problem but I just feel for her as I know she will get hurt

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Keep my nose out, it has nothing to do with anyone what others do.

Yes this is where I was heading so good to get other opinions on it so thankyou

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd maybe speak to him and give him the chance to sort it out 1st.

I think if have to stop hanging out with them if it continued and I wasn't comfortable with it(which I wouldn't be).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd maybe speak to him and give him the chance to sort it out 1st.

I think if have to stop hanging out with them if it continued and I wasn't comfortable with it(which I wouldn't be). "

That's the thing since I found out I've felt very uncomfortable which is why is played in my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The adulterer isn’t the injured party here, and doesn’t deserve your loyalty ... or silence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why stick your nose in, stay out of it, to many people in life wanting to cause problems and hide behind the moral high ground. You don’t know what goes on behind close doors

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm as much of a friend to her as him, in fact I've known her longer "

I don't really think that's relevant in something like this. Personally I'd say nothing, I have no idea what goes on in even my closest friends intimate relationships. However if I really felt the need to intervene I'd speak to the person I suspected of doing something and just say that I knew, it's up to them then.

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By *aui.Man
over a year ago

around here

You will not be thanked for saying anything by either party

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Stay out of it

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