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What is the most important lessons you’ve learned in life?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

let's here it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To not invest in people that aren’t worth the time

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

No one owes you anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listening to hear, not to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Measure twice, cut once

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

Spelling

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Be kind to people

Because you might meet them one day

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

No one else is allowed to be the author of your story

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"To not invest in people that aren’t worth the time"
I've thought this but how will you ever know? You need to give everyone the time of day cause you might be missing out on some good people

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

You only have one life so live to the full

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Everything is solved with cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To not invest in people that aren’t worth the timeI've thought this but how will you ever know? You need to give everyone the time of day cause you might be missing out on some good people"

After they have shown that they aren’t worth investing in

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Treat others as you would wish to be treated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the cliches that turn out to be solid gold truths :

If you’ve nothing nice to say say nothing

Politeness is free

Look after the pennies and the pounds look after themselves

And the best of all: one day you’ll walk a mile for a salad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what makes you happy, not what makes everbody else happy!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Treat others as you would wish to be treated."

Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All the cliches that turn out to be solid gold truths :

If you’ve nothing nice to say say nothing

Politeness is free

Look after the pennies and the pounds look after themselves

And the best of all: one day you’ll walk a mile for a salad "

Love it !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Treat others as you would wish to be treated.

Xx"

Always

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do what makes you happy, not what makes everbody else happy!"

100 percent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To not invest in people that aren’t worth the time"

Interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Washing machines only need one setting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheese is expensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A can of lynx is great for scale

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Not to spend time worrying about things that are beyond your control.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No one owes you anything"

True

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Choose who your friends are and how loyal you are to them

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By *ampshire_guy40Man
over a year ago

hampshire

The world doesn't owe u anything

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Don't trust work collegues.

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Trust your gut. Apart from when you have the runs.

Stay nice and don't lower your standards(under review :i think there's occasions where being a bastard under provocation probably is justified).

Be brave:cut out the clutter, the procrastinating, the prevarication, any fear, and just GO for it.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

To keep on going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never let life get you down !

Never let bully’s win !

Always respect the individual and opinions !

Always wear a clean pair of pants and socks daily ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you eat oysters, your rolling dice with the devil!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you eat oysters, your rolling dice with the devil!!"

Mmmmm seafood and a horny man ;-p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no such thing as rock bottom, just a ledge to perch on until you decend further into the abyss

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Loving someone enough to be honest is priceless and never forgotten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no such thing as rock bottom, just a ledge to perch on until you decend further into the abyss "

xxxx

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

People prove themselves through actions, not words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life's too short to hold grudges..

Say your piece and move forward...x

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Value your time and food.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to expect anything

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By *BBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in suffolk

Dont ignore red flags....

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Don't get married.

Don't go bankrupt.

Everything else is a bonus.

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

Don’t mend £500 to a Thai prostitute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Not to expect anything "

Fact

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Trust your gut.

Don't let others tell you what to think/feel.

Take each day as it comes and make the most of it.

Find the positives in everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't make plans, then no plans can go wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust your gut if any doubt don’t do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to take your parents for granted,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can’t love yourself how in the hell you gunna love somebody else

Praise to our lord and saviour Ru Paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Value your time and food."

Eat the damn cake !

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

When a person shows you who they really are, listen to them the first time.

Never treat someone as a priority when you’re just an option to them.

Time and attention are the most valuable things in any form of interaction.

Treat others as you would want to be treated.

Always be yourself, unless you can be a dragon, in which case then, always be a dragon

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

That you are enough to those who love you. If they don't believe you are then they aren't for you regardless of whether they are family or not.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Pay into a private pension from the day you start work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *obajxMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Sprouts are the devil's work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter what you do or say you cannot convince a person to attempt change if they believe they can't.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go where you are valued.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be who you want, and say what you feel because those who matter, won't mind, and those who mind, won't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A person who never makes mistakes never makes anything, the trick is to learn from those mistakes.

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By *ick1979xxMan
over a year ago

hornyville

Trust nobody but your granny

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

People suck.

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over a year ago


"A can of lynx is great for scale "

I cheat by using a travel size can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To not open the bottle of Dr Pepper too quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other peoples opinions of you are none of your business..

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By *lirty_dirtyCouple
over a year ago

Lingfield

"There's two types of people in this world..

There's us..

Then there's cunts. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't believe everything you hear/read.

So very true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Everything is solved with cake "

Amen to this.. if cake doesn't sort it, bring out the gin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sprouts are the devil's work"

Noooo.. it's nearly Christmas!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"That you are enough to those who love you. If they don't believe you are then they aren't for you regardless of whether they are family or not. "

This is very true.

I’d rather be alone than with someone who doesn’t see my worth

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By *heron212Man
over a year ago

London

You teach people how to treat you.

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By *illinghumbleMan
over a year ago

Croydon


"Listening to hear, not to reply. "

This one

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By *oveAndBangCouple
over a year ago

where the mood takes us

To not look at the others too much. Sometimes You need to be selfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't rely on anyone.

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

A certain look in the eye and an easy smile.

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By *hunderace...Man
over a year ago

Dudley

We live 2 lives, the second one starts when we realise we have but 1...

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

The internet is for porn

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Don't sweat the small stuff

Don't worry about things that are out of your control

You can't please everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t surrender too much of yourself for them (men)

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Never assume anything.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It is never that bad and unfortunately there is always someone more unfortunate than yourself.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Not everything is as it first seems, learn about someone before judging them.

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By *hunderace...Man
over a year ago

Dudley

He who has a why can bear any how...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore the rule book and don’t hesitate or waiver. Make a decision - Then press home the plan. Better to ask forgiveness than seek permission. Than be paralysed by procrastination or lack of conviction.

Not saying these are right or wrong. But they work. Can’t win em all. But then it is a journey, not a game with a prize at the end.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

That no matter how bad your life feels, your life can change if you remain open to it doing so…

K

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

When people show you who they are, believe them.

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

Be yourself....and have fun.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

No matter how bad your life may seem always remember there is someone worse off than you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I wake up each morning it's a good day because one day I won,t

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Sometimes you get what you want.

Other times, you get a lesson in patience and timing. Either way, you win.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


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Everything is solved with cake

Amen to this.. if cake doesn't sort it, bring out the gin"

A gin cake ... that must be the ultimate answer

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"The internet is for porn"

...I thought it was for shopping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything is temporary

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

Be the best person you can be and don't worry what others think.

The rest will fall into place.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Always have a plan for what you would do if everything fell apart tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not how hard you hit.

It's how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward.

That's how winning is done.

My favourite Rocky quote.

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By *oddess NailaWoman
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

live the life you want and not what others demand of you even if it means making a mistake as long as you learn from it

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By *ultured Gent16Man
over a year ago

close.

The only female that you can and should ever trust is your mother.

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

You can't please everyone

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"Everything is temporary "
that's a hard one to swallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't please everyone"

And never bother

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

To never trust words just actions! Also to never take time for granted and always be humble and kind. Be grateful for life because one day it will end

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Be the best person you can be and don't worry what others think.

The rest will fall into place. "

So true!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Live in the moment and find the joy in it.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Hug trees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hug trees"

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Hug trees

"

You can hug me

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

That the only person you can trust to look after you, is you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hug trees

You can hug me"

I do pull off good hugs right ?

Anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That the only person you can trust to look after you, is you. "

Unless your me !

Then I’m best off giving that job to someone with common sense ?

You seem smart ?

Can you recommend anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What someone actually does means more than what they say they will do.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"That the only person you can trust to look after you, is you.

Unless your me !

Then I’m best off giving that job to someone with common sense ?

You seem smart ?

Can you recommend anyone "

Me

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"That the only person you can trust to look after you, is you. "

Xxx true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be kind

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Hug trees

You can hug me

I do pull off good hugs right ?

Anytime "

No idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That the only person you can trust to look after you, is you.

Unless your me !

Then I’m best off giving that job to someone with common sense ?

You seem smart ?

Can you recommend anyone

Me"

I know you don’t drink but I’m seriously second guessing that right now

You have a hard enough time handling me on here which you do a great job at by the way !!! can’t be easy

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"That the only person you can trust to look after you, is you.

Unless your me !

Then I’m best off giving that job to someone with common sense ?

You seem smart ?

Can you recommend anyone "

Have you considered a personal nurse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life for yourself and your own morals and beliefs !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything is temporary "

And “Everything is Awesome” (too)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That the only person you can trust to look after you, is you.

Unless your me !

Then I’m best off giving that job to someone with common sense ?

You seem smart ?

Can you recommend anyone

Have you considered a personal nurse? "

My assumption was obviously wrong

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"That the only person you can trust to look after you, is you.

Unless your me !

Then I’m best off giving that job to someone with common sense ?

You seem smart ?

Can you recommend anyone

Have you considered a personal nurse?

My assumption was obviously wrong "

Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups, as a wise philosopher once said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything is temporary

And “Everything is Awesome” (too) "

But you have to sing that !!!!!

I’m already in a better mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be a snowflake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Health is your most valuable asset.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"

Everything is solved with cake "

This is true! haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mug of tae cures everything and flat 7up the Irish on here will understand

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

The un-aimed arrow never misses.

Never volunteer.

Keep your head down, fly low.

Don't blow your own trumpet. It's probably full of shit.

Know your limitations.

Be humble.

The wind is a powerful force, but it remains unseen.

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over a year ago

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"A mug of tae cures everything and flat 7up the Irish on here will understand "
Oh yes! Can hear Mrs Doyle cup of tea go on go on hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To stay single a scorned woman is a scary thing! And they aren't worth the bother that comes with them.

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By *ingerJezabelWoman
over a year ago

ilminster


"To stay single a scorned woman is a scary thing! And they aren't worth the bother that comes with them. "

Good advice! Especially a Welsh Red head we are fucking scatty when crossed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did i hear someone say cake...lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D*unk folk never lie.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

Don't do today, what someone else can do tomorrow.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Be honest and have integrity

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By *leedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds

You can be a good person but you don’t always have to be ‘the nice guy’…..

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By *napperSpikeMan
over a year ago

St Albans

Don't expect life to be fair.

It isn't.

Get used to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't offer to dig someones garden when it's bloody cold out no matter how good a friend they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone in business is a cunt until proven otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inevitably we are all going to die, so dont forget to live while we wait for that day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pay into a private pension from the day you start work.

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Self employed for most of my working life. I left it later than I should have to start mine. I'm OK financially but it could have been a lot better.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

That I need to have a full cup in order to help others

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Only you are the master of your own destiny, and if you don't believe in yourself, don't expect anyone else to believe in you.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Not to spend time worrying about things that are beyond your control."

So true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pay into a private pension from the day you start work.

Self employed for most of my working life. I left it later than I should have to start mine. I'm OK financially but it could have been a lot better."

my pension went bust, lost everything, biggest misstake i ever made was paying into that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about what other people think of you. They'll talk anyway regardless of what you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pay into a private pension from the day you start work.

Self employed for most of my working life. I left it later than I should have to start mine. I'm OK financially but it could have been a lot better.

my pension went bust, lost everything, biggest misstake i ever made was paying into that"

Sorry to hear that. Also happened to a friend of mine. Came close to having to sell his house.

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By *uy4swingingMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Love is a healer. Respect others and the planet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone makes mistakes, and dependant on the nature of the mistake deserves a second chance.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs


"Everyone makes mistakes, and dependant on the nature of the mistake deserves a second chance.

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Damn right

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

That no matter what happens. Life goes on.

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By *yclindaveMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Life is short and fragile it is a precious object treat it as such because it can be over in a flash.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always be the person offering a helping hand, one day you might be the person reaching up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust noone count on yourself

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

People project out what’s going on inside them, more often than not it’s their issue and nothing to do with you at all

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Not to take things to seriously and live it to the full! If u want to do it go for it! X

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

There's only one thing worse than being talked about, and that's not being talked about.

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

There are angels and arseholes everywhere, only the names and faces change.

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By *picknspanMan
over a year ago

North West Leeds

It is better to remain quiet and let others think of you as an idiot rather than to speak and prove them right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything is temporary that's a hard one to swallow"

Yep.. But it makes life a little easier once you do

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Tomorrow never comes… do it today..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never argue with someone who is clearly an idiot, they’ll bring you down to their level and beat you with experience.

Never enter an arse kicking contest with a hedgehog.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

To never worry about things I can't control

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Once you catch someone lying to you, everything after that looses credibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My entire family are nothing but selfish cunts.

None have ever given a single shit about me.

But in particular, I cannot wait to dance and piss on my "mothers" grave.

So the lesson I have learned? Blood is definitely not thicker than water, the family your born into isn't necessarily the family you need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still learning, I'm a bit slow.

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By *lectrumMan
over a year ago

south shields

Honesty is the best policy and

Don’t eat yellow snow are a couple that spring to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's alot of things. But ultimately. Do what makes you happy as long as no harm is brought to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be true to who you are and not be fake. Treat people the way you want to be treated. Don’t let anyone get you down no matter what they say or do. When things don’t go right pick your self up and try again never give up. Life is for living do today what you want never put it off tomorrow might never come

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

Try not to be a prick and try and make the world a tiny better by the time you go to sleep than it was when you woke up

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South East

Patience! Frustrates the hell out of me, but patience pays off in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put yourself first as no1 else will

Be kind to people you don't know what other people are going through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always go with your gut feeling

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

Think before you send a message!

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Don’t be a cunt

Apologies for the bad language.

Do not be a cunt.

Much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Success-

No one owes you anything in life, you owe it too yourself.

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