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"I've been on here over a month now, and have settled into a reasonable set of expectations and habits. If I "work" the forums, and essentially actively engage in the site I can get around 45-50 "profile views" a day. Half that if I just leave it and lurk. I know this isn't necessarily a useful thing to know (and it's just a by product of taking part which is where the meat is) and I also know I get a lot of views (Where a lot is obviously "some more") from those that keep there visibility off the radar when looking, but what do you get on a good/bad day? Just out of interest? I'm going to imagine that the average woman gets more by at least a full factor then the average guy..." I confess to perving your bum in stealth mode several times. I never look at how any people viewed me. Its seems like pretty useless information as a larger number of those won't even message or wink etc anyway. I have looked at it when a pic has done well. But that's not me being popular that's just the pic. So doesn't say anything anyway. I hate the thought of being popular with a passion. | |||
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"Note to future forum posters who stumble across this one, if you want an instant hit of views from guys "Just this minute", post a thread like this" Guilty as charged | |||
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"Depends if I get the boobs out to be honest . Bit of boob and my inbox is busier than Next on Boxing Day. No boobs? It’s like “who ARE you???” " Genuinely laughing at that. Mr | |||
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"Depends if I get the boobs out to be honest . Bit of boob and my inbox is busier than Next on Boxing Day. No boobs? It’s like “who ARE you???” " Boobs or not i’d perv you xx. You smoking hot welsh rarebit!! X | |||
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" I confess to perving your bum in stealth mode several times. I never look at how any people viewed me. Its seems like pretty useless information as a larger number of those won't even message or wink etc anyway. I have looked at it when a pic has done well. But that's not me being popular that's just the pic. So doesn't say anything anyway. I hate the thought of being popular with a passion. " I think my perving is usually less stealthy, you've had a few from me | |||
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"to be honest i couldnt care less what people think its the internet " this | |||
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"Depends if I get the boobs out to be honest . Bit of boob and my inbox is busier than Next on Boxing Day. No boobs? It’s like “who ARE you???” " Though the boots for me are as good as the boobs | |||
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"I am as popular as I want to be on fab, on the forums you will never know as the sneaky bunch mainly perv in ninja mode... " I am always in Ninja mode | |||
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"I don’t think views have any real link to popularity. Some folk are just nosy like me. " Agreed, it was a shitty word choice but there's limited space in the thread title. | |||
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"I get lots of messages, and love the forum. However I can’t imagine I’ll be popular on here. I don’t really ‘do’ sexy chat on here, and feel like I’m always shooting the fantasy stuff down in flames Plus, I have feminist tendencies which I’m not sure are entirely in keeping with Fab at times ..." I do that too either have a conversation with me or go away, I’m not here to help you wank! I love sex but I don’t love talking about it with someone I haven’t yet met | |||
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"The majority of women perve in ninja mode. You say your popularity level is low because you only get 45-50 daily views. I post in the forums almost every single day and I have yet to get more than 12-15 visible views on any given day. Today I have one. Yesterday I had 3. I don't see it as a popularity contest because regardless of how many people view I don't get fabs or winks and virtually no messages so if I was worried about being popular I wouldn't be here very long. " Good points, and I did try to not frame as if I wanted or felt I deserved more - my enjoyment is in the forums not how many men (the vast majority) look at me, but I do find it interesting how the numbers stack up (i.e how bad it is for the women!) | |||
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"Seen as most women get hundreds of messages a day I'm going to say I'm very unpopular..." Just got one more though | |||
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"Not at all. Average about 10-15 non stealth visits a day and don’t think too much to it. I don’t consider myself popular. I just fly under the radar, make the odd quirk and then disappear " Like a theif in the shadows, a precious morning mist, a soul mate you never knew you passed on a ship in the night! and so on and so forth | |||
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"Depends if I get the boobs out to be honest . Bit of boob and my inbox is busier than Next on Boxing Day. No boobs? It’s like “who ARE you???” " Interesting to see if that works for me. Just uploaded new pics showing my boobs. Don't think I'll have the same success though... | |||
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"Depends if I get the boobs out to be honest . Bit of boob and my inbox is busier than Next on Boxing Day. No boobs? It’s like “who ARE you???” " This | |||
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"To be honest it really makes no difference how many view you get. It’s the FAB’s/views from the people that you want to interact with that make a difference… K" And that's the point really isn't it. I have quite a few filters on, and set criteria for responding... I rarely break double figures on views, unless there is a forum photo challenge... But the interest I do get, and the folk i do contact, do usually result in a conversation, not just 1 or 2 messages. And I prefer it this way, keeps the Fab-min down, and focuses attention to those that I would like to meet! | |||
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"Depends if I get the boobs out to be honest . Bit of boob and my inbox is busier than Next on Boxing Day. No boobs? It’s like “who ARE you???” " Talk about click bait... and not a boob to be seen | |||
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"No boobs? It’s like “who ARE you???”" If you say this in a Joe Goldberg voice then it sounds much better. | |||
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"I’m not popular at all, no one calls, no one rings anymore, no one leaves a message… ohh yeah I forgot they can’t get through " Oh Sandy, baby, someday When high school is done Somehow, someway Our two worlds will be one Oooh ooooh | |||
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"Popular by interactions etc from the forum, not at all. Otherwise? I have the attention of those I want, so yeah. Success! " | |||
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"I have days I feel quite popular and days I feel invisible. I'd rather not be really popular because then it becomes a chore being on here. " Your never invisible xx | |||
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"Hang on. Actually. Ask me again on "Wiggle Wednesday" I've got a good video if you haven't seen it (had it up but taken it down for Wednesdays fun haha). " 50 of those visits will be me mashing refresh | |||
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"I've been on here over a month now, and have settled into a reasonable set of expectations and habits. If I "work" the forums, and essentially actively engage in the site I can get around 45-50 "profile views" a day. Half that if I just leave it and lurk. I know this isn't necessarily a useful thing to know (and it's just a by product of taking part which is where the meat is) and I also know I get a lot of views (Where a lot is obviously "some more") from those that keep there visibility off the radar when looking, but what do you get on a good/bad day? Just out of interest? I'm going to imagine that the average woman gets more by at least a full factor then the average guy..." Well, 40-50 views you know of. I’ve had 16 views today and 1 (unsolicited) message. | |||
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"From my experience, guys like myself that can accommodate, and that's not just in hotels and back of cars, tend to rate high in the popularity stakes, and do not to go short of offers. " Can't wait to get my house in January time then! | |||
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"I have days I feel quite popular and days I feel invisible. I'd rather not be really popular because then it becomes a chore being on here. Your never invisible xx" I knew I shouldn't have trusted the guy that sold me my cloak | |||
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"I bizzarely had 40 in one day once. I put a story of the forums but other than that I had no idea why. I even got some friend requests out of them. Wish I knew how because I'd do it again." Here, here! It's frustrating getting something right, but not realising was it was. | |||
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"I have days I feel quite popular and days I feel invisible. I'd rather not be really popular because then it becomes a chore being on here. Your never invisible xx I knew I shouldn't have trusted the guy that sold me my cloak " Mr Mystique? | |||
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"I find if I show my boobs off with a face pic I get about 10,000 views, endless pointless mails and a inbox bigger than the national debt, lol, so I just get my boobs out lol x" I get a similar reaction when I post a clear face pic - so I only have half of the bad side | |||
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"I have days I feel quite popular and days I feel invisible. I'd rather not be really popular because then it becomes a chore being on here. Your never invisible xx I knew I shouldn't have trusted the guy that sold me my cloak Mr Mystique?" He didn't give me his name and he was wearing a gimp mask so I'm clueless | |||
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"Seen as most women get hundreds of messages a day I'm going to say I'm very unpopular..." Can we say hi?? | |||
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"I'm popular in my own mind and that's all that matters " I was once too, but got voted out (Mr) | |||
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"I'm popular in my own mind and that's all that matters I was once too, but got voted out (Mr) " How does it feeling being out of your mind? | |||
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"Not bothered really, as long as I'm liked/hated for being me. " It’s a liked from me! | |||
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"I’m not popular at all, no one calls, no one rings anymore, no one leaves a message… ohh yeah I forgot they can’t get through Oh Sandy, baby, someday When high school is done Somehow, someway Our two worlds will be one Oooh ooooh " Serenaded how delightful | |||
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"I'm very popular actually and everyone wants to be me or be my friend and it is exhausting. I'm number 2 top forumite also. It's not easy being as great as me but someone has to do it I suppose." Who's no 1 | |||
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"I'm very popular actually and everyone wants to be me or be my friend and it is exhausting. I'm number 2 top forumite also. It's not easy being as great as me but someone has to do it I suppose." How do you stay so humble too?! | |||
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