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"Which Team are you when eating out in any group size?" Generally always split the bill, Monzo makes it super easy to do this by number of people. | |||
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"It depends. If I know I've had a lot more than the others I'll put more in, otherwise I'm happy to split equally. " Beat me to it. Mr | |||
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"It depends. If I know I've had a lot more than the others I'll put more in, otherwise I'm happy to split equally. " This for me too. If I've had expensive drinks I wouldn't expect someone else to subsidise me, but I'm not arsed about little differences. | |||
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"Split. Those that get their calculators out make me cringe. " Me too. | |||
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"Which Team are you when eating out in any group size?" Split the bill or treat. People who insist on paying per item don’t usually get a repeat invite | |||
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"I’ve got the last meal us 4 girls had. £139 in total. £56 of that was food £83 was alcohol. (Not putting the odd pence on) £139 divided by 4 is £34.75. Yet my meal cost £14 exactly and my pint of water was free. Should I pay an extra £20 for them, umm no. " Course not. not many of my friends don’t drink but if someone isn’t then they don’t pay anything towards the drinks bill. People who faff about her dinner was £2 more than mine though wouldn’t be my kinda people. | |||
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"I’ve got the last meal us 4 girls had. £139 in total. £56 of that was food £83 was alcohol. (Not putting the odd pence on) £139 divided by 4 is £34.75. Yet my meal cost £14 exactly and my pint of water was free. Should I pay an extra £20 for them, umm no. Course not. not many of my friends don’t drink but if someone isn’t then they don’t pay anything towards the drinks bill. People who faff about her dinner was £2 more than mine though wouldn’t be my kinda people. " That difference doesn't bother me, but there's always those that go crazy with the booze in my circle of acquaintances.. | |||
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"If I'm out with friends then I'll split if I'm entertaining a lovely lady then she doesn't reach in her purse all night. I'm a bit old fashioned in that way. Opening doors Pushing in seats It costs nothing be a gentleman. " It does if you're picking up the tab all night | |||
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"If I'm out with friends then I'll split if I'm entertaining a lovely lady then she doesn't reach in her purse all night. I'm a bit old fashioned in that way. Opening doors Pushing in seats It costs nothing be a gentleman. It does if you're picking up the tab all night " I honestly don't mind | |||
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"Makes it easier all round on everyone including the staff if you split equally (and round it up a diddly bit too ) Lost count of how many tables I've had where there's a group who pay for EXACTLY what they've had, which yeah, it's their perogative, but it's frustrating as fuck when you do all the extra work that comes with it, serve just the 1 large group who take up all your tables for the night and no tip gets left when in that time you could have served lots of tables of 2 who could all leave a quid or 2 each. " We found that more of a tip is left when we all pay separately as we would each round it up to a note | |||
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"If it's close friends, etc we normally just take turns paying. If it's a works do, or people I don't really know I prefer to pay for what I had as I don't drink. Too many times I've ended up paying a fortune when all I've had is a main course & a couple of diet s " Same. I always take change with me. Pay for what I had plus tip based on cost of my bill. | |||
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"Just using this thread now to eye up who’s attending the Manchester social and who I will and won’t invite out for breakfast! " | |||
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"I’ve got the last meal us 4 girls had. £139 in total. £56 of that was food £83 was alcohol. (Not putting the odd pence on) £139 divided by 4 is £34.75. Yet my meal cost £14 exactly and my pint of water was free. Should I pay an extra £20 for them, umm no. Course not. not many of my friends don’t drink but if someone isn’t then they don’t pay anything towards the drinks bill. People who faff about her dinner was £2 more than mine though wouldn’t be my kinda people. " No I definitely wouldn't be faffing around about a couple of quid. I usually keep a rough mental tab of what I've had and round it up to a round number to include a tip but I've definitely been there when I've had 1 course and soft drinks because I'm diving and not that hungry/on a diet and people who have had 3 courses and cocktails/bottles of wine want to split the bill equally and you end up basically shamed into spending an extra £20-30 or more on other people's orders. I'd be slightly miffed these days but just grin and bare it and make a mental note not toneat out with those people again but I even had it happen when I've not had much money and I've ordered within my budget only to end up with an expensive bill because of other people ordering loads and insisting on splitting it equally. | |||
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"Just using this thread now to eye up who’s attending the Manchester social and who I will and won’t invite out for breakfast! " | |||
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"Split and if anyone wants to get arsey about the amounts of drinks I've had then I will kindly point out that I need them to deal with their personalities. " | |||
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"Just using this thread now to eye up who’s attending the Manchester social and who I will and won’t invite out for breakfast! " | |||
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"If I'm out with friends then I'll split if I'm entertaining a lovely lady then she doesn't reach in her purse all night. I'm a bit old fashioned in that way. Opening doors Pushing in seats It costs nothing be a gentleman. " Put it does cost, to pick up the tab. | |||
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"When opting not to split the bill, it can sometimes be beneficial to pay last " I have a family member who does that. He looks at what is left and pays it. He has to be reminded that we have left tips not paying for him. So now we all insist he goes first. | |||
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"Which Team are you when eating out in any group size?" I'm typically in the shithouse when this conversation happens. | |||
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"Which Team are you when eating out in any group size? I'm typically in the shithouse when this conversation happens. " Not as in washing dishes i hope | |||
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"It depends on the group. I have one group of friends who we just split the bill. Another group pay for what we have. There is a former colleague of mine that I refuse to do split the bill with as they take the piss with what they order. He is the type that if it’s made clear it’s pay for yourself then he’ll have a pint and a pasta dish. If it’s split the bill then he has multiple drinks, multiple sides, generally steak and dessert. First time I refused to split at the end of the meal he openly hit the roof and stated he wouldn’t have ordered what he had if it hadn’t been split the bill. He was fuming with me for weeks J " What a numpty! (Ex colleague). | |||
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"And the other thing that fucks me off about paying for what you've had. Some cunt always forgets what they've had and the cost of a portion of onion rings gets left on the bill and the person who's had them has already left. Who pays for them now? ME! I fucking end up paying for them because once the bill has had transactions on it, items can't be removed or voided. So your waiter pays for them. Think about that when you're paying for what you've had. Make sure you don't forget something " Seriously? Is that the same everywhere because it’s bloody awful if that’s the case! I’ve worked in retail and made mistakes- ie given the wrong change etc - but never been expected to make up the difference. Tbh unless the service was dire I’d never consider not tipping. I’ve been out with groups of right arsed friends though and had to ‘persuade’ them to round it up by a quid or two to give a decent tip. If people are constantly and notoriously tight in restaurants then I don’t eat out with them - I just meet them for drinks or cook for them. | |||
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"Always split unless someone hasn't been drinking " This | |||
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"And the other thing that fucks me off about paying for what you've had. Some cunt always forgets what they've had and the cost of a portion of onion rings gets left on the bill and the person who's had them has already left. Who pays for them now? ME! I fucking end up paying for them because once the bill has had transactions on it, items can't be removed or voided. So your waiter pays for them. Think about that when you're paying for what you've had. Make sure you don't forget something Seriously? Is that the same everywhere because it’s bloody awful if that’s the case! I’ve worked in retail and made mistakes- ie given the wrong change etc - but never been expected to make up the difference. Tbh unless the service was dire I’d never consider not tipping. I’ve been out with groups of right arsed friends though and had to ‘persuade’ them to round it up by a quid or two to give a decent tip. If people are constantly and notoriously tight in restaurants then I don’t eat out with them - I just meet them for drinks or cook for them. " Agree if people are right not to eat with them , but some people aren’t tight, they just have a budget. I’ll happily pay for others in my group if they are struggling, but no one will ever persuade me to tip if I dint want to tip, it’s my choice if abs what I tip and no one else’s and I would never expect or ask any one to tip out of habit that’s just rude , I’ll more likely get the bill reduced in the U.K. because service is often shit | |||
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"It depends on the group. I have one group of friends who we just split the bill. Another group pay for what we have. There is a former colleague of mine that I refuse to do split the bill with as they take the piss with what they order. He is the type that if it’s made clear it’s pay for yourself then he’ll have a pint and a pasta dish. If it’s split the bill then he has multiple drinks, multiple sides, generally steak and dessert. First time I refused to split at the end of the meal he openly hit the roof and stated he wouldn’t have ordered what he had if it hadn’t been split the bill. He was fuming with me for weeks J " Jesus that’s shitty company to keep! I’m glad they are a former colleague! | |||
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"Card roulette instead!" Oh that is very dangerous! I'm a split the bill kinda girl. | |||
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"It depends on the group. I have one group of friends who we just split the bill. Another group pay for what we have. There is a former colleague of mine that I refuse to do split the bill with as they take the piss with what they order. He is the type that if it’s made clear it’s pay for yourself then he’ll have a pint and a pasta dish. If it’s split the bill then he has multiple drinks, multiple sides, generally steak and dessert. First time I refused to split at the end of the meal he openly hit the roof and stated he wouldn’t have ordered what he had if it hadn’t been split the bill. He was fuming with me for weeks J Jesus that’s shitty company to keep! I’m glad they are a former colleague! " He sounds like a right old **** | |||
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"Which Team are you when eating out in any group size?" Depends what I had and who I'm with. Since I don't drink, people usually acknowledge that during boozy meals and insist I don't pay as much as them. | |||
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