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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do women see it as a problem if their partner isn't a fast cummer? Even if he is hard and stiff, still going and obviously enjoying the sex? For me as a man, as long as there is moaning, its wet down there and the body language shows my partner is enjoying it, I can go on. What makes a woman ask for a quick one?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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After 3 or 4 hours sex for me starts to get sore and painful without a decent break.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After 3 or 4 hours sex for me starts to get sore and painful without a decent break."

I only experienced 1 partner in all these years that enjoyed going the 3-4 hours.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

We spend hours naked, fuck then chat then go again.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Sometimes we just need a quickie, other times we need more.

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I’d feel insulted if a guy just kept going and going and going.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

No I don’t find it strange, Mr can go for hours without cumming with me, but that’s because he choses to pleasure me and feed my greedy side, so controls when he cums! I think as long as the lady is aware of that and so doesn’t take it personally then alls good! Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I’d feel insulted if a guy just kept going and going and going. "

Yeah. So let's hear you out. What's the reason?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes we just need a quickie, other times we need more.

J x"

Some quickies can be too quick lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half an hour of shagging and I'd be bored and push him off me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can anyone remind me what the word "humblebrag" means? It doesn't seem to be in my dictionary.

G (9.57 seconds, faster than Usain Bolt!)

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By *our HeroMan
over a year ago

south Oxfordshire


"Personally I’d feel insulted if a guy just kept going and going and going. "

I can understand why. Personally I always try to make sure she’s properly satisfied and then, well you know…. let it go! :-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I’d feel insulted if a guy just kept going and going and going.

Yeah. So let's hear you out. What's the reason?"

Because some guys think that showboating their stamina is a replacement for actually having a good time, and judge how much fun they had on very simple metrics like time and length and number of FFFFFs, rather than how much, well, fun, you both (all) are having.

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By *enm83Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Surely if you get the foreplay and oral right, and you're both frenzied, there's no need for long fucking.. (my excuse anyway!)

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

As long as he's enjoying it I don't have an issue. I'd rather know in advance so I don't start over thinking and worrying that he's not turned on or he's not enjoying it, and I do like to have little breaks to recuperate and catch my breath though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I’d feel insulted if a guy just kept going and going and going.

Yeah. So let's hear you out. What's the reason?"

Because there will always be the thought, in the back of your mind, that the guy just isn't that turned on by you if he isn't keen to blast his load!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m enjoying the phrase ‘down there’…

Ella.

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

I'd rather a guy not cum, than cum too quick.

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By *ood Girl KatWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

As long as they don't cum to quick is fine.

My husband makes sure I'm satisfied first and then follows.

If things gone on too long then I'll mention it.

I love it however when a guy cums on my front so that's my end goal

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes I get sore and painful and bored when they cannot do anything other than penetrate me for hours

Play with me first, then fuck me and I am more than happy for him to stop without cumming if he cannot tip over

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

As someone who has good stamina in playing I think its important also to read the ques, judging a woman's body language during sex is important.I can play for ages but I also have the ability to cum when I need.I won't say its on demand or anything but certainly knowing your own limits and how to prolong or shorten your orgasm is just as important as your partners orgasm.id agree with many females on here saying its not fun when they are afte reaching climax and your still fucking to just because you can.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

who times it anyway???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would get bored and sore if Mike was just hammering away for hours!

I actually tend to cum pretty quickly and am normally waiting on him for a bit!

Love the tease, build up etc and the cumming should be the icing on the cake…..or my boobs or bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long sex sessions can be uncomfortable and, frankly, a bit boring.

A good time is about more than penetration for me.

But.....we're all different and I'm sure there are women who love shagging marathons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I’d feel insulted if a guy just kept going and going and going.

Yeah. So let's hear you out. What's the reason?"

Cos I’d feel like if he wasn’t struggling to control himself and stop himself from orgasming then it wasn’t feeling very good for him or he’s not turned on enough.

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By *oddess NailaWoman
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"Do women see it as a problem if their partner isn't a fast cummer? Even if he is hard and stiff, still going and obviously enjoying the sex? For me as a man, as long as there is moaning, its wet down there and the body language shows my partner is enjoying it, I can go on. What makes a woman ask for a quick one? "

I’ve had a few experiences where the guys just kept going and going. I was so bored and numb that I had to start faking it with one of them just to get him to hurry up and cum. Going on for ages doesn’t necessarily mean it’s any good.

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By *oddess NailaWoman
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"Personally I’d feel insulted if a guy just kept going and going and going.

Yeah. So let's hear you out. What's the reason?

Cos I’d feel like if he wasn’t struggling to control himself and stop himself from orgasming then it wasn’t feeling very good for him or he’s not turned on enough. "

Same here

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