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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is it, what does it mean or is it just another fuckin label for someone/everyone to get annoyed or offended over

Why can’t people like what they like, do what they do with whomever they want to do it with, dress how they wish and basically live their happy lives as they fucking wish

If you are offended by anything I said then please fuck the fuck off or by all means leave a comment for me to ignore or laugh at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely that’s not objectification. It’s when people have a list of of things to do reframed off the person.

I want to do a red head, older woman, 3 legged mongoose etc. it doesn’t matter who it is as long as they fill this basic criteria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know what it really means I’m gonna have to google it.

I only really learnt the difference between jealousy and envy the other day. I’d been using them in the same way. Jealousy is the fear of losing something you care about, envy is wanting something someone else has.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"What is it, what does it mean or is it just another fuckin label for someone/everyone to get annoyed or offended over

Why can’t people like what they like, do what they do with whomever they want to do it with, dress how they wish and basically live their happy lives as they fucking wish

I do "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely that’s not objectification. It’s when people have a list of of things to do reframed off the person.

I want to do a red head, older woman, 3 legged mongoose etc. it doesn’t matter who it is as long as they fill this basic criteria"

Is that so, well I like the word and believe, after your explanation, many may be using the word wrong however it fits my point today

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t know what it really means I’m gonna have to google it.

I only really learnt the difference between jealousy and envy the other day. I’d been using them in the same way. Jealousy is the fear of losing something you care about, envy is wanting something someone else has. "

Ahhhhh I see, I don’t use the jealous or envious word often, if at all, but glad it’s cleared up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is it, what does it mean or is it just another fuckin label for someone/everyone to get annoyed or offended over

Why can’t people like what they like, do what they do with whomever they want to do it with, dress how they wish and basically live their happy lives as they fucking wish

I do "

Good on you Nora

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Do you actually want the question answered because it doesn't sound like you do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you actually want the question answered because it doesn't sound like you do? "

I’m not too fussed either way tbf Red x just getting weary waking on eggshells most the time x

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

To treat someone like an object rather than a human being with their own personality, emotions, hopes, dreams etc.

People get annoyed about being objectified because they feel that the person doing it is just treating them as a thing, a tool, something that they can use and discard. Even in a fuck and go situation on Fab, you have to appreciate that the other person is just that, a person, and not just another shiny toy.

LvM

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Do you actually want the question answered because it doesn't sound like you do?

I’m not too fussed either way tbf Red x just getting weary waking on eggshells most the time x"

Anything in particular that brought this on OP?

LvM

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham


"Do you actually want the question answered because it doesn't sound like you do?

I’m not too fussed either way tbf Red x just getting weary waking on eggshells most the time x"

Cut down on your omelette intake..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh right like guys who ask for the super sized bbw’s? They just want a large body rather than that persons heart and mind and personality?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To treat someone like an object rather than a human being with their own personality, emotions, hopes, dreams etc.

People get annoyed about being objectified because they feel that the person doing it is just treating them as a thing, a tool, something that they can use and discard. Even in a fuck and go situation on Fab, you have to appreciate that the other person is just that, a person, and not just another shiny toy.

LvM"

I think o used the wrong word to express my point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calling me a BBW or saying you want to fuck me because I'm disabled or similar. This is objectification.

Saying you want to fuck me because you find my personality engaging, my smile amazing and my bright blue eyes mesmerising - not objectification. Possibly OTT, but not objectification.

Approach the person

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Rummage Up The Jumper


"I don’t know what it really means I’m gonna have to google it.

I only really learnt the difference between jealousy and envy the other day. I’d been using them in the same way. Jealousy is the fear of losing something you care about, envy is wanting something someone else has. "
ahhh so im envious of whoever it is has you naked bouncing up and down on top of them - good to know!! Xxx

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Do you actually want the question answered because it doesn't sound like you do?

I’m not too fussed either way tbf Red x just getting weary waking on eggshells most the time x

Cut down on your omelette intake.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t know what it really means I’m gonna have to google it.

I only really learnt the difference between jealousy and envy the other day. I’d been using them in the same way. Jealousy is the fear of losing something you care about, envy is wanting something someone else has. "

Haha subtle difference but it is a different emotion x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you actually want the question answered because it doesn't sound like you do?

I’m not too fussed either way tbf Red x just getting weary waking on eggshells most the time x

Anything in particular that brought this on OP?

LvM"

Forums really different sex’s and different genders get totally different responses to what, for me, are genuinely interesting questions

So many posters are either shot down in a barrage of hate and one directional opinions, when deciphered, where as another will post identical threads and praised and lifted onto a pedestal

So offence is in the eye of the beholder I think I’m trying to say

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden


"Do you actually want the question answered because it doesn't sound like you do?

I’m not too fussed either way tbf Red x just getting weary waking on eggshells most the time x

Anything in particular that brought this on OP?

LvM

Forums really different sex’s and different genders get totally different responses to what, for me, are genuinely interesting questions

So many posters are either shot down in a barrage of hate and one directional opinions, when deciphered, where as another will post identical threads and praised and lifted onto a pedestal

So offence is in the eye of the beholder I think I’m trying to say "

Thats not objectification...thats down to the fab forum inner circle

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Do you actually want the question answered because it doesn't sound like you do?

I’m not too fussed either way tbf Red x just getting weary waking on eggshells most the time x

Anything in particular that brought this on OP?

LvM

Forums really different sex’s and different genders get totally different responses to what, for me, are genuinely interesting questions

So many posters are either shot down in a barrage of hate and one directional opinions, when deciphered, where as another will post identical threads and praised and lifted onto a pedestal

So offence is in the eye of the beholder I think I’m trying to say "

Unfortunately threads do well or poorly largely based on the OP's wording, and also how/if it's skewed by the first few posters. I've seen a few innocent enough questions implode almost immediately because someone took something a way other than it was intended

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you actually want the question answered because it doesn't sound like you do?

I’m not too fussed either way tbf Red x just getting weary waking on eggshells most the time x

Anything in particular that brought this on OP?

LvM

Forums really different sex’s and different genders get totally different responses to what, for me, are genuinely interesting questions

So many posters are either shot down in a barrage of hate and one directional opinions, when deciphered, where as another will post identical threads and praised and lifted onto a pedestal

So offence is in the eye of the beholder I think I’m trying to say

Thats not objectification...thats down to the fab forum inner circle "

Oh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you actually want the question answered because it doesn't sound like you do?

I’m not too fussed either way tbf Red x just getting weary waking on eggshells most the time x

Anything in particular that brought this on OP?

LvM

Forums really different sex’s and different genders get totally different responses to what, for me, are genuinely interesting questions

So many posters are either shot down in a barrage of hate and one directional opinions, when deciphered, where as another will post identical threads and praised and lifted onto a pedestal

So offence is in the eye of the beholder I think I’m trying to say

Unfortunately threads do well or poorly largely based on the OP's wording, and also how/if it's skewed by the first few posters. I've seen a few innocent enough questions implode almost immediately because someone took something a way other than it was intended

LvM"

It is what it is I guess

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