FabSwingers.com forum: What would you do?

By *aui. OP Man
over a year ago

around here

So this is a hypothetical question for you that comes from a real situation for me. You can answer from either mine or the other person’s point of view as I’m not looking for advice, this is just a bit of fun.

So on Friday afternoon I ended up in a situation that due to timings and other cosmic forces will likely never be repeated. I’ll start from the beginning though, so I’ll rewind a week or so.

I started chatting to a couple on here. They are relatively new on here and just testing the waters, finding out what they like and dislike etc but are keen to meet with single guys. I know right, how fortuitous for me. And no, I won’t tell you their username as I am still keen to meet with them.

Anyway we chatted and got on. I was confident they were genuine (we all know the pitfalls of this). They messaged me at around 7pm one evening saying they had an unexpected free evening and would I like to meet for a drink . Unfortunately I had to decline as at such short notice it was impossible. They understood and we have continued to check in with each other for the subsequent week or so since.

Anyway fast forward to Friday. I had an appointment at someone’s house. What I do for a living isn’t important but you need to know it requires me to visit people in their homes.

So last appointment of the day Friday, I am greeted at the door by an attractive lady. She invites me in and I go about my job. We chat, I am aware she is being flirty. I don’t cross the line and remain professional as I’m aware she’s married etc but I engage in a little banter and flirt back. After I finish the job we chat for a few minutes and have a little flirt. I leave and drive away smiling.

Anyway later on I get a message from the fore mentioned couple asking “that was you at our house earlier wasn’t it” I was actually a bit taken back. I think I’d been in full work mode and hadn’t recognised her. I confirmed it was me. We chatted and laughed about it and both confirmed we were still very much keen to meet.

I asked her though why she didn’t say anything. She said that she didn’t want to make a dick of herself if she was wrong. She did say though that she had checked on her phone to make sure it was me. And further said she found it hard to have an adult conversation knowing she had seen my manhood literally 2 seconds before

So my question is simple, what would you do in the same situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you want to do, and what do they want to do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you make an appointment with these people before you spoke to them on here. Is it just a rare, flukey coincide or is there a bit of stalklyness going on. Did they pay you for the appointment and are you still having professional dealings with this couple??? Sooooo many questions

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By *aui. OP Man
over a year ago

around here

"What do you want to do, and what do they want to do? "

Well I already know what I did. I was so focused on my job I didn’t recognise her.

If she had mentioned it then I probably would have had a bit of banter but wouldn’t have wanted to go any further at that point.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I would have behaved the same as you had in that situation.

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By *aui. OP Man
over a year ago

around here

"Did you make an appointment with these people before you spoke to them on here. Is it just a rare, flukey coincide or is there a bit of stalklyness going on. Did they pay you for the appointment and are you still having professional dealings with this couple??? Sooooo many questions"

I’d spoken to them before the appointment. My office made the appointment. Obviously I had their names and everything from the office but they didn’t match their username obviously. It’s just a weird coincidence.

Without going to details of what I do. They didn’t pay for my service and my professional involvement with them is now concluded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have behaved the same as you had in that situation. "

Same here

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