FabSwingers.com forum: Gender Inequality

By *heVonMatterhorns OP Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

So K has had her filters down for a couple of days now and of course along comes the inevitable guy with the "Hey, I'm working in your area" message.

Now is it just me or is it the case that no man had ever received a similar message from a woman on here?

Ladies, what turns you off from travelling for work, and why are none of you visiting the Lincolnshire area?

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm travelling tomorrow for work. Already had an offer for the place I'm travelling to. Same when I went to Nottingham in Sept. And usually several guys a week offer a hotel meet in my town when they're visiting.

I've never ever messaged a man suggesting the same.

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By *viatrixCouple
over a year ago

Gatwick

All my pilot friends I’ve met it’s been because they were down for simulator sessions at Gatwick. So I am quite happy to hear from pilots who are down in the area for work...

Anyone else would be a hell of a lot more work for them to get me out of my cosy house haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies don't work.. their place is in the home and kitchen obviously so no such request exists.

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By *viatrixCouple
over a year ago

Gatwick

And I do post on my status whenever I am in another area and have some free time- though a social is mostly my aim.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I rarely have the time when travelling for work and I prefer to get to know people first anyway so that's not really practical.

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By *est Mims LookingCouple
over a year ago

Crofton

I drove a semi for 20 years. Lol my work was traveling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So K has had her filters down for a couple of days now and of course along comes the inevitable guy with the "Hey, I'm working in your area" message.

Now is it just me or is it the case that no man had ever received a similar message from a woman on here?

Ladies, what turns you off from travelling for work, and why are none of you visiting the Lincolnshire area?

LvM"

This did actually happen to me once. Only the once though.

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By *heVonMatterhorns OP Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Ladies don't work.. their place is in the home and kitchen obviously so no such request exists."

Ah yes, of course. How could I forget?

LvM

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By *heVonMatterhorns OP Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I rarely have the time when travelling for work and I prefer to get to know people first anyway so that's not really practical. "

You mean to imply that these hard working men aren't focusing on the job at hand?

LvM

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By *heVonMatterhorns OP Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"So K has had her filters down for a couple of days now and of course along comes the inevitable guy with the "Hey, I'm working in your area" message.

Now is it just me or is it the case that no man had ever received a similar message from a woman on here?

Ladies, what turns you off from travelling for work, and why are none of you visiting the Lincolnshire area?

LvM

This did actually happen to me once. Only the once though. "

The legends are true...

LvM

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

Unfortunately the boss only has the one shop so I'm a little bit stuck for travelling for work unless I go and rock up at a random shop

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I rarely have the time when travelling for work and I prefer to get to know people first anyway so that's not really practical.

You mean to imply that these hard working men aren't focusing on the job at hand?

LvM"

Not at all

. I think some employers are just more generous when it comes to these things. I'm usually on a evening train after finishing work and checking in to my hotel about 9/10pm,up at 6/7 to get ready for breakfast before whatever I'm travelling for then booked on the first train back home once I'm due to finish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been known to do this in the past when I've been in Scotland.

Mixed reactions from guys agreeing to meet and bottling it or thinking it's a wind up.

It happens a lot to me, I live half a mile away from a big hotel and Spa complex so it's not surprising

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By *heVonMatterhorns OP Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Unfortunately the boss only has the one shop so I'm a little bit stuck for travelling for work unless I go and rock up at a random shop

Try suggesting starting a franchise

LvM

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By *heVonMatterhorns OP Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I rarely have the time when travelling for work and I prefer to get to know people first anyway so that's not really practical.

You mean to imply that these hard working men aren't focusing on the job at hand?

LvM

Not at all

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You already know us so that's one thing off the list and you could stay in ours instead of in hotel. It's a great plan isn't it?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I've had messages from women when I done food shopping delivery, saying they see I'm in the area

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

I travel to see family, I wouldn’t have the opportunity to message a guy as by the time I’ve arrived and had a cuppa I've already had several messages asking if I’m free as they've seen I’m local

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I rarely have the time when travelling for work and I prefer to get to know people first anyway so that's not really practical.

You mean to imply that these hard working men aren't focusing on the job at hand?

LvM

Not at all

You already know us so that's one thing off the list and you could stay in ours instead of in hotel. It's a great plan isn't it?

Hahaha, I'll get on to them about setting up some offices in Lincolnshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both used to travel for work on occasion but Teams and Zoom have put that firmly in the past. For now, at least!

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By *heVonMatterhorns OP Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I rarely have the time when travelling for work and I prefer to get to know people first anyway so that's not really practical.

You mean to imply that these hard working men aren't focusing on the job at hand?

LvM

Not at all

You already know us so that's one thing off the list and you could stay in ours instead of in hotel. It's a great plan isn't it?

Hahaha, I'll get on to them about setting up some offices in Lincolnshire

Thank you, that would be much appreciated. Don't forget to bring Bobby with you

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By *heVonMatterhorns OP Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I've had messages from women when I done food shopping delivery, saying they see I'm in the area "

But how many women have messaged *you* saying they're in your area looking for a package?

LvM

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By *heVonMatterhorns OP Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"We both used to travel for work on occasion but Teams and Zoom have put that firmly in the past. For now, at least! "

Damn Covid, taking the fun out of everything

LvM

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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago

Redhill

"We both used to travel for work on occasion but Teams and Zoom have put that firmly in the past. For now, at least! "

That's so bloody annoying isn't it. I joined a global team thinking there would be some client visits, and I haven't left my dining room.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I rarely have the time when travelling for work and I prefer to get to know people first anyway so that's not really practical.

You mean to imply that these hard working men aren't focusing on the job at hand?

LvM

Not at all

You already know us so that's one thing off the list and you could stay in ours instead of in hotel. It's a great plan isn't it?

Hahaha, I'll get on to them about setting up some offices in Lincolnshire

Thank you, that would be much appreciated. Don't forget to bring Bobby with you

I'll put a little tie and glasses on him and I'm sure I can pass him off as another employee

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By *heVonMatterhorns OP Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I rarely have the time when travelling for work and I prefer to get to know people first anyway so that's not really practical.

You mean to imply that these hard working men aren't focusing on the job at hand?

LvM

Not at all

You already know us so that's one thing off the list and you could stay in ours instead of in hotel. It's a great plan isn't it?

Hahaha, I'll get on to them about setting up some offices in Lincolnshire

Thank you, that would be much appreciated. Don't forget to bring Bobby with you

I'll put a little tie and glasses on him and I'm sure I can pass him off as another employee

Call it a business meeting with our two

LvM

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I've had messages from women when I done food shopping delivery, saying they see I'm in the area

But how many women have messaged *you* saying they're in your area looking for a package?

LvM"

Unfortunately not even 1

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

When I did some travelling I was on the road for 6 weeks all over the country, as far north as Scotland and west as Wales only got one meet and that was pre arranged. The rest of the time too busy or asleep

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Crawley Down

The only time I travel for work, is training or a conference at our head office. Usually with a few people I know, so I tend not to advertise when I am up in Manchester.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We get roughly three or four messages a year from woman who are working in the area and wish to meet. The problem is that often they are blank or hidden profiles and never, I repeat never are of a standard that makes us think the profile is real or that we would want to actually risk meeting.

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

"Unfortunately the boss only has the one shop so I'm a little bit stuck for travelling for work unless I go and rock up at a random shop

Try suggesting starting a franchise

LvM"

We are..... I'll get him to strongarm the owner near you into selling up

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

For my sins, I have, many years ago, been that shameless hussy who's had a couple of glasses of wine (thanks business account), staying in some wanky hotel thanks to work and then logged on browsing for a good dicking. Twice I've done it, twice I had a lot of fun. So yeah, it can happen.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

As I live near a place (it’s still at least a mile away) where truck drivers park up for the night, I get quite a few offers most evenings.

Sure I’ll glam up for a chance to play in the back of an lorry, with a guy who probably hasn’t showed for some considerable time.

Edit* The shower thing isn’t a criticism of the drivers themselves, more that the facilities for HGV drivers are terrible in this country.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I have messaged if I'm in the area for a while. I don't travel for work the way that I used to, so I've not done it on here, but on hookup sites if I was travelling alone I would quite often look at people based where I was travelling to and arrange to meet a couple of people while I was there.

I wouldn't ever do it if I was travelling with colleagues or was only staying somewhere for one night, but otherwise why not? Better than spending my evening alone in front of hotel telly!

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