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Tolerance.............

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I've literally just realised that I have been tolerating something. Now - in it's absence I feel increased peace.......

What should be tolerated ? Or not .......

In any sphere of your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask why do you think you feel increased peace? Because tolerance seems a bit forced feeling?

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Can I ask why do you think you feel increased peace? Because tolerance seems a bit forced feeling? "

In this case yep. I mask things well. A life of having to but ..... I feel light and airy.. weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask why do you think you feel increased peace? Because tolerance seems a bit forced feeling?

In this case yep. I mask things well. A life of having to but ..... I feel light and airy.. weird. "

Not weird! Relief .. release.. recovery. Now you can breathe better - no mask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have very little tolerance for things that encroach on my boundaries or values. I’m way too old to be putting up with stuff anymore that I don’t need to

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I have very little tolerance for things that encroach on my boundaries or values. I’m way too old to be putting up with stuff anymore that I don’t need to"

It's not always a 'need' tho .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should only tolerate things you have no right to interfere with. Everything else you should either seek to accept, or change.

Easier said than done - in practice, you may have to tolerate something until you have the strength/resources/energy to devote to changing it. In its own way, intentionally deciding that you want to change something, but can't yet, is a form of (temporary) acceptance.

But ultimately you will probably grow to resent tolerating something over the medium term.

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