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To those that send random friend requests...

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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

...what's your reasoning?

To those that receive them, what's your thoughts?

Happy Sunday all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look at my winks or friends requests at all! Unless someone says can I add you as a friend and we have been chatting.. it will be hanging there for weeks. I don't add friends randomly to get fabs so it's not an issue for me

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"...what's your reasoning?

To those that receive them, what's your thoughts?

Happy Sunday all "

We receive plenty of them. We can only assume that people think that have nothing to lose. Which they don't of course, but it's hardly conducive to getting to know someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This might deteriorate quite quickly….

Never have, never will. What’s the point? The only reasoning I can see is to view private pics. I’d rather chat and get to meet them in person. If all goes well you get the real thing…..

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

We have quite a few out of the blue friend requests from people we've never interacted with. My thing is I'll wait until their offline, accept it, have a look around ,and them remove them

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy Sunday!

We like to make an informed decision as to who we share our friends pics with. We have face pics in there.

So for that reason, we like to chat and get to know people before we accept or send a friend request.

Vxx

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They send them because they think my friend pics might be smutty, they're not... I ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let it sit wait till they offline

Accept sniff throw they freinds only stuff

Unfriend before they back online it look like you just denied they freinds request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...what's your reasoning?

To those that receive them, what's your thoughts?

Happy Sunday all "
Most people are here to meet and/or make friends, so I don't see an issue to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other side thought.. oh hello pic collectors. It's the same as with face pic Friday.. you'll often get these who hardly comment on forum but if you green arrow them they will be on every face and photo swap post in the prior weeks. That's why if I take part.. I say no to lurkers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have quite a few out of the blue friend requests from people we've never interacted with. My thing is I'll wait until their offline, accept it, have a look around ,and them remove them

LvM"

Thanks for the tip

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I never send grieved requests. I’m not friends with loads of people I’ve known years.

Random requests I don’t look at with winks. They sit there so they can’t request again. Ignorance is bliss

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"...what's your reasoning?

To those that receive them, what's your thoughts?

Happy Sunday all "

Free perve I'm guessing

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I never send grieved requests. I’m not friends with loads of people I’ve known years.

Random requests I don’t look at with winks. They sit there so they can’t request again. Ignorance is bliss "

Bloody nails… friends requests ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s just odd. Does anyone actually accept random friend invites?

Other than wanting loads of fabs on your pics I can’t think of any reason why anyone would accept them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never send grieved requests. I’m not friends with loads of people I’ve known years.

Random requests I don’t look at with winks. They sit there so they can’t request again. Ignorance is bliss

Bloody nails… friends requests ffs."

I am grieving not being your friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s just odd. Does anyone actually accept random friend invites?

Other than wanting loads of fabs on your pics I can’t think of any reason why anyone would accept them"

I have and not because I want fabs but another forumite who dosent post any more randomly friend me but because we had talked in threads I accepted but that’s about the only way I truly accept them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Other side thought.. oh hello pic collectors. It's the same as with face pic Friday.. you'll often get these who hardly comment on forum but if you green arrow them they will be on every face and photo swap post in the prior weeks. That's why if I take part.. I say no to lurkers. "
Agree, some just want to see more pics, but it's the nature of the beast. We are all curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They gather dust lol . Never send random friend request.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I think it's super duper sweet that today's kids make friends so quickly...... just a click of a button and you can be up to your goolies in friends you've never met and the next day they can be your bestest bestest bestest friend for ever and ever..... or till they ask for money ... which ever comes first.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"We have quite a few out of the blue friend requests from people we've never interacted with. My thing is I'll wait until their offline, accept it, have a look around ,and them remove them

LvM"

I'm glad i'm not the only one that does that

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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"We have quite a few out of the blue friend requests from people we've never interacted with. My thing is I'll wait until their offline, accept it, have a look around ,and them remove them

LvM"

We've done this! 9 times out of 10 they're just genitalia pics then they send another friends request in a few months. Where as if you ignore they can't send another (think that's right?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think it's super duper sweet that today's kids make friends so quickly...... just a click of a button and you can be up to your goolies in friends you've never met and the next day they can be your bestest bestest bestest friend for ever and ever..... or till they ask for money ... which ever comes first."

Quite .. naive.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I just ignore them, unless it's from someone I've chatted to previously. They can't send one again if you leave it sat there

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I never send grieved requests. I’m not friends with loads of people I’ve known years.

Random requests I don’t look at with winks. They sit there so they can’t request again. Ignorance is bliss

Bloody nails… friends requests ffs.

I am grieving not being your friend "

Ha ha but you know you ARE my friend. Not my fab list never gonna meet friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have quite a few out of the blue friend requests from people we've never interacted with. My thing is I'll wait until their offline, accept it, have a look around ,and them remove them

LvM

I'm glad i'm not the only one that does that "

Ha thats genius. Creeping level 1000 complete!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

It kinda irks me that folk will send a request without interacting.

I only accept from people I've met/chat to regularly. It's not a huge friends list & I regularly cull it.

Random requests are left there, so they can't request again.

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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"I never send grieved requests. I’m not friends with loads of people I’ve known years.

Random requests I don’t look at with winks. They sit there so they can’t request again. Ignorance is bliss

Bloody nails… friends requests ffs."

Ooh...can we see a pic of your nails? (We promise not to send a friend request )

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"We have quite a few out of the blue friend requests from people we've never interacted with. My thing is I'll wait until their offline, accept it, have a look around ,and them remove them

LvM

I'm glad i'm not the only one that does that

Ha thats genius. Creeping level 1000 complete! "

Out creep the creepers

LvM

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"

I think it's super duper sweet that today's kids make friends so quickly...... just a click of a button and you can be up to your goolies in friends you've never met and the next day they can be your bestest bestest bestest friend for ever and ever..... or till they ask for money ... which ever comes first.

Quite .. naive. "

I've never been called that before .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think it's super duper sweet that today's kids make friends so quickly...... just a click of a button and you can be up to your goolies in friends you've never met and the next day they can be your bestest bestest bestest friend for ever and ever..... or till they ask for money ... which ever comes first.

Quite .. naive.

I've never been called that before ....... "

Not you. The youth!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Yes, 100% why we just delete and a lot of the time block as well if I am in a mood...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never send grieved requests. I’m not friends with loads of people I’ve known years.

Random requests I don’t look at with winks. They sit there so they can’t request again. Ignorance is bliss

Bloody nails… friends requests ffs.

I am grieving not being your friend

Ha ha but you know you ARE my friend. Not my fab list never gonna meet friend "

That made me laugh.. never gonna meet friend..

I know, I know. Just had to pick on the typo

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Get lots dont really look at them tbh unless I'm looking for one in particular same as winks never look at those x

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