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The perks of being an adult

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was romanticising again the idea of being a teen as I’ve done a full immersion on teen drama and films … yes it can be exciting how carefree it might have been, and the parties and the energy and everything felt kinda new …BUT it made me actually think… I mean who actually wants to live under the parents roof again (I moved out by 18-19) ? And what about the skin problems and barely having money… and being inexperienced.

So what are your favourite perks of being a grown ass adult?

For me, the best one is being able to make completely your own decisions… if I want dirty sex, I’ll have dirty sex in the house. If I wanna go to a retreat for 6 months and disappear. I can do that. And all the pretty things we can buy, without having to explain!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it easy on a Sunday morning..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not feeling guilty about asking my mum and dad to spend money on me for something I wanted. I have the money to buy something if I want it

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Love being able to do just what I want! Was in a controlling marriage after leaving home ! So love it all the more nowadays I can do whatever I want whenever I want! Bliss x

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’ll get back to you on that.

I feel that I’ve been badly miss sold adulthood.

One star. Wouldn’t recommend

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

theres perks ?

realy ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not feeling guilty about asking my mum and dad to spend money on me for something I wanted. I have the money to buy something if I want it "

Totally!!! We are on our own in the good and the bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ll get back to you on that.

I feel that I’ve been badly miss sold adulthood.

One star. Wouldn’t recommend"

dying.

Maybe I’ll go back romanticising being a teen

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't be a child of teenager again, I like being an adult, I like being mature. Sure there's all the bad stuff like bills and doing responsible things but there's way more good stuff watching exactly what you want on telly, eating when and what you want, making your own decisions, leaving the crusts from a sandwich and having nobody tell you to eat them

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Not having to get up, washed and dressed before midday.

I can eat cake for breakfast.

I don't have to be home for dinner at 5 (although that's a really hard habit to break)

Not having to attend family events

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I can get tattoos as many and as big as I want it to be.. only problem is.. dont get allowance to save up for tattoos lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'd ever want to be a teen again. The best thing during my teenage years was moving out and getting engaged.

I think the perks of being an adult is you don't have to answer to anybody in a higher family authority to you. (like parents, older siblings).

I would have said the freedom but as a mother that's flew out the window with a one way ticket.

Maybe another perk is being able to treat parents to the thing they barely experienced when we were young because as above... No freedom with kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll get back to you on that.

I feel that I’ve been badly miss sold adulthood.

One star. Wouldn’t recommend"

Snap!

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

It's over rated. Rather be a kid again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being able to get alcohol without standing outside a shop asking strangers to go in for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll get back to you on that.

I feel that I’ve been badly miss sold adulthood.

One star. Wouldn’t recommend

Snap!"

Thirded. If we get enough of us can we club together and get a lawyer who can win a landmark case that means we all get compensation for being missold adulthood?

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By *rincessPuddleDuck22Woman
over a year ago

.•°°

My life started when I left my parents house so literally everything

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I would only want to be a teenager again if I could know then what I know now so I could steer my life in certain directions and behave as somebody with experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Freedom to make ones own choices in life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not having to get up, washed and dressed before midday.

I can eat cake for breakfast.

I don't have to be home for dinner at 5 (although that's a really hard habit to break)

Not having to attend family events"

Perfect answers!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll get back to you on that.

I feel that I’ve been badly miss sold adulthood.

One star. Wouldn’t recommend

Snap!

Thirded. If we get enough of us can we club together and get a lawyer who can win a landmark case that means we all get compensation for being missold adulthood? "

That sounds very grown up. How about we just all go in a huff, watch Nickelodeon and eat loads of sweeties in bed.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

While some people are still patronising arseholes, most people at least accept that as an adult you can make your own choices and have your own opinions. One of my favourite things about getting older has been the reduction in the "you'll understand when you're older" comments. I think some will still be saying that to me for at least another 20 years though .

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Money! I can actually buy shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can bypass the foolproof security and click the "I am over 18" button on porn websites.

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