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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you see couple playing in hotel lounge

As single man is it ok start conversation to theme or you expect theme to start talking to you

Or just sit back amd enjoy the view you get a invitation

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Sex in the lounge?

Obviously there are many people who go to hotels in order to have a break or just to shag. I think the majority won't be looking for a 3rd and a couple in the Lounge but could even be 2 fab singles on their social, before retiring to the bedroom.

As with most social situations, it pays to read the signs that they are giving off. If flirting with you, then flirt back etc.

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

Playing in a hotel lounge?

FFS what kind of places do you go to? Yuk!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s better said if flirt flirt back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am coming age of I don’t want to go clubbing to meet propleo

I love to visit wine bars or hotel lounge to meet peopleo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Playing in a hotel lounge?

FFS what kind of places do you go to? Yuk!"

Maybe it's a swingers hotel ? There a couple in Blackpool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what they are playing, if it's Monopoly Im in.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16


"Depends what they are playing, if it's Monopoly Im in."

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Sit back and watch, if they invite you then fine, but don't pester them, they might just like being seen

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

If passing and you catch their eye

You can always make the comment "you 2 should get a room"

Worked for me twice in the past

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any sujestion good loung hotels in london

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Playing in a hotel lounge?

FFS what kind of places do you go to? Yuk!"

We all want to know that!!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"If you see couple playing in hotel lounge

As single man is it ok start conversation to theme or you expect theme to start talking to you

Or just sit back amd enjoy the view you get a invitation "

I can just stop after the first sentence. This has never ha to me. I would guess it hasn't happened to many.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm shocked people would be playing in a hotel lounge without getting arrested or kicked out in all honesty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What I saw was just soft play nothing to mujour

Holding hand robing hands and kising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I saw was just soft play nothing to mujour

Holding hand robing hands and kising"

I’d say that fairly common it happens in bars.

From the question in your original post, I would definitely just leave them to it. Not everyone is a swinger. Unless they invite you over…

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"What I saw was just soft play nothing to mujour

Holding hand robing hands and kising"

If I was doing that with a partner of mine and someone came over, depending on what they said, I'd be at best a little irritated and at worse really pissed off.

Leave them to it, it has nothing to do with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am very respectful I don’t gaze or make propleo comftable

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"If you see couple playing in hotel lounge

As single man is it ok start conversation to theme or you expect theme to start talking to you

Or just sit back amd enjoy the view you get a invitation "

You would be well advised to relise that just because people are having a moment together in public it does not mean that they are swingers or that they want any other person involved.

Under no circumstances should you approach them, unless they invite you to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes that very respectful and undrestanding

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By *nvisible_manMan
over a year ago

TWICKENHAM


"What I saw was just soft play nothing to mujour

Holding hand robing hands and kising"

You think that is classed as soft play?

WTF - you have no idea do you?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"What I saw was just soft play nothing to mujour

Holding hand robing hands and kising"

That's not soft play, that's just public display of affection

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"What I saw was just soft play nothing to mujour

Holding hand robing hands and kising

That's not soft play, that's just public display of affection "

Damn by that standard I'm playing in public a lot

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"What I saw was just soft play nothing to mujour

Holding hand robing hands and kising

That's not soft play, that's just public display of affection

Damn by that standard I'm playing in public a lot "

Shame on you

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"What I saw was just soft play nothing to mujour

Holding hand robing hands and kising"

Bloody hell- so you see a normal couple in a hotel foyer sharing a moment of affection & you think you might get chance to get invited in for a shag?? What sort of hotels are you frequenting, because I suspect if you're watching them like a creeper, you're gonna end up with your head in a sling!!!

Why am I imagining a scene for a new Borat movie...

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"If you see couple playing in hotel lounge

As single man is it ok start conversation to theme or you expect theme to start talking to you

Or just sit back amd enjoy the view you get a invitation "

OP. I worked in Hotels for 47 years till retiring this year and what you are suggesting isn't something I've witnessed or heard of.

Or is it just a figment of your overactive imagination?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i had the luck to see a couple playing in a hotel i would be right over and ask them if i could sit right next to them for a better look. Obviously after i bought them a drink lol

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

To watch non swinging couples being affectionate and think you could approach them for sex is not ok. Do not do this.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"I am very respectful I don’t gaze or make propleo comftable"

You would make me very uncomfortable if you were to watch my partner and I kissing in a hotel lounge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what they are playing, if it's Monopoly Im in."

Or scrabble

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"To watch non swinging couples being affectionate and think you could approach them for sex is not ok. Do not do this. "

I think this thread goes to show how desensitised it can make peopoe from what's OK and what's tremendously inappropriate in an "outside fab" setting.

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By *nvisible_manMan
over a year ago

TWICKENHAM

The OP is a prime example of someone who shouldn't be on the site. He is likely on the spectrum and constantly posts fantasist and repetitive messages . The whole idea of what he regards as 'soft play' also shows his lack of sexual experience and immaturity.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"To watch non swinging couples being affectionate and think you could approach them for sex is not ok. Do not do this.

I think this thread goes to show how desensitised it can make peopoe from what's OK and what's tremendously inappropriate in an "outside fab" setting.

"

Aye, it's completely bizarre

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By *yclindaveMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"The OP is a prime example of someone who shouldn't be on the site. He is likely on the spectrum and constantly posts fantasist and repetitive messages . The whole idea of what he regards as 'soft play' also shows his lack of sexual experience and immaturity."

I was going to write something very similar. Absolute lack of sexual maturity if you view normal PDA's as 'soft play'.

I can categorically say back when I was married if you came over to me whilst I was holding hands, kissing my other half, you'd get a fairly short message of bugger off at best, resetting of the nose at worst.

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma


"The OP is a prime example of someone who shouldn't be on the site. He is likely on the spectrum and constantly posts fantasist and repetitive messages . The whole idea of what he regards as 'soft play' also shows his lack of sexual experience and immaturity."

Your level of rudeness astonishes me.

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

Sit back enjoy and hope you get called over

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By *nvisible_manMan
over a year ago

TWICKENHAM


"The OP is a prime example of someone who shouldn't be on the site. He is likely on the spectrum and constantly posts fantasist and repetitive messages . The whole idea of what he regards as 'soft play' also shows his lack of sexual experience and immaturity.

Your level of rudeness astonishes me."

Really?

Wow - you must be easily astonished

Read some of the other posts the OP has put on here.

I think its a fair and restrained opinion.

Look at it this way

You've just had a nice meal in a hotel where you have taken a lady on a date . You adjourn to the bar lounge and are enjoying a nightcap. You've had a wonderful evening and you take her hand and tell her that. She responds with a kiss.

Suddenly someone appears and sits down close to you and asks if he can watch you or maybe go to a room and join you.

What's your reaction?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for you input

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"The OP is a prime example of someone who shouldn't be on the site. He is likely on the spectrum and constantly posts fantasist and repetitive messages . The whole idea of what he regards as 'soft play' also shows his lack of sexual experience and immaturity."

I completely agree. Not sure about the spectrum bit, but I think if this is genuinely what OP thinks would be reasonable behaviour then it shows he’s completely out of touch with reality. I find it alarming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what they are playing, if it's Monopoly Im in. "

I’m going to hope it ain’t scrabble.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

See if we were happily playing Monopoly in the hotel bar would not be happy if a creepy single try to join us Big No for us.

But if we see someone we like to join the game we would invite.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I want to go to the hotels you go to

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