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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always wondered why women complained about getting unsolicited dick pics all the time. Not that I send mine flying into women's inboxes nor do I suppose very many mrn do so. But I got the shock of my life when I got an unsolicited arse pic from an orientation that clearly doesn't match mine

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"I always wondered why women complained about getting unsolicited dick pics all the time. Not that I send mine flying into women's inboxes nor do I suppose very many mrn do so. But I got the shock of my life when I got an unsolicited arse pic from an orientation that clearly doesn't match mine "

Was it the orientation or the fact it was an unsolicited pic that was affected?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I _ase my attraction on faces and personality... I already know you have a dick but if I don't like those other 2 things then why the fuck do I want to see it?? If a bloke walked up to me at a club and just thrust his cock in my face to see if I wanted to play with him, even if I liked his looks, I would not want to talk to him, let alone fuck him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not frightened of looking at dick pictures neither do they offend me. Just have to see the face as well if I’m expected to make a decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a nice dick pic but for gods sake send a face pic too if you have a blank profile! A dick pic on its own doesn’t interest me x

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

Would you thrust your dick in someone’s face in person? Hopefully not so don’t do it online.

Plus it’s unlawful (I think) to send unsolicited dick pics to someone - yes even on a sex site

Wanting to view something by looking for or asking for something is very different to having it forced upon you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re a couple and get loads of them. For us 75% of the time the male half opens the messages first so technically it’s straight men sending dick pics to another man. Neither of us want to see them anyway but just a little fyi to people who send them to couples

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I just don’t see it as the best way to introduce yourself to someone- and it’s boring to see all the time, but luckily we all enjoy different things so some will be quite happy to receive

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough

Can't speak for the female half, but I just find a bit of a tell that let's us know that person isn't for us? But then we're more about the connection and dynamic with a person than their dick anyways, so that's likely why.

Kinda feels like someone who just sends a picture of their knob and assumes that's enough to get your juices flowing is telling you a lot? Simply having a big dick really doesn't mean you're necessarily any good with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After getting so many dick pictures you really don't want to see another one. Ok you have a dick but do you need to send me 10 dick pics were you have done is moved to phone 1 degree to the left each time ??

Ps I don't mean you op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m so dick-sensitise it’s unreal. I actually would like to see the merch (especially if it’s a guy I’m picking online) before “purchasing” but one pic is more than enough really… and definitely make it SOLICITED!

No need to send the whole dick pic sticker album ….

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Good post O.P.

I do think that we sometimes have to experience something before we understand what others are talking about.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Did it feel a bit violatey OP?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Vio ......... that's my vegan cheese

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

The not supposing many men send them is way off tho. It's literally a daily occurance and a multiple daily occurance at that

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Vio ......... that's my vegan cheese"

Some of the helmets on the pics I've been sent look like they've been dipped in cheese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vio ......... that's my vegan cheese

Some of the helmets on the pics I've been sent look like they've been dipped in cheese "

We got one of those yesterday. Like…. Why? How would anyone think that would get them a meet?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Would you thrust your dick in someone’s face in person? Hopefully not so don’t do it online.

Plus it’s unlawful (I think) to send unsolicited dick pics to someone - yes even on a sex site

Wanting to view something by looking for or asking for something is very different to having it forced upon you."

I'm fairly sure they're pushing to have unsolicited dick pics and the like to be given their own crime so it's easier to prosecute and try to work as a deterrent. They're calling it "cyberflashing".

LvM

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I don't choose who I'm going to sleep with _ased on their dick.

I would 100% much rather see a nice face pic.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Feels like an utterly classless thing to do IMHO. Never send them, don't display any on my profile. Only ever been asked to send one twice - both times it's puzzled me and made me think its a man behind a fake profile.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Would you thrust your dick in someone’s face in person? Hopefully not so don’t do it online.

Plus it’s unlawful (I think) to send unsolicited dick pics to someone - yes even on a sex site

Wanting to view something by looking for or asking for something is very different to having it forced upon you.

I'm fairly sure they're pushing to have unsolicited dick pics and the like to be given their own crime so it's easier to prosecute and try to work as a deterrent. They're calling it "cyberflashing".

LvM"

I snorted...... then went ... eh wait ..... nooooooooo

Not on a sex site surely - sorry don't know your real name x

Is that a thing ?

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By *aul40nwMan
over a year ago

wirral

Ive recieved a few even though i state im straight ... couldnt be a woman on here it must be constant ....

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Would you flash someone in public? I presume not, so why is it cyberflashing ok?

I get this is a swinging site and many have pictures of their anatomy on here. And that's fine because I choose to look or not. But I think if a site and community like this says cyberflashing is wrong, then that sends a strong message to others when not using this kind of site. If we all say cyberflashing is wrong maybe we will help protect youngsters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awesome post op glad you posted your getting people to talk to you

Say nice things this place blanks you

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Awesome post op glad you posted your getting people to talk to you

Say nice things this place blanks you "

He did say a 'nice' thing.

It's interesting from a male perspective.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Vio ......... that's my vegan cheese

Some of the helmets on the pics I've been sent look like they've been dipped in cheese

We got one of those yesterday. Like…. Why? How would anyone think that would get them a meet?

"

They'd heard of babybell cheese and got confused, thought they had their own natural source.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I've seen some very ugly cocks on profile pics.......

And........ I get to see them more than the owners missus !!

Several times a day !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awesome post op glad you posted your getting people to talk to you

Say nice things this place blanks you

He did say a 'nice' thing.

It's interesting from a male perspective."

Oooo look what I mean take the bate thanks providing my point all ways say if it’s not working for you change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen some very ugly cocks on profile pics.......

And........ I get to see them more than the owners missus !!

Several times a day !"

You normal blank my post so keep blanking thanks happy swingeing

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By *aul40nwMan
over a year ago

wirral


"I've seen some very ugly cocks on profile pics.......

And........ I get to see them more than the owners missus !!

Several times a day !"

Dont agree with the cock as profile pic thin myself ... youre forced to see it just scrolling

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's just the volume of dicks pics is unreal. I personally am not a fan, I like a suprise. To me it just makes me think that's all the guy has going for him. If every guy is sending dicks pics be the one that stands out in the bunch by not doing it.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

The only time it becomes unsolicited is when the owner of the said cock is unattractive to the recipient

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Would you thrust your dick in someone’s face in person? Hopefully not so don’t do it online.

Plus it’s unlawful (I think) to send unsolicited dick pics to someone - yes even on a sex site

Wanting to view something by looking for or asking for something is very different to having it forced upon you.

I'm fairly sure they're pushing to have unsolicited dick pics and the like to be given their own crime so it's easier to prosecute and try to work as a deterrent. They're calling it "cyberflashing".

LvM

I snorted...... then went ... eh wait ..... nooooooooo

Not on a sex site surely - sorry don't know your real name x

Is that a thing ?"

Yup, it's been recommended to be amended to the Sexual Offences Act and made a specific crime. Obviously that applies everywhere and only really works if you were to report but yeah... unsolicited dick pics could become illegal

LvM

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By *aul40nwMan
over a year ago

wirral

Is it not dis similar to tits and arse pics though from a woman ... dont want to start ww3 just asking

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock


"Would you thrust your dick in someone’s face in person? Hopefully not so don’t do it online.

Plus it’s unlawful (I think) to send unsolicited dick pics to someone - yes even on a sex site

Wanting to view something by looking for or asking for something is very different to having it forced upon you."

Is unlawful to flash your tits? Asking for a friend

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"

No need to send the whole dick pic sticker album …. "

I’m sure I shall recycle this line many times!! It made me laugh too much

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"The only time it becomes unsolicited is when the owner of the said cock is unattractive to the recipient "

Nah I don’t agree with that. Even if I found him really hot I’d still get rid if he sent me his cock within a few messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be doing back flips if I was getting sent pics of fannys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only time it becomes unsolicited is when the owner of the said cock is unattractive to the recipient "

I have deleted 1st messages, containing dick pics, from men I found attractive... I only want to see them if we have already established attraction and there's possibility of play... Or we have played previously... A dick pic in the first message tells me, despite any facial attraction, that they probably aren't for me.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"The only time it becomes unsolicited is when the owner of the said cock is unattractive to the recipient "

Or if it wouldn't fit in their bum hole ?? yeah ?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"The only time it becomes unsolicited is when the owner of the said cock is unattractive to the recipient

Or if it wouldn't fit in their bum hole ?? yeah ?"

You’re getting the gist now granny

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Is it not dis similar to tits and arse pics though from a woman ... dont want to start ww3 just asking"

Are you saying you tire of all the tit and arse pics you get sent daily ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"The only time it becomes unsolicited is when the owner of the said cock is unattractive to the recipient

Or if it wouldn't fit in their bum hole ?? yeah ?

You’re getting the gist now granny "

I know ! 3 times this weekend x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"The only time it becomes unsolicited is when the owner of the said cock is unattractive to the recipient

Nah I don’t agree with that. Even if I found him really hot I’d still get rid if he sent me his cock within a few messages. "

You literally ask for cock every other message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen some very ugly cocks on profile pics.......

And........ I get to see them more than the owners missus !!

Several times a day !

Dont agree with the cock as profile pic thin myself ... youre forced to see it just scrolling"

I don't agree with this.

People should be able to have whatever pics they want on their profile , including as their avatar.

What I don't like or appreciate, is messages from like ' hi how are you' attached cock pic

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Would you thrust your dick in someone’s face in person? Hopefully not so don’t do it online.

Plus it’s unlawful (I think) to send unsolicited dick pics to someone - yes even on a sex site

Wanting to view something by looking for or asking for something is very different to having it forced upon you. Is unlawful to flash your tits? Asking for a friend "

Since when are tits genitalia ?

Do you mean women's tits or all tits ?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"The only time it becomes unsolicited is when the owner of the said cock is unattractive to the recipient

Nah I don’t agree with that. Even if I found him really hot I’d still get rid if he sent me his cock within a few messages.

You literally ask for cock every other message "

It’s acceptable once I’ve known you years and met you!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I would be doing back flips if I was getting sent pics of fannys "

enjoy this one

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Would you thrust your dick in someone’s face in person? Hopefully not so don’t do it online.

Plus it’s unlawful (I think) to send unsolicited dick pics to someone - yes even on a sex site

Wanting to view something by looking for or asking for something is very different to having it forced upon you.

I'm fairly sure they're pushing to have unsolicited dick pics and the like to be given their own crime so it's easier to prosecute and try to work as a deterrent. They're calling it "cyberflashing".

LvM

I snorted...... then went ... eh wait ..... nooooooooo

Not on a sex site surely - sorry don't know your real name x

Is that a thing ?

Yup, it's been recommended to be amended to the Sexual Offences Act and made a specific crime. Obviously that applies everywhere and only really works if you were to report but yeah... unsolicited dick pics could become illegal

LvM"

https://www.theweek.co.uk/news/technology/953558/what-is-cyberflashing

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"The only time it becomes unsolicited is when the owner of the said cock is unattractive to the recipient

Nah I don’t agree with that. Even if I found him really hot I’d still get rid if he sent me his cock within a few messages.

You literally ask for cock every other message

It’s acceptable once I’ve known you years and met you! "

Don’t start moving the goal posts now

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By *aul40nwMan
over a year ago

wirral


"Is it not dis similar to tits and arse pics though from a woman ... dont want to start ww3 just asking

Are you saying you tire of all the tit and arse pics you get sent daily ?"

Im not saying that ... i was just asking for a friend haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever seen one of those cigarettes packets with the nasty images on? That’s how an unsolicited dick pic without a face makes me feel

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By *aul40nwMan
over a year ago

wirral


"I would be doing back flips if I was getting sent pics of fannys

enjoy this one "

Love that .... did the backflips come true too ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I would be doing back flips if I was getting sent pics of fannys

enjoy this one

Love that .... did the backflips come true too ?"

I don't show my face , let alone send pics of my foof ..... twas a joke.

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By *aul40nwMan
over a year ago

wirral


"I would be doing back flips if I was getting sent pics of fannys

enjoy this one

Love that .... did the backflips come true too ?

I don't show my face , let alone send pics of my foof ..... twas a joke. "

I figured .. as was the back flip comment haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever seen one of those cigarettes packets with the nasty images on? That’s how an unsolicited dick pic without a face makes me feel"

Great answer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I _ase my attraction on faces and personality... I already know you have a dick but if I don't like those other 2 things then why the fuck do I want to see it?? If a bloke walked up to me at a club and just thrust his cock in my face to see if I wanted to play with him, even if I liked his looks, I would not want to talk to him, let alone fuck him! "

Lol that might get bouncers involved

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not frightened of looking at dick pictures neither do they offend me. Just have to see the face as well if I’m expected to make a decision. "

That's right. It's already a crazy world enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you thrust your dick in someone’s face in person? Hopefully not so don’t do it online.

Plus it’s unlawful (I think) to send unsolicited dick pics to someone - yes even on a sex site

Wanting to view something by looking for or asking for something is very different to having it forced upon you."

You are right. No matter how kinky fab is and a community of people that adore sex, there should still be some amount of decency.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We’re a couple and get loads of them. For us 75% of the time the male half opens the messages first so technically it’s straight men sending dick pics to another man. Neither of us want to see them anyway but just a little fyi to people who send them to couples "

Couples are the most picky lot anyway lol

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Never have and never will send a unsolicited dick pic, guys that think it's a good idea should think again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just don’t see it as the best way to introduce yourself to someone- and it’s boring to see all the time, but luckily we all enjoy different things so some will be quite happy to receive "

Hehe true. I also know a few wild ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't speak for the female half, but I just find a bit of a tell that let's us know that person isn't for us? But then we're more about the connection and dynamic with a person than their dick anyways, so that's likely why.

Kinda feels like someone who just sends a picture of their knob and assumes that's enough to get your juices flowing is telling you a lot? Simply having a big dick really doesn't mean you're necessarily any good with it "

Yeah, an old friend of mine said about 15 years ago very authoritatively that having a big dick evidently wasn't an asset. Watching porn proves most big dicks have a problem being stiff. What's the joy in having a limp dick around hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After getting so many dick pictures you really don't want to see another one. Ok you have a dick but do you need to send me 10 dick pics were you have done is moved to phone 1 degree to the left each time ??

Ps I don't mean you op "

Hahaha. My dick pics are on private mode anyway

Too many super horny guys found fab. No wonder Facebook is so empty of them nowadays lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m so dick-sensitise it’s unreal. I actually would like to see the merch (especially if it’s a guy I’m picking online) before “purchasing” but one pic is more than enough really… and definitely make it SOLICITED!

No need to send the whole dick pic sticker album …. "

Ahaaaan, girl looks like she loves finer things in life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good post O.P.

I do think that we sometimes have to experience something before we understand what others are talking about.

"

You are very right. I filled those shoes last night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did it feel a bit violatey OP? "

Babe, it felt ewww, ewww, ewwwishly eww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always wondered why women complained about getting unsolicited dick pics all the time. Not that I send mine flying into women's inboxes nor do I suppose very many mrn do so. But I got the shock of my life when I got an unsolicited arse pic from an orientation that clearly doesn't match mine "

Do you need counselling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are levels of dick pics also however….a nice thick smooth cock clean shaven and not extreme close up but showing some body clothes is not so bad….

All crinkled up hairy, limp, thin, all most smelly looking close up pic……….em not so good!!

(Trust me we get loads of these sent to us)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The not supposing many men send them is way off tho. It's literally a daily occurance and a multiple daily occurance at that "

Maybe some profiles just are so hot, all the bees swarm to that hive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The dick pics don't bother me too much, I just delete and ignore. They're preferable to the "stuck up cow" messages when you reply no thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Feels like an utterly classless thing to do IMHO. Never send them, don't display any on my profile. Only ever been asked to send one twice - both times it's puzzled me and made me think its a man behind a fake profile. "

Lol. Right?

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought. "

This is bang on!! I would add something but it would only be cheap sarcastic digs at people overacting when fake outrage brigade say shit like ' I feel violated....really, pussies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fair few guys on here have no intention of meeting and just use this site to send dick picks and crude messages like "you know you want this rite up ya" "I want to ruin you with this"

They have the "safety net" of this being a sex/swingers site and therefore its "ok"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought.

This is bang on!! I would add something but it would only be cheap sarcastic digs at people overacting when fake outrage brigade say shit like ' I feel violated....really, pussies "

I take it you like to send dick pics

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

We don’t mind dick pics as we like to the merchandise before so there are no disappointments. That being said we do prefer one or two rather than nine or ten.

Lily

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought.

This is bang on!! I would add something but it would only be cheap sarcastic digs at people overacting when fake outrage brigade say shit like ' I feel violated....really, pussies

I take it you like to send dick pics "

Only if asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought.

This is bang on!! I would add something but it would only be cheap sarcastic digs at people overacting when fake outrage brigade say shit like ' I feel violated....really, pussies

I take it you like to send dick pics

Only if asked. "

Therefore not unsolicited

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"A fair few guys on here have no intention of meeting and just use this site to send dick picks and crude messages like "you know you want this rite up ya" "I want to ruin you with this"

They have the "safety net" of this being a sex/swingers site and therefore its "ok"

"

No doubt it helps being a natural filter in itself! As almost all women seem to be averse to it the guys who do deselect themselves from the very start. Women's block buttons must get very busy at times.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought.

This is bang on!! I would add something but it would only be cheap sarcastic digs at people overacting when fake outrage brigade say shit like ' I feel violated....really, pussies "

GTF outta here over reacting fake outrage bullshit, if I feel violated coz someone has sent me a picture into my INBOX on whatever platform that may be, you do not have the right to tell me I'm a pussy. Would you call your daughter a pussy if she told you creeps had been sending her dick pics? I'm someones daughter, someone's mother, someone's friend and someone's hope.

So yeah, whilst I'm not bothered in the slightest by seeing dicks flapping in the breeze, gripped so tight they look like they're gonna drop off or whatever other vision they present in public on this site, DOES NOT mean I or anyone else is a pussy for not wanting them sent privately, without prior discussion.

It's called having boundaries and showing some mother fucking respect and consideration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought.

This is bang on!! I would add something but it would only be cheap sarcastic digs at people overacting when fake outrage brigade say shit like ' I feel violated....really, pussies

GTF outta here over reacting fake outrage bullshit, if I feel violated coz someone has sent me a picture into my INBOX on whatever platform that may be, you do not have the right to tell me I'm a pussy. Would you call your daughter a pussy if she told you creeps had been sending her dick pics? I'm someones daughter, someone's mother, someone's friend and someone's hope.

So yeah, whilst I'm not bothered in the slightest by seeing dicks flapping in the breeze, gripped so tight they look like they're gonna drop off or whatever other vision they present in public on this site, DOES NOT mean I or anyone else is a pussy for not wanting them sent privately, without prior discussion.

It's called having boundaries and showing some mother fucking respect and consideration."

There you go, mincing your words again. Just tell 'em like it is Peach.

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought.

This is bang on!! I would add something but it would only be cheap sarcastic digs at people overacting when fake outrage brigade say shit like ' I feel violated....really, pussies

GTF outta here over reacting fake outrage bullshit, if I feel violated coz someone has sent me a picture into my INBOX on whatever platform that may be, you do not have the right to tell me I'm a pussy. Would you call your daughter a pussy if she told you creeps had been sending her dick pics? I'm someones daughter, someone's mother, someone's friend and someone's hope.

So yeah, whilst I'm not bothered in the slightest by seeing dicks flapping in the breeze, gripped so tight they look like they're gonna drop off or whatever other vision they present in public on this site, DOES NOT mean I or anyone else is a pussy for not wanting them sent privately, without prior discussion.

It's called having boundaries and showing some mother fucking respect and consideration."

A daughter getting dick pics from someone stupid comparison and not same as someone being sent one on here. Given how you feel about this report them to the police as its illegal. Forum posts won't stop guys doing it, so it'll go on....what about a safe space on here where single guys are not permitted to enter

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought.

This is bang on!! I would add something but it would only be cheap sarcastic digs at people overacting when fake outrage brigade say shit like ' I feel violated....really, pussies

GTF outta here over reacting fake outrage bullshit, if I feel violated coz someone has sent me a picture into my INBOX on whatever platform that may be, you do not have the right to tell me I'm a pussy. Would you call your daughter a pussy if she told you creeps had been sending her dick pics? I'm someones daughter, someone's mother, someone's friend and someone's hope.

So yeah, whilst I'm not bothered in the slightest by seeing dicks flapping in the breeze, gripped so tight they look like they're gonna drop off or whatever other vision they present in public on this site, DOES NOT mean I or anyone else is a pussy for not wanting them sent privately, without prior discussion.

It's called having boundaries and showing some mother fucking respect and consideration.

There you go, mincing your words again. Just tell 'em like it is Peach. "

Gotta love the double standards of the forums a woman gets congratulated for posting a rant which is pretty full on yet if a man posted that same rant to a woman he'd be vilified on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A fair few guys on here have no intention of meeting and just use this site to send dick picks and crude messages like "you know you want this rite up ya" "I want to ruin you with this"

They have the "safety net" of this being a sex/swingers site and therefore its "ok"

No doubt it helps being a natural filter in itself! As almost all women seem to be averse to it the guys who do deselect themselves from the very start. Women's block buttons must get very busy at times. "

Quite often the guy who sends the photo and message blocks me so I cannot respond?!!!!

I just counter block, report if it's a really abusive message and delete.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought.

This is bang on!! I would add something but it would only be cheap sarcastic digs at people overacting when fake outrage brigade say shit like ' I feel violated....really, pussies

GTF outta here over reacting fake outrage bullshit, if I feel violated coz someone has sent me a picture into my INBOX on whatever platform that may be, you do not have the right to tell me I'm a pussy. Would you call your daughter a pussy if she told you creeps had been sending her dick pics? I'm someones daughter, someone's mother, someone's friend and someone's hope.

So yeah, whilst I'm not bothered in the slightest by seeing dicks flapping in the breeze, gripped so tight they look like they're gonna drop off or whatever other vision they present in public on this site, DOES NOT mean I or anyone else is a pussy for not wanting them sent privately, without prior discussion.

It's called having boundaries and showing some mother fucking respect and consideration.

There you go, mincing your words again. Just tell 'em like it is Peach.

Gotta love the double standards of the forums a woman gets congratulated for posting a rant which is pretty full on yet if a man posted that same rant to a woman he'd be vilified on here. "

Also true sadly to be fair. The OP's point is a fair one, but I've never not seen (single) guys put down like lepers on many an occasion for raising any kind of issue. The inference (usually from couples) is that a bloke should shut up and be grateful to even be acknowledged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought.

This is bang on!! I would add something but it would only be cheap sarcastic digs at people overacting when fake outrage brigade say shit like ' I feel violated....really, pussies

GTF outta here over reacting fake outrage bullshit, if I feel violated coz someone has sent me a picture into my INBOX on whatever platform that may be, you do not have the right to tell me I'm a pussy. Would you call your daughter a pussy if she told you creeps had been sending her dick pics? I'm someones daughter, someone's mother, someone's friend and someone's hope.

So yeah, whilst I'm not bothered in the slightest by seeing dicks flapping in the breeze, gripped so tight they look like they're gonna drop off or whatever other vision they present in public on this site, DOES NOT mean I or anyone else is a pussy for not wanting them sent privately, without prior discussion.

It's called having boundaries and showing some mother fucking respect and consideration.

There you go, mincing your words again. Just tell 'em like it is Peach.

Gotta love the double standards of the forums a woman gets congratulated for posting a rant which is pretty full on yet if a man posted that same rant to a woman he'd be vilified on here. "

Not seeing any "congratulations" post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unsolicited cock pics don't shock or offend me, they just bore me if I can't see more of their body and haven't seen any of their personality yet.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve never sent one in my life. Then again, I don’t have any. I seem to meet lovely people on Fab without them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought. "

Definitely this

Just delete and ignore...

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought.

This is bang on!! I would add something but it would only be cheap sarcastic digs at people overacting when fake outrage brigade say shit like ' I feel violated....really, pussies

GTF outta here over reacting fake outrage bullshit, if I feel violated coz someone has sent me a picture into my INBOX on whatever platform that may be, you do not have the right to tell me I'm a pussy. Would you call your daughter a pussy if she told you creeps had been sending her dick pics? I'm someones daughter, someone's mother, someone's friend and someone's hope.

So yeah, whilst I'm not bothered in the slightest by seeing dicks flapping in the breeze, gripped so tight they look like they're gonna drop off or whatever other vision they present in public on this site, DOES NOT mean I or anyone else is a pussy for not wanting them sent privately, without prior discussion.

It's called having boundaries and showing some mother fucking respect and consideration.

A daughter getting dick pics from someone stupid comparison and not same as someone being sent one on here. Given how you feel about this report them to the police as its illegal. Forum posts won't stop guys doing it, so it'll go on....what about a safe space on here where single guys are not permitted to enter "

How is it a stupid comparison?

It's about having boundaries and conversations to explain that unsolicited dick pics aren't appropriate regardless of the setting.

A safe space where single guys aren't permitted? It should never need to come to that, that's no different to saying single guys shouldn't be allowed out after dark in case they attack someone. It's basic stuff. It's basic changing of perspectives and showing some understanding.

Over the recent year it's been brought to the forefront that almost every woman you know has been a victim of some sort of sexual assault/indecency. Think about that.

When you send a dick pic you're sending it to someone who's previously been assaulted. I bet most fellas would say "I'd have never sent it if I'd known"

Well, you do know unless you've had your head in the sand for the last 365 days or longer. Does it give it a sense of violation now?

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought.

This is bang on!! I would add something but it would only be cheap sarcastic digs at people overacting when fake outrage brigade say shit like ' I feel violated....really, pussies

GTF outta here over reacting fake outrage bullshit, if I feel violated coz someone has sent me a picture into my INBOX on whatever platform that may be, you do not have the right to tell me I'm a pussy. Would you call your daughter a pussy if she told you creeps had been sending her dick pics? I'm someones daughter, someone's mother, someone's friend and someone's hope.

So yeah, whilst I'm not bothered in the slightest by seeing dicks flapping in the breeze, gripped so tight they look like they're gonna drop off or whatever other vision they present in public on this site, DOES NOT mean I or anyone else is a pussy for not wanting them sent privately, without prior discussion.

It's called having boundaries and showing some mother fucking respect and consideration.

A daughter getting dick pics from someone stupid comparison and not same as someone being sent one on here. Given how you feel about this report them to the police as its illegal. Forum posts won't stop guys doing it, so it'll go on....what about a safe space on here where single guys are not permitted to enter

How is it a stupid comparison?

It's about having boundaries and conversations to explain that unsolicited dick pics aren't appropriate regardless of the setting.

A safe space where single guys aren't permitted? It should never need to come to that, that's no different to saying single guys shouldn't be allowed out after dark in case they attack someone. It's basic stuff. It's basic changing of perspectives and showing some understanding.

Over the recent year it's been brought to the forefront that almost every woman you know has been a victim of some sort of sexual assault/indecency. Think about that.

When you send a dick pic you're sending it to someone who's previously been assaulted. I bet most fellas would say "I'd have never sent it if I'd known"

Well, you do know unless you've had your head in the sand for the last 365 days or longer. Does it give it a sense of violation now?

"

Very well made point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This escalated, blimey.

So are we saying that anyone who complains about being flashed a cock is a pussy? That seems to be point 1. Point 2 seems to be if a single bloke posted a rant on a thread (not something I've ever done at all of course ) he'll get flamed by all the women? So therefore women shouldn't rant?

Is this what we're saying now?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"This escalated, blimey.

So are we saying that anyone who complains about being flashed a cock is a pussy? That seems to be point 1. Point 2 seems to be if a single bloke posted a rant on a thread (not something I've ever done at all of course ) he'll get flamed by all the women? So therefore women shouldn't rant?

Is this what we're saying now? "

I'm saying I'll stand up for and alongside anyone who's got a valid point regardless of gender, and I'll also challenge those points I disagree with... again, regardless of gender.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"This escalated, blimey.

So are we saying that anyone who complains about being flashed a cock is a pussy? That seems to be point 1. Point 2 seems to be if a single bloke posted a rant on a thread (not something I've ever done at all of course ) he'll get flamed by all the women? So therefore women shouldn't rant?

Is this what we're saying now? "

Don't think that's quite it. What the lady said about a guy getting flamed if he did it is absolutely correct, but a woman will almost always be sympathised/empathised with. Definitely doesn't mean a woman shouldn't complain if it's a fair point (and it is in this case), but it's 100% true to say that when guys make a point they almost always get pilloried for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you ever seen one of those cigarettes packets with the nasty images on? That’s how an unsolicited dick pic without a face makes me feel"

Lol, now that's hard-core

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This escalated, blimey.

So are we saying that anyone who complains about being flashed a cock is a pussy? That seems to be point 1. Point 2 seems to be if a single bloke posted a rant on a thread (not something I've ever done at all of course ) he'll get flamed by all the women? So therefore women shouldn't rant?

Is this what we're saying now?

Don't think that's quite it. What the lady said about a guy getting flamed if he did it is absolutely correct, but a woman will almost always be sympathised/empathised with. Definitely doesn't mean a woman shouldn't complain if it's a fair point (and it is in this case), but it's 100% true to say that when guys make a point they almost always get pilloried for it. "

Agreed

A good example is on another thread about men's joggers. When a Man queried the double standards, the replies he got said it all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always wondered why women complained about getting unsolicited dick pics all the time. Not that I send mine flying into women's inboxes nor do I suppose very many mrn do so. But I got the shock of my life when I got an unsolicited arse pic from an orientation that clearly doesn't match mine

Do you need counselling?"

Trying not to think about it

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought.

This is bang on!! I would add something but it would only be cheap sarcastic digs at people overacting when fake outrage brigade say shit like ' I feel violated....really, pussies

GTF outta here over reacting fake outrage bullshit, if I feel violated coz someone has sent me a picture into my INBOX on whatever platform that may be, you do not have the right to tell me I'm a pussy. Would you call your daughter a pussy if she told you creeps had been sending her dick pics? I'm someones daughter, someone's mother, someone's friend and someone's hope.

So yeah, whilst I'm not bothered in the slightest by seeing dicks flapping in the breeze, gripped so tight they look like they're gonna drop off or whatever other vision they present in public on this site, DOES NOT mean I or anyone else is a pussy for not wanting them sent privately, without prior discussion.

It's called having boundaries and showing some mother fucking respect and consideration.

A daughter getting dick pics from someone stupid comparison and not same as someone being sent one on here. Given how you feel about this report them to the police as its illegal. Forum posts won't stop guys doing it, so it'll go on....what about a safe space on here where single guys are not permitted to enter

How is it a stupid comparison?

It's about having boundaries and conversations to explain that unsolicited dick pics aren't appropriate regardless of the setting.

A safe space where single guys aren't permitted? It should never need to come to that, that's no different to saying single guys shouldn't be allowed out after dark in case they attack someone. It's basic stuff. It's basic changing of perspectives and showing some understanding.

Over the recent year it's been brought to the forefront that almost every woman you know has been a victim of some sort of sexual assault/indecency. Think about that.

When you send a dick pic you're sending it to someone who's previously been assaulted. I bet most fellas would say "I'd have never sent it if I'd known"

Well, you do know unless you've had your head in the sand for the last 365 days or longer. Does it give it a sense of violation now?

Very well made point! "

Wasn't serious about safe space. I never send dick pics unless asked so when you say you im assuming you as in those that do and not me. You should do something about this and get it stopped otherwise your just saying how bad it is over and over but not saying what your going to do about it. Haven't felt violated, from what I've heard it s not nice

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

It's not a big deal given where we are (and no that not an invitation).......HOWEVER! Your cock is not gonna make me want to meet you, your face and personality will make that decision

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"This escalated, blimey.

So are we saying that anyone who complains about being flashed a cock is a pussy? That seems to be point 1. Point 2 seems to be if a single bloke posted a rant on a thread (not something I've ever done at all of course ) he'll get flamed by all the women? So therefore women shouldn't rant?

Is this what we're saying now?

Don't think that's quite it. What the lady said about a guy getting flamed if he did it is absolutely correct, but a woman will almost always be sympathised/empathised with. Definitely doesn't mean a woman shouldn't complain if it's a fair point (and it is in this case), but it's 100% true to say that when guys make a point they almost always get pilloried for it.

Agreed

A good example is on another thread about men's joggers. When a Man queried the double standards, the replies he got said it all"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The dick pics don't bother me too much, I just delete and ignore. They're preferable to the "stuck up cow" messages when you reply no thank you."

Yeah, I got another one that wants an mmf with me and keeps asking if it's okay they (then person) drank my cum. Now that's not attractive proposal to me going by what my orientation states.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This escalated, blimey.

So are we saying that anyone who complains about being flashed a cock is a pussy? That seems to be point 1. Point 2 seems to be if a single bloke posted a rant on a thread (not something I've ever done at all of course ) he'll get flamed by all the women? So therefore women shouldn't rant?

Is this what we're saying now?

Don't think that's quite it. What the lady said about a guy getting flamed if he did it is absolutely correct, but a woman will almost always be sympathised/empathised with. Definitely doesn't mean a woman shouldn't complain if it's a fair point (and it is in this case), but it's 100% true to say that when guys make a point they almost always get pilloried for it. "

I've not been counting how many times I go off on one on a thread, but it happens. Not yet been pilloried. Had a few stressful rows, but also a lot of support. Isn't that the norm? Really?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I’ve been subjected to every type of cock imaginable now as I’m the one that checks our messages mainly and I can say for certain that not one has made me think…‘I wouldn’t mind seeing C play with that’…

What would make me think that is seeing a good body and a nice face, respectful message…

Maybe after getting to know someone and C being attracted would she want to see more but a cock pic by itself, first message, has never had anything more than the delete button from us.

K

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"It's not a big deal given where we are (and no that not an invitation).......HOWEVER! Your cock is not gonna make me want to meet you, your face and personality will make that decision "

Hallelujah!! Quite right too!!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought.

This is bang on!! I would add something but it would only be cheap sarcastic digs at people overacting when fake outrage brigade say shit like ' I feel violated....really, pussies

GTF outta here over reacting fake outrage bullshit, if I feel violated coz someone has sent me a picture into my INBOX on whatever platform that may be, you do not have the right to tell me I'm a pussy. Would you call your daughter a pussy if she told you creeps had been sending her dick pics? I'm someones daughter, someone's mother, someone's friend and someone's hope.

So yeah, whilst I'm not bothered in the slightest by seeing dicks flapping in the breeze, gripped so tight they look like they're gonna drop off or whatever other vision they present in public on this site, DOES NOT mean I or anyone else is a pussy for not wanting them sent privately, without prior discussion.

It's called having boundaries and showing some mother fucking respect and consideration.

A daughter getting dick pics from someone stupid comparison and not same as someone being sent one on here. Given how you feel about this report them to the police as its illegal. Forum posts won't stop guys doing it, so it'll go on....what about a safe space on here where single guys are not permitted to enter

How is it a stupid comparison?

It's about having boundaries and conversations to explain that unsolicited dick pics aren't appropriate regardless of the setting.

A safe space where single guys aren't permitted? It should never need to come to that, that's no different to saying single guys shouldn't be allowed out after dark in case they attack someone. It's basic stuff. It's basic changing of perspectives and showing some understanding.

Over the recent year it's been brought to the forefront that almost every woman you know has been a victim of some sort of sexual assault/indecency. Think about that.

When you send a dick pic you're sending it to someone who's previously been assaulted. I bet most fellas would say "I'd have never sent it if I'd known"

Well, you do know unless you've had your head in the sand for the last 365 days or longer. Does it give it a sense of violation now?

Very well made point!

Wasn't serious about safe space. I never send dick pics unless asked so when you say you im assuming you as in those that do and not me. You should do something about this and get it stopped otherwise your just saying how bad it is over and over but not saying what your going to do about it. Haven't felt violated, from what I've heard it s not nice"

I (as in me) cannot change the world and minds, however laying it on the line like this WE as a collective, by not dismissing it and calling people pussies, by having conversations with people we know, by talking to our sons, our brothers, our friends and our families.... WE can.

It all starts in places like this thread.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"This escalated, blimey.

So are we saying that anyone who complains about being flashed a cock is a pussy? That seems to be point 1. Point 2 seems to be if a single bloke posted a rant on a thread (not something I've ever done at all of course ) he'll get flamed by all the women? So therefore women shouldn't rant?

Is this what we're saying now?

Don't think that's quite it. What the lady said about a guy getting flamed if he did it is absolutely correct, but a woman will almost always be sympathised/empathised with. Definitely doesn't mean a woman shouldn't complain if it's a fair point (and it is in this case), but it's 100% true to say that when guys make a point they almost always get pilloried for it.

I've not been counting how many times I go off on one on a thread, but it happens. Not yet been pilloried. Had a few stressful rows, but also a lot of support. Isn't that the norm? Really?"

Glad to hear it, but personally (and obviously I don't see every thread going) it does appear to be very much the norm. I wouldn't ever do it as I know the negativity it's going to attract. It's quite often the case that single guys often jump on things too. Cynical I know, but I sometimes think it's a case of doing so to score points and gain favour, although no doubt some do so because they're giving a genuine opinion too.

Absolutely not worth the hassle for my money.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought.

This is bang on!! I would add something but it would only be cheap sarcastic digs at people overacting when fake outrage brigade say shit like ' I feel violated....really, pussies

GTF outta here over reacting fake outrage bullshit, if I feel violated coz someone has sent me a picture into my INBOX on whatever platform that may be, you do not have the right to tell me I'm a pussy. Would you call your daughter a pussy if she told you creeps had been sending her dick pics? I'm someones daughter, someone's mother, someone's friend and someone's hope.

So yeah, whilst I'm not bothered in the slightest by seeing dicks flapping in the breeze, gripped so tight they look like they're gonna drop off or whatever other vision they present in public on this site, DOES NOT mean I or anyone else is a pussy for not wanting them sent privately, without prior discussion.

It's called having boundaries and showing some mother fucking respect and consideration.

A daughter getting dick pics from someone stupid comparison and not same as someone being sent one on here. Given how you feel about this report them to the police as its illegal. Forum posts won't stop guys doing it, so it'll go on....what about a safe space on here where single guys are not permitted to enter

How is it a stupid comparison?

It's about having boundaries and conversations to explain that unsolicited dick pics aren't appropriate regardless of the setting.

A safe space where single guys aren't permitted? It should never need to come to that, that's no different to saying single guys shouldn't be allowed out after dark in case they attack someone. It's basic stuff. It's basic changing of perspectives and showing some understanding.

Over the recent year it's been brought to the forefront that almost every woman you know has been a victim of some sort of sexual assault/indecency. Think about that.

When you send a dick pic you're sending it to someone who's previously been assaulted. I bet most fellas would say "I'd have never sent it if I'd known"

Well, you do know unless you've had your head in the sand for the last 365 days or longer. Does it give it a sense of violation now?

Very well made point!

Wasn't serious about safe space. I never send dick pics unless asked so when you say you im assuming you as in those that do and not me. You should do something about this and get it stopped otherwise your just saying how bad it is over and over but not saying what your going to do about it. Haven't felt violated, from what I've heard it s not nice

I (as in me) cannot change the world and minds, however laying it on the line like this WE as a collective, by not dismissing it and calling people pussies, by having conversations with people we know, by talking to our sons, our brothers, our friends and our families.... WE can.

It all starts in places like this thread. "

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over a year ago


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought.

This is bang on!! I would add something but it would only be cheap sarcastic digs at people overacting when fake outrage brigade say shit like ' I feel violated....really, pussies

GTF outta here over reacting fake outrage bullshit, if I feel violated coz someone has sent me a picture into my INBOX on whatever platform that may be, you do not have the right to tell me I'm a pussy. Would you call your daughter a pussy if she told you creeps had been sending her dick pics? I'm someones daughter, someone's mother, someone's friend and someone's hope.

So yeah, whilst I'm not bothered in the slightest by seeing dicks flapping in the breeze, gripped so tight they look like they're gonna drop off or whatever other vision they present in public on this site, DOES NOT mean I or anyone else is a pussy for not wanting them sent privately, without prior discussion.

It's called having boundaries and showing some mother fucking respect and consideration.

A daughter getting dick pics from someone stupid comparison and not same as someone being sent one on here. Given how you feel about this report them to the police as its illegal. Forum posts won't stop guys doing it, so it'll go on....what about a safe space on here where single guys are not permitted to enter

How is it a stupid comparison?

It's about having boundaries and conversations to explain that unsolicited dick pics aren't appropriate regardless of the setting.

A safe space where single guys aren't permitted? It should never need to come to that, that's no different to saying single guys shouldn't be allowed out after dark in case they attack someone. It's basic stuff. It's basic changing of perspectives and showing some understanding.

Over the recent year it's been brought to the forefront that almost every woman you know has been a victim of some sort of sexual assault/indecency. Think about that.

When you send a dick pic you're sending it to someone who's previously been assaulted. I bet most fellas would say "I'd have never sent it if I'd known"

Well, you do know unless you've had your head in the sand for the last 365 days or longer. Does it give it a sense of violation now?

Very well made point!

Wasn't serious about safe space. I never send dick pics unless asked so when you say you im assuming you as in those that do and not me. You should do something about this and get it stopped otherwise your just saying how bad it is over and over but not saying what your going to do about it. Haven't felt violated, from what I've heard it s not nice

I (as in me) cannot change the world and minds, however laying it on the line like this WE as a collective, by not dismissing it and calling people pussies, by having conversations with people we know, by talking to our sons, our brothers, our friends and our families.... WE can.

It all starts in places like this thread. "

I read all your arguments and trust me you are a %100 right. For sure there are many men that think just like me and appreciate everything you said. Any honourable man reading your comments will say so as well.

Well done

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"This escalated, blimey.

So are we saying that anyone who complains about being flashed a cock is a pussy? That seems to be point 1. Point 2 seems to be if a single bloke posted a rant on a thread (not something I've ever done at all of course ) he'll get flamed by all the women? So therefore women shouldn't rant?

Is this what we're saying now?

Don't think that's quite it. What the lady said about a guy getting flamed if he did it is absolutely correct, but a woman will almost always be sympathised/empathised with. Definitely doesn't mean a woman shouldn't complain if it's a fair point (and it is in this case), but it's 100% true to say that when guys make a point they almost always get pilloried for it. "

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought.

This is bang on!! I would add something but it would only be cheap sarcastic digs at people overacting when fake outrage brigade say shit like ' I feel violated....really, pussies

GTF outta here over reacting fake outrage bullshit, if I feel violated coz someone has sent me a picture into my INBOX on whatever platform that may be, you do not have the right to tell me I'm a pussy. Would you call your daughter a pussy if she told you creeps had been sending her dick pics? I'm someones daughter, someone's mother, someone's friend and someone's hope.

So yeah, whilst I'm not bothered in the slightest by seeing dicks flapping in the breeze, gripped so tight they look like they're gonna drop off or whatever other vision they present in public on this site, DOES NOT mean I or anyone else is a pussy for not wanting them sent privately, without prior discussion.

It's called having boundaries and showing some mother fucking respect and consideration.

A daughter getting dick pics from someone stupid comparison and not same as someone being sent one on here. Given how you feel about this report them to the police as its illegal. Forum posts won't stop guys doing it, so it'll go on....what about a safe space on here where single guys are not permitted to enter

How is it a stupid comparison?

It's about having boundaries and conversations to explain that unsolicited dick pics aren't appropriate regardless of the setting.

A safe space where single guys aren't permitted? It should never need to come to that, that's no different to saying single guys shouldn't be allowed out after dark in case they attack someone. It's basic stuff. It's basic changing of perspectives and showing some understanding.

Over the recent year it's been brought to the forefront that almost every woman you know has been a victim of some sort of sexual assault/indecency. Think about that.

When you send a dick pic you're sending it to someone who's previously been assaulted. I bet most fellas would say "I'd have never sent it if I'd known"

Well, you do know unless you've had your head in the sand for the last 365 days or longer. Does it give it a sense of violation now?

Very well made point!

Wasn't serious about safe space. I never send dick pics unless asked so when you say you im assuming you as in those that do and not me. You should do something about this and get it stopped otherwise your just saying how bad it is over and over but not saying what your going to do about it. Haven't felt violated, from what I've heard it s not nice

I (as in me) cannot change the world and minds, however laying it on the line like this WE as a collective, by not dismissing it and calling people pussies, by having conversations with people we know, by talking to our sons, our brothers, our friends and our families.... WE can.

It all starts in places like this thread.

I read all your arguments and trust me you are a %100 right. For sure there are many men that think just like me and appreciate everything you said. Any honourable man reading your comments will say so as well.

Well done "

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought.

Definitely this

Just delete and ignore...

"

This for me too. It’s the norm on here. Doesn’t bother me. Just delete

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn


"To me getting a dick pic is not a big deal ,do I like getting them, no not really but given the site I am not I'm not shocked or horrified by the fact I get some.All that happens usually is I delete the message without replying and move on with my day without giving it a second thought.

This is bang on!! I would add something but it would only be cheap sarcastic digs at people overacting when fake outrage brigade say shit like ' I feel violated....really, pussies

GTF outta here over reacting fake outrage bullshit, if I feel violated coz someone has sent me a picture into my INBOX on whatever platform that may be, you do not have the right to tell me I'm a pussy. Would you call your daughter a pussy if she told you creeps had been sending her dick pics? I'm someones daughter, someone's mother, someone's friend and someone's hope.

So yeah, whilst I'm not bothered in the slightest by seeing dicks flapping in the breeze, gripped so tight they look like they're gonna drop off or whatever other vision they present in public on this site, DOES NOT mean I or anyone else is a pussy for not wanting them sent privately, without prior discussion.

It's called having boundaries and showing some mother fucking respect and consideration.

A daughter getting dick pics from someone stupid comparison and not same as someone being sent one on here. Given how you feel about this report them to the police as its illegal. Forum posts won't stop guys doing it, so it'll go on....what about a safe space on here where single guys are not permitted to enter

How is it a stupid comparison?

It's about having boundaries and conversations to explain that unsolicited dick pics aren't appropriate regardless of the setting.

A safe space where single guys aren't permitted? It should never need to come to that, that's no different to saying single guys shouldn't be allowed out after dark in case they attack someone. It's basic stuff. It's basic changing of perspectives and showing some understanding.

Over the recent year it's been brought to the forefront that almost every woman you know has been a victim of some sort of sexual assault/indecency. Think about that.

When you send a dick pic you're sending it to someone who's previously been assaulted. I bet most fellas would say "I'd have never sent it if I'd known"

Well, you do know unless you've had your head in the sand for the last 365 days or longer. Does it give it a sense of violation now?

Very well made point!

Wasn't serious about safe space. I never send dick pics unless asked so when you say you im assuming you as in those that do and not me. You should do something about this and get it stopped otherwise your just saying how bad it is over and over but not saying what your going to do about it. Haven't felt violated, from what I've heard it s not nice

I (as in me) cannot change the world and minds, however laying it on the line like this WE as a collective, by not dismissing it and calling people pussies, by having conversations with people we know, by talking to our sons, our brothers, our friends and our families.... WE can.

It all starts in places like this thread.

I read all your arguments and trust me you are a %100 right. For sure there are many men that think just like me and appreciate everything you said. Any honourable man reading your comments will say so as well.

Well done

"

Just meant on here not the world

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