FabSwingers.com forum: What’s your type?

By *his_Kitty_Scratches OP Woman
over a year ago

WSM

Do you have a type? Does something specifically attract you to someone?

I’ve just been having a browse on the dating apps and whilst I rarely swipe right I noticed I have absolutely no ‘type’ at all! Anyone else the same? Sometimes I’ll swipe because I liked the write up, sometimes it’s the smile or eyes, sometimes it’s the pictures that have been taken by someone else showing the guy genuinely enjoying himself instead of a posed picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pale skin with red or dark hair…..I’m a total sucker for that combo

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

No type whatsoever. If you lined up all of the people I’ve had sex with from my time on fab, there would be no unifying factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strong, funny and bearded 90% of the time. But funny will attract me to all different looks the other 10%.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

No type as such just people who are funny,honest and sincere.

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

I kind of agree, I don't have a type as such. There are things that you look for though I guess, a preference. Some people seem very strict in what there type is such as a certain hight like over 6 foot etc. It's also about the person in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like someone taller than me, dark or silver hair, someone who takes pride in their appearance with nice eyes and a large nose.

I like confidence with a dash of arrogance yet someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously.

Looking good in a uniform is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideals

(Mr) - slim, athletic but not bodybuilder toned, highly intelligent and very open minded.

(Jen) - tall, well built and a bit vin dieselish.

But really it is all about the conversation and banter - stimulate the mind and the body will follow regardless of type.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

My unifying factor is kind expressionable eyes, everything else is open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. I love a man with dark hair, bearded, an average body in good shape, hairy and he's got to dress well. But that doesn't mean I wouldn't be interested in others. A man I've described is someone who would always capture my attention.

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By *his_Kitty_Scratches OP Woman
over a year ago

WSM

"No type whatsoever. If you lined up all of the people I’ve had sex with from my time on fab, there would be no unifying factor "

Same with everyone I’ve dated (or met via here) rarely any similarities at all

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By *his_Kitty_Scratches OP Woman
over a year ago

WSM

"No type as such just people who are funny,honest and sincere."

Funny definitely makes a big difference, downside of online dating is not getting the personality through a short bio

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Completely different things attract me too, I don't have a type or gender I go for but something about someone will spark my interest, it could be anything personality related or something physical. Xx

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By *his_Kitty_Scratches OP Woman
over a year ago

WSM

"I kind of agree, I don't have a type as such. There are things that you look for though I guess, a preference. Some people seem very strict in what there type is such as a certain hight like over 6 foot etc. It's also about the person in the end "

I do prefer taller than me but I don’t check out the heights here or on dating sites it’s just a bonus if they are taller

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By *his_Kitty_Scratches OP Woman
over a year ago

WSM

"I like someone taller than me, dark or silver hair, someone who takes pride in their appearance with nice eyes and a large nose.

I like confidence with a dash of arrogance yet someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously.

Looking good in a uniform is a bonus "

Confidence is an absolute must!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Honestly no I'm about how we get on I like ladies of all shapes and sizes, men wise just have to be taller than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who aren't jaded.

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By *his_Kitty_Scratches OP Woman
over a year ago

WSM

"Ideals

(Mr) - slim, athletic but not bodybuilder toned, highly intelligent and very open minded.

(Jen) - tall, well built and a bit vin dieselish.

But really it is all about the conversation and banter - stimulate the mind and the body will follow regardless of type. "

Meeting and chatting really is the deal breaker, an awkward coffee is the worst

I’ve found people become more attractive sometimes once you get chatting away

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By *ampshire_guy40Man
over a year ago

hampshire

I don't think I have a type as such,just wish I was someones type

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Military

Beard...not a fan of beards but the last few guys have all had one

Generally dark hair

At least one of those things to be my type apparently

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By *his_Kitty_Scratches OP Woman
over a year ago

WSM

"People who aren't jaded."

Have to agree there!

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By *his_Kitty_Scratches OP Woman
over a year ago

WSM

"I don't think I have a type as such,just wish I was someones type"

I was literally just thinking the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have one looks wise other than someone with a nice smile & eyes who I'm attracted to.

Personality wise, funny, outgoing, friendly, doesn't take themselves seriously and up for a laugh.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

A good sense of humour and nice chat.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"No type whatsoever. If you lined up all of the people I’ve had sex with from my time on fab, there would be no unifying factor "

Same here and in non fab life, all very different.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

I love red headed ladies with pale skin! Ladies with quirky hair, and inked. I find myself naturally attracted to small boobs and a slight frame too! But I definitely do get turned on by others too! Sometimes it’s a cheeky smile, a glint in their eye, or personality that makes me melt!

Miss pc

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Being up for a laugh is the key ... so I guess that must be a 'type' even in the most basic of senses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bubbly

confident

short

swallows

long hair

peachy bum (bonus)

Those lower back dimples (bonus)

Heel/lingerie lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male. That's the only thing they have in common.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

No type at all physically. It’s a mind thing.

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By *his_Kitty_Scratches OP Woman
over a year ago

WSM

"Male. That's the only thing they have in common. "

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

Not really. As long as they are clever, funny & great company.

Personality is far more important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone thats can laugh at her self, funny, thats casual yet can dress to impress.

My perfect physical type is that girl next door unfake, mixed blonde long hair, smallish boobs, someone that likes her food and is a gym goer but not heavy gym goer (i like cuddley)

Im not into judgemental, high maintenance, fake types that live infront of a mirror & are social media obsessed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't, but I have a consistent perve at Russell Tovey

His Insta is just porn to me

My OH showed me a photo before of him lay face down half naked on a bed with 4 dogs, that's pure heaven to me

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Women no . I like all shapes and sizes as long as they rock their look and are happy in their skin

Guys I only fancy daddy types

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

Anyone with a blood type RO negative subtype

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By *haneportsMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

I like a range of types but femininity is the biggest turn on for me by a long way.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

BBW's with dark hair for me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jack Grealish.

I’m very specific on my type of man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short & slim

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Taller than me, at least 6ft, built & muscley, dark hair, nice eyes, same-ish age.

That said, I'm currently with boytoy who is muscley but very slim, dark n gorgeous eyes and 20years my junior

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs PD likes..eyes with a mischievious glint, georgeous smile, peachy pinchable bottom, great sense of humour,honesty,head hair, strong arms and well kept nails.

Mr PD is drawn to all types but really likes slim/ athletic build,flirty like him, big boobs or no boobs he doesn't mind. He does love a pert bum and lots of banter.

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By *iking.beardMan
over a year ago

Redcar

Anyone type a hairy redhead bearded viking looking gent with a dad bod?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I don't really discount anyone.

Sexy is sexy.

If I had a weird science machine they'd be curvy and busty but then smaller boobs can be very sexy on the right person too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who aren't jaded."

I like the jaded ones. More likely to say fuck it why not, nowt else to lose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My only stipulation is taller than me…but a beard helps massively

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My only stipulation is taller than me…but a beard helps massively

Like a victorian villian kinda beard? Or a viking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tall and dark-haired is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Female, 18+.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tall and dark-haired is good."
So I'm guessing you'd turn Jason Statham away lol

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Confident without arrogance. Comfortable in their own skin and a sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My type... Emotionally unavailable fuck wits but the sex is good

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Nice eye

Nice hair

Tall

Great sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On sexual attraction, long legs do it for me. But when it comes to regular dating, I don't look for it. I do have some minimum expectations. But it's not that hard to beat those expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no real type so long as your fun n naughty happy days, however. If i was allowed to have a dream girl she would be Oriental Asian, very slin n petite, with medium size boobs but tiny bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Nice eye

Nice hair

Tall

Great sense of humour

Xx"

3 out of 4 isn't bad I guess x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tall and dark-haired is good."

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I don't have a 'type', per se - over the years my playmates have ranged from blondes to raven-haired; 4'11" to 6'2"; size 8 to size 20; from about 10-12 years younger to 30 years older; and have been single, divorced, widowed, or married and playing with or without hubby's knowledge...

As for attraction, I'm a confirmed 'leg man' - so a woman wearing stockings and heels always gets my complete attention!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy brunettes and redheads to the fore, especially if they radiate cheeky, flirty energy. Such a sucker for that.

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

No type whatsoever

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

My ultimate type would be average height, average build, dark curly hair, blue eyes and tattoos.

That being said, got a bit of a thing for silver foxes with blue eyes and hot ginger guys.

Definitely all in the eyes though .. and a nice smile.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Definitely have to have humour/beard and a doggo person! It's not likely Tom Hardy will be on it though. Hahaha

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"My ultimate type would be average height, average build, dark curly hair, blue eyes and tattoos.

That being said, got a bit of a thing for silver foxes with blue eyes and hot ginger guys.

Definitely all in the eyes though .. and a nice smile."

3 out of 5. Possibly 4 out of 5 in a couple of years.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I don't have a physical type, but I normally go for people who are smart, funny and eloquent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really have a type for men but I find curvy brunette women stunningly sexy, especially if the have bigger boobs lol x

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

My type seems to be people who don't want me

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

1950’s influenced women, preferably with good bangs!

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

I'm just happy if they're still breathing, saying that..

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"I don't really have a type for men but I find curvy brunette women stunningly sexy, especially if the have bigger boobs lol x"

Oh actually, that's a good point. I don't have a physical type in men but I really do when it comes to women. I like them zaftig, ideally dark and sultry, and I like earthy, openly sexual women, no coyness.

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

The ones that turn up when they are meant to

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"... I like them zaftig, ideally dark and sultry, and I like earthy, openly sexual women, no coyness."

Zaftig is such a brilliant word and rarely seen on the forums, I like that you've used it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ultimate type would be average height, average build, dark curly hair, blue eyes and tattoos.

That being said, got a bit of a thing for silver foxes with blue eyes and hot ginger guys.

Definitely all in the eyes though .. and a nice smile."

Average height and average built here

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I (Mr) have always gone for the tall leggy brunette types yet married Alexis who is 5ft 2 and blonde so would say there is never a type. It is all about attraction.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"... I like them zaftig, ideally dark and sultry, and I like earthy, openly sexual women, no coyness.

Zaftig is such a brilliant word and rarely seen on the forums, I like that you've used it.

It's such a great descriptor - a real sexiness and juiciness that rubenesque or curvy or junoesque or voluptuous just don't imply.

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By *oldfischMan
over a year ago

HARROW

Variety is indeed the spice of life; I've loved women of all shapes, sizes, and from all parts of the world. I can look back on nights with a fiery and passionate redhead and other times with a beautiful Jamaican girl with buttery soft skin with a lovely husky voice who would cry out when we had sex. Do I have a type at all? If pushed; dark, hairy, intense - Italian/Argentine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone down to earth!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Looks wise I don't have a type, I'm just attracted or I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone down to earth! "

100% my type

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By *his_Kitty_Scratches OP Woman
over a year ago

WSM

Funny how all our preferences would require having met someone in person to gauge their humour, personality and behaviour yet we are now in a world where we mainly just look at pictures. I think I need to get some hobbies outside of the house and meet people in the flesh straight off rather than scrolling the likes of bumble, hinge and here…

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Funny how all our preferences would require having met someone in person to gauge their humour, personality and behaviour yet we are now in a world where we mainly just look at pictures. I think I need to get some hobbies outside of the house and meet people in the flesh straight off rather than scrolling the likes of bumble, hinge and here…

…I echo your sentiment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone down to earth!

100% my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mediterranean guys, especially Greek or Italian. 6ft, brown eyes, dark hair and a stubble mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone down to earth! "

Is a person down to Earth if they pretend to be a pirate while opening rollerblinds?

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By *oloris obsequiumWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Tall rugby type, can throw me about a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mediterranean guys, especially Greek or Italian. 6ft, brown eyes, dark hair and a stubble mmmmmm

I'm not technically Mediterranean but I have eaten lasagne.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You big silly!

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Mediterranean guys, especially Greek or Italian. 6ft, brown eyes, dark hair and a stubble mmmmmm

I'm not technically Mediterranean but I have eaten lasagne.

I had some olives once, does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... I like them zaftig, ideally dark and sultry, and I like earthy, openly sexual women, no coyness.

Zaftig is such a brilliant word and rarely seen on the forums, I like that you've used it.

It's such a great descriptor - a real sexiness and juiciness that rubenesque or curvy or junoesque or voluptuous just don't imply."

I think I aspire to Zaftig!

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