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By *entleman Jay OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Why is it?

I was away twice last week with vanilla friends. While away I had two random messages, one from a couple and one from a lady asking if I was free to meet now.

Funny how when I return home, I never get messages like that.

What are your examples of Fab Sod’s law?

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

She wants night at mine when missus is home.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Oh yes… one of my favourite old fab friends messaged a few months ago to catch up but I was otherwise engaged… now no distraction and he’s not been online for a few weeks sods bloody law.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

In 5 years of being on here I’ve never had a meet me now message.

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Arranged a meet with someone and then a regular messaged wanting to meet. What should I do? what did I do!

I told the truth to the new one and met the regular lol

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I was told by someone I trust that under my old profile it looked like I just wanted to fuck and go.

As I was aware that the Fab mantra is seemingly not to ignore the social aspect, I took it on-board.

Not long later I got talking to a great couple who I really liked and the banter was brilliant, but got blown out as I said I wanted to meet people and see how it goes; they just wanted me to fuck and go and they decided they weren’t my type because of that. Conversation immediately over, as polite as the rejection was (credit to them).

But FFS.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"In 5 years of being on here I’ve never had a meet me now message. "

Want some of mine?

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By *entleman Jay OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I was told by someone I trust that under my old profile it looked like I just wanted to fuck and go.

As I was aware that the Fab mantra is seemingly not to ignore the social aspect, I took it on-board.

Not long later I got talking to a great couple who I really liked and the banter was brilliant, but got blown out as I said I wanted to meet people and see how it goes; they just wanted me to fuck and go and they decided they weren’t my type because of that. Conversation immediately over, as polite as the rejection was (credit to them).

But FFS. "

Lol. Sod’s law in all its glory.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

We’ve had a few Sod’s law moments concerning Mother Nature! She can be a right bitch sometimes ! Arrange a meet when we know it’s a good time for me, and then that morning MN appears when she totally shouldn’t! It’s very frustrating!!! Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’ve had a few Sod’s law moments concerning Mother Nature! She can be a right bitch sometimes ! Arrange a meet when we know it’s a good time for me, and then that morning MN appears when she totally shouldn’t! It’s very frustrating!!! Miss pc "

Oh yes I can totally relate! Irregular periods has cost me many a meet

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

It's Fabs law (aka sods law) that you make a connection with someone who lives zillions of miles away ...

Or, busy lives and diary juggling just makes it look like neither party are that interested when in fact teleportation would solve it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’ve had a few Sod’s law moments concerning Mother Nature! She can be a right bitch sometimes ! Arrange a meet when we know it’s a good time for me, and then that morning MN appears when she totally shouldn’t! It’s very frustrating!!! Miss pc "

over that now thank god!!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

They turn out to be married or have a partner that's in the dark about their extra marital activities

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester


"We’ve had a few Sod’s law moments concerning Mother Nature! She can be a right bitch sometimes ! Arrange a meet when we know it’s a good time for me, and then that morning MN appears when she totally shouldn’t! It’s very frustrating!!! Miss pc

Oh yes I can totally relate! Irregular periods has cost me many a meet "

It’s really frustrating isn’t it! And even more so when the person your meeting thinks your blagging and you don’t hear from them again ! Oh to be regular, that would be a dream, actually totm sodding off completely would be better haha Miss pc

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester


"We’ve had a few Sod’s law moments concerning Mother Nature! She can be a right bitch sometimes ! Arrange a meet when we know it’s a good time for me, and then that morning MN appears when she totally shouldn’t! It’s very frustrating!!! Miss pc

over that now thank god!! "

I reallllly hope I get to that stage soon, can’t be doing with things getting in the way of fun haha Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’ve had a few Sod’s law moments concerning Mother Nature! She can be a right bitch sometimes ! Arrange a meet when we know it’s a good time for me, and then that morning MN appears when she totally shouldn’t! It’s very frustrating!!! Miss pc

Oh yes I can totally relate! Irregular periods has cost me many a meet

It’s really frustrating isn’t it! And even more so when the person your meeting thinks your blagging and you don’t hear from them again ! Oh to be regular, that would be a dream, actually totm sodding off completely would be better haha Miss pc "

Can totally relate!! Especially when they think you're lying. Oh yeh I've made baby sitting arrangements, got new outfit, done nails etc, just to cancel at last minute....

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By *entleman Jay OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


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It's Fabs law (aka sods law) that you make a connection with someone who lives zillions of miles away ...

Or, busy lives and diary juggling just makes it look like neither party are that interested when in fact teleportation would solve it all "

I had this a few years ago with a lady. Our dates never worked. She cancelled on me. I had a plumbing/DIY emergency and I had to cancel on her.

About five months after first chatting I said, “this is never going to happen, I’m wishing you all the best and take care”.

She took that as a final goodbye and said “you’re not disappearing so easily”. She suggested another date and we finally met.

I’m so glad we did. She was a lovely lady. We saw each other many times over almost a year. It was almost so very different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spent three months chatting to someone only for his apparent gf to demand exclusivity. (Hadn't known she was a girlfriend). He had never spoken to her about being non-monogamous.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"In 5 years of being on here I’ve never had a meet me now message.

Want some of mine?"

Some of your what?

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