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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If someone you'd arranged a meet _ith posted a '_ould like to meet today' request on the morning of the day of your meet, _hat _ould you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone you'd arranged a meet _ith posted a '_ould like to meet today' request on the morning of the day of your meet, _hat _ould you think?"

hes/she is looking for a better offer!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

That you're a fall back position if they can't get something else - cheeky sod - I'd cancel immediately! Z

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

That they had changed their mind. Would also ask then _hat is going on. Granted they may be looking for an afternoon thing and I'm meeting them in the evening but its still poor form

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd think t_ice before meeting them.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The To_n by The Cross

"If someone you'd arranged a meet _ith posted a '_ould like to meet today' request on the morning of the day of your meet, _hat _ould you think?"

I'd think .....that's odd? Then i'd message them to see if our meet _as still on. If they didn't reply I _ouldn't turn up for the meet.

If they said NO. I'd say no_t n block them.

If they said YES I'd say _hy have you got a meet today up ?

If they said they _ere covering all eventualities in case I didn't turn up i'd be a bit put off that they didn't think I _as genuine.

This is all hypothetical as I've never been through it.

Oh fuck em ..... get rid ( i have a cold - no patience )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh fuck em ..... get rid ( i have a cold - no patience ) "

id do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh fuck em ..... get rid ( i have a cold - no patience )

id do this"

I'd do this too - We're all too good to be treated as a back up plan !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Oh fuck em ..... get rid ( i have a cold - no patience )"

Hehe. Made oy larff.

Apparently it's not just me thinking it's a bit odd then. These posts (all of them, not just yours Granny C), pretty much sum up _hat I am thinking.

Have sent a text to confirm. We spoke last _eek and all seemed ok. Bit confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they're just insatiable.

Or like has been said, hedging their bets, almost expecting a cancellation from you.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Its happened and I couldnt be arsed chatting about it, so have to say I just blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe there preparing for a let do_n themselves so keeping there options open.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh fuck em ..... get rid ( i have a cold - no patience )

id do this

I'd do this too - We're all too good to be treated as a back up plan !"

never did a back up plan

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe they're just insatiable.

Or like has been said, hedging their bets, almost expecting a cancellation from you."

They've no reason to expect a cancellation from me. We've spoken on the phone recently, stayed in touch and I _as ok _ith them asking to reschedule once.

I don't kno_ if they read the forums. If so, to clarify, I am not bitching, just confused and _anting a fe_ other opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Oh fuck em ..... get rid ( i have a cold - no patience )

Hehe. Made oy larff.

Apparently it's not just me thinking it's a bit odd then. These posts (all of them, not just yours Granny C), pretty much sum up _hat I am thinking.

Have sent a text to confirm. We spoke last _eek and all seemed ok. Bit confused."

maybe hes a cock and not _orth your time! hes had a chance and no_ hes _asted it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There al_ays so many time _asters on here maybe its there back up plan but that means letting someone do_n x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they're just insatiable.

Or like has been said, hedging their bets, almost expecting a cancellation from you.

They've no reason to expect a cancellation from me. We've spoken on the phone recently, stayed in touch and I _as ok _ith them asking to reschedule once.

I don't kno_ if they read the forums. If so, to clarify, I am not bitching, just confused and _anting a fe_ other opinions.

I agree though, it does seem a bit odd.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Their veris are good and I haven't had a time_aster vibe from them. They come across as very straightfor_ard and genuine.

I'm not the best judge of character sometimes, I admit, but my gut feeling is that they're not time_asters.

Very strange.

I don't mind if they've changed their mind, I'd rather kno_ though. I'm not the sort to have a tantrum over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one _ord..... busted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mentioned 'you spoke last _eek and all seemed fine'! Maybe i'm being a bit naive here, but, couldn't it be a simple thing like he has maybe forgotten this is the day for your meet? It isn't al_ays the _orst scenario that most peeps seem to think it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he just forgot to remove it give him the benefit of the doubt if your radar is not going off if he messes you about then just block him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id think they _ere stupid as your ga_jus x.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"one _ord..... busted

They're on my friends list, so it sho_s right at the top of the updates page. They had to kno_ there _as a good chance I'd see it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe he just forgot to remove it give him the benefit of the doubt if your radar is not going off if he messes you about then just block him."

It says it _as posted 5-6 hours ago.

Meet _as arranged before that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Id think they _ere stupid as your ga_jus x.

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id think they _ere stupid as your ga_jus x.

Thank you."

anytime x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You mentioned 'you spoke last _eek and all seemed fine'! Maybe i'm being a bit naive here, but, couldn't it be a simple thing like he has maybe forgotten this is the day for your meet? It isn't al_ays the _orst scenario that most peeps seem to think it is!

We texted about it yesterday.

I also meant _e spoke during the _eek, not last _eek but the _eek just gone. Sorry I _asn't clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We texted about it yesterday.

I also meant _e spoke during the _eek, not last _eek but the _eek just gone. Sorry I _asn't clear."

Aaaah, then hes a knob and should be dragged outside and fed to the pigs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We texted about it yesterday.

I also meant _e spoke during the _eek, not last _eek but the _eek just gone. Sorry I _asn't clear."

id move on fook _aiting for the excuse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah I get ya x Arranged last _eek have you had any contact since then x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have my ans_er.

Thanks for the advice and opinions everyone.

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By *Man
over a year ago

Devon

_hat _as it?

ps i hope it _as _hat you _anted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My evening is no_ free.

Not a big deal, at least I kno_.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really bad etiquette,especially if there has been no contact, block him. Another reason _hy I find going to clubs more reliable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It _as a couple. I guess one of them _asn't into me. It happens, but should really have been decided at an earlier stage than this.

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By *_in PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

And that is _hat can give couples a bad rep

We NEVER make arrangements to meet someone if BOTH of us aren't 100% sure. Totally lacking in respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is your meet an evening one? perhaps they _ant to play before they meet you too? I've had more than one meet in a day occasionally

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By *uggers nemesisCouple
over a year ago

london

"If someone you'd arranged a meet _ith posted a '_ould like to meet today' request on the morning of the day of your meet, _hat _ould you think?"

That they are being very greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My evening is no_ free.

Not a big deal, at least I kno_."

oh sorry, just read this post after posting myself

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any _here you may _ant me lands

on the otherhand it may be that he needs to get in some practise time do_n the firing range first? With a big meet going do_n _here that crucial killer shot is going to count he doesn't _ant to let you do_n _ith an empty chamber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is your meet an evening one? perhaps they _ant to play before they meet you too? I've had more than one meet in a day occasionally

What a girl!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone you'd arranged a meet _ith posted a '_ould like to meet today' request on the morning of the day of your meet, _hat _ould you think?"

i think i'd mail him and tell him he better hope he gets a reply or hes _anking tonight

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

If it's a couple maybe they are 'that couple' advertising for a single bloke, to get him to pay for the Hotel, shag him, boot him out, then get you in for the main feature.....provided you stump up for the room, naturally

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