FabSwingers.com forum: Are there types of people you avoid?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

True, we should never judge a book by its cover otherwise we lose out. Sadly, in the real world people do judge people by their cover and that includeds me and if I did not say that I'd be lying. Having said that, after the intially apprehensions and hearing/seeing them I quickly get over that.

For me on the whole its the loud, ie chavisticogical behaviour and appearnace but not always as I've seen many chavaty types in suits. I also avoid d*unks and self proclaimed bulls and so-called domianat people.

what types do you avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"True, we should never judge a book by its cover otherwise we lose out. Sadly, in the real world people do judge people by their cover and that includeds me and if I did not say that I'd be lying. Having said that, after the intially apprehensions and hearing/seeing them I quickly get over that.

what types do you avoid"

My top types to avoid are the preachy types be it political, or personal views... i mean come on i have my views theyre my beliefs, they may not be the same as yours so lets just keep stum. The types that blame politics or success of others for their failings in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The double standard types who have different views in public and totally opposite in private.

The infantile people, egotistical and materialistic.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

The grumpy moany life sucking ones

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

what types do you avoid

Excellent. I was going to psot about that but post got long so stopped.

There is/was a hardcore bunch of the born again types and my religion is the best and I'm good becuse I belong to this ?? religion - they did my head in

The politcally types and religiois types went hand in had where I worked and if you said nothing they'd ask "what do you think," and my asnwe was please leave nne out of it. They are actually worse than the types I've mentioned in my Op here.

Then there is family I avoid from both sides

- TBH, they avoid me as well but we are diplomatic at weddings etc and keep it to - "hi, how are you the family, " and move on

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

Negative types. Those who won’t be accountable for their own misfortune and blame the rest of the world for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The grumpy moany life sucking ones

You work where I worked?

You used to have one and most, inc me (sorry) used have have a name for here not so nice

She carried on and on and on and on and on, trust me.

Not joking when I'm saying she could make a dead person get up and wlak out of the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones who misery seems to follow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self absorbed.

Uncaring.

Impatient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overly negative people and extremely cocky/arrogant people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The ones who misery seems to follow "

I've said to naother person here - you sure you don't work where I worked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cunts, I avoid cunts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Overly negative people and extremely cocky/arrogant people "

Pretty much this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I avoid heavy drinkers, heavy smokers (especially if you’re smoking in your pictures) people who mention “partying” and “HnH”.

There’s a few other little markers that put me off but the above are instant turn offs

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

There are a few types of people I avoid. Boring, self absorbed are one type and bigots are another, yet another are those whose self esteem is so low that they need constant reassurance, it's exhausting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recreational drug users especially the preachy ones saying it's all harmless

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I avoid heavy drinkers, heavy smokers (especially if you’re smoking in your pictures) people who mention “partying” and “HnH”.

There’s a few other little markers that put me off but the above are instant turn offs"

Thanks

not all smokers but have you guys noted some smokers smell like shit? I avoid them at all costs as most of them stink. I think the older I get the more dislikes I have and I hope I don't turn into a grumpy assshole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cunts, I avoid cunts"

Bet it’s like a game of dodge ball

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I try to avoid people who put other people down.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

We have a double life.

Swinging and non swinging.

Swinging don't really care too much as not really looking for long term friendships but even here its d*unks, dickheads and bores.

Non swinging,very different, have to be similar to us.

D*unks, dickhead and boring.

We tend to say hello, see what the first 5 minutes bring and either stay or move on.

Met some lovely people at clubs, parties and holidays and walked away from some not so lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cunts, I avoid cunts

Bet it’s like a game of dodge ball

Dodge, dip, duck, dive and dodge

Just call me Patches O'Hoolihan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The grumpy moany life sucking ones

Hi.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Overly negative people and extremely cocky/arrogant people "
And the ones who thinks the world resolves around them.x

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"My top types to avoid are the preachy types be it political, or personal views... i mean come on i have my views theyre my beliefs, they may not be the same as yours so lets just keep stum. The types that blame politics or success of others for their failings in life.

Ditto.

Not a fan of mouthy wannabe alpha gobshites and militant political pricks (one flavour in particular).

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Anyone who doesn't like cake ...no they are not to be trusted and avoid at all costs

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Anyone who doesn't like cake ...no they are not to be trusted and avoid at all costs

Vile deviants!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I really need to think about this ......

On here..... It's those that can't accept that different people are at different stages in life and hold different views and can do so without becoming evangelical about their own stance and seeing life as a 'fight' to be won and fail to realise that they WILL hold different viewpoints in the future.

Same off here really ...... people who pick on others because they can..

People who won't listen ...... I can excuse a 'can't' listen cos they are generally lacking in some way.

Ageists.

Sexists.

Racists.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Anyone who doesn't like cake ...no they are not to be trusted and avoid at all costs

I thought you were biscuit dunker then. ....

I had a fantastic vegan lemon cake yesterday ..... lush .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The grumpy moany life sucking ones

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I’ll second this one

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Anyone who doesn't like cake ...no they are not to be trusted and avoid at all costs

Vile deviants!"

Indeed ...and marginally suspicious about those that avoid any form of caffeine too

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I just avoid everyone.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Anyone who doesn't like cake ...no they are not to be trusted and avoid at all costs

I thought you were biscuit dunker then. ....

I had a fantastic vegan lemon cake yesterday ..... lush ....... "

Sounds yum ....you're clearly trustworthy then

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Anyone who doesn't like cake ...no they are not to be trusted and avoid at all costs

I thought you were biscuit dunker then. ....

I had a fantastic vegan lemon cake yesterday ..... lush .......

Sounds yum ....you're clearly trustworthy then

I'd nick your cake !

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Anyone who doesn't like cake ...no they are not to be trusted and avoid at all costs

I thought you were biscuit dunker then. ....

I had a fantastic vegan lemon cake yesterday ..... lush .......

Sounds yum ....you're clearly trustworthy then

I'd nick your cake !"

...haha maybe not so trustworthy then

...noted

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Cunts, I avoid cunts"

Lol I scrolled down but that made me stop and laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to hold judgement until I get to know someone…. Sometimes we aren’t always what we seem xx

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I can’t be around mood hoovers, drama llamas, social hand grenades and lose cannon mouths! Just no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mood hoovers

Laddy types

Cocky fuckers

Men who look to resolve upsets with violence

The easily triggered

Fat shamers

'Banter' makes me recoil in distress too

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I try to hold judgement until I get to know someone…. Sometimes we aren’t always what we seem xx"

So do I in some circumstances but it isn't always possible.

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

"Cunts, I avoid cunts"
fantastic me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ticket inspectors and supermarket security guards ;-p

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Mood hoovers

Laddy types

Cocky fuckers

Men who look to resolve upsets with violence

The easily triggered

Fat shamers

'Banter' makes me recoil in distress too "

Oh god 'banter'. It used to have such a different meaning now it's just code for being as verbally abusive or bullying as you like and expecting your victim to laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loud people! loud talkers, loud breathers.

Empty vessels make the loudest noise, and there tends to be little interesting, about people who love hearing the sound of their own voice.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Anyone that doesn't like Motorhead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skanks

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By *ohnnyTwoNotesMan
over a year ago

golden fields

Colin the energy vampire.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Loud people! loud talkers, loud breathers.

Empty vessels make the loudest noise, and there tends to be little interesting, about people who love hearing the sound of their own voice."

You obviously hadn't considered that they might be hearing impaired or actually having fun.

You'd probably hate me

I avoid negative, judgemental people and those who are d*unk or do drugs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liars

Misogynists

Arrogant people

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By *ohnnyTwoNotesMan
over a year ago

golden fields

"Loud people! loud talkers, loud breathers.

Empty vessels make the loudest noise, and there tends to be little interesting, about people who love hearing the sound of their own voice.

You obviously hadn't considered that they might be hearing impaired or actually having fun.

You'd probably hate me

I avoid negative, judgemental people and those who are d*unk or do drugs.

Oh yeah d*unk people. Have left a meet after five minutes because she was d*unk and not in a good state of mind to be out swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude ones it’s a bad way to be

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Moaning and jealous people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

cheats

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Those that think their poop stinks of roses and snobs! Bad manners and self absorbed arrogant fake people. Could go on haha

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"I just avoid everyone."
So funny!

haha

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Loud people! loud talkers, loud breathers.

Empty vessels make the loudest noise, and there tends to be little interesting, about people who love hearing the sound of their own voice."

Ah, my favourite English teacher used to say that to us about empty vessels.

I loved listening to him read aloud.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Liars

Misogynists

Arrogant people"

What kind of liars?

I have in laws who tell a story and elaborate quite grandly.

We know they are lying but it's not harmful lies.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Miserable fuckers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Liars

Misogynists

Arrogant people

What kind of liars?

I have in laws who tell a story and elaborate quite grandly.

We know they are lying but it's not harmful lies.

I really dislike dishonesty in general. I've just had a lot of it. People who aren't open and honest in general perhaps?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

There’s a few on here I’d avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tend to avoid dramatic types, who take no responsibility for their behaviour. I also don’t feel comfortable being around people whose moods are really up and down. I think it comes of growing up with a mum we had to tread on eggshells around. I like good-natured folks who you usually get the one way. Of course we all have blips in our moods - and I can be a cranky cow at times - but you know what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and honesty is hugely important to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who always have drama going on. People who speak negatively about others, and people who blame others for their misfortunes.

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

1st - people that are ..... "ist's." You can't talk or reason with them. Don't even bother. It's a waste of time.

2nd - agressive people. It's an absolute turn off in character trait in a woman for me.

3rd - Liars and excessive braggers (braggers in the sense that they are better than you & try to trump you. Trying to do the keeping up with the Jones's. Buy & do things cos you like them. Don't do it cos it makes you think you are cool, better or cos you copy others - that makes you a sheep!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask that instead of avoiding me you all block me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheerful happy people. Can't be doing with that shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone toxic in any shape or form and people who pretend to be something they are not.

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

I avoid any negative people, they drain my sparkle...

People that only talk about football, people with agendas and those that hide behind their online presence

Liars, chauvanists, the arrogant and the dull.

I lead a quiet life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that are waaaay too confident about themselves and what they would do to me which would "gaurantee" pleasure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This could be a long list of types for me OP.

I think that it can be summed up into 2 categories

1) people who drain my energy levels

2) people who have no respect for others or their boundaries

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I agree with ^ Bearded Guy.

People who have no respect for personal space or boundaries and people who are negative are exhausting to be around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People that are waaaay too confident about themselves and what they would do to me which would "gaurantee" pleasure!

Oh, for sure. And those types never deliver anyway!

Plus, it’s arrogant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance and unkindness

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge and Dublin

I run a mile when the folks turn the discussion to items such as Charlie or other similar substances. I appreciate that substance's are a person choice, but they have implications and career limiting effects!

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

People who love causing drama, loud overbearing people and judgemental people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Narcissists

Princesses

Gas Lighters

There is an argument they are one in the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people who have done everything type. You know, you've been to Tennessee but they've been to Elevenessee

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"There’s a few on here I’d avoid

You'd do their bum holes tho wouldn't you........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s a few on here I’d avoid

You'd do their bum holes tho wouldn't you........ "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s a few on here I’d avoid

You'd do their bum holes tho wouldn't you........

How dfo you do the grave emoji?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Narcissists

Princesses

Gas Lighters

There is an argument they are one in the same. "

There's a lot of S's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think every couple and single lady avoid me lol like to know why lol ??

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

On fab we avoid folks who

- have a long list of dos and donts

- say no text talk but start their message with hw r u

- say send face pic with first message but yet don't do the same when they say first message

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

People rattling tins.

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By *udistcpl1Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

I really love people with thought through opinions - even if their opinion differs to mine. I hate the 'skim over the surface', hollow, me, me, me types.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"There’s a few on here I’d avoid

You'd do their bum holes tho wouldn't you........ "

Only if I could put my balls in as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stabby people, mostly.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Self absorbed people who see their reflection in every comment good and bad. Every compliment is taken as theirs even when it's not and every criticism has to be aimed at them regardless of where it comes from.

People who live for drama and where none exists they create it.

My fab journey has improved immensely in recent months just by avoiding the above.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

D*unken people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negative, arrogant, loud and those who always have some kind of drama are the types I usually avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negative, obnoxious, arrogant people and those who aren't nice to others despite being nice to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone. They’re all twats!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Drama Llamas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knobs, who think this is a sex site, who think they have a godly given right! Who can’t even read and understand our profile. Rant over ??

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