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By *ack688 OP   Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

…what’s the longest you have gone without having sex?

I’m currently at nearly 21 months which is the longest since losing mine back in 1981

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably around 6 months.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

A couple of weeks perhaps?

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By *ollybirdWoman
over a year ago

east Cork

About 3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Longest was 2 years when was posted away

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Longest was about a year.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

21 months!!

I genuinely think I would be on the verge of insanity by now if I went that long.

Longest for us about 6 months when wife was pregnant then subsequently had baby.

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Currently…..three years and counting.

Before that was two years and two months in my late teens.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"A couple of weeks perhaps? "

Update, Mr KC reminds me that his longest stint on oil rigs was 6 weeks at a stretch, so that's the answer!

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By *nya888Woman
over a year ago

London

Three months, I think...

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

It would be about 18 months for me probably. But that was 25 years ago. Since then 3 months is the longest when she worked in India for that amount of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3.5 years while on holiday courtesy of her majesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 months in 2020 thanks to multiple lockdowns. Have made up for it since though

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Longest was almost four years

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

17 years

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

About eighteen months I think, maybe a bit longer.

LvM

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"17 years"

Holy crap,musta felt great when you did tho?

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

3 years. Break up with an ex affected me really badly.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

3years when with my ex. He lost all interest in sex.

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Couple years

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

7 or 8 years I think

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

6 to 9 months, I lost count

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I think I went about 10 months once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a year and a half after childbirth, clearly traumatised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"…what’s the longest you have gone without having sex?

I’m currently at nearly 21 months which is the longest since losing mine back in 1981"

About three months when I was married, worst months of my life lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11 years from 2000 to 2011 when I had my daughter and didn't want to have any man dramas. Totally celibate and I didn't drink back then either. A whole nother life back then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I met hubby, which was 22 yes ago. Probably about 18mths but I was a good girl then.

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By *BWBI2019Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Longest for me was 4 years after an abusive relationship.

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By *ayden_82Man
over a year ago

corby

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By *ayden_82Man
over a year ago

corby

Two years of finding myself before I did it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three years in my twenties when I'd moved to England. Convinced myself Englishmen were never going to fancy me!

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

About 2 years.

Katie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A year. Twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A year. Twice. "

That's the maximum I could have done without going insane. Resolved

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Abouts 2 and a half years when I separated from my ex-husband.

My small child and job were more important.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

A little over a year is my longest without

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By *3xDECouple
over a year ago

nottingham

10 months, I (Mrs) always loose my sex drive when I’m pregnant. He never seemed to be bothered as he knew once it came back that we could make up for what we’ve missed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At what stage can you be classed a virgin again?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

13 years x

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Six and a quarter years and counting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably 2 months xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a year ish for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3.5 years while on holiday courtesy of her majesty "

Love the honesty xx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

About a year x

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Longest was 2 years when was posted away "

Yes, second class postage is so slow these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a year and a half.

I don't think it bothered me that much either.

It would now though I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

About 4½ years during my last relationship.

Posh

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

3 or 4 years while I was married (he was a twunt).

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By *unmidwcoupleCouple
over a year ago

leicester

3 weeks both very active

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably about a year inbetween relationships when I lost my mojo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of months at the most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think about 4/5 months ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what stage can you be classed a virgin again? "

In was just going to type 'I think I've found mine again'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just broken a 13 month stretch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just broken a 13 month stretch "

Please tell me you didn't even wank and now they are stuck to the ceiling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years and 5 months.

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By *olourpurpleMan
over a year ago

Waterford

2 years

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Around three years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"17 years"

Is it still open? Poor lady x

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

5 years

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Almost 10 years

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

5 or 6 months x

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By *ampshire_guy40Man
over a year ago

hampshire

23 years was the last time I had sex ,in a garage of a friends with one of my sister's best friends.

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By *tockport 69Couple
over a year ago

Stockport

one week but that was too long now have very good friend that read profile & meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done a few stints of 2 years. After so long you just don’t think about it.

Think I’m gonna have another long stint ahead of me. Last had sex end of august and can’t see me wanting any for the foreseeable.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

A bit more than a year while I was married. Luke

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

About 18 months

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Six years and now into a four year stint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 months and counting

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Around 4 yrs.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Probably about 18 months to two years

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Over 8 years

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Almost exactly 2 years. My libido went dormant after I split with the kids dad.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

6 weeks, that was after childbirth.

Mrs

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I went almost 2 years, around 11 years ago. I'd suffered a couple of close bereavements, so sex wasn't high on my agenda.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Just over ten years, from the age of 25 to 35.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 2-3 weeks before recently. Currently enduring a dry spell of around 2 months and it's not good at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 years.

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