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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are you ladies looking for in a profile? Everytime I go to update it I find myself asking what should I be putting in there? Any help or advice welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see something about the person and what/who they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to see something about the person and what/who they are looking for. "

Thanks Lorna, please feel free to have a look at mine and let me know your thoughts.

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By *erfect imperfectionCouple
over a year ago

Basildon

Few body pics maybe? We wouldn’t open your message without checking your profile to see if there’s a possible attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean, there’s nothing wrong with it ...

However it does read like many other profiles on here, and doesn’t stand out for me in any way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Few body pics maybe? We wouldn’t open your message without checking your profile to see if there’s a possible attraction "

Thank you for your feedback

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I mean, there’s nothing wrong with it ...

However it does read like many other profiles on here, and doesn’t stand out for me in any way."

Thank you for your time in responding, really appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No worries at all and good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been on for a while and read loads of threads about profiles, I’m not sure there is a perfect way to have a profile. There seem to be a few golden rules - put effort in, spelling, grammar etc But, I see loads of profiles with no effort and loads of meet verification, profiles with 50 dick pics with loads of verification so I have come to think it’s all subjective. Attraction, timing, being able to catch interest with a message seem to be the more important factors. Or attending events where people see the whole person not just another profile.

As such I just try to make mine a decent representation of me and what I’m interested in. Plan to get to some local events and see how it pans out haha.

Feedback is always appreciated of course, so don’t hold back but I think just make it how you would like to see a profile and be yourself. Could be wildly wrong though…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having been on for a while and read loads of threads about profiles, I’m not sure there is a perfect way to have a profile. There seem to be a few golden rules - put effort in, spelling, grammar etc But, I see loads of profiles with no effort and loads of meet verification, profiles with 50 dick pics with loads of verification so I have come to think it’s all subjective. Attraction, timing, being able to catch interest with a message seem to be the more important factors. Or attending events where people see the whole person not just another profile.

As such I just try to make mine a decent representation of me and what I’m interested in. Plan to get to some local events and see how it pans out haha.

Feedback is always appreciated of course, so don’t hold back but I think just make it how you would like to see a profile and be yourself. Could be wildly wrong though… "

Thanks for the response. Duly noted with some of the points. Appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No worries buddy good luck and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are you ladies looking for in a profile? Everytime I go to update it I find myself asking what should I be putting in there? Any help or advice welcome"

Search “profile help” in the forum - there’s a post a day in there! Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are you ladies looking for in a profile? Everytime I go to update it I find myself asking what should I be putting in there? Any help or advice welcome

Search “profile help” in the forum - there’s a post a day in there! Good luck x"

Thank you

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By *nakes every wereMan
over a year ago

Stockton

Were am I going wrong on my pics as well if don't mind haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were am I going wrong on my pics as well if don't mind haha xx"

Obviously not a women, but a bit of variation maybe. Again if you search profile pics there is a Dozen Threads but I’d also say it’s totally subjective

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By *erfect imperfectionCouple
over a year ago

Basildon

That’s entirely true we guessed everyone noticed that but (personal experience) maybe those people tried a different approach of the lifestyle such as going to socials, clubs and parties where no one asks about fab profiles before chatting/playing, most of the time it happens after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely agree with you guys. Attending socials, parties and clubs is the best way to connect with people and it definitely shows on many accounts. Fab is really a sort of social for keeping in touch with the community and a great way for new people to explore the lifestyle, though you can meet people just here too.

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By *erfect imperfectionCouple
over a year ago

Basildon

True, but for that to happen you need to be able to stand out in the best way possible. There’s a huge number of single guys, as you said, with nothing on their profile but their pics make the mouth wet, and others average that need to compensate with a good profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I get you totally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are you ladies looking for in a profile? Everytime I go to update it I find myself asking what should I be putting in there? Any help or advice welcome"

I add something unique about myself and a bit of what I’m looking for. Usually, people find me because they’re looking for a type, or meet me in a club/webcams and enjoy the personality.

If someone just goes off bios, they’re making a mistake. Unless of course the bio is something insane like.

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By *wales_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Great profile - sets out your interests, locations and availability. Photos are discrete but interesting - a good example in our opinion for those struggling with profile ideas


"Having been on for a while and read loads of threads about profiles, I’m not sure there is a perfect way to have a profile. There seem to be a few golden rules - put effort in, spelling, grammar etc But, I see loads of profiles with no effort and loads of meet verification, profiles with 50 dick pics with loads of verification so I have come to think it’s all subjective. Attraction, timing, being able to catch interest with a message seem to be the more important factors. Or attending events where people see the whole person not just another profile.

As such I just try to make mine a decent representation of me and what I’m interested in. Plan to get to some local events and see how it pans out haha.

Feedback is always appreciated of course, so don’t hold back but I think just make it how you would like to see a profile and be yourself. Could be wildly wrong though… "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why thanks very much

Very kind of you guys I’m glad you liked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy with mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile should be a reflection of you and your personality. If you think it represents who you are then it doesn't matter what others think, you will meet the right people for you that way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A profile should be a reflection of you and your personality. If you think it represents who you are then it doesn't matter what others think, you will meet the right people for you that way. "

Thank you for the reply and advice! I’ve never been one to worry about what other people think, but would just like to get a bit more attention if you know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real deal a bit like the advertising slogan “It does exactly what it says on the tin.”

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