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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've only just been told by my partner that she hates giving blowjobs and won't offer to do them anymore, what do I do now? I always go down on her and she loves it, make her cum everytime.

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By *urio77Man
over a year ago

northampton


"I've only just been told by my partner that she hates giving blowjobs and won't offer to do them anymore, what do I do now? I always go down on her and she loves it, make her cum everytime. "

It’s the beginning of the end in my experience. Ex wife was flat out sucking mine at the start and then she said the same thing. Slowly but surely all the good things dwelled away and sex became a bore. Currently going through a divorce after 20 years together. Hope this helps.

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

If she hates giving them, she shouldn't be expected to. If she had said she doesn't like giving them, I would have said she should give an occasional one. But if she hates doing it, sex would probably be unenjoyable for her.

On the plus side, as swingers, it doesn't mean you'll never get one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't had a blowjob for nearly 3 years and that was a Fab meet

(*puts down phone and cries ugly tears into pillow*)

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By *unning LinguistMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

They usually wait till you marry them before they tell you that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex wife didnt like blowjobs for 17 years .. then started happily doing them to "prove" she wasnt having an affair just before she went out to meet him. but thats just 1 side of the coin. Maybe she just doesnt enjoy them anymore. too much of a good thing and all that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hated doing this in the past, it felt like service. I felt degraded and unappreciated when I was doing it. For me I thought it was how I would always feel.

Roll on 10 years, a new partner and best partner I could ask for I really love making his toes curl. I’ll even wake him up like this. It feels like a wonderful thing to do.

I’m not saying there’s an issue in your relationship just speaking from personal experience, best of luck OP x

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Maybe she saw your profile saying you are a single guy and that you have been camming with strangers online?

that’s a sure fire way to get her to stop sucking your dick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am not keen on giving or receiving at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have an honest chat with her about it, ask her if she'd like to watch someone else giving you a blowjob as blowjobs aren't something you wanna live without but that you'd like her to still be involved. See where it leads x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its hard to tell.. no pun intended why they have may have stopped.could just simply be tired of doing them/lack of interest or any number of reasons.

Hoping everything is still all good either way. no blowy is not a deal breaker.

hang in there and love her like you always have.

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By *oungAtHeartCurvyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't mind doing it but always stop before he cums tho sometimes feel obliged to do it if he's been down on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She’s your partner and therefore, I believe has every right in expecting you to be honest with her. Usually, breakdown in communication is most often the cause of all root problems. Don’t give up on her just because she’s gone off the idea in enjoying giving you head; maybe there’s a reason why she doesn’t like that may’ve been overlooked which can be easily overcome...!

Best wishes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

?? don't make the poor guy panic


"I've only just been told by my partner that she hates giving blowjobs and won't offer to do them anymore, what do I do now? I always go down on her and she loves it, make her cum everytime.

It’s the beginning of the end in my experience. Ex wife was flat out sucking mine at the start and then she said the same thing. Slowly but surely all the good things dwelled away and sex became a bore. Currently going through a divorce after 20 years together. Hope this helps. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only just been told by my partner that she hates giving blowjobs and won't offer to do them anymore, what do I do now? I always go down on her and she loves it, make her cum everytime. "

Can't you think of anything else for her to do for you!

Maybe experiment a bit

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Ah yes, tit for tat sex, so satisfying for everyone and just how sex should be.

Everyone should expect to give and take everything.

OP, she may not be doing it after all these years for a host of reasons, some of which may be difficult for her to admit so it's time for a gut wrenching conversation.

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

To me it's not the end of the world. I'd look at other things she Might want to try. Rimming, sucking balls, lubed wanking for example. Unless you've tried other avenues I wouldn't be bothered.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Oh a single guy with a partner ?! How novel

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

We're not all like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It shouldn't be a deal breaker in a relationship if you love the person. Being on a sex site without her knowledge however, questionable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It shouldn't be a deal breaker in a relationship if you love the person. Being on a sex site without her knowledge however, questionable."

All of this... sounds like you have bigger things to worry about.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"I've only just been told by my partner that she hates giving blowjobs and won't offer to do them anymore, what do I do now? I always go down on her and she loves it, make her cum everytime. "

It’s as if I wrote this I’m in the same boat op not had a blowjob in over 30 yrs now hence why I’m on here ever hopeful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow. Anyway, we’re only hearing one side of the story op.

But, for what it’s worth, relationships should be a good balance, if she doesn’t like doing it, would you want her to do something she doesn’t like?

And if you like giving her oral sex, then what’s the problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wash your cock. She can taste the other women you fucked.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"

And if you like giving her oral sex, then what’s the problem?

"

That doesn't make any sense. The problem is he's not getting his cock sucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow....

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By *punkymonkey40Man
over a year ago

derby

My ex who was Turkish Bulgarian never gave a blowjob and I never asked.. Then one time I thought it be a good idea to try to do a tit wank which I had never done before and has I put my dick near her tits she took it in her mouth and gave me a blowjob every time we had sex after... Never did get a tit wank though

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I didn’t realise that sex was transactional!

If you’re happy for her to continue doing something that she hates just to please you, then there’s a bigger issue here.

I’d say that having a conversation regarding both of your wants and needs is important, communication is key in any relationship.

As others have pointed out though, the fact that you’re on here as a single guy with a secret partner at home as you trawl for meets, isn’t a good thing. It indicates that you consider your personal gratification above her needs and perhaps you both need to look at why that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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And if you like giving her oral sex, then what’s the problem?

That doesn't make any sense. The problem is he's not getting his cock sucked."

Dump her. What use is she

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By *ionrampant500Man
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Have an honest chat with her about it, ask her if she'd like to watch someone else giving you a blowjob as blowjobs aren't something you wanna live without but that you'd like her to still be involved. See where it leads x"

Probably to a divorce lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

You show her some fucking respect and be honest with her.

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By *anther81Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

If you need it sucked happy to help hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You show her some fucking respect and be honest with her.

"

Here, here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah yes, tit for tat sex, so satisfying for everyone and just how sex should be.

Everyone should expect to give and take everything.

OP, she may not be doing it after all these years for a host of reasons, some of which may be difficult for her to admit so it's time for a gut wrenching conversation. "

Tit for Tat champion expression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And if you like giving her oral sex, then what’s the problem?

That doesn't make any sense. The problem is he's not getting his cock sucked."

Yes. 1st world problems…

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

Think I am strange…. Absolutely love giving blow jobs and being faced fucked….

Only “dated” one chap I couldn’t stand giving blow jobs too… saw him for 3 months gave him the elbow as knew it wasn’t a good fit… all good on paper yet no connection…

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I read threads like these and it sometimes makes me glad to be single, I’m sad to say.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I didn’t realise that sex was transactional!

If you’re happy for her to continue doing something that she hates just to please you, then there’s a bigger issue here.

I’d say that having a conversation regarding both of your wants and needs is important, communication is key in any relationship.

As others have pointed out though, the fact that you’re on here as a single guy with a secret partner at home as you trawl for meets, isn’t a good thing. It indicates that you consider your personal gratification above her needs and perhaps you both need to look at why that is"

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Maybe she saw your profile saying you are a single guy and that you have been camming with strangers online?

that’s a sure fire way to get her to stop sucking your dick! "

There is always at least one critic. Did she stop so he came on Fab looking for blow jobs or did she stop because he came on Fab. You don't know but you critically assume he started first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone ever told you that you don't give to receive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe she saw your profile saying you are a single guy and that you have been camming with strangers online?

that’s a sure fire way to get her to stop sucking your dick!

There is always at least one critic. Did she stop so he came on Fab looking for blow jobs or did she stop because he came on Fab. You don't know but you critically assume he started first. "

Fine example of why I'm single

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"I've only just been told by my partner that she hates giving blowjobs and won't offer to do them anymore, what do I do now? I always go down on her and she loves it, make her cum everytime. "

Dump her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only just been told by my partner that she hates giving blowjobs and won't offer to do them anymore, what do I do now? I always go down on her and she loves it, make her cum everytime.

Dump her!"

Haha. This is why I don’t ask Fab for sensible advice.

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By *ueenbee77Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Wash your cock. She can taste the other women you fucked. "

Best comment ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop licking her out then...

If she asks why, say you don't like doing it lol

You shouldn't give to receive but a pillow princess who is happy just to take take take can fuck off

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Relationships need good communication to work well. Keep communicating well and decide between you and your sex lives continue, with or without others. She can make it clear in her profile that she doesn't do them and you can focus on all of the positives, of things that you enjoy and want.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Stop licking her out then...

If she asks why, say you don't like doing it lol

You shouldn't give to receive but a pillow princess who is happy just to take take take can fuck off "

Lol bit harsh love! Some women hate doing it.

Mad!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Sexual acts are not a right.

If someone sucking your genitals is the most important part of your relationship then it'd be pretty grim to know what the worst aspect of a relationship is.

I have to ignore these 'I got married but I don't get x,y,z tropes'... as best I can.

I got a dog but it won't go for walks. Guess I have to do nothing more than hate the dog and ignore all the great stuff it does day in day out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only just been told by my partner that she hates giving blowjobs and won't offer to do them anymore, what do I do now? I always go down on her and she loves it, make her cum everytime. "

Would love to know the outcome with these types of threads.

Have you decided what you are going to do, if anything OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stop licking her out then...

If she asks why, say you don't like doing it lol

You shouldn't give to receive but a pillow princess who is happy just to take take take can fuck off

Lol bit harsh love! Some women hate doing it.

Mad!"

She doesn't have to, no one should have to do anything, but she won't be getting asked for another meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wash your cock. She can taste the other women you fucked. "

I spat out my coffee when I read that lpl??????

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Make sure she is happy outside the bedroom without being a doormat. Most women reject due to that.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Wash your cock. She can taste the other women you fucked.

I spat out my coffee when I read that lpl??????"

I did chuckle

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

Well clearly there is no option here other than to fuck the hoover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You show her some fucking respect and be honest with her.

Here, here "

Absolutely..maybe she has found out about your profile..if i was her in that situation you would be wearing your balls for earrings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You show her some fucking respect and be honest with her.

Here, here

Absolutely..maybe she has found out about your profile..if i was her in that situation you would be wearing your balls for earrings."

Makings of a very fine mistress (no nonsense).

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Maybe you need to spice things up, start thinking about her needs a little bit more, maybe your sex life is repetitive. Have you tried sitting together and looking at toys/lingerie etc, this is a great way to start a conversation and discuss scenarios. Not trying to attack you op just giving you a bit of advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe she saw your profile saying you are a single guy and that you have been camming with strangers online?

that’s a sure fire way to get her to stop sucking your dick!

There is always at least one critic. Did she stop so he came on Fab looking for blow jobs or did she stop because he came on Fab. You don't know but you critically assume he started first. "

good answer, she stops giving him a blow job so its ok for him to cheat on her, instead of talking to her? who said romance is dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only just been told by my partner that she hates giving blowjobs and won't offer to do them anymore, what do I do now? I always go down on her and she loves it, make her cum everytime.

Would love to know the outcome with these types of threads.

Have you decided what you are going to do, if anything OP "

agree, they always go quiet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've only just been told by my partner that she hates giving blowjobs and won't offer to do them anymore, what do I do now? I always go down on her and she loves it, make her cum everytime.

Would love to know the outcome with these types of threads.

Have you decided what you are going to do, if anything OP

agree, they always go quiet"

Wow tough crowd Thanks to all those who responded, I'd say I respect her wishes although I prefer if she told me when I met her! Everyone is quite quick to judge she is single same as me, and happy to keep swinging when she likes, be kind to each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t realise that sex was transactional!

If you’re happy for her to continue doing something that she hates just to please you, then there’s a bigger issue here.

I’d say that having a conversation regarding both of your wants and needs is important, communication is key in any relationship.

As others have pointed out though, the fact that you’re on here as a single guy with a secret partner at home as you trawl for meets, isn’t a good thing. It indicates that you consider your personal gratification above her needs and perhaps you both need to look at why that is"

exactly this

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"Maybe she saw your profile saying you are a single guy and that you have been camming with strangers online?

that’s a sure fire way to get her to stop sucking your dick!

There is always at least one critic. Did she stop so he came on Fab looking for blow jobs or did she stop because he came on Fab. You don't know but you critically assume he started first. "

So her stopping giving blowjobs is an excuse to go online looking for others go have sex with?

Wow!!!

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"I've only just been told by my partner that she hates giving blowjobs and won't offer to do them anymore, what do I do now? I always go down on her and she loves it, make her cum everytime. "
don't give to recive. If she hates it why would you want her to do it?? Would you wanna do something you hate??

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By *icola2202Couple
over a year ago

Chatham

Maybe she needs to be put in the mood to do it

If not I feel sorry for you I get at least 2 a week from the wife

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By *andy2Man
over a year ago

Ealing

Lol, I literally had one every day until we got together

Then it tapered down to birthdays

And now nothing at all

I’m happy to fill in for any guys who need a good suck

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Make sure she is happy outside the bedroom without being a doormat. Most women reject due to that."

Good point. When the only lever they have is witholding sex they will use it if you piss them off.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Maybe she saw your profile saying you are a single guy and that you have been camming with strangers online?

that’s a sure fire way to get her to stop sucking your dick!

There is always at least one critic. Did she stop so he came on Fab looking for blow jobs or did she stop because he came on Fab. You don't know but you critically assume he started first.

So her stopping giving blowjobs is an excuse to go online looking for others go have sex with?

Wow!!! "

I did not say that. I was seeking the cause and effect.

If a man or women withdraw a significant part of their contribution to the partnership it is not surprising the other party will seek to reinstate it by alternative means.

For example, if the man usually did the house cleaning and then refused it would not be surprising if the woman hired cleaners.

That of course would be totally wrong. He is entitled to refuse to clean but she should not waste family income as a result.

In the early years of a marriage, withdrawal of sex is a major upset to a relationship. If one party does it they should not be shocked if the other party seeks solace elsewhere. It does not make it right it is just cause and effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You show her some fucking respect and be honest with her.

Here, here

Absolutely..maybe she has found out about your profile..if i was her in that situation you would be wearing your balls for earrings.

Makings of a very fine mistress (no nonsense). "

It has been said many times.lol

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Have you not got a hoover?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See if she's into pegging you instead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So funny that noone reads replys, never mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So funny that noone reads replys, never mind "

Have you dumped her via email?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read threads like these and it sometimes makes me glad to be single, I’m sad to say."

Same! This is exactly what is going through my mind right now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only just been told by my partner that she hates giving blowjobs and won't offer to do them anymore, what do I do now? I always go down on her and she loves it, make her cum everytime. "

Why do you say on your profile that you’re a single guy?

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By *ovebjsMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"I've only just been told by my partner that she hates giving blowjobs and won't offer to do them anymore, what do I do now? I always go down on her and she loves it, make her cum everytime. "

That’s easy, stop going down on her

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Wonder how the responses would have gone if the op was a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a divorce or find someone who will sick it. She sounds like a selfish bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only just been told by my partner that she hates giving blowjobs and won't offer to do them anymore, what do I do now? I always go down on her and she loves it, make her cum everytime.

Why do you say on your profile that you’re a single guy? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to really dislike giving them but now I love it and it turns me on a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe she saw your profile saying you are a single guy and that you have been camming with strangers online?

that’s a sure fire way to get her to stop sucking your dick!

There is always at least one critic. Did she stop so he came on Fab looking for blow jobs or did she stop because he came on Fab. You don't know but you critically assume he started first.

So her stopping giving blowjobs is an excuse to go online looking for others go have sex with?

Wow!!! "

I reckon he was probably doing that before anyway… and she probably knows deep down. Sounds like a bit of a selfish one sided sex life anyway….have you tried talking to her OP….and would you want to do something you disliked… or should she just shut up snd take one for the team each time….

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Maybe she saw your profile saying you are a single guy and that you have been camming with strangers online?

that’s a sure fire way to get her to stop sucking your dick!

There is always at least one critic. Did she stop so he came on Fab looking for blow jobs or did she stop because he came on Fab. You don't know but you critically assume he started first.

So her stopping giving blowjobs is an excuse to go online looking for others go have sex with?

Wow!!!

I reckon he was probably doing that before anyway… and she probably knows deep down. Sounds like a bit of a selfish one sided sex life anyway….have you tried talking to her OP….and would you want to do something you disliked… or should she just shut up snd take one for the team each time…."

Your words not his. Kind and thoughtful as they are

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I hated doing this in the past, it felt like service. I felt degraded and unappreciated when I was doing it. For me I thought it was how I would always feel.

Roll on 10 years, a new partner and best partner I could ask for I really love making his toes curl. I’ll even wake him up like this. It feels like a wonderful thing to do.

I’m not saying there’s an issue in your relationship just speaking from personal experience, best of luck OP x "

I think this is truer than any statement and very incisive. The moment I touched my ex. she found excuses to get out of bed or move away. She tried not to even have photos taken with me and was very anti being on social media with her. It did turn out she was having an affair and we're now divorced, but I'd suggest getting to the root of the issue, because there's almost always something else that's the issue. This is most likely just a symptom. Make sure she feels absolutely loved and appreciated in everyday ways. There are no guarantees, but it's a start AND you can look yourself in the mirror knowing you've given it your all. Looking back there were ways I could have done things differently. This isn't easy to say, but have an honest look at you and see if there are things you've stopped doing over time and think back to the way you treated her in the early days. You might find some clues. By the time I realised my faults it was too late. Don't let that be you buddy. This isn't about blowjobs. Good luck!

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I just don’t understand.

She says she loves sucking mine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've only just been told by my partner that she hates giving blowjobs and won't offer to do them anymore, what do I do now? I always go down on her and she loves it, make her cum everytime.

Why do you say on your profile that you’re a single guy? "

It's because I'm not married and don't have a girlfriend, it's the same on her profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've only just been told by my partner that she hates giving blowjobs and won't offer to do them anymore, what do I do now? I always go down on her and she loves it, make her cum everytime.

That’s easy, stop going down on her "

Not really fair that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been all that fussed about a blow job, they don’t do much for me.

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

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It's because I'm not married and don't have a girlfriend, it's the same on her profile "

Does she know you’ve posted about her on the forum?

I’d be livid at that in her shoes.

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