FabSwingers.com forum: meeting

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i have been on this site on and off for over a year and still have yet to meet anyone. I love bbws and they all seem to get snapped up or inundated with messages.there must be some bbws in my area that need some loving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials clubs etc

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By *ursevampsWoman
over a year ago

bucks

thats strange you say you ahevent meet any one but a verification on you prifile staes you did meet some on e

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have been on this site on and off for over a year and still have yet to meet anyone. I love bbws and they all seem to get snapped up or inundated with messages.there must be some bbws in my area that need some loving"

Their all busy getting some

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Your profile is crap and you seem to have just ticked everything in the list of interests, make a bit more effort. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you looking for a critique of where you are going wrong......?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you looking for a critique of where you are going wrong......?

maybe i guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your profile is crap and you seem to have just ticked everything in the list of interests, make a bit more effort. Z"

if i had been more selective do you think that narrows down my chances or increases them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based on your profile I wouldnt meet you, my body shape doesnt define me as a person and it appears that what someone looks like is the most important thing to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Based on your profile I wouldnt meet you, my body shape doesnt define me as a person and it appears that what someone looks like is the most important thing to you

i understand what your saying and if this was a dating site where you looking to meet your life partner or what ever then i could understand that. no your size does not determin who you are but were talking mostly about sex and what turns you on, and your not neccessarily going to get turned on by someones personalarity. so i am sticking to my guns on this one and its bbws for me all the way or maybe ssbbws if there are any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of bbw parties chams holds bbw nights once a month on a Thursday just get out there and to be fair your profile is shocking a few more pics of you would be a bonus and your profile says what you want but what do we get think of your profile as a shop window and how to make a first impression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

de ja vu here i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then"

Following some of the advice given to you before would seem like a reasonable plan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then

Following some of the advice given to you before would seem like a reasonable plan."

this ^^^

and stop being so needy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then

Following some of the advice given to you before would seem like a reasonable plan."

i cant remember what was said now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Based on your profile I wouldnt meet you, my body shape doesnt define me as a person and it appears that what someone looks like is the most important thing to you

Ditto.

If the profile was about the sort of person who appeals, and a bit more about the profile owner and also happened to say 'my preference is for BBW or SSBBW ladies' that would be different.

A profile that screams 'I want a fat bird and any fat bird will do' is off-putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then

Following some of the advice given to you before would seem like a reasonable plan.

i cant remember what was said now"

Find the old thread and read it.

If you can't be bothered to do that, why expect anyone else to restyle everything they have already said?

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then"

Leave?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then

Following some of the advice given to you before would seem like a reasonable plan.

i cant remember what was said now

Find the old thread and read it.

If you can't be bothered to do that, why expect anyone else to restyle everything they have already said?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Based on your profile I wouldnt meet you, my body shape doesnt define me as a person and it appears that what someone looks like is the most important thing to you

you said that not me

Ditto.

If the profile was about the sort of person who appeals, and a bit more about the profile owner and also happened to say 'my preference is for BBW or SSBBW ladies' that would be different.

A profile that screams 'I want a fat bird and any fat bird will do' is off-putting."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then

Following some of the advice given to you before would seem like a reasonable plan.

i cant remember what was said now

Find the old thread and read it.

If you can't be bothered to do that, why expect anyone else to restyle everything they have already said?

+1"

your so forcefull lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then

Following some of the advice given to you before would seem like a reasonable plan.

i cant remember what was said now

Find the old thread and read it.

If you can't be bothered to do that, why expect anyone else to restyle everything they have already said?

your so forcefull lol"

why should we try and help when you cant get off your arse and do YOUR own profile

or are you EXPECTING the women and couples to come flocking!!!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then

Following some of the advice given to you before would seem like a reasonable plan.

i cant remember what was said now"

Really??..... the last thread was only a week ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then

Following some of the advice given to you before would seem like a reasonable plan.

i cant remember what was said now

Really??..... the last thread was only a week ago

wasnt that about big women in general?

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then

Following some of the advice given to you before would seem like a reasonable plan.

i cant remember what was said now

Find the old thread and read it.

If you can't be bothered to do that, why expect anyone else to restyle everything they have already said?

your so forcefull lol"

Tbh, your profile just screams "if you are a fat bird you must be desperate for a shag, well I'll shag you cos I'm not fussy"

Not attractive to ANY woman!

And some pics might help too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a "larger lady".

To me, your profile isn't appealing, your photo isn't appealing, your attitude isn't appealing and your lack of effort is definitely not appealing.

You can insist all you like that you are free to represent yourself here as you wish, and of course you are right. If how you represent yourself doesn't appeal to those you wish to attract, however, you will have no success.

You can complain how unfair it is, or you can post threads like this hoping all the large ladies will come running, or you can put in some effort and make some changes to your own approach which may actually yield some results. Your call.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a "larger lady".

To me, your profile isn't appealing, your photo isn't appealing, your attitude isn't appealing and your lack of effort is definitely not appealing.

ok i take you point

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then

Following some of the advice given to you before would seem like a reasonable plan.

i cant remember what was said now

Find the old thread and read it.

If you can't be bothered to do that, why expect anyone else to restyle everything they have already said?

your so forcefull lol

Tbh, your profile just screams "if you are a fat bird you must be desperate for a shag, well I'll shag you cos I'm not fussy"

Not attractive to ANY woman!

And some pics might help too.

Ok, and seeing what you have now changed it to is even worse for your chances - one line?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then

Following some of the advice given to you before would seem like a reasonable plan.

i cant remember what was said now

Really??..... the last thread was only a week ago

wasnt that about big women in general?"

To be quite honest, any thread giving profile advice could help you to improve yours. Your profile sucks.

Why not use the forum search to find your own thread from before? Or look back in the forum to roughly when you posted it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ill meet him as im desprate and fat

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

"ill meet him as im desprate and fat

Nooooo! Don't lower your standards Jacqs!!

Well, only as far as me perhaps! Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ill meet him as im desprate and fat

Nooooo! Don't lower your standards Jacqs!!

Well, only as far as me perhaps! Lol!

i was being scarcastic

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

"ill meet him as im desprate and fat

Nooooo! Don't lower your standards Jacqs!!

Well, only as far as me perhaps! Lol!

i was being scarcastic"
I know! Me too!

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

"ill meet him as im desprate and fat

"
i think you look well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ill meet him as im desprate and fat

i think you look well

yet im fat and must be desperate as i wont get a meet

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm a "larger lady".

To me, your profile isn't appealing, your photo isn't appealing, your attitude isn't appealing and your lack of effort is definitely not appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op...

More, better photos.

A profile that says something about you, what you like, what you are like, what you look like. You need to sell yourself and make people realise you are someone they want to know. Think, why would a woman want to meet *me*?

Then add a bit about what you are looking for. A few friends with benefits? Lots of one off meets? Mention there that you prefer BBW, or better still SSBBW. Make sure it doesn't sound like you think we're easy, or should be grateful! Make sure it doesn't read as though you think all large women are the same and interchangeable.

Take a look at some other profiles. Take note of how the guys with lots of veris do it.

Be fun, be positive, be interesting.

I'd consider a name change too, as your name alone would put me off.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then

Following some of the advice given to you before would seem like a reasonable plan.

i cant remember what was said now

Find the old thread and read it.

If you can't be bothered to do that, why expect anyone else to restyle everything they have already said?

your so forcefull lol

Tbh, your profile just screams "if you are a fat bird you must be desperate for a shag, well I'll shag you cos I'm not fussy"

Not attractive to ANY woman!

And some pics might help too.

Ok, and seeing what you have now changed it to is even worse for your chances - one line?????

...and I thought the original profile was dire! I can feel the ground shaking as us big uns stampede towards the OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then

Following some of the advice given to you before would seem like a reasonable plan.

i cant remember what was said now

Find the old thread and read it.

If you can't be bothered to do that, why expect anyone else to restyle everything they have already said?

your so forcefull lol

Tbh, your profile just screams "if you are a fat bird you must be desperate for a shag, well I'll shag you cos I'm not fussy"

Not attractive to ANY woman!

And some pics might help too.

Ok, and seeing what you have now changed it to is even worse for your chances - one line?????

...and I thought the original profile was dire! I can feel the ground shaking as us big uns stampede towards the OP!

its ok hes a single male and expects a woman tomeet him as we are that easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then

Following some of the advice given to you before would seem like a reasonable plan.

i cant remember what was said now

Find the old thread and read it.

If you can't be bothered to do that, why expect anyone else to restyle everything they have already said?

your so forcefull lol

Tbh, your profile just screams "if you are a fat bird you must be desperate for a shag, well I'll shag you cos I'm not fussy"

Not attractive to ANY woman!

And some pics might help too.

Ok, and seeing what you have now changed it to is even worse for your chances - one line?????

...and I thought the original profile was dire! I can feel the ground shaking as us big uns stampede towards the OP!

Oh, sorry, that was me laughing at another thread. I'll try to giggle sedately instead

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then

Following some of the advice given to you before would seem like a reasonable plan.

i cant remember what was said now

Find the old thread and read it.

If you can't be bothered to do that, why expect anyone else to restyle everything they have already said?

your so forcefull lol

Tbh, your profile just screams "if you are a fat bird you must be desperate for a shag, well I'll shag you cos I'm not fussy"

Not attractive to ANY woman!

And some pics might help too.

Ok, and seeing what you have now changed it to is even worse for your chances - one line?????

...and I thought the original profile was dire! I can feel the ground shaking as us big uns stampede towards the OP!

its ok hes a single male and expects a woman tomeet him as we are that easy

Which will happen of course, as there isnt any competition for him on here.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you have posted before and had advice before about this.

and looking at your profile you didnt take anything on board.

so what do you think i should do then

Following some of the advice given to you before would seem like a reasonable plan.

i cant remember what was said now

Find the old thread and read it.

If you can't be bothered to do that, why expect anyone else to restyle everything they have already said?

your so forcefull lol

Tbh, your profile just screams "if you are a fat bird you must be desperate for a shag, well I'll shag you cos I'm not fussy"

Not attractive to ANY woman!

And some pics might help too.

Ok, and seeing what you have now changed it to is even worse for your chances - one line?????

...and I thought the original profile was dire! I can feel the ground shaking as us big uns stampede towards the OP!

its ok hes a single male and expects a woman tomeet him as we are that easy

Which will happen of course, as there isnt any competition for him on here.....

no competition at all is there!

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