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"Sorry if I'm stealing your thunder cinnamon flame but I couldn't see a new thread! 1lb down for me today bringing my total loss for the year to 2 stone 11lb. Stressful few days as my big cruise got cancelled and it took all my strength not to eat my weight in kfc as I cried on the sofa lol Hope you're all doing OK on your journeys. Tough couple of months coming up with lots of social events being arranged. Maybe we could share some coping strategies. " Congratulations on the loss so far. Bummer about the cruise!!! Is it being rescheduled? | |||
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"Well done, amazing job! I said I was on in the first of these threads then got covid and it all went to pot. I’ve been eating what I like, which I can’t do because then I pile weight on! So today’s mission is to stop eating refined sugar again as a starting point. I know I can do it because I’ve done it a few times before, but it’s so bloody hard (and I bought a tub of Celebrations yesterday ) Wish me luck! x" I think we all know that battle. There are literally tub of celebrations and Roses popping up everyday at the moment. Its a tough few weeks leading up to Christmas. | |||
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"Still done jack shit .... See if I can find some inspiration from this thread " Evie is doing amazingly. Me, not so much. I'm still anger eating and using everyone else as in excuse to "self harm with food" I will get in gear soon though as I want to have lost and managing to maintain my weight by February 2023. I've got a lot to work on. | |||
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"Hey guys! Can I join in? I've not started anything so far but I am wanting to lose weight for health benefits, I find myself struggling with the idea of losing weight though as I am very body positive and believe in health at every size but I know for my individual situation that eating healthier and moving more will improve my health. So I'm trying to stay clear of weighing myself and just relying on self love, self care and how I feel in my own body. Anyone else in a similar situation? I'm considering intuitive eating mixed with a calorie deficit, nothing too restrictive but just being aware of making healthier choices. If anyone wants to sling some advice my way, please feel free to! And good luck to everyone on their health journeys! " You sound like you've got your head screwed on right. I think self love and care are very important. Welcome aboard x | |||
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"It's that dreaded run up to Xmas. All the Halloween sweets have gone down super cheap in my shop so of course great for the kids xmas presents but must try not to eat them all before hand " Lol, for me it's the booze. £12 Baileys at sainsburys. No.point stocking up, i'll just drink it | |||
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"I’m starting again tomorrow. I lost count of how many times I’ve said that " Same here but not going at it so hard-core. Just being chill and cutting out the sugary, fizzy crap. | |||
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"I’m starting again tomorrow. I lost count of how many times I’ve said that Same here but not going at it so hard-core. Just being chill and cutting out the sugary, fizzy crap." Good plan! I need that little thing called will power. | |||
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"I’m starting again tomorrow. I lost count of how many times I’ve said that Same here but not going at it so hard-core. Just being chill and cutting out the sugary, fizzy crap. Good plan! I need that little thing called will power. " It's so difficult! I keep looking at kfc withonhinh everytime I go to the supermarket to buy a pack of stirfry Could smash a great big bar of galaxy. But a lot of the time the enjoyment is all in my head. I had a pizza last night (withing my calories) and actually it didn't taste as amazing as I thought it would do. | |||
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"I’m starting again tomorrow. I lost count of how many times I’ve said that Same here but not going at it so hard-core. Just being chill and cutting out the sugary, fizzy crap. Good plan! I need that little thing called will power. It's so difficult! I keep looking at kfc withonhinh everytime I go to the supermarket to buy a pack of stirfry Could smash a great big bar of galaxy. But a lot of the time the enjoyment is all in my head. I had a pizza last night (withing my calories) and actually it didn't taste as amazing as I thought it would do. " Keep on keepin’ on Evie. I’ve started off as I mean to go on… a personal game of ‘kitchen floor is lava’. | |||
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"Still done jack shit .... See if I can find some inspiration from this thread Evie is doing amazingly. Me, not so much. I'm still anger eating and using everyone else as in excuse to "self harm with food" I will get in gear soon though as I want to have lost and managing to maintain my weight by February 2023. I've got a lot to work on." People always say small steps .... I've done a bit of a workout today. Felt amazing afterwards. Spent some time on me for a change. Hope you can find some time lovely, cos I know you work and the job can take over completely..... | |||
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"I was ill a few weeks back and it kick started my weight loss. 8.5lbs lost so far and keeping going with OMAD X " Any snacks or just one meal and that's it? 7 days a week? | |||
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"I was ill a few weeks back and it kick started my weight loss. 8.5lbs lost so far and keeping going with OMAD X Any snacks or just one meal and that's it? 7 days a week? " It was unintentional when I wasn’t well but it’s been ok sticking to it. I’ll have a bit of fruit too. No not 7 days, break at the weekend x | |||
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"I stayed the same this week. Been really stressed out so kinda glad that I didn't gain loads of weight " Well done x I'm on holiday so having a few more treats and more alcohol than usual. Hoping the damage isn't too bad when I get back | |||
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"OK. Just over a week since I got back and just 1lb off where I was before I went (just goes to show that weight on the scales isn't always fat gained!) Few little snacks have crept in to my routine over the weekend so need to focus on those and as we hit the festive season with a vengeance this week talks with my nutritionist will mainly be crisis ones around mince pies and how to avoid them! Keep going everyone x " Your nutritionist sounds really helpful, did you find them yourself or is that through the NHS ? I’ve been increasing my step count and this week I’m having a couple of vegetarian days as well. Being weighed at hospital next week and need a good result. | |||
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"OK. Just over a week since I got back and just 1lb off where I was before I went (just goes to show that weight on the scales isn't always fat gained!) Few little snacks have crept in to my routine over the weekend so need to focus on those and as we hit the festive season with a vengeance this week talks with my nutritionist will mainly be crisis ones around mince pies and how to avoid them! Keep going everyone x Your nutritionist sounds really helpful, did you find them yourself or is that through the NHS ? I’ve been increasing my step count and this week I’m having a couple of vegetarian days as well. Being weighed at hospital next week and need a good result. " No he is a private one, my coach at the gym uses him and she has lost 9 stone over the last 18 months or so. He is a bit pricey but I figured I need to invest in me a bit. Fingers crossed for next week x | |||
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"Whoop..... Officially 2lb lighter than I was before I went away! This is the quickest I've lost any holiday gain. " What you going to do at Xmas Evie - any tips for not piling on too much love? | |||
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"Whoop..... Officially 2lb lighter than I was before I went away! This is the quickest I've lost any holiday gain. What you going to do at Xmas Evie - any tips for not piling on too much love? " Hey x thanks for asking this x So actual Christmas day is easy a I don't tend to buy loads of chocolates and and snacks to have at home. The danger is presents from friends but I'm hoping most will see I'm on my journey and support me by not buying them lol I will have a light breakfast, if any. Then the main massive dinner lol It's the lead up and the 4 Christmas parties I have booked that will be difficult but they are just individual days and if I take them as that I can deal with them. Focus on my routine the other days, no snacking on mince pies in the office. No sneaky Dips into the tins of chocolates (I work in a department where everyone wants to be on our good side, especially over Christmas so there's lots of chocolates lol). It sounds really boring I guess but that's my plan lol | |||
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"Whoop..... Officially 2lb lighter than I was before I went away! This is the quickest I've lost any holiday gain. What you going to do at Xmas Evie - any tips for not piling on too much love? Hey x thanks for asking this x So actual Christmas day is easy a I don't tend to buy loads of chocolates and and snacks to have at home. The danger is presents from friends but I'm hoping most will see I'm on my journey and support me by not buying them lol I will have a light breakfast, if any. Then the main massive dinner lol It's the lead up and the 4 Christmas parties I have booked that will be difficult but they are just individual days and if I take them as that I can deal with them. Focus on my routine the other days, no snacking on mince pies in the office. No sneaky Dips into the tins of chocolates (I work in a department where everyone wants to be on our good side, especially over Christmas so there's lots of chocolates lol). It sounds really boring I guess but that's my plan lol " I'm going to put everything I've bought on a bonfire and burn the lot..... I've gone all out for sweet stuff | |||
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"Evening folks! Just stumbled across this thread and loving it! I too am on a weight loss journey (started 3 months ago). Always been a big guy and never happy about it so finally doing something about it. Lockdowns made my situation worse and put my weight at an all time high. So I started watching what I was eating and started walking more. I am now 3 and a half stone down and starting to get some confidence back. Reading all your messages above are really comforting and inspiring. Thanks for sharing! I am a little worried about Christmas too! Aha" Sorry I missed this x amazing work on your weight loss! If it helps, share you're Christmas worries here and hopefully someone will be able to help you x | |||
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"Well done on the weight loss. I lost 1.5lbs this week. Only 9 more to go " Well done x | |||
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"Should this thread not go to the archives until January the 2nd now? " I'm going to try not to gain too much over Xmas and new years. I'll still weigh in every Monday....just don't judge me lol | |||
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"Last year I lost around 15kg kept it at a steady weight after that from Oct to April this year. Since then I put 9kg back on due to various reasons. No weight gain or lose over the last month which my endocrinologist sees as a positive. I just need to keep working hard and will come back off again. just not overnight Alice x" Hormones are just bastard aren't they! Keep bring consistent sbx it will happen x | |||
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"Evie I wish you well in your target And wherever you end up I know you are a great person and for me, whatever your weight, I value you as a lovely person x " Awwwww thanks, Tom x | |||
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"I gained the 1.5lbs that I lost last week. Not too bad I guess. Just hoping not to gain too much over xmas" Same. I'm thinking if I get out the other side maintaining then that's a bonus | |||
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"I gained the 1.5lbs that I lost last week. Not too bad I guess. Just hoping not to gain too much over xmas Same. I'm thinking if I get out the other side maintaining then that's a bonus " I'd be happy with that | |||
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"I'm not looking to lose weight but can I still be a part of the fat club too ?" Yes of course x | |||
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"I'm hoping to put on about 50 lbs over the festive period " Hahaha me too I'll drink water before a meal and eat less per sitting | |||
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"I only gained 2lbs this week. Was expecting at least double digits with all the food I've eaten this week lol. Did you all have a good Xmas?" Well done x I've got to stop having chocolate for breakfast Put on a couple of lb and have a mountain of chocolate to get rid of. I love my friends and family and the presents they bought me but I have no self control and will just eat everything in sight with the mind set of 'if I just crack on and eat it then it won't be here and I cn lose weight again!' I am not a 1 square of chocolate a day type person! | |||
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"For me, overeating always happens when I'm feeling some strong feelings, so the best way for me to stay a healthy weight has been to learn how to deal with them better. I currently have alarms set for breakfast, lunch and dinner so my body gets used to the routine, and a big note on the fridge reminding me to journal if I feel I need to eat between those times to work out what I'm feeling, i.e. what's upset me! I also realised I often find it difficult to correctly identify the physical feeling of hunger, but I think hunger can be felt lower down below my boobs, whereas a similar feeling higher up in my chest is emotional... I guess that's where the saying 'feeding our feelings' comes from. Hope this helps!" Thank you x I definitely need. To be more aware of emotional 'hunger' and real hunger x Stayed the same 3 days in a row which is something positive I guess | |||
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"For me, overeating always happens when I'm feeling some strong feelings, so the best way for me to stay a healthy weight has been to learn how to deal with them better. I currently have alarms set for breakfast, lunch and dinner so my body gets used to the routine, and a big note on the fridge reminding me to journal if I feel I need to eat between those times to work out what I'm feeling, i.e. what's upset me! I also realised I often find it difficult to correctly identify the physical feeling of hunger, but I think hunger can be felt lower down below my boobs, whereas a similar feeling higher up in my chest is emotional... I guess that's where the saying 'feeding our feelings' comes from. Hope this helps! Thank you x I definitely need. To be more aware of emotional 'hunger' and real hunger x Stayed the same 3 days in a row which is something positive I guess " Here’s where the most stunning ladies are | |||
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" Thank you x I definitely need. To be more aware of emotional 'hunger' and real hunger x Stayed the same 3 days in a row which is something positive I guess " Yay, well done! | |||
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"I was feeling a bit crap about my weight loss because I just seen to yoyo. I took a look at my weight on Jan 1st for the last 4 years and overall I've lost weight, not much, but there is definitely a downward trend so I'm using that to re energise myself." Excellent x I do weigh everyday but I record it all on a spreadsheet for my nutritionist to see and there is a trend graph on there which really helps me see the bigger picture. | |||
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"I’m starting again tomorrow. I lost count of how many times I’ve said that " I was always told never to start on a Monday but I’ve started all different days and still failed so tomorrow I’m back on it and this time determined to stick to it for at least a week lol | |||
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"This time last year I weighed 268lb, today I weigh 230lb. Time to start meal planning and calorie counting properly again and hopefully I can lose another couple of stone before my cruise on February. Keep on showing up and investing in yourself whatever your goal is x " That's an amazing achievement. I've stayed the same this week which is good as I still have the family here for another week. | |||
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"Welp.... Went for breakfast today and managed to eat all my calories in one sitting! Home later to do some meal planning and prepping! " Easily done though | |||
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"Is this a continuation of Healthy Weight Loss Club? or something new?" It's been around for a bit, this is out fourth thread lol | |||
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"Welp.... Went for breakfast today and managed to eat all my calories in one sitting! Home later to do some meal planning and prepping! Easily done though" Yeah..... Think my nutritionist is psychic as he messaged me not long after lol | |||
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"Is this a continuation of Healthy Weight Loss Club? or something new? It's been around for a bit, this is out fourth thread lol " Ah ok, I'll stick to mine as I prefer to think of it as getting healthy, rather than being about fat | |||
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"Is this a continuation of Healthy Weight Loss Club? or something new? It's been around for a bit, this is out fourth thread lol Ah ok, I'll stick to mine as I prefer to think of it as getting healthy, rather than being about fat " Ok | |||
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"229 this morning! Booked a new year call with my nutritionist to get me back on track. Line drawn, back in to a routine, no money to go out for dinners " That’s brilliant. Well done for getting back on it. | |||
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"My first pound has gone! Day 8 of no alcohol today and day 4 of no sugar/unhealthy snacks " Well done x | |||
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"My first pound has gone! Day 8 of no alcohol today and day 4 of no sugar/unhealthy snacks Well done x " Thank you, struggling with cravings again today, it’s never an easy journey! | |||
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"Well done ladies! Another 1lb off here. Posting about it because yesterday was a struggle (but I did it). Can’t wait to get my uni assignment out of the way for Monday so I can put some time into exercising too " I have assignments too. If I do them at home I find I eat more. I decamp to the local library instead now. It really helps me. | |||
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"First week of the new year down, mostly been back on the healthier eating and been in the gym. Unfortunately not been well the last few days so has killed my motivation (not covid) but nevertheless it’s weigh day today and I have lost 4lbs! " That's brilliant, well done | |||
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"I stayed the same this week, better than gaining. " Keep up the good work! | |||
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"I’m hoping we can just comment about any diet stuff here I’m trying to gain until February and it’s harder than I thought. I’m eating roughly 5000 calories a day and my weight is barely moving. Eating has become a chore. I set alarms to remind me to eat My food bill is now topping out at £60-75 a week. For 1 person. And that’s essentials from Aldi. I don’t buy fancy stuff or treats. It’s mainly meat, vegetables and health carb choices I’ll have good days where I hit 5000 in the evening no problem. And I days like today where I know i need to force down 1500 calories for breakfast and I’m just not hungry. But I’ve got to do it otherwise it’s just an extra 1500 I’d have to cram down this evening Whatever your struggle is, stay strong. It’s not easy but nothing worth it ever is " I wish you the best of luck in reaching your goals | |||
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"hey Evie and you lovely lot, you are all doing amazingly well and sharing your successes and not so successes is fantastic, for you and those reading. I would love to be part of this.... Rabbit xx " Very welcome to join in lovely x | |||
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"I’m hoping we can just comment about any diet stuff here I’m trying to gain until February and it’s harder than I thought. I’m eating roughly 5000 calories a day and my weight is barely moving. Eating has become a chore. I set alarms to remind me to eat My food bill is now topping out at £60-75 a week. For 1 person. And that’s essentials from Aldi. I don’t buy fancy stuff or treats. It’s mainly meat, vegetables and health carb choices I’ll have good days where I hit 5000 in the evening no problem. And I days like today where I know i need to force down 1500 calories for breakfast and I’m just not hungry. But I’ve got to do it otherwise it’s just an extra 1500 I’d have to cram down this evening Whatever your struggle is, stay strong. It’s not easy but nothing worth it ever is " Do you think it's because you're still eating healthy just more of it? It's probably the right way of doing it but I ate a wetherspoons breakfast the other day and that was 1400 calories! Everyone's journey is valid so please feel free to post x | |||
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"I’m hoping we can just comment about any diet stuff here I’m trying to gain until February and it’s harder than I thought. I’m eating roughly 5000 calories a day and my weight is barely moving. Eating has become a chore. I set alarms to remind me to eat My food bill is now topping out at £60-75 a week. For 1 person. And that’s essentials from Aldi. I don’t buy fancy stuff or treats. It’s mainly meat, vegetables and health carb choices I’ll have good days where I hit 5000 in the evening no problem. And I days like today where I know i need to force down 1500 calories for breakfast and I’m just not hungry. But I’ve got to do it otherwise it’s just an extra 1500 I’d have to cram down this evening Whatever your struggle is, stay strong. It’s not easy but nothing worth it ever is Do you think it's because you're still eating healthy just more of it? It's probably the right way of doing it but I ate a wetherspoons breakfast the other day and that was 1400 calories! Everyone's journey is valid so please feel free to post x " Probably. I know the “method” while bulking is to eat like shit, but I’m not looking to shorten my life span, feel like shit and ruin my toilet for the sake of gains. I’m basically eating exactly as I would if I was trying to lose weight, just bigger portions. The hard thing with bulking that people don’t realise is it builds on itself. Kinda like dieting actually. As you diet more and more that hunger builds up. It’s the same with bulking, except it’s the feeling full feeling. The 1st week of the bulk was great. Waking up starving. Eating my lunch early, being hungry before, during and after the gym. But I’m at the point now where my body is full. It’s saying no more. I never feel hungry. I never crave food. Eating is now a chore that easily forgotten. I could start eating like shit, but that’s just not my style. Health is wealth and buying ice cream for gains isn’t healthy to me I appreciate being able to post here. Thankyou | |||
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"I’m hoping we can just comment about any diet stuff here I’m trying to gain until February and it’s harder than I thought. I’m eating roughly 5000 calories a day and my weight is barely moving. Eating has become a chore. I set alarms to remind me to eat My food bill is now topping out at £60-75 a week. For 1 person. And that’s essentials from Aldi. I don’t buy fancy stuff or treats. It’s mainly meat, vegetables and health carb choices I’ll have good days where I hit 5000 in the evening no problem. And I days like today where I know i need to force down 1500 calories for breakfast and I’m just not hungry. But I’ve got to do it otherwise it’s just an extra 1500 I’d have to cram down this evening Whatever your struggle is, stay strong. It’s not easy but nothing worth it ever is Do you think it's because you're still eating healthy just more of it? It's probably the right way of doing it but I ate a wetherspoons breakfast the other day and that was 1400 calories! Everyone's journey is valid so please feel free to post x Probably. I know the “method” while bulking is to eat like shit, but I’m not looking to shorten my life span, feel like shit and ruin my toilet for the sake of gains. I’m basically eating exactly as I would if I was trying to lose weight, just bigger portions. The hard thing with bulking that people don’t realise is it builds on itself. Kinda like dieting actually. As you diet more and more that hunger builds up. It’s the same with bulking, except it’s the feeling full feeling. The 1st week of the bulk was great. Waking up starving. Eating my lunch early, being hungry before, during and after the gym. But I’m at the point now where my body is full. It’s saying no more. I never feel hungry. I never crave food. Eating is now a chore that easily forgotten. I could start eating like shit, but that’s just not my style. Health is wealth and buying ice cream for gains isn’t healthy to me I appreciate being able to post here. Thankyou " Can you not drink your calories with protein shakes or something? I know that you would still need to drink a lot but sipping on one during the day is still needed calories | |||
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"I’m hoping we can just comment about any diet stuff here I’m trying to gain until February and it’s harder than I thought. I’m eating roughly 5000 calories a day and my weight is barely moving. Eating has become a chore. I set alarms to remind me to eat My food bill is now topping out at £60-75 a week. For 1 person. And that’s essentials from Aldi. I don’t buy fancy stuff or treats. It’s mainly meat, vegetables and health carb choices I’ll have good days where I hit 5000 in the evening no problem. And I days like today where I know i need to force down 1500 calories for breakfast and I’m just not hungry. But I’ve got to do it otherwise it’s just an extra 1500 I’d have to cram down this evening Whatever your struggle is, stay strong. It’s not easy but nothing worth it ever is Do you think it's because you're still eating healthy just more of it? It's probably the right way of doing it but I ate a wetherspoons breakfast the other day and that was 1400 calories! Everyone's journey is valid so please feel free to post x Probably. I know the “method” while bulking is to eat like shit, but I’m not looking to shorten my life span, feel like shit and ruin my toilet for the sake of gains. I’m basically eating exactly as I would if I was trying to lose weight, just bigger portions. The hard thing with bulking that people don’t realise is it builds on itself. Kinda like dieting actually. As you diet more and more that hunger builds up. It’s the same with bulking, except it’s the feeling full feeling. The 1st week of the bulk was great. Waking up starving. Eating my lunch early, being hungry before, during and after the gym. But I’m at the point now where my body is full. It’s saying no more. I never feel hungry. I never crave food. Eating is now a chore that easily forgotten. I could start eating like shit, but that’s just not my style. Health is wealth and buying ice cream for gains isn’t healthy to me I appreciate being able to post here. Thankyou Can you not drink your calories with protein shakes or something? I know that you would still need to drink a lot but sipping on one during the day is still needed calories " It’s definitely something I’ve tried to do. Usually I do it at the end of the day if I neee to make up lost calories. Milk peanut butter and protein powder I try not to because I don’t want to many “empty” calories But it’s definitely a good idea 206.4 this morning after doing a 90 minute cardio workout yesterday so we are getting somewhere! | |||
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"morning all weigh in for me this morning and I've lost 5lbs and back to my pre Christmas weight (8.5 stone loss) my final target is definitely in sight now, I feel so much better. have good days all Rabbit " Wow that’s amazing! Congratulations!! | |||
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"morning all weigh in for me this morning and I've lost 5lbs and back to my pre Christmas weight (8.5 stone loss) my final target is definitely in sight now, I feel so much better. have good days all Rabbit " Fantastic | |||
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"207,6 this morning, slowly adding weight at around 4800-5200 calories a day I’ll do this till end of Feb then join the rest of you on the weight loss train " I hope you don't mind me asking but, why are you gaining weight just to lose it? | |||
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"207,6 this morning, slowly adding weight at around 4800-5200 calories a day I’ll do this till end of Feb then join the rest of you on the weight loss train I hope you don't mind me asking but, why are you gaining weight just to lose it?" Slowly building muscle by eating at a calorie surplus and lifting 6x a week. So the weight goes up I won’t build only muscle, I’ll gain some fat with it at the same time, that’s just how it goes End of feb I’ll do my best to slowly lose the fat I’ve gained and keep the muscle It’s a bulk / cut cycle Eat lots to bulk up Then cut back so you can see the gains Never mind people asking either, always happy to give an explanation to the method | |||
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"another week of no movement! At least I know I can maintain when I get there Have logged my breakfast and coffee and will be super mindful of any snacking. Working from home all week so may be easier as less travelling about and nipping to shops to reset my brain after Christmas. Seem to be struggling with that. " Same here but I had a super busy week so it’s not the end of the world that I stayed the same. More motivation for this week! | |||
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"another week of no movement! At least I know I can maintain when I get there Have logged my breakfast and coffee and will be super mindful of any snacking. Working from home all week so may be easier as less travelling about and nipping to shops to reset my brain after Christmas. Seem to be struggling with that. " Sometimes the biggest loses are hiding behind a stagnant week! Keep motivated, your doing great | |||
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"another week of no movement! At least I know I can maintain when I get there Have logged my breakfast and coffee and will be super mindful of any snacking. Working from home all week so may be easier as less travelling about and nipping to shops to reset my brain after Christmas. Seem to be struggling with that. Sometimes the biggest loses are hiding behind a stagnant week! Keep motivated, your doing great " Thank you x food shop done, call booked with nutritionist to kick me up the bum lol | |||
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"228 today but I literally drank nothing yesterday! Just had a call with my nutrition coach person and cried at him so now feel like a total wally. We're going to focus on habits and snacking and drilling down in to what I'm feeling when I grab a chocolate bar and packet of crisps at the garage on my way home to cook dinner etc. " Keep sugar free gum in the car. Pop one in your way home. The chewing helps and no one’s snacks after minty gum | |||
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"228 today but I literally drank nothing yesterday! Just had a call with my nutrition coach person and cried at him so now feel like a total wally. We're going to focus on habits and snacking and drilling down in to what I'm feeling when I grab a chocolate bar and packet of crisps at the garage on my way home to cook dinner etc. Keep sugar free gum in the car. Pop one in your way home. The chewing helps and no one’s snacks after minty gum " Actually this is great advice and something I was doing before Christmas. Will pick a pot up next time I'm at thd garage. Thank you. | |||
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"228 today but I literally drank nothing yesterday! Just had a call with my nutrition coach person and cried at him so now feel like a total wally. We're going to focus on habits and snacking and drilling down in to what I'm feeling when I grab a chocolate bar and packet of crisps at the garage on my way home to cook dinner etc. Keep sugar free gum in the car. Pop one in your way home. The chewing helps and no one’s snacks after minty gum Actually this is great advice and something I was doing before Christmas. Will pick a pot up next time I'm at thd garage. Thank you. " I think it’s great your talking to your coach about habits. I think that’s the best way to get results. Figure out what bad habits you have and how to break those habits will lead to success I had the same issue as you. Driving home from work starving. If I didn’t stop off at a McDonald’s or a garage in the way home, I’d get home and be so hungry I’d eat something I knew I shouldn’t! 2 apples in the car + a pot of sugar free gum really helped. If you want success, don’t become a master of fighting your cravings Become a master of beating your craving with good habits and little tricks to get you by I think you’re doing great | |||
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"I gained 2lbs this week. I am really bloated but know I've been eating too much too. Just can't get into it at all" Don’t worry too much, especially if your feeling bloated. To gain 2lbs of actual body weight in a week is unheard of. Your feeling bloated, carrying a little extra water, it’s nothing to worry about. Do your best to stay on track, go for a long walk and you’ll see the scales settle once the extra bloat fades | |||
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"228 today but I literally drank nothing yesterday! Just had a call with my nutrition coach person and cried at him so now feel like a total wally. We're going to focus on habits and snacking and drilling down in to what I'm feeling when I grab a chocolate bar and packet of crisps at the garage on my way home to cook dinner etc. Keep sugar free gum in the car. Pop one in your way home. The chewing helps and no one’s snacks after minty gum " Be careful with chewing gum....the mouth chews and the stomach thinks its getting food so it can increase hunger pangs | |||
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"Not really given this week my all but still managed to lose another 2lbs so I am happy. Hoping for a bit more next week though! " 2lb a week is good steady weightloss. Well done x | |||
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"Not really given this week my all but still managed to lose another 2lbs so I am happy. Hoping for a bit more next week though! 2lb a week is good steady weightloss. Well done x " Thanks x The previously two weeks had both been 4lbs loses so I know I’m still on the right track but need to put more effort in this week | |||
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"Not really given this week my all but still managed to lose another 2lbs so I am happy. Hoping for a bit more next week though! 2lb a week is good steady weightloss. Well done x Thanks x The previously two weeks had both been 4lbs loses so I know I’m still on the right track but need to put more effort in this week" I tial losses will always be bigger as its mostly water weight. Its more sustainable to lose 1-2lb a week x just keep focused x | |||
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"1lb loss this week which I’m happy about as had a heavy night out in Leeds midweek Hit all my exercise goals this week too " That's fab, well done x | |||
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"Not really given this week my all but still managed to lose another 2lbs so I am happy. Hoping for a bit more next week though! 2lb a week is good steady weightloss. Well done x Thanks x The previously two weeks had both been 4lbs loses so I know I’m still on the right track but need to put more effort in this week I tial losses will always be bigger as its mostly water weight. Its more sustainable to lose 1-2lb a week x just keep focused x " Yeah I’ve been doing this since end of August now and seem to be doing 2-4lbs a week now which I am happy with. I have lost 5st2 since I started but would like to lose another 2st5. Staying focused! | |||
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"Well done everyone! Seems like a good week for most! Proud of you all ??" Great little support group | |||
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"I've lost 2 1b this week " And now I've put it back on !! | |||
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"I've lost 2 1b this week And now I've put it back on !!" It will just be water x just drink lots and stay focused x | |||
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"1/2lb off this week. Happy with that. Better than gaining " Well done x | |||
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"230 this morning like a flipping yoyo at the moment. Had a down in the dumps day yesterday which resulted in not much hydration and mini eggs! For some reason I'm finding it very hard to remind myself to drink when I am at home. No problem when I'm at work in the office though. " Maybe set reminder on phone or have a water bottle filled and ready? | |||
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"230 this morning like a flipping yoyo at the moment. Had a down in the dumps day yesterday which resulted in not much hydration and mini eggs! For some reason I'm finding it very hard to remind myself to drink when I am at home. No problem when I'm at work in the office though. Maybe set reminder on phone or have a water bottle filled and ready?" May try the alarm thing. I have a big 2l water bottle so I know when I've d*unk that I'm good lol. | |||
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"I've lost 2 1b this week And now I've put it back on !! It will just be water x just drink lots and stay focused x " Will do x I've got covid now and thankfully don't have much of an appetite x | |||
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