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By *asy-tiger OP   Man
over a year ago

Ringwood | Bournemouth | Poole

I alway find it curious how much mail women and couples and some guys receive. My max is usually 7-10 unread in my inbox in the morning. What is your current unread message tally in your inbox? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

912. I'm rubbish.

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is 69

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"912. I'm rubbish. "

Wow

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"912. I'm rubbish. "

And only 900 are the cock pics I sent you

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

2. I've spent this morning cleaning it up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm almost on top of it.. almost. Just double digits now. It drives me mad when it's more..

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

19. Which is weird because on Monday it was a lot more and I've not done anything since then. Seems they auto delete after a while.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Five. Which is still more than usual

LvM

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Solitary 5...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

2. Logged on to 7 new messages overnight, dealt with those and since then, 2 have arrived.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

470 I opened my filters for games. It’s overwhelming

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

181 here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4419

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
over a year ago

Sunniest Exeter...


"4419 "

In stark contrast. It's a big fat zero for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

none as I respect people taking time and effort to make contact even if itts just a hi, i/we always read but rarely repsond to one liners or just a few words other than say 'read our profile' an if the bs contiunes second time a block.

We were both brought up to repsct others and told that people that come to see us, talk to us could easily do it to someone else so show them respect

thos getting more emails than they can handle, change your profile as it must be giving the wrong impression you getting so many contactd and not be bothered to read them at the very least. Reading most takes a split second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im doing well! 1032. Did a dirty delete recently and have hidden a lot recently, so i need to get my fabmin in order again and get it back in control!!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

9 when I logged in. Just replied to the last.

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By *ames5169Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

2 this morning none now despite how much I stare at it !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"none as I respect people taking time and effort to make contact even if itts just a hi, i/we always read but rarely repsond to one liners or just a few words other than say 'read our profile' an if the bs contiunes second time a block.

We were both brought up to repsct others and told that people that come to see us, talk to us could easily do it to someone else so show them respect

thos getting more emails than they can handle, change your profile as it must be giving the wrong impression you getting so many contactd and not be bothered to read them at the very least. Reading most takes a split second.

"

Okkkayyyyyy then! Righty ho! Ummm....whatever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Down to 0 now as deleted the 100 odd I didn't read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero. C'est la vie

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I currently have 2. I've never had more than 3.

I rarely if ever get more than a couple of messages a week and can often go for a month or more with none at all.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"none as I respect people taking time and effort to make contact even if itts just a hi, i/we always read but rarely repsond to one liners or just a few words other than say 'read our profile' an if the bs contiunes second time a block.

We were both brought up to repsct others and told that people that come to see us, talk to us could easily do it to someone else so show them respect

thos getting more emails than they can handle, change your profile as it must be giving the wrong impression you getting so many contactd and not be bothered to read them at the very least. Reading most takes a split second.

"

So every piece of junk mail you get through the door you respond to as well. Good to know.

I often ignore my inbox for a week or more at a time because I'm not in the right headspace for private conversation with people I don't actually know. That doesn't make me rude, that means I've taken the phone off the hook and let the mail pile up on the mat.

If anyone really wants to talk to me that much, they'll wait for an answer or try again. Don't see why they would, but sometimes they do.

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Zero same as it is everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly 859. But yet those guys would expect me to answer every single message with a no thanks.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I have room for a few more, as long as they have boobs in them

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By *ver the hill for fabMan
over a year ago

LONDON

4 all from guys who are up for fun and wanking and a couple from Tvs which I will answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"4 all from guys who are up for fun and wanking and a couple from Tvs which I will answer "

funny tht re tvs/bi guys we've made it clear we are not itnerested in tvs/bi etc but majority are from them, but i still read and will thank them as its only polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly 859. But yet those guys would expect me to answer every single message with a no thanks. "

No I expect the answer to be " oh of course I want to meet"

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

varies between none and about 40 depending on how recently I've posted a new photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what are messages?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

963...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unread 0

Read 2

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By *ames5169Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"963..."

No wonder mine are unread!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got excited about an hour ago, as saw quite of yellow messages.. then I realised that was me outbid

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

1351 x

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By *obajxMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

The same as yesterday and the day before and the day before that......

At least I've had a profile hit today, so it's not quite total doom and gloom

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"none as I respect people taking time and effort to make contact even if itts just a hi, i/we always read but rarely repsond to one liners or just a few words other than say 'read our profile' an if the bs contiunes second time a block.

We were both brought up to repsct others and told that people that come to see us, talk to us could easily do it to someone else so show them respect

thos getting more emails than they can handle, change your profile as it must be giving the wrong impression you getting so many contactd and not be bothered to read them at the very least. Reading most takes a split second.

"

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

234 I'm feeling pretty good about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any gents deliberately take their time opening messages so you don’t look so desperate to have the chance to open a new message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot less since Fab changed my profile to a couples profile...

30 at the moment. Used to be in the hundreds. I prefer it this way

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Just one and it's a message I sent myself for information so I didn't lose it.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

0

They come in that rarely I can easily keep up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get a lot less since Fab changed my profile to a couples profile...

30 at the moment. Used to be in the hundreds. I prefer it this way "

Exactly as I posted earlier ie thats what we didd a couple of weeks into this site as we got to work out what worked etc

its a bit like someone saying hi to you on the street or party and you ignoring them, we would never do that.

its in our culture to be polite and the way we were brought up. Sure there are people there that may take advantage and on here easily resolved via blocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 sparkly clean

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By *immiTV/TS
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

None... ever since i stopped single guys who could be very pushy. no one seems to be interested these days, or diaries don't match.

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By *appyharryhMan
over a year ago

Burntwood

Zero. I once had two. I was swamped that morning!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats a message?

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Mine is certainly a very round number!

And looking back through all the posts in here, it’s almost as if women get a lot more messages than men, how weird, who would have thought!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Down to 4 after a bulk delete

J x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I bulk deleted yesterday. 133 today . Despite my profile text!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The usual zero.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big fat zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"none as I respect people taking time and effort to make contact even if itts just a hi, i/we always read but rarely repsond to one liners or just a few words other than say 'read our profile' an if the bs contiunes second time a block.

We were both brought up to repsct others and told that people that come to see us, talk to us could easily do it to someone else so show them respect

thos getting more emails than they can handle, change your profile as it must be giving the wrong impression you getting so many contactd and not be bothered to read them at the very least. Reading most takes a split second.

"

So it’s our fault men don’t read the profile properly? Good to know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big fat zero "
only as am too old to mail you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big fat zero only as am too old to mail you "

Ah yes... We'll just pretend it's because my filters are tight...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big fat zero only as am too old to mail you

Ah yes... We'll just pretend it's because my filters are tight... "

Do like a tight filter

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

I had one

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Reading most takes a split second."

.

...yeah, especially when you're coming from Bracknell or Basingstoke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently 5 due to a thread game.

I usually keep ontop of it though. Hate not replying to people. (not a cue for everyone to message, thanks).

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

0

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

4 at the min,

I do use filters to keep messages down too.

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By *eandher4and9Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Average is about 8 as tend to keep on top of it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"none as I respect people taking time and effort to make contact even if itts just a hi, i/we always read but rarely repsond to one liners or just a few words other than say 'read our profile' an if the bs contiunes second time a block.

We were both brought up to repsct others and told that people that come to see us, talk to us could easily do it to someone else so show them respect

thos getting more emails than they can handle, change your profile as it must be giving the wrong impression you getting so many contactd and not be bothered to read them at the very least. Reading most takes a split second.

"

Don’t be ridiculous. What about 800/900 like some people have? I don’t think my profile is giving the wrong impression at all at the moment! I refuse to block men. Not my fault they can’t read. Nothing to do with respect.

How about respect me and read my profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"4 at the min,

I do use filters to keep messages down too. "

5 now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly 0

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

0

It's easy enough for me to keep on top of.

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By *uicytits78Woman
over a year ago

gloucester

111... and that's all from people who haven't read my profile, so I refuse to answer.. and those who I have already said no to, that still message again, and again regardless...

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By *asy-tiger OP   Man
over a year ago

Ringwood | Bournemouth | Poole


"912. I'm rubbish. "
Wow I was going to ask if it goes into the 1000s but then I saw a reply below x

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

A big fat zero!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"111... and that's all from people who haven't read my profile, so I refuse to answer.. and those who I have already said no to, that still message again, and again regardless...

"

Ouch that's a lot. I won't add to your inbox today then

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"I alway find it curious how much mail women and couples and some guys receive. My max is usually 7-10 unread in my inbox in the morning. What is your current unread message tally in your inbox? X"

None as don’t receive any hardly anyway and if I did receive well there all from men, obviously don’t read my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 on a good day. I did have 2 once then I woke up haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"none as I respect people taking time and effort to make contact even if itts just a hi, i/we always read but rarely repsond to one liners or just a few words other than say 'read our profile' an if the bs contiunes second time a block.

We were both brought up to repsct others and told that people that come to see us, talk to us could easily do it to someone else so show them respect

thos getting more emails than they can handle, change your profile as it must be giving the wrong impression you getting so many contactd and not be bothered to read them at the very least. Reading most takes a split second.

"

Are you for real?? It’d take me 6 hours to open every message on my inbox and kinda ready for 5 seconds. Some are longer. Never mind replying…

Who’s got the attention span and the WILL to do that?

Also, it doesn’t make me disrespectful as it clearly means I got way too much going on. (And that’s also okay)

So I pick and choose the messages that catch my eyes and that I find worth giving a min to.

I tend to always reply to forumites btw (generally speaking)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0. I have answered them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"none as I respect people taking time and effort to make contact even if itts just a hi, i/we always read but rarely repsond to one liners or just a few words other than say 'read our profile' an if the bs contiunes second time a block.

We were both brought up to repsct others and told that people that come to see us, talk to us could easily do it to someone else so show them respect

thos getting more emails than they can handle, change your profile as it must be giving the wrong impression you getting so many contactd and not be bothered to read them at the very least. Reading most takes a split second.

Are you for real?? It’d take me 6 hours to open every message on my inbox and kinda ready for 5 seconds. Some are longer. Never mind replying…

Who’s got the attention span and the WILL to do that?

Also, it doesn’t make me disrespectful as it clearly means I got way too much going on. (And that’s also okay)

So I pick and choose the messages that catch my eyes and that I find worth giving a min to.

I tend to always reply to forumites btw (generally speaking)

"

6 hours if I dedicated 5 seconds MAX non stop in opening/closing each single message.

6 freaking hours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2. I've spent this morning cleaning it up!"

I love a good clean up. feels good to be in control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So I pick and choose the messages that catch my eyes and that I find worth giving a min to.

I tend to always reply to forumites btw (generally speaking)

6 hours if I dedicated 5 seconds MAX non stop in opening/closing each single message.

6 freaking hours!"

You Betta get at it then and stop moaning…

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By *asy-tiger OP   Man
over a year ago

Ringwood | Bournemouth | Poole


"none as I respect people taking time and effort to make contact even if itts just a hi, i/we always read but rarely repsond to one liners or just a few words other than say 'read our profile' an if the bs contiunes second time a block.

We were both brought up to repsct others and told that people that come to see us, talk to us could easily do it to someone else so show them respect

thos getting more emails than they can handle, change your profile as it must be giving the wrong impression you getting so many contactd and not be bothered to read them at the very least. Reading most takes a split second.

Are you for real?? It’d take me 6 hours to open every message on my inbox and kinda ready for 5 seconds. Some are longer. Never mind replying…

Who’s got the attention span and the WILL to do that?

Also, it doesn’t make me disrespectful as it clearly means I got way too much going on. (And that’s also okay)

So I pick and choose the messages that catch my eyes and that I find worth giving a min to.

I tend to always reply to forumites btw (generally speaking)

"

This is true

Maybe fab should have a quick reply button for no thank you or yes how are you. Bit like LinkedIn does x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't received a message in over a month, and that was a veiled threat. Pretty much all my sent messages remain unread though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So I pick and choose the messages that catch my eyes and that I find worth giving a min to.

I tend to always reply to forumites btw (generally speaking)

6 hours if I dedicated 5 seconds MAX non stop in opening/closing each single message.

6 freaking hours!

You Betta get at it then and stop moaning… "

Let me be !!!!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"none as I respect people taking time and effort to make contact even if itts just a hi, i/we always read but rarely repsond to one liners or just a few words other than say 'read our profile' an if the bs contiunes second time a block.

We were both brought up to repsct others and told that people that come to see us, talk to us could easily do it to someone else so show them respect

thos getting more emails than they can handle, change your profile as it must be giving the wrong impression you getting so many contactd and not be bothered to read them at the very least. Reading most takes a split second.

Are you for real?? It’d take me 6 hours to open every message on my inbox and kinda ready for 5 seconds. Some are longer. Never mind replying…

Who’s got the attention span and the WILL to do that?

Also, it doesn’t make me disrespectful as it clearly means I got way too much going on. (And that’s also okay)

So I pick and choose the messages that catch my eyes and that I find worth giving a min to.

I tend to always reply to forumites btw (generally speaking)

"

Yeah I do too. If I see someone from the forums I tend to reply. The rest I don’t x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"none as I respect people taking time and effort to make contact even if itts just a hi, i/we always read but rarely repsond to one liners or just a few words other than say 'read our profile' an if the bs contiunes second time a block.

We were both brought up to repsct others and told that people that come to see us, talk to us could easily do it to someone else so show them respect

thos getting more emails than they can handle, change your profile as it must be giving the wrong impression you getting so many contactd and not be bothered to read them at the very least. Reading most takes a split second.

Are you for real?? It’d take me 6 hours to open every message on my inbox and kinda ready for 5 seconds. Some are longer. Never mind replying…

Who’s got the attention span and the WILL to do that?

Also, it doesn’t make me disrespectful as it clearly means I got way too much going on. (And that’s also okay)

So I pick and choose the messages that catch my eyes and that I find worth giving a min to.

I tend to always reply to forumites btw (generally speaking)

This is true

Maybe fab should have a quick reply button for no thank you or yes how are you. Bit like LinkedIn does x"

Don’t let me start on apps like tinder or whatever where you have to swipe… I’d literally also couldn’t keep up over there and used to just swipe as fast as I could and by the type it was chat time I was done… literally D O N E!

I think the solution would be having a PA to bring forward a few options every week..

Kinda Like a run through (10 options )

simple, easy.. and manageable

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By *xiled BikerMan
over a year ago

Beverley

Wow some big numbers of unread, I don't even achieve that as my total for the year, currently no unread messages. . . . Its a big day when I get one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"none as I respect people taking time and effort to make contact even if itts just a hi, i/we always read but rarely repsond to one liners or just a few words other than say 'read our profile' an if the bs contiunes second time a block.

We were both brought up to repsct others and told that people that come to see us, talk to us could easily do it to someone else so show them respect

thos getting more emails than they can handle, change your profile as it must be giving the wrong impression you getting so many contactd and not be bothered to read them at the very least. Reading most takes a split second.

Are you for real?? It’d take me 6 hours to open every message on my inbox and kinda ready for 5 seconds. Some are longer. Never mind replying…

Who’s got the attention span and the WILL to do that?

Also, it doesn’t make me disrespectful as it clearly means I got way too much going on. (And that’s also okay)

So I pick and choose the messages that catch my eyes and that I find worth giving a min to.

I tend to always reply to forumites btw (generally speaking)

6 hours if I dedicated 5 seconds MAX non stop in opening/closing each single message.

6 freaking hours!"

Should I start a side hustle managing ladies' inboxes on here... Just saying I can probably pull together 6 hours if the price was right...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"none as I respect people taking time and effort to make contact even if itts just a hi, i/we always read but rarely repsond to one liners or just a few words other than say 'read our profile' an if the bs contiunes second time a block.

We were both brought up to repsct others and told that people that come to see us, talk to us could easily do it to someone else so show them respect

thos getting more emails than they can handle, change your profile as it must be giving the wrong impression you getting so many contactd and not be bothered to read them at the very least. Reading most takes a split second.

Are you for real?? It’d take me 6 hours to open every message on my inbox and kinda ready for 5 seconds. Some are longer. Never mind replying…

Who’s got the attention span and the WILL to do that?

Also, it doesn’t make me disrespectful as it clearly means I got way too much going on. (And that’s also okay)

So I pick and choose the messages that catch my eyes and that I find worth giving a min to.

I tend to always reply to forumites btw (generally speaking)

6 hours if I dedicated 5 seconds MAX non stop in opening/closing each single message.

6 freaking hours!

Should I start a side hustle managing ladies' inboxes on here... Just saying I can probably pull together 6 hours if the price was right... "

I think there’s actual money to be made !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"none as I respect people taking time and effort to make contact even if itts just a hi, i/we always read but rarely repsond to one liners or just a few words other than say 'read our profile' an if the bs contiunes second time a block.

We were both brought up to repsct others and told that people that come to see us, talk to us could easily do it to someone else so show them respect

thos getting more emails than they can handle, change your profile as it must be giving the wrong impression you getting so many contactd and not be bothered to read them at the very least. Reading most takes a split second.

Are you for real?? It’d take me 6 hours to open every message on my inbox and kinda ready for 5 seconds. Some are longer. Never mind replying…

Who’s got the attention span and the WILL to do that?

Also, it doesn’t make me disrespectful as it clearly means I got way too much going on. (And that’s also okay)

So I pick and choose the messages that catch my eyes and that I find worth giving a min to.

I tend to always reply to forumites btw (generally speaking)

6 hours if I dedicated 5 seconds MAX non stop in opening/closing each single message.

6 freaking hours!

Should I start a side hustle managing ladies' inboxes on here... Just saying I can probably pull together 6 hours if the price was right...

I think there’s actual money to be made !!!! "

I can offer you the Basic Package, where you give me your ideal type and I just delete anyone who doesn't match it, or the Deluxe, which includes sarcastic, passive aggressive replies to FAF messages, dick pics and those who clearly haven't read your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you do a package for us men who can't read as well? Basic package you spam everyone on out behalf, deluxe you write thoughtful messages that may get a reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"none as I respect people taking time and effort to make contact even if itts just a hi, i/we always read but rarely repsond to one liners or just a few words other than say 'read our profile' an if the bs contiunes second time a block.

We were both brought up to repsct others and told that people that come to see us, talk to us could easily do it to someone else so show them respect

thos getting more emails than they can handle, change your profile as it must be giving the wrong impression you getting so many contactd and not be bothered to read them at the very least. Reading most takes a split second.

Are you for real?? It’d take me 6 hours to open every message on my inbox and kinda ready for 5 seconds. Some are longer. Never mind replying…

Who’s got the attention span and the WILL to do that?

Also, it doesn’t make me disrespectful as it clearly means I got way too much going on. (And that’s also okay)

So I pick and choose the messages that catch my eyes and that I find worth giving a min to.

I tend to always reply to forumites btw (generally speaking)

6 hours if I dedicated 5 seconds MAX non stop in opening/closing each single message.

6 freaking hours!

Should I start a side hustle managing ladies' inboxes on here... Just saying I can probably pull together 6 hours if the price was right...

I think there’s actual money to be made !!!!

I can offer you the Basic Package, where you give me your ideal type and I just delete anyone who doesn't match it, or the Deluxe, which includes sarcastic, passive aggressive replies to FAF messages, dick pics and those who clearly haven't read your profile "

Oooh I’m loving the deluxe one!!! Haha just make sure you bring my some option for the run through every week

(In my head I’m imagining the scene with Miranda Pristley in DWP when they pick options for the photo shoot. But instead of clothes it’s men/ and their profiles )

WHY IS NONE REAAAADYYYY

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

13 here.

I don't get many messages to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

Now we know the ones we shouldnt message

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"0. I have answered them all. "

...same as this^^

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

8.

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By *cenario-xxxMan
over a year ago

Salford

A message??? What's one of those???

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

None Its easy to be on top of admin in incognito mode

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