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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Inside the furom to outside the furom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Away from The Lounge forum far fewer people say good evening to me.

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

Popcorn at the ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inside the furom to outside the furom?"

By forumites or non fab people ? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never noticed much difference tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naw, I'm ignored equally in both

;-p

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Do you mean meeting in person OP or in messaging privately

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Inside the furom to outside the furom?

By forumites or non fab people ? X "

On fabs by anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inside the furom to outside the furom?

By forumites or non fab people ? X

On fabs by anyone"

Yes, definitely. People on the forum know me a bit, and treat me with more respect (mostly) than randoms.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On fabs as a site. Are you treated differently by people that are in the forum to how you are treated by people outside of the furom.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

On the forum people call me a cunt. Outside the forum people just think it

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Sometimes ignored on the forums, sometimes blocked because of our posts, zero impact upon our meets (we think) so doesn't really matter.

As a side note one person we met actually mentioned our forum activity, said he was interested to meet me (Mr) and how I was going to be due to being in his opinion 'outspoken'. All went well, a great foursome meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People on the forum have messaged me before to make sure I'm OK due to lack of posting sometimes.

People don't care if I go awol outside of fab.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Forums are to chat shit with people and find social parties

Fab is for hunting for sexual partners and adventures

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Inside the furom to outside the furom?"

Very differently.

Some are all flirty in the forums, but never chat privately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly the same. Her ladyship has her own profile so it's mostly me on here and the only people to message are mostly from the forums.

That said, I do get more "I'm in Swansea, want to fuck me?" messages away from the forums - I mostly assume it's a case of mistaken identity and the poor helpless schmucks think they're talking to her ladyship.

Mr

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Mostly the same. Her ladyship has her own profile so it's mostly me on here and the only people to message are mostly from the forums.

That said, I do get more "I'm in Swansea, want to fuck me?" messages away from the forums - I mostly assume it's a case of mistaken identity and the poor helpless schmucks think they're talking to her ladyship.

Mr"

Bless 'em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes ignored on the forums, sometimes blocked because of our posts, zero impact upon our meets (we think) so doesn't really matter.

As a side note one person we met actually mentioned our forum activity, said he was interested to meet me (Mr) and how I was going to be due to being in his opinion 'outspoken'. All went well, a great foursome meet."

I've definitely had at least two blocks from the forums which I assume are to do with my terrible attitude

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the forum I'm a person with a silly sense of humour. Outside the forum I'm a set of holes.

Is my perspective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah treated the same no matter what, ignored lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On not sure how you are defining differently. The honest answer is yes because often people that message me or interact with me on the forum are doing so because of something I've commented on or said where as messages from people I've had no previous contact with are normally about meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm often as invisible on the forums as I am in any other situation.

It doesn't really bother me and not something I think about

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Talk to people outside the forum than here. Tend to get ignore in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the forum I'm a person with a silly sense of humour. Outside the forum I'm a set of holes.

Is my perspective."

Maybe you just have humorous holes?

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use the forum to chat to people but my chats away from the forum are lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to only talk to people I know via the forum

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Can't really say I've noticed a difference between between the 2

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Yes. People don’t try and meet me in the forum. I can just be my sarcastic self.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I only really chat on here and the occasional pm to do with a thread so probably yes. Been here so long that most of my people I chat to I chat to elsewhere. I don’t look at messages from people I don’t know at the moment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. People outside the forum have a tendency to talk to me. A dm is a dm after all.

Or are we talking about real life. Because real life is waaaaaay different to the Fab website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the forum I'm a person with a silly sense of humour. Outside the forum I'm a set of holes.

Is my perspective.

Maybe you just have humorous holes?

Mr"

My ass is hilarious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inside the furom to outside the furom?

By forumites or non fab people ? X

On fabs by anyone"

Probably, forumites know me a bit more. X

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

This week I’ve started using the forums, I’ve had more interaction and more private messages than ever before

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester


"I'm often as invisible on the forums as I am in any other situation.

It doesn't really bother me and not something I think about "

Exactly this Miss pc

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes i pester people to buy raffle tickets at the Msl,so i can't be ignored!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I only use the forum so have no idea how people would react to me elsewhere, although I am fucking hilarious so that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm often as invisible on the forums as I am in any other situation.

It doesn't really bother me and not something I think about

Exactly this Miss pc "

Couldn't have said it better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say I'm invisible/ignored both on the forums and on Fab in general.

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

I think I'm lucky to have people who I can chat with on the forum and off.

Sometimes I get replies, sometimes I don't. Sometimes I feel like I'm shouting into the darkness and no one hears me, Sometimes I feel quite heard

The fourumites are wonderful.

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago


"Away from The Lounge forum far fewer people say good evening to me."

Love this on so many levels

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't send messages and am not inundated with them either but most of those I do get are in relation to the forums.

The ones that aren't are usually from people who can't read.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Yes, and it's too be expected, forums are for chat and a laugh, private is for serious and interest (not all always wanted from some on fab) so rare I talk to 'forumites' other than thread related

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I talk to far more people away from the forums and those i talk to from the forums it isn’t sexual. The difference is the people off the forums are the ones who I am likely to meet as they are mostly local. So the chat is definitely different

Kx

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Get on better In Pms than on here tbh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

I’m worshipped wherever I go

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I only talk to people on the forums or via PM from the forums so I wouldn’t know.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Non forum peeps assume I'm here to fuck

Forum peeps understand I'm here to fuck....shit up

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Definitely, in real life people actually give me hugs

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Nah.

I’m worshipped wherever I go "

True this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only talk to forumites tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Non forum peeps assume I'm here to fuck

Forum peeps understand I'm here to fuck....shit up "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do some of you really only reply to messages from forumites?? Wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah.

I’m worshipped wherever I go

True this "

shush you

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

I chat regularly to a few people from the forums and probably twice as many who don't. I haven't ever really noticed much difference in the interactions but a meet seems to be easier to arrange with non forum users

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Nah.

I’m worshipped wherever I go

True this

shush you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very rare I talk to someone who isn’t in someway forum related. The main difference for me is that because of the forums they know me a little to start with

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Do some of you really only reply to messages from forumites?? Wow. "

I do yeah. Especially at the moment as if they’ve messaged me looking to potentially meet then they obviously haven’t read my profile so that would annoy me even more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do some of you really only reply to messages from forumites?? Wow.

I do yeah. Especially at the moment as if they’ve messaged me looking to potentially meet then they obviously haven’t read my profile so that would annoy me even more. "

Faf?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Do some of you really only reply to messages from forumites?? Wow.

I do yeah. Especially at the moment as if they’ve messaged me looking to potentially meet then they obviously haven’t read my profile so that would annoy me even more.

Faf? "

Of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do some of you really only reply to messages from forumites?? Wow.

I do yeah. Especially at the moment as if they’ve messaged me looking to potentially meet then they obviously haven’t read my profile so that would annoy me even more.

Faf?

Of course! "

Yay. On way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do some of you really only reply to messages from forumites?? Wow.

I do yeah. Especially at the moment as if they’ve messaged me looking to potentially meet then they obviously haven’t read my profile so that would annoy me even more. "

That's fair, Nora. I find it a lot easier if people lead with the "do you want to meet" than compliments (for example). It's easier to say no then Tho I would like to meet but not with 99% of those who message me.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Equally ignored I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s very rare I talk to someone who isn’t in someway forum related. The main difference for me is that because of the forums they know me a little to start with"

Most of my messages are not from forumites. Maybe it just because I have tits??

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Do some of you really only reply to messages from forumites?? Wow.

I do yeah. Especially at the moment as if they’ve messaged me looking to potentially meet then they obviously haven’t read my profile so that would annoy me even more.

That's fair, Nora. I find it a lot easier if people lead with the "do you want to meet" than compliments (for example). It's easier to say no then Tho I would like to meet but not with 99% of those who message me. "

Haha I know what you mean. The amount of “wow you’re stunning” messages I get when the only pic is of my legs!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

The forum men tend to be a tad more subtle in their FAF approach because they've read all the threads that say the ladies don't like the crude messages

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Not that I've taken any notice but I have been on here in the forums in the past as a male and jesus was the reception different.

As a guy I was ignored pretty much all the time even by those who know me on here as Sophie, it's a very different place for men/women and trans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that I've taken any notice but I have been on here in the forums in the past as a male and jesus was the reception different.

As a guy I was ignored pretty much all the time even by those who know me on here as Sophie, it's a very different place for men/women and trans "

It didn’t use to be such a nice place to be trans….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do some of you really only reply to messages from forumites?? Wow.

I do yeah. Especially at the moment as if they’ve messaged me looking to potentially meet then they obviously haven’t read my profile so that would annoy me even more.

That's fair, Nora. I find it a lot easier if people lead with the "do you want to meet" than compliments (for example). It's easier to say no then Tho I would like to meet but not with 99% of those who message me.

Haha I know what you mean. The amount of “wow you’re stunning” messages I get when the only pic is of my legs! "

They're not bad legs tbf

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do some of you really only reply to messages from forumites?? Wow. "

Pretty much I don’t have much interest in talking to random people. At least with people on the forum I have a sense of knowing most and enjoy talking to them.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Do some of you really only reply to messages from forumites?? Wow. "

Those are the only people that contact me. Aside from horny guys

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Do some of you really only reply to messages from forumites?? Wow.

I do yeah. Especially at the moment as if they’ve messaged me looking to potentially meet then they obviously haven’t read my profile so that would annoy me even more.

That's fair, Nora. I find it a lot easier if people lead with the "do you want to meet" than compliments (for example). It's easier to say no then Tho I would like to meet but not with 99% of those who message me.

Haha I know what you mean. The amount of “wow you’re stunning” messages I get when the only pic is of my legs!

They're not bad legs tbf

Mr"

. Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum men tend to be a tad more subtle in their FAF approach because they've read all the threads that say the ladies don't like the crude messages "

Yes I'm sure this is true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do some of you really only reply to messages from forumites?? Wow.

I do yeah. Especially at the moment as if they’ve messaged me looking to potentially meet then they obviously haven’t read my profile so that would annoy me even more.

That's fair, Nora. I find it a lot easier if people lead with the "do you want to meet" than compliments (for example). It's easier to say no then Tho I would like to meet but not with 99% of those who message me.

Haha I know what you mean. The amount of “wow you’re stunning” messages I get when the only pic is of my legs! "

I was having a convo earlier about this. My urge to say "thank you" to a politely worded compliment is SO strong even though I know it's a load of crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s very rare I talk to someone who isn’t in someway forum related. The main difference for me is that because of the forums they know me a little to start with

Most of my messages are not from forumites. Maybe it just because I have tits??"

It could very well be or it could be my bio

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford


"Naw, I'm ignored equally in both

;-p"

This

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond


"Do some of you really only reply to messages from forumites?? Wow. "

I reply to some of the other messages but only when I'm in a bad mood. So it's usually best I stay far, far away from my inbox. Because of that, when I do look at it I tend to look for people who I either know, or "know", or at least vaguely recognise from the forum.

Posh

(Bob is nicer than me, he responds to anyone who sends a pleasant message. But don't tell him I told you)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s very rare I talk to someone who isn’t in someway forum related. The main difference for me is that because of the forums they know me a little to start with

Most of my messages are not from forumites. Maybe it just because I have tits??

It could very well be or it could be my bio"

I should have stuck to stealing yours

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I usually just chat with forum users because we’ve met at socials or we’ve been chatting with each other for quite a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do some of you really only reply to messages from forumites?? Wow.

Pretty much I don’t have much interest in talking to random people. At least with people on the forum I have a sense of knowing most and enjoy talking to them. "

But the forumites would have been random people once I think I'm just quite new (4 months) and I have a different take on it maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s very rare I talk to someone who isn’t in someway forum related. The main difference for me is that because of the forums they know me a little to start with

Most of my messages are not from forumites. Maybe it just because I have tits??

It could very well be or it could be my bio

I should have stuck to stealing yours "

I wouldn’t steal my current one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s very rare I talk to someone who isn’t in someway forum related. The main difference for me is that because of the forums they know me a little to start with

Most of my messages are not from forumites. Maybe it just because I have tits??

It could very well be or it could be my bio

I should have stuck to stealing yours

I wouldn’t steal my current one "

I hadn't looked but I can guess why!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I have a lot more conversations with people from outside the forum, and they are the people I tend to meet.

It's very rare any of the crap I share on the forum prompts a message (although it did today, which was nice!). The friendships I've made have been made without interaction on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m generally ignored on forums and private messages, that’s life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s very rare I talk to someone who isn’t in someway forum related. The main difference for me is that because of the forums they know me a little to start with

Most of my messages are not from forumites. Maybe it just because I have tits??

It could very well be or it could be my bio

I should have stuck to stealing yours

I wouldn’t steal my current one "

Aww. I love that.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Yea. People away from the forums are nice and talk to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s very rare I talk to someone who isn’t in someway forum related. The main difference for me is that because of the forums they know me a little to start with

Most of my messages are not from forumites. Maybe it just because I have tits??

It could very well be or it could be my bio

I should have stuck to stealing yours

I wouldn’t steal my current one

Aww. I love that. "

Just telling the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea. People away from the forums are nice and talk to me "

I'd be happy to chat with you, I've always liked what you have to say

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By *rixterMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I get more conversations outside of the forums. Here its very much who you know really in my opinion anyway

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I get more conversations outside of the forums. Here its very much who you know really in my opinion anyway"

Or how long you’ve been here and how involved you get

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By *rixterMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"I get more conversations outside of the forums. Here its very much who you know really in my opinion anyway

Or how long you’ve been here and how involved you get "

Yes quite possibly the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inside the furom to outside the furom?"

I'm ignored more on forums than on messages. Which suprised me a lot

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No, I don't think so. Not really. I tend to talk to people who are a bit nerdy, needy and nonsensical on and off the forum. I get similar messages from both sets of people. Away from the forum people do tend to marvel at my incredible lexicon a bit more. But generally, not really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naw, I'm ignored equally in both

;-p"

Did someone say somat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had wonderful interactions outside off forum recently.. refreshing and uncomplicated. Loving it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Away from The Lounge forum far fewer people say good evening to me."

Or pester you for coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah kinda. But on here I'm cool and nonchelant but outside I just beg for sex. Might have something to do with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am me regardless off whare it is forums private message or in public like social and clubs and such

But I do keep notes ie

Icnore me on private or forums you can expect the same back at a club or social

Love it when you send a pm and they just blank it and the next thing they all google eyed at a club at you sorry had the chance

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I'm just one of the countless dicks out of the forum.

Most of my interactions come from the forum. And they always have to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I don't chat to many people either way but the ones I do are the good ones, I never know who I can trust or who is a cunt so I'm pretty guarded

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's about the same. Ignored all of the time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have commented on many threads but no one ever interacts.

I find the forums very clique.

I am going to give up on them.

Messages and private chats are great and super friendly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have commented on many threads but no one ever interacts.

I find the forums very clique.

I am going to give up on them.

Messages and private chats are great and super friendly xx "

Ah don’t give up! I’m sure I can speak for many when I say we’ve all felt ignored at times or missed on a thread. I can assure you it’s not on purpose. Sometimes threads move fast or people don’t have anything to add on to your comment. Don’t give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have commented on many threads but no one ever interacts.

I find the forums very clique.

I am going to give up on them.

Messages and private chats are great and super friendly xx "

100% agree. Think I'll give up participating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have commented on many threads but no one ever interacts.

I find the forums very clique.

I am going to give up on them.

Messages and private chats are great and super friendly xx "

Take my way still comment don’t care but take notes

When summer rolls around and at clubs and social and stuff tell them sorry not interested happy swingeing wait let me re frase that I would have been interested but you chose to icnore me so I am going to do the same hear to you I am the same person I am hear as real life your not interested on fab I am not interested hear

It’s a very good feeling when you do then proceed to chat up some other none forum goer right infort off them

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By *ob08Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield

On the forums people are ruder as they can be faceless virtue signalling keyboard warriors, in real life when they see a 6'5" dude, they tend to be nicer funnily enough.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"I have commented on many threads but no one ever interacts.

I find the forums very clique.

I am going to give up on them.

Messages and private chats are great and super friendly xx

Ah don’t give up! I’m sure I can speak for many when I say we’ve all felt ignored at times or missed on a thread. I can assure you it’s not on purpose. Sometimes threads move fast or people don’t have anything to add on to your comment. Don’t give up "

Agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Outside of the forum is a two way conversation, but on here it's more just shouting into a void with an occasional reply. I quite like both, depending on how I'm feeling. I wouldn't worry about being ignored, everyone thinks they are but I think it's mainly just not a very good format for showing reactions, you don't want to be quoting people every single time they make you laugh or you agree with something they say.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"On the forums people are ruder as they can be faceless virtue signalling keyboard warriors, in real life when they see a 6'5" dude, they tend to be nicer funnily enough. "

Is being intimidating deliberate or accidental?

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By *ob08Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield


"On the forums people are ruder as they can be faceless virtue signalling keyboard warriors, in real life when they see a 6'5" dude, they tend to be nicer funnily enough.

Is being intimidating deliberate or accidental? "

What a strange question, if they're intimidated it must be their biased perception.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"On the forums people are ruder as they can be faceless virtue signalling keyboard warriors, in real life when they see a 6'5" dude, they tend to be nicer funnily enough.

Is being intimidating deliberate or accidental?

What a strange question, if they're intimidated it must be their biased perception. "

I'm just wondering what being 6ft 5 has anything to do with people being nicer to you? It sounded like your height intimidates people into being nicer? If people are simply nicer in real life, what does your height have to do with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have commented on many threads but no one ever interacts.

I find the forums very clique.

I am going to give up on them.

Messages and private chats are great and super friendly xx "

Sorry you feel that way, we're not all like that. Please stick around, there are friendly people here

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

What was the question again?

I’ll have the fish please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm just noise, like that annoying fly..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really. Kind of blanked both on and off forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have commented on many threads but no one ever interacts.

I find the forums very clique.

I am going to give up on them.

Messages and private chats are great and super friendly xx

100% agree. Think I'll give up participating. "

We all go through phases of feeling/being invisible on here. Don’t give up.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"I have commented on many threads but no one ever interacts.

I find the forums very clique.

I am going to give up on them.

Messages and private chats are great and super friendly xx

100% agree. Think I'll give up participating.

We all go through phases of feeling/being invisible on here. Don’t give up."

Who said that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes definitely there is a difference

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By *StepsAheadMan
over a year ago

lancs

People talk and intetact with me in the forums but not out of them lol

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I don’t think so.

Although, Mr can’t be bothered with forumminging so he has no clue why there are so many face pics on a Friday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I am (probably not anymore after this post) likely to get a reply from someone off the forum if I messaged them.

I think if you are familiar with someone, it’s easier to reply to them. Maybe.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Inside the furom to outside the furom?"
no I love the furom

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"Forums are to chat shit with people and find social parties

Fab is for hunting for sexual partners and adventures "

Nothing has changed for me in 51 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums are to chat shit with people and find social parties

Fab is for hunting for sexual partners and adventures

Nothing has changed for me in 51 weeks "

I hope your underwear has.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Forums are to chat shit with people and find social parties

Fab is for hunting for sexual partners and adventures

Nothing has changed for me in 51 weeks "
a whole year why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I am definitely treated and seen differently. Because I have Asperger's. People see me as a freak, Oddball, and socially awkward. I agree with the socially awkward part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't know there was an outside the forum..

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By *as2cheatMan
over a year ago

harrow

It’s rare but sometimes in forums you can get a yob mentally, but most of the time it’s very liberal and open minded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get treated the same, ignored in both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yh most people are rude and triggered easily

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I'm treated beautifully, here amd elsewhere. I feel extremely lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Indifferently maybe

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