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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do u think are the main reason for a relationship ending.

Cheating? Obviously

Whats for tea ?

Money ?

Etc

I got blamed for her being over weight.. and i dont have a food fetish lol.. single and free to do as i please.. joy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Number one cause is lack of effective communication.

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Lack of trust

Lack of communication

Lack of honesty

Or, as my ex put it, “I’m too cold”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Number one cause is lack of effective communication."

Hmm, I'd take it back a step. Lack of desire to self reflect and consider changing. People don't communicate because they either know or at least believe it won't make a difference. They then don't need to do or say anything because in their mind the problem lays with the other partner.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do u think are the main reason for a relationship ending.

Cheating? Obviously

Whats for tea ?

Money ?

Etc

I got blamed for her being over weight.. and i dont have a food fetish lol.. single and free to do as i please.. joy

"

Crap sex

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Some people marry young and don't 'grow' together. As they grow up, they grow in different directions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No compatibility

No consideration

Controlling

Domineering

Money

Sex

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By *BBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in suffolk

Not being honest with your partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do u think are the main reason for a relationship ending.

Cheating? Obviously

Whats for tea ?

Money ?

Etc

I got blamed for her being over weight.. and i dont have a food fetish lol.. single and free to do as i please.. joy

Crap sex "

Or is the crap sex a consequence of all the other things? Must be a PhD thesis in there for someone at Sydney University

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unable to compromise. There has to be a bit of give and take from both sides.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Lack of trust

Lack of communication

Lack of honesty

Or, as my ex put it, “I’m too cold” "

Wanna join me in my fridge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Crap sex "

Lack of sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not truly being in love.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lack of communication

Yeah good 1... i got told i ask to many questions.. like how am i supposed to find anything out.. crap sex never been my problem lol

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By *BBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in suffolk

Loads of things!!

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Being accused of lying

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Expecting to be looked after financially

Selfishness

Attempting to trap partner by getting pregnant.

Cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Number one cause is lack of effective communication."

First reply had it! Poor communication pretty much leads to most other issues from falling out of love, dishonesty, growing apart, lack of trust, cheating etc

All stems from not talking about issues when they happen and figuring out the source or bypassing problems and letting resentment or contentment grow!

Live and learn but try to look forward in life and have fun

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Number one cause is lack of effective communication."

This....

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom


"No compatibility

No consideration

Controlling

Domineering

Money

Sex

"

Took the words right outta my mouth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Couldnt agree more

lack of communication

Or cant decide what's for dinner lol.. so the same thing

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

Excessive flatulence

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By *r LovecraftMan
over a year ago

RCT/Swansea/Cwmbran

Communication breakdown

Always the same

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By *ikAshCouple
over a year ago

London

Sometimes when you’ve been together a long time, you start taking each other for granted. Then as time goes on, you’ve grown apart, no longer communicating, and end up bored and frustrated with each other… sad!

Ax

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excessive flatulence"

Yours or their's?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Lack of communication

Yeah good 1... i got told i ask to many questions.. like how am i supposed to find anything out.. crap sex never been my problem lol"

Just coz you enjoy the sex you have doesn't mean the other person does. Might be crap to them.

Asking questions and truly hearing the answers to learn instead of listening to the answers to reply are two different things. When someone isn't truly hearing it seems pointless even trying to talk, in fact a lot of the time it simply feels like you're doing no more than giving them ammunition to injure you with.

I have a tendency to put on weight when I'm unhappy. Comfort eating is a real thing.

I'm not accusing you of any of those examples, but there's always more than one perspective.. and some peeps are just cunts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Number one cause is lack of effective communication."

Definitely number one in my books (but throw 'open' in with it) closely followed by honesty & trust but there are quite a number of others aren't there?

If you feel the relationship is dying then don't bottle it up, say something, be honest with your partner & yourself, it may save the relationship or it may finish it but at least you can't beat yourself up for not saying anything or trying & that can bug you for years to come. How many times have you had a chat with an ex & they've said 'why didn't you say at the time?'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Number one cause is lack of effective communication.

First reply had it! Poor communication pretty much leads to most other issues from falling out of love, dishonesty, growing apart, lack of trust, cheating etc

All stems from not talking about issues when they happen and figuring out the source or bypassing problems and letting resentment or contentment grow!

Live and learn but try to look forward in life and have fun "

Talking about them when they arise is key don’t let things sit and fester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inability =unwillingness to compromise

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By *ave1963BarnsleyMan
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Some people marry young and don't 'grow' together. As they grow up, they grow in different directions."

Exactly this. I spent 18 years with my ex, but whereas I still like nightlife and clubbing she didn't want to do it anymore.

"Are we not getting a bit old to be doing this?" Was a regular question.

We just grew in different directions or rather, I still feel young but she became content to devote her time to the garden etc.

I hold no grudge against her and she here will always be a place in my heart for her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My marriage: because I’m a woman and she’s straight…. I’ve realised I’m straight too now though

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

Selfishness

Uncaring

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"What do u think are the main reason for a relationship ending.

Cheating? Obviously

Whats for tea ?

Money ?

Etc

I got blamed for her being over weight.. and i dont have a food fetish lol.. single and free to do as i please.. joy

"

Wouldn't know .....we have been married 40 years in february, stronger n stronger as each day passes, and loving life

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