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My confidence has reached a new low

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By *unandgamegeek OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton

I'm thinking of deleting all my photos as not only I've lost confidence mentally but also my body confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a break OP. Just hide your profile and you can still comment on the forum or just move them all the private then that way you can still send them out.

Deleting is a drastic measure and you won’t always feel the way you do now. The rain will always be followed by sunshine

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm sorry you're feeling like this at the moment.

Do you know why you are feeling like this?

November is Men's Mental Health month - there are resources out there. If you need to talk to someone go to thecalmzone dot net. They are there for men and whatever thoughts you are having they will offer help.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Good advice from The Bearded Guy

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

It happens to most if not all of us at times. Set them to private and work on yourself outside of fab. Fab can be crippling if you are not in a healthy state of mind. This place is simply a website, don't base your life or self worth around it xx

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By *unandgamegeek OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton


"I'm sorry you're feeling like this at the moment.

Do you know why you are feeling like this?

November is Men's Mental Health month - there are resources out there. If you need to talk to someone go to thecalmzone dot net. They are there for men and whatever thoughts you are having they will offer help.

"

After a bad night at a club last month that knocked my confidence, I've now lost my confidence because I don't feel like good enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens to most if not all of us at times. Set them to private and work on yourself outside of fab. Fab can be crippling if you are not in a healthy state of mind. This place is simply a website, don't base your life or self worth around it xx "

This is exactly what I did 5 years ago before I rejoined. I didn’t realise at the time I was trying to fill a hole in my life but no matter how many meets I had I still felt empty.

I left and worked on myself, I came back with a completely different attitude as I was happy with who I was and I didn’t need anything from fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In short. Don't let other people tell you who you are.

Shitty shallower really get off on taking your confidence because they have none of their own. So it up to you if you allow that.

Don't get me wrong there's a lot of good people on here. But for every 100 pairs of great tits there's going to be at least 1 shitty arsehole.

So focus on the great tits, don't be distracted by the shitty arsehole.

In the end the only person you have to please or Impress is you.

So be the best you that you can be.

Once you've done that you'll realise how great you are. And the haters well they can look on then jog on.

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By *unandgamegeek OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton

For now, I've privatised all my photos and videos. I'm now sure how long I'll keep it like that as I've forgotten how to feel comfortable in my own body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take a break OP. Just hide your profile and you can still comment on the forum or just move them all the private then that way you can still send them out.

Deleting is a drastic measure and you won’t always feel the way you do now. The rain will always be followed by sunshine"

Perfect advice

NBVN x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'm sorry you're feeling like this at the moment.

Do you know why you are feeling like this?

November is Men's Mental Health month - there are resources out there. If you need to talk to someone go to thecalmzone dot net. They are there for men and whatever thoughts you are having they will offer help.

After a bad night at a club last month that knocked my confidence, I've now lost my confidence because I don't feel like good enough "

Confidence is a like a muscle. You have to use it, and feed it well. Sometimes it gets a knock and hurts but it can always be repaired.

You are good enough.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"For now, I've privatised all my photos and videos. I'm now sure how long I'll keep it like that as I've forgotten how to feel comfortable in my own body."

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By *unandgamegeek OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton


"I'm sorry you're feeling like this at the moment.

Do you know why you are feeling like this?

November is Men's Mental Health month - there are resources out there. If you need to talk to someone go to thecalmzone dot net. They are there for men and whatever thoughts you are having they will offer help.

After a bad night at a club last month that knocked my confidence, I've now lost my confidence because I don't feel like good enough

Confidence is a like a muscle. You have to use it, and feed it well. Sometimes it gets a knock and hurts but it can always be repaired.

You are good enough.

"

The saddest thing is I don’t think I remember how

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"I'm thinking of deleting all my photos as not only I've lost confidence mentally but also my body confidence "

Just have a break from fab, I promise it's good for you...I been on a break myself for a few weeks, and just came back on the site yesterday. My self esteem was so low and started hating myself...best decision I made was to take a break from this. It will be an emotional and mental recharge , I guarantee it

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By *unandgamegeek OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton


"I'm thinking of deleting all my photos as not only I've lost confidence mentally but also my body confidence

Just have a break from fab, I promise it's good for you...I been on a break myself for a few weeks, and just came back on the site yesterday. My self esteem was so low and started hating myself...best decision I made was to take a break from this. It will be an emotional and mental recharge , I guarantee it"

I think I'll do that but why does it make me feel like I'm shutting myself off from everyone?

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By *unandgamegeek OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton

I've hidden my profile now. Hopefully I'll be back soon with a much clearer head.

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