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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

Have you ever briefly chatted, and I mean briefly chatted and agreed to meet at some point.

Been so very attracted to someone that lust took over your senses!

But, then you find conversation not strained, just not free flowing.

My question is ... is there such a thing as too much talk for you?

I do think that less can be more at times...but still.

Has anyone ever decided not to meet after initially being spontaneous and agreeing to it in theory?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

You'd know Belle

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"Have you ever briefly chatted, and I mean briefly chatted and agreed to meet at some point.

Been so very attracted to someone that lust took over your senses!

But, then you find conversation not strained, just not free flowing.

My question is ... is there such a thing as too much talk for you?

I do think that less can be more at times...but still.

Has anyone ever decided not to meet after initially being spontaneous and agreeing to it in theory?

"

Much simpler for me, it's always awkward

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"You'd know Belle "

Aye..that I would

Hey Monkey

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"You'd know Belle

Aye..that I would

Hey Monkey "

I thought I recognised that bum

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I do think that you can end up chatting too much and end up in the friend zone rather than that lustful passionate wanting to rip each others clothes off moment, especially too if the conversation changes to 'normal' adult conversation rather than fun, sexy and flirty.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"You'd know Belle

Aye..that I would

Hey Monkey

I thought I recognised that bum "

You should know it anywhere

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"You'd know Belle

Aye..that I would

Hey Monkey

I thought I recognised that bum

You should know it anywhere "

Well .. reminders always help ...

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I do think that you can end up chatting too much and end up in the friend zone rather than that lustful passionate wanting to rip each others clothes off moment, especially too if the conversation changes to 'normal' adult conversation rather than fun, sexy and flirty."

That is true and I've done this

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I do like to chat, never have and never will be too spontaneous. If that doesn't suit someone then they can move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do think that you can end up chatting too much and end up in the friend zone rather than that lustful passionate wanting to rip each others clothes off moment, especially too if the conversation changes to 'normal' adult conversation rather than fun, sexy and flirty."

Yeah! This! I regret being a sensible adult sometimes.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I don’t like to think of people or interactions as being one dimensional. It might be possible to overshare and talk an attraction away but it’s also possible to deepen it and make the sex better from a greater understanding.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Only once have I come across this. Someone I knew from my pub days. So beautiful.. yet conversation was painful. We just didn’t chat. Worked well for a while

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I do like to chat, never have and never will be too spontaneous. If that doesn't suit someone then they can move on x"

I didn't feel rushed into it...I wanted it. But, yes I hear you x

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"I do think that you can end up chatting too much and end up in the friend zone rather than that lustful passionate wanting to rip each others clothes off moment, especially too if the conversation changes to 'normal' adult conversation rather than fun, sexy and flirty."

I'm ok with that to be honest. Yeah it's nice to have my face buried in boobs but also shooting the shit and having a drink with a new friend would also be enjoyable.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Oh hello.

Nice

Interested

What ?

Ewwww..

Bye......

That you mean ?

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Oh hello.

Nice

Interested

What ?

Ewwww..

Bye......

That you mean ? "

Lol..not quite granny

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I've never liked much chat, especially if it's sexual, it bores me and I find message tennis painful. Enough to get to know someone and look for red flags, but too much and I'll get distracted. When I was meeting I always looked to meet up quickly if I was interested.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"I do think that you can end up chatting too much and end up in the friend zone rather than that lustful passionate wanting to rip each others clothes off moment, especially too if the conversation changes to 'normal' adult conversation rather than fun, sexy and flirty.

I'm ok with that to be honest. Yeah it's nice to have my face buried in boobs but also shooting the shit and having a drink with a new friend would also be enjoyable. "

Oh absolutely, yes we do chat everyday stuff with those we meet but we have chatted too much by message on here and the spark has burned out before we have met people.

Face buried in boobs.....I like that idea by the way.

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"I do think that you can end up chatting too much and end up in the friend zone rather than that lustful passionate wanting to rip each others clothes off moment, especially too if the conversation changes to 'normal' adult conversation rather than fun, sexy and flirty.

I'm ok with that to be honest. Yeah it's nice to have my face buried in boobs but also shooting the shit and having a drink with a new friend would also be enjoyable.

Oh absolutely, yes we do chat everyday stuff with those we meet but we have chatted too much by message on here and the spark has burned out before we have met people.

Face buried in boobs.....I like that idea by the way."

Your face or your boobs?

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I don’t like to think of people or interactions as being one dimensional. It might be possible to overshare and talk an attraction away but it’s also possible to deepen it and make the sex better from a greater understanding. "

Yes...both are possible.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes but my sexuality has a mind of its own and I can wake up one day and it's like I wrote my fucket list on an etch-a-sketch and someone shook it overnight.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Yes but my sexuality has a mind of its own and I can wake up one day and it's like I wrote my fucket list on an etch-a-sketch and someone shook it overnight. "

Etch-a-sketch that made me laugh

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