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"As many times as you want to? There’s no limit or minimum. " Takes two to tango, your always limited by the other half | |||
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"Once or twice a day. 5 times a week minimum xx" Yeah that's not possible | |||
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"Didn't realise there was a set amount." There isn't. | |||
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"'how often should you be having sex?' I'd say five times a week, like the other post said. Personally for me and my life atm zero I think that's my ideal amount, however in reality no matter who your with you never get that amount " You don't die from no sex. | |||
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"More than I’m having now " I hope you don't mind me saying but your boobs are incredible! | |||
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"Should? There's no such thing as "should" when it comes to sex other than honesty, respecting boundaries and communication. " Maybe I'd be best to change this to "would like" and also do both partners need to have similar numbers in order to stay together? | |||
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"Should? There's no such thing as "should" when it comes to sex other than honesty, respecting boundaries and communication. Maybe I'd be best to change this to "would like" and also do both partners need to have similar numbers in order to stay together?" If they are only using each other for sex YES. If they see each other as human beings that they love for themselves then NO | |||
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"More than I’m having now I hope you don't mind me saying but your boobs are incredible! " Hell no I don’t Mind. Thank you…it’s all in the angle | |||
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"You should be having the amount you want, as should your partner. If those numbers mostly match up, all the better " And if those numbers are a country mile from each other? | |||
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"You should be having the amount you want, as should your partner. If those numbers mostly match up, all the better And if those numbers are a country mile from each other?" Then it’s time for an honest chat together. How that chat goes should indicate what next | |||
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"I'll take both weekend days and a lazy but quick midweek morning fuck please. And a bit of fumbling on the sofa most nights. " I'd take this as a compromise, have to compromise, don't think you can ever get what you want | |||
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"More than I’m having now I hope you don't mind me saying but your boobs are incredible! Hell no I don’t Mind. Thank you…it’s all in the angle " Whatever it is you're doing it's working | |||
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited.. I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing!" Are you tired a lot being a single parent such that it affects sex? Better than nothing yes but not ideal | |||
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"'how often should you be having sex?' I'd say five times a week, like the other post said. Personally for me and my life atm zero I think that's my ideal amount, however in reality no matter who your with you never get that amount You don't die from no sex. " The species might... | |||
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited.. I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing! Are you tired a lot being a single parent such that it affects sex? Better than nothing yes but not ideal" No I don’t have the opportunity! Only get 2 kid free weekends a month! | |||
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"More than I’m having now I hope you don't mind me saying but your boobs are incredible! Hell no I don’t Mind. Thank you…it’s all in the angle Whatever it is you're doing it's working " I would happily trade your figure | |||
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited.. I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing!" I feel your pain. I could have it twice a month at a push but I’m lucky to get it once every 6 months | |||
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited.. I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing! Are you tired a lot being a single parent such that it affects sex? Better than nothing yes but not ideal No I don’t have the opportunity! Only get 2 kid free weekends a month!" Awww kids are great but your sex life does suffer once you have them | |||
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited.. I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing! I feel your pain. I could have it twice a month at a push but I’m lucky to get it once every 6 months " Like I keep saying, you need to severely lower your standards! | |||
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited.. I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing! Are you tired a lot being a single parent such that it affects sex? Better than nothing yes but not ideal No I don’t have the opportunity! Only get 2 kid free weekends a month! Awww kids are great but your sex life does suffer once you have them " Not if you lock them in the shed it doesn’t! | |||
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited.. I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing! I feel your pain. I could have it twice a month at a push but I’m lucky to get it once every 6 months " Awww I've heard that sex life gets better again once the kids are older...? | |||
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"Once or twice a day. 5 times a week minimum xx" Great comment x | |||
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited.. I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing! Are you tired a lot being a single parent such that it affects sex? Better than nothing yes but not ideal No I don’t have the opportunity! Only get 2 kid free weekends a month! Awww kids are great but your sex life does suffer once you have them Not if you lock them in the shed it doesn’t! " I’m pretty sure that’s frowned upon | |||
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited.. I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing! I feel your pain. I could have it twice a month at a push but I’m lucky to get it once every 6 months Like I keep saying, you need to severely lower your standards! " it’s finding people in my area that’s the issue | |||
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited.. I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing! Are you tired a lot being a single parent such that it affects sex? Better than nothing yes but not ideal No I don’t have the opportunity! Only get 2 kid free weekends a month! Awww kids are great but your sex life does suffer once you have them Not if you lock them in the shed it doesn’t! I’m pretty sure that’s frowned upon " Meh, give em 20 Rothmans and a half bottle of whiskey, they’ll keep themselves amused! | |||
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited.. I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing! I feel your pain. I could have it twice a month at a push but I’m lucky to get it once every 6 months Like I keep saying, you need to severely lower your standards! it’s finding people in my area that’s the issue " I’ve got a tent! | |||
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"Not being in a relationship & a single parent my opportunities for sex are severely limited.. I’d like it way more than 4-6 days a month but I guess it’s better than nothing! I feel your pain. I could have it twice a month at a push but I’m lucky to get it once every 6 months Like I keep saying, you need to severely lower your standards! it’s finding people in my area that’s the issue I’ve got a tent! " Not in this weather, not sure my chesticles and your testicles would survive | |||
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"These threads really brings out the bullshitters " Care to elaborate? | |||
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"These threads really brings out the bullshitters Care to elaborate?" People come out with stuff like they have sex 5 times a day and they’re partners can’t get enough of them blah blah blah | |||
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"'how often should you be having sex?' I'd say five times a week, like the other post said. Personally for me and my life atm zero I think that's my ideal amount, however in reality no matter who your with you never get that amount " Correct that's why I'd never get married | |||
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"People have sex every month " Some do so I've heard. | |||
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"'how often should you be having sex?' I'd say five times a week, like the other post said. Personally for me and my life atm zero I think that's my ideal amount, however in reality no matter who your with you never get that amount Correct that's why I'd never get married " You get married for other reasons lol | |||
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"These threads really brings out the bullshitters Care to elaborate? People come out with stuff like they have sex 5 times a day and they’re partners can’t get enough of them blah blah blah " I think the reality is one half would like this, however the other is more like once every 2 weeks one big factor is time to do it, couples have busy lives, some people don't prioritize sex highly | |||
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"There's no right or wrong answer. Everyone has different sex drives and there own normal number per week. Just do you, it's not a competition." I don't think it counts if you're just doing yourself | |||
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"There's no right or wrong answer. Everyone has different sex drives and there own normal number per week. Just do you, it's not a competition." True it's not a competition however do you both have to have similar numbers in order for the relationship to last? | |||
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"Once or twice a day. 5 times a week minimum xx" Sounds like you're getting back your old self | |||
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"People have sex every month " That's why condoms come in packs of 12, one for each month | |||
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"There's no right or wrong answer. Everyone has different sex drives and there own normal number per week. Just do you, it's not a competition. True it's not a competition however do you both have to have similar numbers in order for the relationship to last?" I don't think so, a relationship is based on more than sex. There will be times where either side's drive will be higher or lower, if that's an issue they are probably with the wrong person. | |||
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"People have sex every month That's why condoms come in packs of 12, one for each month " Lol joker maybe they should have days of the week written on them instead, couples might get more sex | |||
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"If l was to say what would be the Gods honest truth about this topic , l truly believe that if the right " mental connection " is between people the amount of times in a week should hit anything between 12-18 times a week." 12-18 times a week!!! Who has that kind of time. | |||
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"There's no right or wrong answer. Everyone has different sex drives and there own normal number per week. Just do you, it's not a competition. True it's not a competition however do you both have to have similar numbers in order for the relationship to last? I don't think so, a relationship is based on more than sex. There will be times where either side's drive will be higher or lower, if that's an issue they are probably with the wrong person." Correct | |||
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"If l was to say what would be the Gods honest truth about this topic , l truly believe that if the right " mental connection " is between people the amount of times in a week should hit anything between 12-18 times a week. 12-18 times a week!!! Who has that kind of time. " You make it. | |||
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"There's no right or wrong answer. Everyone has different sex drives and there own normal number per week. Just do you, it's not a competition. True it's not a competition however do you both have to have similar numbers in order for the relationship to last? I don't think so, a relationship is based on more than sex. There will be times where either side's drive will be higher or lower, if that's an issue they are probably with the wrong person." I suppose if you think it's an issue, then you are only thinking about yourself? Having time to have sex is the biggest killer with busy life | |||
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"If l was to say what would be the Gods honest truth about this topic , l truly believe that if the right " mental connection " is between people the amount of times in a week should hit anything between 12-18 times a week. 12-18 times a week!!! Who has that kind of time. You make it." I'd rather make time for more important things. | |||
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"If l was to say what would be the Gods honest truth about this topic , l truly believe that if the right " mental connection " is between people the amount of times in a week should hit anything between 12-18 times a week." Fuck your dick would fall off! you also couldn't get to work let alone any house work | |||
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"There's no right or wrong answer. Everyone has different sex drives and there own normal number per week. Just do you, it's not a competition. True it's not a competition however do you both have to have similar numbers in order for the relationship to last? I don't think so, a relationship is based on more than sex. There will be times where either side's drive will be higher or lower, if that's an issue they are probably with the wrong person. Correct " Also compromising plays a big part here, if you can't do this you will fail | |||
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"On average I'm probably on 2-3 a month but I make the most of each one of those occasion " You have to | |||
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"On average I'm probably on 2-3 a month but I make the most of each one of those occasion You have to " Lately each one has been amazing | |||
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"People have sex every month " I’ve heard that it happens more frequently! I’m as shocked as you | |||
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"There's no right or wrong answer. Everyone has different sex drives and there own normal number per week. Just do you, it's not a competition." I’ve been doing me for a while now. I don’t think that’s what you meant though | |||
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"Didn't realise there was a set amount. There isn't. " Obviously, but the OP implied there was. | |||
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"If I had a partner that lives with me, then I’d want it almost daily. But I’d be happy with 2-3 times a week if it’s a situation o with someone who doesn’t live with me. " So what if your partner would have it once a fortnight? Bare in mind both your busy life styles | |||
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"Daily please. Aka 365 times a year more than I'm currently getting " You’re not the only one! | |||
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"I'll take both weekend days and a lazy but quick midweek morning fuck please. And a bit of fumbling on the sofa most nights. " That sounds a good level , I’d up it a just little bit , weekend sexathon, couple of midweeks and a daily act of subservience would do for me | |||
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"Jan. 3 times. All On New Year’s Day. Feb. 28 times but 29 if it’s a leap year March 0 I need to recover Apr once, on my birthday May once. Hopefully on someone’s birthday June July August and September. None at all, too sweaty for that malarkey. Oct Nov Dec 3 times everyday to keep warm. " Love this planner | |||
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"People have sex every month That's why condoms come in packs of 12, one for each month Lol joker maybe they should have days of the week written on them instead, couples might get more sex " Am I the only person who's thinking "condom advent calendar"? | |||
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"Daily please. Aka 365 times a year more than I'm currently getting " Form an ordely queue... | |||
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"Put a sweetie in a jar every time you have sex before having children. Take a sweetie out of the jar every time you have sex after having children. Probably never empty the jar... " Good idea then give them the empty jar once they leave for uni! | |||
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"Jan. 3 times. All On New Year’s Day. Feb. 28 times but 29 if it’s a leap year March 0 I need to recover Apr once, on my birthday May once. Hopefully on someone’s birthday June July August and September. None at all, too sweaty for that malarkey. Oct Nov Dec 3 times everyday to keep warm. Love this planner " Things never go to plan though. | |||
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"Once or twice a day. 5 times a week minimum xx" i can fit you in on tuesdays & thursdays…. If you’re ok with it!! | |||
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"Daily please. Aka 365 times a year more than I'm currently getting " just going to iron my ‘will you marry me?’ T shirt!!! | |||
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"I'll take both weekend days and a lazy but quick midweek morning fuck please. And a bit of fumbling on the sofa most nights. " I like the sound of this | |||
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