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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I have just come off the phone with the care home my dad was in.

The call that has been expected and dreaded at the same time

My dad passed away this evening after his long battle with Alzheimer's and vascular dementia.

Rest in piece dad

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’m so sorry AC

sending love and prayers. X

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

My sincerest condolences at this sad time.

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Oh mate, I’m so very sorry.

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Sorry to hear that mate

Thoughts with you and your family

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Oh OP that made me well up.

My sincerest condolences xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know you but that need is never easy. Sorry to hear of your loss mate, lost my mum last year and you never forget them but time at they say does help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear of your loss, thoughts are with you

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I’m so sorry for your loss AC

sending love and hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending you my love at this very sad time

NBVN x

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Condolences AC

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

sorry to here that, my dad passed earlyer in the year, the world is a strange place without your dad, as you always knew there was someone to turn to, unfortunatly its part of life, but it ain easy, thoughts are with you, is your mum still alive? ive ocupied myself looking after mine, it did ease the pain abit

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I lost my Dad recently so I know how it feels.

Thinking of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss may he rest in peace.

I sense a slight relief in your tone. Dementia is a cruel mistress.

Hugs x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huge hug sent to you xx

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Sorry to hear the news, sending our condolences to you and your family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm so sorry for your loss. Please remember it's okay to also feel a sense of relief mixed in with the sadness and grief. It's awful to watch someone slowly slip away like that and often you've began your grieving a long time ago. He's in a better place now.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

My condolences, hope you have people around you who you can lean on, should you need too.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I’m so sorry AC. My condolences to you and your family.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

My condolences AC. It is a sadness you could not be there.

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and family at this difficult time. Xx

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I’m so sorry for your loss, sending love

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

Oh honey. I'm so sorry to read that. Sending love and hugs

Posh x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

So sorry to hear this op.

Big hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking of you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sincere condolences OP. Sorry to hear the sad news.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sorry to hear that AC my thoughts are with you.

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By *onyjoCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Bless your heart. Its never easy regardless of if its expected or not ,my deepest condolances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry love, take comfort from these messages xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just come off the phone with the care home my dad was in.

The call that has been expected and dreaded at the same time

My dad passed away this evening after his long battle with Alzheimer's and vascular dementia.

Rest in piece dad"

I have been through this too, and I am so sorry for you. I hope you can look to the future x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Sorry for your loss xxxx

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

So very sorry for your loss

Sending a massive hug your way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry sad news big hugs AC and thinking of you

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

xxx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's not an easy journey.

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

All our love x

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

We hope you're doing okay Coulson

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Aw bless you, so sorry for your loss xx

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I'm so sorry for your loss. Please remember it's okay to also feel a sense of relief mixed in with the sadness and grief. It's awful to watch someone slowly slip away like that and often you've began your grieving a long time ago. He's in a better place now. "

Yes, very important. Don't feel like only certain emotions are allowed.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss A C, xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m so sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Phil, we are so very sorry for your loss.

Sending you love xx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. Sending

and hugs.

May he rest in peace xx

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

This, we went through it last March and it was amongst the grief and heartache a feeling that his going was in some ways a blessed relief which felt strange..

Dementia is such an awful illness and seeing them suffer with all it brings is terrible..

Op, thoughts are with you at this time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear that, I empathise as I went through something similar a few years back.

Sending you a big hug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww I’m so sorry AC, sending hugs, may he have found peace now x

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

Hugs. What terrible news x

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I have just come off the phone with the care home my dad was in.

The call that has been expected and dreaded at the same time

My dad passed away this evening after his long battle with Alzheimer's and vascular dementia.

Rest in piece dad"

Sorry to hear that. Sending best wishes to you. Remember the food times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such sad news, rest in peace

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

deepest condolences at this difficult time hope you have freinds and loved ones around you to talk and support you

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I am so sorry for your loss.

It's such such an awful disease.

I hope you and your family are doing ok and wish you strength for the coming days x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thoughts & love are with you old sport

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

It is a horrible disease. Sending healing love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that OP, recently lost both my parents and it really stings. Big hugs and take care.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

So very sorry for your loss.

May your memories of your Dad get you through these tough times and help bring a smile to your face.

Look after yourself.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

This, we went through it last March and it was amongst the grief and heartache a feeling that his going was in some ways a blessed relief which felt strange..

Dementia is such an awful illness and seeing them suffer with all it brings is terrible..

Op, thoughts are with you at this time.."

In the end with my nan it was easier to hear she had died than seeing her living as she was. I remember her as the tiny yet slightly terrifying woman who could intimidate a fully grown man. Not the way she was in the end.

Massive hugs to anyone who has lost someone in this awful way. It takes so much strength and I'm still in awe of my mum for everything she did.

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear this. Deepest sympathies and thoughts to you and your family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sorry for ur loss. RIP ur dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that OP, condolences for you and your family.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Take some time off work and FAB then gather your thoughts. Time to think of those times that made you smile. now would be a good time to write down what you want to say at his eulogy.

RIP

Blokey hug on way.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I'm so sorry for your loss x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Hugs x

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Thoughts and prayers m8 x

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I’m so very sorry for your loss. I hope you have the support of family and friends at this difficult time. Sending much love and hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry for you loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So very sorry for the loss of your dad x

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Sorry for your loss, our thoughts are with you at this difficult time

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

So sorry for your loss. You're in the thoughts and prayers of many people here. May he rest in peace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really sorry to hear this x

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

So sorry for your loss

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Thinking of you and your family at this difficult time.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

So sorry to hear that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss. Take care

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By *ave1963BarnsleyMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

Please accept my condolences AC. My thoughts are with you and your family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Sorry for your loss OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry and sad to hear of your loss OP. Unfortunately I know how it feels

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Sending you love

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By *S2004Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

Sorry for your loss.xxx

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

So sorry for your loss. Sending a huge hug your way x

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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Sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh that’s such sad news.. sending thoughts & best wishes to you . Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

Sorry to hear of your loss mate

your dad can rest in peace now, no more fighting for him!

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

"I have just come off the phone with the care home my dad was in.

The call that has been expected and dreaded at the same time

My dad passed away this evening after his long battle with Alzheimer's and vascular dementia.

Rest in piece dad"

Ahhh bless...my condolences to you OP...and may your Dad Rest in Peace and no longer suffer..

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Big hugs AC ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear of your loss. Huge ((((hugs))))

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Sorry about your father passing buddy, big virtual hugs your way

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

My sincere condolences to you and your family sir.

I genuinely feel for you sir I lost my mum she was in a rest home, she had vesicular dementia. 4 years on the 1st of November I miss her so much and still grieve for her now

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

So sorry for your loss. We’ve both lost our fathers and know how much of a blow this can be.

Celebrate your dad’s life and remember the good times.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heartfelt condolences during this difficult time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry about your dad. I know what it's like when you lose a parent. Condolences m8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending hugs xxx

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

So sorry to hear this and sending my love. I work with people with dementia so am aware of how tough the recent months have been for you. Your dad is at peace now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that lovely. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just come off the phone with the care home my dad was in.

The call that has been expected and dreaded at the same time

My dad passed away this evening after his long battle with Alzheimer's and vascular dementia.

Rest in piece dad"

Sad to hear that pal seen a few of my parents go very similar lately !

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Deepest condolences on the loss of your dad.

Now in my 80s I live in fear of seeing the word Dementia on my medical records

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Deepest condolences on the loss of your dad.

Now in my 80s I live in fear of seeing the word Dementia on my medical records

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just come off the phone with the care home my dad was in.

The call that has been expected and dreaded at the same time

My dad passed away this evening after his long battle with Alzheimer's and vascular dementia.

Rest in piece dad"

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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago

Shoreditch east London

He's at peace. Sending u my condolences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same call a couple of months ago so I feel your pain.

I’m so sorry for your loss. Try and take some time for you and allow yourself to grieve.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

My Condolences AC i barried my Dads Remains in September. Its a hard time for people. Take time and dont let people tell you how you should greave its personal to you not them.

Hugs

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By *umptruckMan
over a year ago

macclesfield Cheshire

Sorry for your news. Know how your feeling at this time as I went through the same thing with my mum a couple of years ago.

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