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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

Some time ago I took it up on myself to block all men. I have quite enjoyed a peaceful inbox.

I unblocked them a few days ago and am glad that I did as a special kind of message wouldn't have been able to have gotten through.

Just wondering how many ladies have actually blocked men?

If blocked, do you think you could be missing out at all?

Have you like me, blocked and then unblocked?

I may go back once the novelty has worn off again.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I meant every word of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just take Men off the Looking for list. Stops most messages.

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By *drian HardthrobMan
over a year ago

Worcester

I'd imagine the novelty will probably wear off before this thread ends

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have. Along with every other category. Maybe I am missing out but I wouldn't check the messages anyway.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I meant every word of it "

I know you did. Just know this it gave me such a warm glow and meant everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately I have my messages open for most of the time, due to the social but luckily don't get too many messages now... I often just ignore my inbox or delete anything not social related or from someone I know already know

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I have. Along with every other category. Maybe I am missing out but I wouldn't check the messages anyway."

I usually head straight to the forum and skip messages.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes I have had all categories blocked since july, I opened up my filters because of the fab social last weekend

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I just take Men off the Looking for list. Stops most messages. "

I never thought of that

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

I've not blocked all men, but filters are set to a pretty small range, and I may now block men for a while as I can't meet for the next 3 months.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

No, my inbox is always open.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have them blocked never have and Anabelle your beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cracking pics OP. Please consider them “fabbed”

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I have. Along with every other category. Maybe I am missing out but I wouldn't check the messages anyway.

I usually head straight to the forum and skip messages. "

Same. I don't mind the odd trickle from friends but I just don't have the energy these days for more than that and sometimes I even neglect responding to friends because I worry about having the brain power to reply properly . The forums just feels less pressure for some reason. I guess because it's a collective effort and people can continue the conversation if I dissappear .

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I have. Along with every other category. Maybe I am missing out but I wouldn't check the messages anyway.

I usually head straight to the forum and skip messages.

Same. I don't mind the odd trickle from friends but I just don't have the energy these days for more than that and sometimes I even neglect responding to friends because I worry about having the brain power to reply properly . The forums just feels less pressure for some reason. I guess because it's a collective effort and people can continue the conversation if I dissappear . "

I could actually have written that. It is exactly I often feel.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've blocked men. And women, couples, and trans people.

My profile says why, and if you haven't read it, then that's not my problem.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I don’t have them blocked never have and Anabelle your beautiful "

Aww Nat.. you have always been lovely to me and the feeling is very much mutual

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I block everyone often. I love the peace.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I'd imagine the novelty will probably wear off before this thread ends "

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Cracking pics OP. Please consider them “fabbed”"

I consider myself...done

Thank you

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I have. Along with every other category. Maybe I am missing out but I wouldn't check the messages anyway.

I usually head straight to the forum and skip messages.

Same. I don't mind the odd trickle from friends but I just don't have the energy these days for more than that and sometimes I even neglect responding to friends because I worry about having the brain power to reply properly . The forums just feels less pressure for some reason. I guess because it's a collective effort and people can continue the conversation if I dissappear .

I could actually have written that. It is exactly I often feel."

Well you're certainly not alone in that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t have them blocked never have and Anabelle your beautiful

Aww Nat.. you have always been lovely to me and the feeling is very much mutual "

Your welcome anytime x

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I have. Along with every other category. Maybe I am missing out but I wouldn't check the messages anyway.

I usually head straight to the forum and skip messages.

Same. I don't mind the odd trickle from friends but I just don't have the energy these days for more than that and sometimes I even neglect responding to friends because I worry about having the brain power to reply properly . The forums just feels less pressure for some reason. I guess because it's a collective effort and people can continue the conversation if I dissappear .

I could actually have written that. It is exactly I often feel.

Well you're certainly not alone in that "

That's good to know...I used to/ have felt a bit bad about it in the past.

Like you said ... I just did have the energy...the head space for it!

I'm in good company, thats for sure

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I block everyone often. I love the peace. "

It does feel good x

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

on our couple profile we blocked men, as the amount of mail we got from people who couldnt read was stagering, its going to stay that way, if we want to find a man we will contact them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some time ago I took it up on myself to block all men. I have quite enjoyed a peaceful inbox.

I unblocked them a few days ago and am glad that I did as a special kind of message wouldn't have been able to have gotten through.

Just wondering how many ladies have actually blocked men?

If blocked, do you think you could be missing out at all?

Have you like me, blocked and then unblocked?

I may go back once the novelty has worn off again.

"

Can I be blocked again please

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Some time ago I took it up on myself to block all men. I have quite enjoyed a peaceful inbox.

I unblocked them a few days ago and am glad that I did as a special kind of message wouldn't have been able to have gotten through.

Just wondering how many ladies have actually blocked men?

If blocked, do you think you could be missing out at all?

Have you like me, blocked and then unblocked?

I may go back once the novelty has worn off again.

Can I be blocked again please "

No you bloody well can't x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some time ago I took it up on myself to block all men. I have quite enjoyed a peaceful inbox.

I unblocked them a few days ago and am glad that I did as a special kind of message wouldn't have been able to have gotten through.

Just wondering how many ladies have actually blocked men?

If blocked, do you think you could be missing out at all?

Have you like me, blocked and then unblocked?

I may go back once the novelty has worn off again.

Can I be blocked again please

No you bloody well can't x"

DAMMIT!!!!

Why not?

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Half the site is on my block list Belle! Male and female

It’s not often I unblock … a few I’d like to block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Half the site is on my block list Belle! Male and female

It’s not often I unblock … a few I’d like to block "

Add me please

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Some time ago I took it up on myself to block all men. I have quite enjoyed a peaceful inbox.

I unblocked them a few days ago and am glad that I did as a special kind of message wouldn't have been able to have gotten through.

Just wondering how many ladies have actually blocked men?

If blocked, do you think you could be missing out at all?

Have you like me, blocked and then unblocked?

I may go back once the novelty has worn off again.

Can I be blocked again please

No you bloody well can't x

DAMMIT!!!!

Why not? "

My finger ..my rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some time ago I took it up on myself to block all men. I have quite enjoyed a peaceful inbox.

I unblocked them a few days ago and am glad that I did as a special kind of message wouldn't have been able to have gotten through.

Just wondering how many ladies have actually blocked men?

If blocked, do you think you could be missing out at all?

Have you like me, blocked and then unblocked?

I may go back once the novelty has worn off again.

Can I be blocked again please

No you bloody well can't x

DAMMIT!!!!

Why not?

My finger ..my rules "

*finds a corner to sulk in*

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Half the site is on my block list Belle! Male and female

It’s not often I unblock … a few I’d like to block "

It did make things nicer for me...it was like being on a different site.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I have nothing on my looking for list.

Quiet inbox.

Sometimes I tick the boxes again and within a few hours wonder why the hell I bothered.

There's only so much being seen as a hole you can stomach before it fucks with your head in regards to wanting to engage with people or giving people the opportunity to engage with you.

I know there are decent people here, but in much the same way men say they feel invisible, women can too, except the thing that's invisible towards women most of the time is respect.

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