FabSwingers.com forum: Sleep over predicaments

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay , so I’m curious to know the answers from all the lovely ladies on here

How do you usually behave when you have a guy that end up sleeping over / staying the night with you. What if you are at that level of comfortable-ness BUT NOT that comfortable that you can turn up in the bedroom at 7am after a bathroom trip, looking literally like a gremlin, with the worst bed hair and the comfy but DISGUSTEEEEENNN gymjamsssss?

You know what I mean? Like the kind of guy you fancy but aren’t ready to show that true but horrid side of yours.

Do you sleep with your make up on? Do you take it off but wake up at like 5am to achieve the “woke up like this” make up-no make smelling like a fresh rose look, before he wakes up?

Please tell me I’m not the only crazy bitch who worries about things like this!!

I mean, my usual skin routine when this happens is completely not acknowledged

WE DONT KNOW HER!!!! and I’ve slept with make up before (or just removed some but kept the cats eyes) and also done the whole wake up before he does so I can fix myself and look decent when I’d pretend to open my eyes.

Of course eventually if they turn out to be suitable boyfriends, then they would discover the horrible gremlin that I really am. But till they are in too deep, they wont be allowed to see the creature

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Just from a guys perspective.

I wanna see you like that in the morning. It’s fine. I wanna see you for you.

If he doesn’t, question why he’s in your bed.

If he doesn’t accept you for you, is he needed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not that bothered to be honest if someone sees me without make up on or looking a little bit messy in the morning.

I behave in the way I behave every single morning whether I have someone here or not and if they don't like it that's on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just hope I wasn't snoring or drooling into the pillow.

I don't wear makeup at all anyway so that's not something I need to navigate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just from a guys perspective.

I wanna see you like that in the morning. It’s fine. I wanna see you for you.

If he doesn’t, question why he’s in your bed.

If he doesn’t accept you for you, is he needed? "

I think it’s more a matter of self consciousness rather than anything

So it’s a type of “it’s me, it’s not you” type thing x I’m sure guys that slept the night wouldn’t mind the gremlin version of me… maybe

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By *evonshireboyMan
over a year ago

North Devon

Last meet I had wear I stayed over I woke up to find the lady I was with doing her make-up so she could "look nice" for when woke up.

I thought it was a such a nice gesture that I spent the next hour making sure her makeup was ruined and her lipstick was marking depth gauges on my cock.

So I think it worked for her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the impression most of you wonderful ladies just don’t get just how hot we blokes often find that just-woke-up-hair-everywhere look.

It’s you in your purest form, if you will, and it’s lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get the impression most of you wonderful ladies just don’t get just how hot we blokes often find that just-woke-up-hair-everywhere look.

It’s you in your purest form, if you will, and it’s lovely."

To be honest I think for most women it's about what they feel comfortable with rather than trying to please the man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last meet I had wear I stayed over I woke up to find the lady I was with doing her make-up so she could "look nice" for when woke up.

I thought it was a such a nice gesture that I spent the next hour making sure her makeup was ruined and her lipstick was marking depth gauges on my cock.

So I think it worked for her.

Yum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just from a guys perspective.

I wanna see you like that in the morning. It’s fine. I wanna see you for you.

If he doesn’t, question why he’s in your bed.

If he doesn’t accept you for you, is he needed? "

I’m on board with this, I’ve seen women who genuinely look better without makeup, but they feel uncomfortable without a full face on !!

If I’m staying over, I’m all in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get the impression most of you wonderful ladies just don’t get just how hot we blokes often find that just-woke-up-hair-everywhere look.

It’s you in your purest form, if you will, and it’s lovely."

This is kinda sweet actually!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get the impression most of you wonderful ladies just don’t get just how hot we blokes often find that just-woke-up-hair-everywhere look.

It’s you in your purest form, if you will, and it’s lovely.

To be honest I think for most women it's about what they feel comfortable with rather than trying to please the man. "

Oh, I totally get they may want to, which is fine. I just wouldn’t like to to think anyone I was with in that situation feeling they HAD to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me when I have been fortunate enough to stay over I would wake as horny as when we went to bed, and personally I find great sexiness to a lady who has the great night look to her hair make up.

If I’ve had a lady stay at mine, then I’m up first. Fresh coffee and then back to bed to join my guest for more fun.

What I’m saying is, personally I think you are overthinking it.

Ps you are likely to see me walking down the hallway scratching my ass in crumpled boxers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get the impression most of you wonderful ladies just don’t get just how hot we blokes often find that just-woke-up-hair-everywhere look.

It’s you in your purest form, if you will, and it’s lovely.

To be honest I think for most women it's about what they feel comfortable with rather than trying to please the man.

Oh, I totally get they may want to, which is fine. I just wouldn’t like to to think anyone I was with in that situation feeling they HAD to."

Some women do feel they have day and that's a shame. If it's about self confidence or making yourself feel better fabulous.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't care. I rarely wear makeup, I might warn them that my hair is absolutely mahoosive but bar nipping out of bed for a pee and to brush my teeth, I'm comfortable with how I look when I wake up. I like the softness and almost dewy eyed quality of people when they wake up! I get that it's about what you're comfortable with but I don't know. If they've slept over, they're probably not going to run out, willy shrinking in fear at you first thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get the impression most of you wonderful ladies just don’t get just how hot we blokes often find that just-woke-up-hair-everywhere look.

It’s you in your purest form, if you will, and it’s lovely.

To be honest I think for most women it's about what they feel comfortable with rather than trying to please the man.

Oh, I totally get they may want to, which is fine. I just wouldn’t like to to think anyone I was with in that situation feeling they HAD to."

I don’t think any would feel we HAD To

Personally I feel more fucking hot in myself, especially with a “woke up like this” lewkkk

But I mean that eventually will fade once there’s a level of total comfort as it’s not sustainable anyway x

I love making an effort tho x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't care. I rarely wear makeup, I might warn them that my hair is absolutely mahoosive but bar nipping out of bed for a pee and to brush my teeth, I'm comfortable with how I look when I wake up. I like the softness and almost dewy eyed quality of people when they wake up! I get that it's about what you're comfortable with but I don't know. If they've slept over, they're probably not going to run out, willy shrinking in fear at you first thing."

You have such an amazing way with words Meli, I could read you all day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is interesting because I’ve a sleepover meet planned soon. I hadn’t even considered this! We’ve both already said we want morning fun anyway so I figure any hair or make up will get ruined. It’s interesting how many guys are saying they don’t mind. I guess if a guys willing to spend time with you and stay over he likes you for you and genuinely won’t care if you’re in your pjs and messy hair and no make up.

It’s like that Marilyn Monroe quote. If he can’t handle you at your worst he sure doesn’t deserve you at your best.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

You have such an amazing way with words Meli, I could read you all day.

Oh Lorna, What a beautiful heartfelt compliment! You've made me grin like a loon, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s like they saw an Angel the night before and a vile demon creature from the deepest depth of hell in the morning

How do you explain that

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I rarely wear much make up so I am the same regardless of time

I'm more concerned about morning breath and will brush my teeth first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is interesting because I’ve a sleepover meet planned soon. I hadn’t even considered this! We’ve both already said we want morning fun anyway so I figure any hair or make up will get ruined. It’s interesting how many guys are saying they don’t mind. I guess if a guys willing to spend time with you and stay over he likes you for you and genuinely won’t care if you’re in your pjs and messy hair and no make up.

It’s like that Marilyn Monroe quote. If he can’t handle you at your worst he sure doesn’t deserve you at your best.

Absolutely.

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Take it off before you get into bed with them…. Or whatever makes you feel most comfortable to kiss and spoon in the morning

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s like that Marilyn Monroe quote. If he can’t handle you at your worst he sure doesn’t deserve you at your best.

Have fun!! I’m sure you will enjoy the cuddles after sex before going to sleep x

Those are the best!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it doesn’t bother me i’m comfortable without makeup. I just nip to that bathroom first thing to brush teeth, hair and freshen up down below before waking him up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s like that Marilyn Monroe quote. If he can’t handle you at your worst he sure doesn’t deserve you at your best.

Have fun!! I’m sure you will enjoy the cuddles after sex before going to sleep x

Those are the best!! X "

I hope so. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s the joy of semi permanent make up. I have my eyebrows tattooed and contoured make up tattooed into my face plus eyelash extensions. Even when I wash my face the make up stays on!

When I wake up before the guy I just brush my teeth and mouthwash, give my fanny a quick blast with the shower and the fem fresh and spray some perfume on the back of my neck then get back into bed and grind my arse against his crotch.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"it doesn’t bother me i’m comfortable without makeup. I just nip to that bathroom first thing to brush teeth, hair and freshen up down below before waking him up

I almost feel like the only crazy bitch around here

girlssssss!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That’s the joy of semi permanent make up. I have my eyebrows tattooed and contoured make up tattooed into my face plus eyelash extensions. Even when I wash my face the make up stays on!

How did I not know about countoured make up (semi) tattoo?

I generally mostly use blush nowadays for my cheeks and nose (yes, obsessed with the beach burnt look)

But I love the idea of semi permanent make up!! X

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I had a guy sleep over the other week and I woke up looking like I had backcombed my whole head in my sleep, my make up was worn off from the kissing all night, and I was hungover on whiskey, and he told me he loved the “fucked all night” look before giving me the most amazing morning orgasm. Then my friend came over and we had a threesum and by the end of that I looked like the ginger troll doll.

So I’m on board with it. Most definitely!

Pyjamas don’t even come into it! Thank god as mine are all Christmas ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That’s the joy of semi permanent make up. I have my eyebrows tattooed and contoured make up tattooed into my face plus eyelash extensions. Even when I wash my face the make up stays on!

How did I not know about countoured make up (semi) tattoo?

I generally mostly use blush nowadays for my cheeks and nose (yes, obsessed with the beach burnt look)

But I love the idea of semi permanent make up!! X

Yep. Had micro blading, foundation with contour plus lip lush and lipliner all I’m one day. Hurt like a bitch and pumping with blood and swollen but don’t have to do make up for a good few years!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Thats when you know they definitely want to see you again. If they can't stomach the sight of you in the morning then they don't deserve to see you.

Why should you always have to made up??

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By *he Knight is YoungMan
over a year ago

22 Acacia Ave, Preston-for now

I'm usually doing poached eggs on toast with a big mug of coffee

If you've took the time to take them to bed the least you can do is make a breaky.

It's nice to have a giggle at each others bed heads in the morning,it means that you've had a good sleep

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I think women worry too much about how they look in the morning, no guy expects anyone to wake up looking like they're ready for a night out. Just jump on him

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

If you’re not prepared to face the morning with a guest, however you look at 7am in the morning then don’t get into bed with them the night before! That’s my take on it!

Surely you must have made a comment about looking like plain Jane without your face on or hair brushed?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had a guy sleep over the other week and I woke up looking like I had backcombed my whole head in my sleep, my make up was worn off from the kissing all night, and I was hungover on whiskey, and he told me he loved the “fucked all night” look before giving me the most amazing morning orgasm. Then my friend came over and we had a threesum and by the end of that I looked like the ginger troll doll.

So I’m on board with it. Most definitely!

Pyjamas don’t even come into it! Thank god as mine are all Christmas ones!"

That’s very fair ! I think it’s a self confidence thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think women worry too much about how they look in the morning, no guy expects anyone to wake up looking like they're ready for a night out. Just jump on him

Thank you for the reassurance

I think as someone said is confident to sleep over, then he definitely knows what he’s in for!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I’m on board with it. Most definitely!

Pyjamas don’t even come into it! Thank god as mine are all Christmas ones!"

Sounds like my kind of morning. Glad you all enjoyed that’s the main thing. The guy was probably just thinking he was the lucky one and didn’t give a toss how you or your friend looked. X

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

What about having to do the morning dump? With all the noises and the stench like a dead rat has crawled and died up your arse that comes with it?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I think women worry too much about how they look in the morning, no guy expects anyone to wake up looking like they're ready for a night out. Just jump on him

Thank you for the reassurance

I think as someone said is confident to sleep over, then he definitely knows what he’s in for!!

Exactly and in for morning sex hopefully, best way to wake up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What about having to do the morning dump? With all the noises and the stench like a dead rat has crawled and died up your arse that comes with it?"

Ewwwww

To be fair I’d have all the taps full ON but that’s because I’m super concious about ANY noise anyway. I loved Japan because every toilet can play tunes/music to disguise any splash or weird noises

Just even talking about it makes me uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay , so I’m curious to know the answers from all the lovely ladies on here

You know what I mean? Like the kind of guy you fancy but aren’t ready to show that true but horrid side of yours.

Do you sleep with your make up on? Do you take it off but wake up at like 5am to achieve the “woke up like this” make up-no make smelling like a fresh rose look, before he wakes up?

Please tell me I’m not the only crazy bitch who worries about things like this!!

I mean, my usual skin routine when this happens is completely not acknowledged

I love a girl that is just herself.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I wouldn't worry about the look tbh as I dont wear make up and ruffled hair is ok! But on the one occasion i got asked to stay over with a longish term f buddy which i was dreading being asked! I tried to stay awake all night but failed as I snore very loudly! I did ask him next morning if I snored he said a bit yes!

I didnt dare ask if I farted lol! That said he did ask me to stay again! But i made excuses not to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind. I don't take it off though, as I'm always too busy banging until I pass out

My guy calls that face my "sorted" face. Surely the guy knows that make up comes off and there's a real person under there with blonde eyelashes and sparse eyebrows and blotchy skin???

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"What about having to do the morning dump? With all the noises and the stench like a dead rat has crawled and died up your arse that comes with it?"

I remember probably the second time I stayed over my partner ran the shower to try to cover up that's what he was doing but I heard the flush and then him get in the shower about 15 mins after he started the water. Terrible for the environment!

However now he full on announces it to me!!! Why are men like this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What about having to do the morning dump? With all the noises and the stench like a dead rat has crawled and died up your arse that comes with it?

However now he full on announces it to me!!! Why are men like this?

To be fair I’ve had men just fart one out there and then when chilling

and LAUGH about it

… Disgusting creatures

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I just don't wear so much make up now, then I don't really look any different. Shove my hair up, job done

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"What about having to do the morning dump? With all the noises and the stench like a dead rat has crawled and died up your arse that comes with it?

However now he full on announces it to me!!! Why are men like this?

To be fair I’ve had men just fart one out there and then when chilling

and LAUGH about it

… Disgusting creatures

Again, the first fart he initially looked mortified then jokingly tried to blame it on me. Now he seems almost proud of them! Sorry Kylie, this is a weird tangent to take your thread off in

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I like and want a women 2 feel at total ease if she or I stay over .I want her 2 b comfy in her own skin not 24/7 make up ..x more fun in morn wen uv both got bed head hair styles x

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Just from a guys perspective.

I wanna see you like that in the morning. It’s fine. I wanna see you for you.

If he doesn’t, question why he’s in your bed.

If he doesn’t accept you for you, is he needed? "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What about having to do the morning dump? With all the noises and the stench like a dead rat has crawled and died up your arse that comes with it?

However now he full on announces it to me!!! Why are men like this?

To be fair I’ve had men just fart one out there and then when chilling

and LAUGH about it

… Disgusting creatures

Again, the first fart he initially looked mortified then jokingly tried to blame it on me. Now he seems almost proud of them! Sorry Kylie, this is a weird tangent to take your thread off in

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They do look kinda like naughty kids who done something to feel guilty about

But yeah I mean once the first is out of the way, that’s that.

Free pass to just let one go WHENEVER

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

In answer to the actual OP, I weirdly feel unattractive if I go out without make up but when I've started the night with it on and we've had great sex, I still feel all sexy and sultry once it comes off. I wouldn't go full on comfy pjs though. Bed head and his tshirt is quite a look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m happy for him to stay the night I’m happy for him to see my bed hair.

I wear very little makeup anyhow ( no foundation etc) so the lippy, whilst it would survive some snogging, probably came off when I sucked his cock time and again.

My mascara probably ran as I was…. Well sucking his cock.

So by the time we go to sleep I’m probably a mess anyhow!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"What about having to do the morning dump? With all the noises and the stench like a dead rat has crawled and died up your arse that comes with it?

However now he full on announces it to me!!! Why are men like this?

To be fair I’ve had men just fart one out there and then when chilling

and LAUGH about it

… Disgusting creatures

Again, the first fart he initially looked mortified then jokingly tried to blame it on me. Now he seems almost proud of them! Sorry Kylie, this is a weird tangent to take your thread off in

They do look kinda like naughty kids who done something to feel guilty about

But yeah I mean once the first is out of the way, that’s that.

Free pass to just let one go WHENEVER

Tell me about it! Including when lighting the oven naked for some post sex scran! Lucky he didn't go up in flames!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I just want to see the woman I've been with the next morning and more than likely continue the fun.

You don't need to be worried about any morning habits or bed hair it's all part of the fun and getting to know someone a bit better which more often than not leads to better sex

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't think about it at all.

I don't always wear makeup to meet someone anyway, as it ends up over the pillows and my face.

I like waking up feeling fucked and don't card how my hair looks or what I smell like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I just want to see the woman I've been with the next morning and more than likely continue the fun.

You don't need to be worried about any morning habits or bed hair it's all part of the fun and getting to know someone a bit better which more often than not leads to better sex

It makes me think of the meme of Kaley Cuoco looking like a total mess with the Laptop on and the “oh my god I need help”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They would leave straight after, I like the bed to myself thanks.

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By *evonshireboyMan
over a year ago

North Devon

It’s like they saw an Angel the night before and a vile demon creature from the deepest depth of hell in the morning

How do you explain that

Use the Royal family's mantra - "never apologize, never explain".

If you just spent most of the small hours working up a sweat no bloke is going to complain that your eyeliner isn't perfect.

Actually, I'd take it as a dereliction of duty if I couldn't manage to make you look like a panda that's been sleeping in a hedge by the time the sun came up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance unless I know him really really well.

Bless him, he's in for a shock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I just want to see the woman I've been with the next morning and more than likely continue the fun.

You don't need to be worried about any morning habits or bed hair it's all part of the fun and getting to know someone a bit better which more often than not leads to better sex

It makes me think of the meme of Kaley Cuoco looking like a total mess with the Laptop on and the “oh my god I need help”

I really wish you could use memes on here would be alot more fun. Some perfect situations just calling out for it on most threads

And sometimes that situation can be just as attractive as all glamed up if its with the right company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like it tbh. The whole being comfortable around each other

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"They would leave straight after, I like the bed to myself thanks. "

You wouldn't share even the edge of the end of the bed?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I quite like it tbh. The whole being comfortable around each other

Yes but I think it takes some time for some to be TOTALLY comfortable around each other

You guys have got it easier!!! Just saying

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I quite like it tbh. The whole being comfortable around each other

Yes but I think it takes some time for some to be TOTALLY comfortable around each other

You guys have got it easier!!! Just saying

Not all of us, I sometimes look like I've been hit by a lorry, flew through a few bushes and then rolled down a hill when I wake up

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

No he can't stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kylie, I am exactly the same. It’s bonkers I know, but I can’t help it.

To be honest, I don’t enjoy sleepovers much unless it’s someone I know and like really well.

Otherwise I can’t wait to get shot!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I quite like it tbh. The whole being comfortable around each other

Yes but I think it takes some time for some to be TOTALLY comfortable around each other

You guys have got it easier!!! Just saying

Not all of us, I sometimes look like I've been hit by a lorry, flew through a few bushes and then rolled down a hill when I wake up

Sounds hawt

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over a year ago

"I quite like it tbh. The whole being comfortable around each other

Yes but I think it takes some time for some to be TOTALLY comfortable around each other

You guys have got it easier!!! Just saying

You know I understand your drift.

My biggest issue wasn’t how rough I looked in the morning ( I usually popped to the bathroom to try to reassemble myself a bit in the early days) the biggest issue was I tend to want a dump in the mornings and until that was out of the way I couldn’t have full sex

I didn’t trust a quick ‘rinse’

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I quite like it tbh. The whole being comfortable around each other

Yes but I think it takes some time for some to be TOTALLY comfortable around each other

You guys have got it easier!!! Just saying

Not all of us, I sometimes look like I've been hit by a lorry, flew through a few bushes and then rolled down a hill when I wake up

Sounds hawt

I'd be on you straight away in the hope you wouldn't notice

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over a year ago

If you want me at my best, you can have me at my worst too... It's partly your fault I am in that state so... Sex is meant to be more than worrying about if your hair is out of place or your mascara is not all down your face... It's meant to be doing things that make them that way... Seeing that should remind him and make him want more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I quite like it tbh. The whole being comfortable around each other

Yes but I think it takes some time for some to be TOTALLY comfortable around each other

You guys have got it easier!!! Just saying

Not all of us, I sometimes look like I've been hit by a lorry, flew through a few bushes and then rolled down a hill when I wake up

bet you can still get away with it somehow

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over a year ago

I don't wear make up so they see what they are getting, I am at an age where o think if they can't handle seeing me when I have just woken up they they ain't worth it.

That said when I do stop over not much sleep is had so I have the been dragged through a hedge backwards hair anyway lol

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over a year ago

"Kylie, I am exactly the same. It’s bonkers I know, but I can’t help it.

To be honest, I don’t enjoy sleepovers much unless it’s someone I know and like really well.

Otherwise I can’t wait to get shot!

THANK YOU, I’m glad I’m not the only weirdo here

I do love sleep overs with guys I’ve got a connection with but I still need a lot of trust to let go and like not bother about things if you get me

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I quite like it tbh. The whole being comfortable around each other

Yes but I think it takes some time for some to be TOTALLY comfortable around each other

You guys have got it easier!!! Just saying

Not all of us, I sometimes look like I've been hit by a lorry, flew through a few bushes and then rolled down a hill when I wake up

Sounds hawt

I'd be on you straight away in the hope you wouldn't notice

Ohhhhh

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I'm not bothered, as they know what I look like anyway. I don't wear a lot of make up (red lippy/mascara) and it's removed before I go to sleep (if I get any).

The only think I like to do in the morning is brush my teeth - hate morning breath

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I quite like it tbh. The whole being comfortable around each other

Yes but I think it takes some time for some to be TOTALLY comfortable around each other

You guys have got it easier!!! Just saying

Not all of us, I sometimes look like I've been hit by a lorry, flew through a few bushes and then rolled down a hill when I wake up

Sounds hawt

I'd be on you straight away in the hope you wouldn't notice

Ohhhhh

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I quite like it tbh. The whole being comfortable around each other

Yes but I think it takes some time for some to be TOTALLY comfortable around each other

You guys have got it easier!!! Just saying

Not all of us, I sometimes look like I've been hit by a lorry, flew through a few bushes and then rolled down a hill when I wake up

bet you can still get away with it somehow

I have my ways

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I am bothered because I leave my makeup on and when hes asleep retouch my makeup but usually dont have sleep overs

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over a year ago

"Kylie, I am exactly the same. It’s bonkers I know, but I can’t help it.

To be honest, I don’t enjoy sleepovers much unless it’s someone I know and like really well.

Otherwise I can’t wait to get shot!

THANK YOU, I’m glad I’m not the only weirdo here

I do love sleep overs with guys I’ve got a connection with but I still need a lot of trust to let go and like not bother about things if you get me

I get you. And I sleep with my make-up on, especially if I’m tipsy

And I’m vain. They can see me without it when I’ve properly reeled them in, ha ha! X

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Just from a guys perspective.

I wanna see you like that in the morning. It’s fine. I wanna see you for you.

If he doesn’t, question why he’s in your bed.

If he doesn’t accept you for you, is he needed? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Kylie, I am exactly the same. It’s bonkers I know, but I can’t help it.

To be honest, I don’t enjoy sleepovers much unless it’s someone I know and like really well.

Otherwise I can’t wait to get shot!

THANK YOU, I’m glad I’m not the only weirdo here

I do love sleep overs with guys I’ve got a connection with but I still need a lot of trust to let go and like not bother about things if you get me

I get you. And I sleep with my make-up on, especially if I’m tipsy

And I’m vain. They can see me without it when I’ve properly reeled them in, ha ha! X"

Girl!! Same

Also same on the vain part

a blessing and a curse

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over a year ago

"I am bothered because I leave my makeup on and when hes asleep retouch my makeup but usually dont have sleep overs "

Bet you kick them out with their jeans not even on!!! Little wench

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I am bothered because I leave my makeup on and when hes asleep retouch my makeup but usually dont have sleep overs

Bet you kick them out with their jeans not even on!!! Little wench

xx"

Naked x

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over a year ago

I’m not bothered about them seeing me au naturel in the morning.

I don’t wear a lot of make up but if it’s been a good night I’ve already got the panda eyes & smeared lipstick look before bed.

I put my hair up in a ponytail before sleep so I don’t look like I’ve been dragged through a hedge backwards when I wake up.

Like most others in the morning, just a quick wee, teeth brush and foof freshen and then straight back into bed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m not bothered about them seeing me au naturel in the morning.

I don’t wear a lot of make up but if it’s been a good night I’ve already got the panda eyes & smeared lipstick look before bed.

I put my hair up in a ponytail before sleep so I don’t look like I’ve been dragged through a hedge backwards when I wake up.

Like most others in the morning, just a quick wee, teeth brush and foof freshen and then straight back into bed.

I do usually the pony tail trick myself too x but somehow it still isn’t a sleek look first thing in the morning

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